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I'm extremely cynical, sarcastic, and apathetic. I doubt I'll take you serious.
I'm a deadbeat and probably have no future. I drive a stick shift, probably better than you.

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do they hurt? is it really painful when trying to sleep? i have both of my cartilages pierced [and gauaged.. one's 18 & one's 14], so compared to that?

nah they don't hurt that bad. It's just like getting a reguular cartridge peirced--only twice.
Usually they peirce the first hole, and then give you a break before the second.

but when I got mine done, the worst part was just getting your hair stuck in the bar/balls and stuff.

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how do i make a picture my caption on myspace??

go to your site where you upload a photo
tinypic makes the URL smaller so use that
use the one that's second down

& that should work.

it doesn't work because the URL is all too long,and myspace only allows it to be so many characters, so this minimizes it.

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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore....

I didn't have my first boyfriend untill I was almost fifteen.
There's nothing wrong with it, you just probably don't want to waste your time/love on someone who doesn't deserve it, or someone you don't have feelings with.
Afterall, one bad relationship can mess up your view on dating all together.
just keep waiting for the right guy.

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Whats the different between lust and love? How do you know if youre just "lusting" someone?

Lust is just physical attraction. You can lust for someone when you first meet them. It's just wanting to fool around and talk and thats it. nothing real.

love is the real stuff, kissing cuddling, falling in love. The emotional bond is much stronger than the physical.

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Is it normal for a 12.5 year old in 7th grade that is 5'0 to weigh 104 pounds? P.S. This is not about me, this is actually about my sister because I'm concerned about her. She might not seem overweight, but she looks kind of chubby in the stomach area and such. If so, what are some excercises to lose this babyfat? Thanks!

First off, who are you to tell your sister if she's fat or not. You know, whatever happened to 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. you're not turning into your sister anytime, soon so you need not worry, let her worry.
People like you force annorexia.

Secondly, it's completley normal. She's 12! Girls that age shouldn't even WORRY about weight.she still has a long time before she stops growing, and 5'0 104 is fine, that's not even fat.

she's still a baby, she's not a teenager yet.
the babyfat will lose itself.

kbai.

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why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it

guys minds are so fucked, it's too complicating.

With guys, two girls kissing and touching leads them to think they can get in on it, and why have one girl when you can have two?They think rather than just them and their girl, they will have a threesome.

and it depends on the guy, too. I know I think it's hot when guys kiss, and sometimes guys think it's gross when two girls kiss.
not every guy (beleive it or not) is the same.

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what are some signs of depression?

when you'd rather hang out with yourself, all alone than be around a bunch of people
Feeling you're just not a part of anything or any groups
the facial expressions are just gone
you physically just want to lay around all day, getting up and getting hair/makeup on just seems pointless, no one's going to look anyway, right?

thats the mindset.

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Ok here's the thing, I no I'm not a lesbian because I get turned on by guys and I love to "hook up" with them, but I do things with girls and I get just as turned on... I don't like dating girls I just like having sexual incounters with them... I think it is a stupid question but I wanna know.


--Syd

I honestly think you are
or atleast bicurious

that's how I am, i'm fine with hooking up with guys, but not dating them. I like to date girls
I'm bi.
so yeah, yr bi.

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What is your opinion on black hair?do you think it ia boring and ugly?

it honestly depends on your facial features

black hair will look goof IF
you have darker eyebrows
you have a darker skintone
your hair is straight/you straighten it
you know how to style it

black hair looks bad IF
you're super pale, it floods your face of colour
you have blonde hair/eyebrows
you just leave it down and a mess

I suggest adding another colour to it
& you have to know that once you dye your hair black, there's basically no turning back unless you pay a lot of money to have the colour lifted

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I need some new music, I like rock, alternative, indie. I like anything like that.
Please tell me some of your favortie songs or bands.
thanks

I used to be wayy into indie/alt so I got a few.

bright eyes
Daphne Loves Derby
The Starting Line
From First To Last
Time is the Enemy
Wicked Me
Emaneul
Rufio
Mae
The Forecast
The Like
The Dresden Dolls
TV on the Radio
Head Automatica
Bullet Train to Vegas *awesome
Aqualung
Bayside
Cake
Halifax
The Blood Brothers

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okay i want to make up a quote, something like "you're more out of style than nsync" (but i don't think that sounds good) i want it to be kind of a comeback and i want it do say "nsync".

any ideas that are funny and short?

I'll try.

N*Sync's wardrobe is more in fashion than yours
You're more of a fag than N*Sync
N*Sync baught you that, didn't they?
& I like yrs "You're more out of style than N*Sync"

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I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha

I know if you don't really wear skirts, than I'm guessing you don't really wear highheels. But a pair of heels with just a tiny heel, would look great.
Flats are also something very adorable to wear with a skirt, and it even looks better if you wear just a pair of black legging/tights.

or you could wear flipflops, those look nice.

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I just got a Dooney and Burke purse today for Christmas =] I saw this little yellow postcard about registering it, and I was just wondering if there's any reason to fill it out and mail it. Will it benefit me in any way, and if so, how? Thanks to all answers. Merry Christmas!

it wont help you.
but this will
it's spelt Dooney and Bourke

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13/f
i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up?

yup.
=]

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Does anyone know where I can find germs merch? They're a punk band (fronted by Darby Crash) thank youuu

try
www.smartpunk.com

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who sang Every Rose Has Its Thorns?

Guns 'n' Roses

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hey, starting in the afternoon today my boobs became very tender. they hurt so much. is it from my boobs growing? or what is it?

yeah it does mean that
or it can mean yr impregnated.

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hey every one im 16/m
well i wonted to know how can i stop a girl from likeing me i have tryed every thing from acting stupid but its not working at all she follows me to class every day and i dont wont to be mean but i dont wont her by me at all but tha bad thing about it is she wont say nothing at all all she will do is wave so i dont kno can some one plz tell me what to do

The one thing you can do, besides what you have already.
Is tell her straight up.
Tell her that you need your space.

or if you don't want to do that[[or have tried]]
surrouns yourselves by your freinds in the hallways, or act like a complete dick to her. Hit on other girls when she's around. Talk about other girls when she's around.

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are you sure that when you pop pimples its not going to scar i mean it kinda looks like a burse what i have now

My best advice is to put tooth paste on it.
yeah, sounds nuts.
but it dries the pimple out so it can't expand and it eventually goes away.

I pop my pimples, and I have no scars or signs of scaring.
but some people's skin scar when you pop them.

put some tooth paste on it.
and if that doesn't work--popit.

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I met a girl at a party this weekend and ever since, we've talked for hours every day. I know she really likes me, and I'm starting to feel the same about her. She seems like she's the kind of person who dates for fun, though..and doesn't take it seriously. I'm all about having fun, but that's not all dating is, and I'm afraid she might think it is. I'm afraid she'll drop me quickly because she seems like she gets bored easily.

Any advice? Thx.
16/m

Well, you have to keep in mind that us girls.
Well, we're heartbreakers.

You have to explain to her how you feel about relationships and your views. let her know that you're sensitive about that kind of stuff.
A lot of girls are attracted to that.
&Don't let her get bored...keep her interested with surprise dates, poems, just sweet or randomt things that will keep her intruiged.

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