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A girl
that i like and i dont know how to talk to her can anyone help me with convos and short talk and long term talk. Im not one of those guys who can think of anything to talk and then talk about it. So can anyone help me.
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Hey. Well first of all, you can't get nervous when your talking to her or the conversation won't be good at all, or fun for you. I know it's hard but remember she's a person just like you and everyone around you who may secretely like you too =). As if you didn't know half of that :p. Try getting hooked on a certain topic she seems to enjoy and go with that. It's really not good to just ask a random question like "do you like the mall?" because it may look strange. But try starting off with small talk and then getting somewhere. Talk about similair classes you have, teachers you like/dislike, places near your house etc. Once you do get started on a conversation it's always good to ask questions, but not too many of course. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
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find out what she's into. bring up some things that you like....example:sports, music...etc.
ask her some things about her...her favorite color, her favorite band, what she likes to do, when her birthday is...and remember what she tells you. by asking her what she's into and also by remembering it, it'll definitely hint that you're into her and it'll also help you and her connect and will probably help you with getting her to want to be with you since you'll be getting to know eachother more.
hope i helped & good luck!!
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you can find out some things that she's interested in like sports, clubs, activities, or anything really and then say something like "so i hear you like...." and she'll say yeah. then you can say all the things you like about that subject. say something to make her laugh. most s love guys that make them laugh, and once you make them laugh they'll open up to you more and start a conversation.
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i think talking about anything & everything is good. i'm a girl obviously & i think that guys who start conversations are a lot nicer & more fun to be with than one's who don't. you want to make her feel that you like her without being too obvious about it or overdoing it. just talk about anything. school, work, tv, music, something at that moment. you may want to do some research. see what she's interested in. if she's interested in football for example, bring up a NFL game. or lets say she likes this band, say "oh did you hear that song". she'll really appreciate & take notice that you're doing this. if you can't find anything out, maybe just talk about what's going on at the moment. anything is better than nothing, trust me. as long as you start convo's & listen to her, things will most likely go fine. good luck!
-hope that helped!♥
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dont do that stupid pickup line thing! girls hate that! for small talk try talking about her elective. dont stalk her or anything but try and find it out she probably picked her ellective for a reason
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