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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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what exactally is 69, i thought i knew but my friendd told me it wasnt waht i thought.

it's two people giving eachother oral sex at the same time.

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whats a good site with fun && easy games on it?
or any good sites period that will give me something to do lol

www.gamehouse.com

i live on that site and i love it. there's a game called pop n drop that i completely love!

have fun & hope i helped!

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is eating snow okay if the snow is untouched and clean?

yes it's fine. just frozen water.

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inside my bellybutton has been getting a crust. whenever i peel it off, clear watery stuff comes out, and then in a few hours the crust comes back w-t-f

what is it? how did i get it? how do i get rid of it? i'm a very clean person btw.

that's definitely not normal...that didn't even happen when i had my bellybutton pierced.

i suggest that you tell your parents and **definitely** see a doctor!

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that i like and i dont know how to talk to her can anyone help me with convos and short talk and long term talk. Im not one of those guys who can think of anything to talk and then talk about it. So can anyone help me.

find out what she's into. bring up some things that you like....example:sports, music...etc.
ask her some things about her...her favorite color, her favorite band, what she likes to do, when her birthday is...and remember what she tells you. by asking her what she's into and also by remembering it, it'll definitely hint that you're into her and it'll also help you and her connect and will probably help you with getting her to want to be with you since you'll be getting to know eachother more.

hope i helped & good luck!!

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13/f. when i babysit in the evening from like 6 to 12 or so i get really nervous when it turns dark after i put all of the kids to bed. even though the people i abysit for arre right across the street from my house i still get nervous. im parenoid that a burgular is going to come or something. im scared that i want be able to defend myself. how can i get not so parenoid?

wow i had that same problem!

call a friend, keep the phone near you always, watch funny movies/tv shows, and keep all the lights on!

you'll be fine!! =)

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Ok so i am 13 5'2' and 120 lbs. My mom said that I need to lose 15-20 lbs before we go to Hawaii in March. but I love junk food. Any tips on how to give up junk food?
P.S.- If I lose it I get a designer swimsuit. So plz hlp!

there's these rice cakes by quaker...they have all sorts of flavors and they're really low calorie and fill you up easily...i would suggest those...they helped me lose weight.

also really sweet fruits would be good to satisfy your taste.

and crystal light....that's really good and it fills you up.

and i would definitely suggest water because the more you drink, the more you're filled up, which means that you're less likely to eat more [junk food]

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I got my bellybutton pierced almost 2 months ago (i got the banana barbell!) and i was wondering how long after you get it done can you change it?
after how long did you change it?


thanks in advanced =)

I changed mine after one month, and I'd say that wasn't the smartest thing because it was super hard to get it back in.

I'd say to wait one more month so you're able to get the ring back in and so that you don't risk an infection.

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is it normal and stuff nowadays for teens to drink and do drugs...
ages starting at 13-14?

nowadays, yes it is.

but i wouldn't suggest it. i've seen and felt the effects...it's not all it's made out to be.

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Okay, I am really nervous about getting my braces off. I mean, I am worried that those brown spots will be underneath the brackets and my teeth will look gross. I brush my teeth twice a day with whitening toothpaste for the recommended two minutes and wash my mouth out with listerine. Is that enough? It's really hard to floss!

well usually, they get the spots off. it sounds like you're doing a good job, but if you really want, you can probably get your teeth bleached after you get your braces off...just ask a parent!

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i want to do palaties or yoga i'm not sure which one is best for me though. i'm a soccer player 15/f and i wanna becaome more flexible and i'm hoping one of them will help me shed a few pounds in my stomach and thigh area. which one woul dyou suggest..and i'll probably just go to best buy and buy a dvd workout thingy

i'm also a soccer player, and i would do palaties. they're better for the core muscles.

yoga is more stress relieving. i took that...and it made me fall asleep lol.

but if i were you, i'd do palaties and then just stretch out on your own because your body will train itself little by little to become more flexible the more yous stretch.

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Well my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it hurt it was kind of a discomfortable hurt. I asked him to stop and he did, then we tried it another time and it hurt but not as bad. Is it normal for it to hurt? One of my friends asked me if I bled but I told my friend that I told him to stop before he went in to far because it hurt. Are u suppose to bleed? thanks!!

it's completely normal. eventually, you'll get to a point where you won't bleed and it won't hurt, but for now, the pain will get less and less.

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Okay. So, I have never actually purchased anything from iTunes. My boyfriend bought me a $25 iTunes Music Card today...

Do you have to spend all $25 at once?
Or can you just spend say $10 and the rest later?

Thanks.

it's pretty much like a gift card, so you can use some now and then some later.

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Should you use hot or cold water to wash your face. I heard one of them was better than the other.

get a washcloth with hot water first and cover your face with it to open your pores, then apply facewash after removing the washcloth, and then use cold water to close your pores to keep them from getting dirty.

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I was driving home from swim practice when I saw this really cute 17 year old boy playing catch with a 6 year old. It was about 3 houses down from mine. My little brother told me that they recently moved in and that he knows the boys sister. I'm not too shy, but not brave enough to march up to his house and ring his doorbell. I have a dog I could take on a walk, and maybe I'll catch him outside and could say hi, but that seems very time consuming and stalker-like. Does anyone have any good plans for me to meet this guy?

i have 2 ideas.

1)if the sister is around your brothers age, when you see the boy and his sister outside, bring your brother over to ask if she wanted to play with him or something like that. that should get a conversation going

2)you can make some cookies or something for them and bring them over when he's outside or something. that should make him notice you and strike up a conversation

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i am trying to "diversify" my wardrobe...most of my clothes are from abercrombie and holister. what are some random teen clothing stores/ boutiques

5 7 9, Charlotte Russe, Wet Seal, Old Navy has some good stuff every once in a while, pac sun, rue 21

and you might find some diverse things in places like kohls, marshalls, h & m

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14/f
ive only had cavities like, once before but i was really little so i dont remember anything

anyway i have 2cavities in the back of my mouth, on both sides, and i have to get them fixed in a couple weeks

im freaking out! im like really scared cause i dont know what to expect...

if someone could like, walk me thru what happens, or like how much it hurts?...i would appreciate it ALOT, ill rate all advice

thanks so much

well the dentist will probably give you novacaine...it's a shot and it doesnt hurt. he'll inject you with that, wait a few minutes, then start the work...he'll drill your teeth and put fillings in. it doesnt hurt at all because the novacaine numbs it so you don't feel any pain. it's harmless. i went throught the same thing, but don't worry it'll be fine!!

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I want to keep more things to myself. I complain about everything all the time, and I always talk about people, good or bad. I hate it, how do I learn not to tell people everything, like when to stop? thanks!

i would suggest to buy a good old 5 subject notebook. and write everything in there. that way, you get it out, and you're not telling people everything that you don't want to tell them. and that way, you're talking about people and complaining, but you can keep it to yourself and you can vent your anger whenever you want, and no one has to know.

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i recently got a pregnancy test after beng 4 days late for my period and it came out negative its now gone another 6 days and that means im 10days late on my period could i be pregnant and are the tests ever wrong???please write bak and answer my questions luv me xxxxxxxxxx

i honestly don't know much about all of this, but just to be on the safe side, i would suggest taking another pregnancy test within the next few days and then another one about a week after that.

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is it normal for girls to spot while on birth control? because today my g/f was spotting her mom said it was normal. Is it really?

yes, it is perfectly normal =)

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