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Hey I'm trying to lose weight, so I've been drinking all water and eating cantalope as kinda my junk food instead of like Chips..like as a snack. Any idea how many calories it has?

Will rate high. Thanks.

according to one site 1 cup of cantalope is 60.18 caleries

http://www.food-stats.com/Fruits_and_Fruit_Juices/Melons_cantaloupe_raw.html

check that out they have all the other info there 2!

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How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!!

i use clean and clear blackhead clearing scrubb and it*s in a blue tube thing and it has lil beads in it that like help remove them and exfoliate.. i really like it. It*s like $3 at walmart//target! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think?

well this ones kinda complicated, normally a reply like "same to you" might not mean anything, but maybe he isn*t INLOVE with you but perhaps he still really likes you, boys are so confusing i just don*t kno anymore, anyway hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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okay this guy his name is charlie! well people think he is known for wanting to get in girls pants and then breaking up with them. But, i have heard some stories about how he is really sweet to his girlfriends and is not like that. Well, i like him alot an he said he likes me! should i try it with him and if thats all he wants dump him or what?! i really want to try it i mean he calls me alot! and he acts like he likes me!and he takes care of me

i honestly think you shouldn*t listen to, they could be stopping you from something great! i think you should go out with him n then if you feel like he*s rushing you first be like i*m not ready for this and if he continues then you*ll know they were right and you can break up with him before he uses you!! hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

You seem like you really are mature and know what your doing I think you should keep it your other child would love a sibling and your boyfriend seems supportive, i*m happy you*ve got such great support! You can have a family started early and since this is the second child they will be easier for you bc you*ve already gotten the hang of how to care for them! hope i helped sweetie and best of wishes! xoxo, chelsea

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ok tomorro i*m getting mi hair cut and going back to being a blonde and i really wanna get more bangs and layers, i*ve been lookin all nite for celeb. pix but i*m not doin too well, if anyone knows of any i*d really appreciate if you put a link to a pic, i*m crazlilchelc by the way so you can like see the pic of me and mi face shape! i*ll DEFF. rate 5's for your help!! Thanx in advance sweeties!

** crazlilchelc152 sry mi mind is goin haha

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Well, what should I say to a guy while on the phone with him to make him like me?

Also, what are some things that guys say to you that means they like you, but we dont notice?

I'll rate 5's.

well you can*t MAKE a guy like you, just completely be yourself because fakeness and trying to hard doesn*t work!! Also just be friendly,sweet, and keep the conversation going.. also mention things you have an common! Try to make him laugh and laugh at his jokes n such.. even if they suck haha! hope i helped hun, you*ll do great!!

Oh and bout the guys doin things yeah um i don*t really no if he starts like talkin 2 you more and i donno how to describe it but i always get a weird feeling when sum1 likes me i can just tell..

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basically i feel like im losing my friends and lately i have been really depressed. Nobody would really know because well i put up a front and i feel like im losing all the friends i had. I dont wanna hear advice like "try to get together with them" or "sorry" i just wanna know what to do to feel better and be more social.

i*m kinda feeling like that lately too, it mite not be that your losing your friends tho so don*t take it too personally. I don*t really kno wut to tell you bc i*m stuck in the same situation, but i*ve been hangin out with all mi guy friends instead bc they are drama free and that*s always good, maybe you could find some other people that your aquantences with and ask if they wanna go 2 the pool with you or sumthing, plus school*s starting soon so their will be plenty of opertunities to make new friends, sry i didn*t help very much.. chel*c

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okay i got my period for the first time this week(on wed night) and today (thursday) is my first full day w/it and i got tampons. i want to go swimming tomorrow and i have the slim fit tampons. i know i'll be fine but on saturday my family and a few friends are going to an amusement park and i want to ride the water rides. can i do this while wearing a tampon? like the ones where you get on a tube and ride down a tunnel? i'll rate high!!!

oh yeah! you can do anything and everything with a tampon in (well cept like sex.. but i don*t kno y you*d want to..) anyway yeah just make sure you bring a couple extras just incase!! Have fun sweetie!!
hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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Hey im making a cd for excersizing.. and i was wondering if anyone new some good songs fer like.. a dance type thingy.. ?
I have .. These Boots- Jess Simpson
Do Something- Brit Spears
Switch- Will Smith
Pon de replay- Rhianna
These Words- Natasha Bedingfeild..
I need LOTS more ! :-) please help!

ooh fun! haha here we go..

hit me baby 1 more time-britney spears (haha yes a classic)
we like to party-venga boys
disco inferno-50 cent
dip it low-christina milian
rock superstar-cypress hill
lose your breath-destiny*s child
we*re in heaven (fast version)-dj sammy
ass like that-eminem
shimmy shimmy quarter turn-hellogoodbye
ooh wee-honey soundtrack
turn me on-kevin little hehe
get back-ludacris
it*s like that-mariah carey
tilt ya head back-nelly
don*t cha-pussycat dolls
shake your bon bon-ricky martin
drop it like it*s hot-snoooooooop dogg

that*s all i got haha hope you like!

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ok well my dad is so annoyin no matter wha he does or says. we really dont have dat type of dad n daughter realtionship. we dont fight or nothing like dat but how can i stop being annoyed bu him. im 14/f. i love him dont get me wrong

i get really annoyed with mi dad, when i*m with him one on one tho we get along really good, maybe if he wants to go 2 the hardware store just go with him (random i no) because it would prolly mean a lot to him that you wanna be with him, just find sum time for a lil father daughter bonding.. even if it*s tortrous! haha
hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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ok well i change my mood so fast. it doesnt happen every day but it happens in like every couple of weeks. what happens is i can b all happy and normal but then i can juss become annoyed buy everyone i can start cryin im so mad but there is no reason. is there something wrong with me? please help ill rate high

well i*m gonna guess your a girl.. girls have mood swings (mainly during your period so maybe it*s that) but ya no we*re all emotional haha i am atleast. it could be more serious tho, like even being bipolar but i don*t know if it*s THAT bad, and if you just randomly start crying it*s a sign on depression! Here*s a couple links with poth symptoms of each.. if you have most of em try going to a doctor and see what they think!!

bipolarism::
http://www.focusas.com/BipolarDisorder.html

being bipolar is VERY serious so i doubt you have it but just incase!!

depression::
http://www.sedona.com/signs-of-depression.aspx

if it*s every few weeks it mite just be your period (even if you aren*t on it.. i*m really bitchy rite before mine!)

hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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i asked the question about what 3 tops to wear and most people said the second one and i put the same link for 2 and 3 the 3rd link was supposed to be

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/7c959017.jpg

this is the one you guys said i should wear >>>

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg


so which one the first link or the second link with blue jeans and pink and black shoes
thanks 2 everyone who answered my last question..

i like the second one it*s girly and vintage looking!! I think you should go with that one!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?

i have a friend like that but it*s opposite infront of people she*s like CHELSEA OMG I LOVE YOU!! then when it*s me n her she ignores me.. weird i no. I consider her mi friend but she annoys me lol, i think you should tell "cindy" bout your concern and see what she says!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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I need some four or five letter words to write on my binder for school. Please no fowl words. Thanks in advance I rate 5's no matter wat!

true, love, smile, dance, sing, laugh, wish, dream, star, play, live, hugs, kiss, music, dork, party, pink, tiki (haha i like that word) hott, joke, xoxo.. etc that*s all i could think of, if any more spring up i*ll add em!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

and i thought of more haha::

loca, crazy, shop, pout, sassy, blah (blah blah) drama, baby, flirt, cutie, beach, hyper, rival.. yeah the end haha

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sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school

Well there are a couple oil-free washes (one is nuetrogena i believe it*s just nuetrogena oil free wash) also make sure you wear powder, if you want to get rid of it on the spot (no matter where you are) get oil blotting papers, the suckers are amazing.. they look like little strips of wax paper and you blot it on your face anytime (it doesn*t remove your makeup either just the oil) you can buy these @ target or more expensive ones from clinique or mary kay!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps.

i love redoing mi room haha, so you can*t change the color of your walls?? bummer.. but anyway um i think you should do like a bluish theme, since the rug is blue, or maybe a lavender. I don*t kno.. depends wut you like but i think you should check out http://www.pbteen.com just for sum ideas! Hopefully i helped and maybe you could see if your mom will let you talk to an interior designer to see what they think!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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is it safe to get a bath during a lighting storm?
i need to know now

i*ve always heard it*s not cuz like water draws attention, but i*ve done it b4, honestly tho it*ll be smarter to wait til the storm blows over, hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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I have a question for guys out there, are you attracted to a slim girls with large hips? haha I was just wondering cause not that i'm getting older I notice I'm starting to get larger hips and all my girlfriends are jealous of me..and i'm like y, i would do anything to get ride of them. Thank-you

well i*m the same way, i have a pretty small waste n then *BAM* she*s got hips!! It really depends on the guy but a lot of em like wide hips for sum reason, i guess it just make you look more womanly instead of having a boyish figure! be proud of em.. altho i hate mine haha but that*s wut it*s like to be a girl rite?? hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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My vet keeps sending me postcards wanting me to bring in my cat to get her yearly exam and shots. Is this really necessary? When I was a kid, we never brought our cats to the vet. We live in an apartment, so my cat never goes outside or is exposed to other animals. So I don't see a purpose for these vaccines. She was just at the vet 2 months ago for an eye infection, so they know she is in good health. Is it really that necessary that I bring her?

we get those postcards ALL the time! they really just want your money from the shots (in mi opinion.. and mi mom*s haha) but um don*t take her yet since she just went a couple months ago, maybe take her in like 4 months (i wus thinking 6 months since the last time you were there) I think that*ll be fine, mi mom actually just told me she took our cat this morning (along with mi dog) for shots and it wus $160 so yeah just wait til you feel like it or have sum money saved up so they don*t slam you with charges!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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