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Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:) (link)
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Wow, i am sorry he has put you through all this. This boy, is acting like a "BOY"...reading your story, it shows that you really like this guy. I have to be honest with you. Most boys in junior high are all about having fun. Guys at this age tend not to take things as seriously as we girls do. I think you deserve better than this. A guy who likes you but likes other girls too?....that doesn't sound right at all. The thing about him confessing how much he liked you while he had a girlfriend??? that shows what kind of guy he is. He is the type of guy that will play with your hear. Break it and not even give a damn. He seems very untrustworthy. If he could go behind his girl's back and talk to you, he could do the same thing to you too! You don't need a guy like that...you deserve way much more. And you are right, you will have to move on and get over it. There are much much better guys out there to look foward to!....I hope this helped, and goodluck!
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I really like this guy and i already gave him head for my first time 2 days ago, but he said i skinned it a little with my teeth. But next time im just gonna tuck my lips over my teeth. But anyways whats some good tips for blowjobs. Ones that will get him going. Like what do you do with your man? Thankyou. (link)
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Yeah, thats a good idea to tuck your lips over your teeth :)...suck his balls...squeeze his ass, rub and touch his thighs while you give him head....talk to him...tell him you like how it tastes...moan..anything really....try to fit as much of it as you can in your mouth....hit your boobs with it...uhm..thats all I can think of..but i hope this helped and good luck!
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I'm a female in highschool. This might sound kind of stupid but when I makeout with my boyfriend or hookup with guys (when i'm not in a relationship) I want them to like making out with me. Any tips on how to be really good at making out or what to do when making out to make the other person get more into it? (link)
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kiss/suck their neck area...you can kiss tons more areas of thier face and body.....bite their lip, and kind of pop it...moan a little...not to much, just a little here and there.......and make it sound like you like it...talk in a sexy way....tell him you want him really bad...or just the things you want to do to him....you don't have to mean what you say lol...(sometimes its good to do this and leave the guy hanging, stop in the middle of everything and just tell him you have to make a phone call or you are hungry lol)...i know this sounds a little stupid but.just have fun! and it makes you feel so powerful....another thing is when you and a guy are about to kiss....don't kiss him....brush your lips on his a little bit....this way he wants more! then maybe you can kiss him for real....but anyway..i hope this helped!!!goodluck :D....
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Okay so there's this party going on this Saturday and all the seniors are going including myself and I have TO LOOK absolutely fabulous and hot. I'm going with the whole sexy blonde vixen/new girl look. Anyways I've limited my dress options and I just wanna hear what you guys think. The occasion is just a house party with beer pong, keg stands probably, and I have no idea what else so its pretty casual. But I still wanna stand out from the rest of the girls in a good way.
Dress Options:
1) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449976&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1
2) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449974&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1
3) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=441453&CategoryID=14961&PageID=14953*8*24*-1*-1*1
I think I'm going to pair it with some classic YSL Pumps:
http://www.ysl.com/us/en/onlineBoutique/Women/Shoes/P-Tribute%20Platform%20Patent%20Slingback.aspx
Here's a photo of me also so you guys can see which dress would look great on me:
http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094269905692_10000015357728.jpg
http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094186572367_10000015357728.jpg (link)
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dress one :)...its sexy...you will probably have all the attention on you with that one.
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hi! 19 female. this may be longer .. sorrry! but i appreciate everyone who helps me out!
where to start .. i've known this kid nick for a long time now, about 4 years. we use to be close but now we see each other probably twice a month if that, we don't text that much but i still love the kid. he's adorable, he use to treat me right but he had a girlfriend. he was with his girl for about 3 years, they recently "broke up". i honestly feel like i can't trust him anymore and that he just wants me to have sex with him?? he's told me that they're not dating anymore and that they're just really good friends .. i don't believe it though. i always tell him to just tell me the truth because he knows how much i hate liars, it's a serious thing for me. when we hang out he doesn't try anything on me .. i mean we flirt alot but nothing serious. we haven't done anything EVER. lately he's been texting me asking if i want to have sex with him .. hm right? nothing ever happens though so i'm like okay whatever you know. well then i see his "ex's" car at his house (i see this because my good friend is his neighbor) so i'm like what the eff? thought they broke up. i've brought it up to him before and he's said that they still hang out and are just good friends but i know she is still in love with him i mean they dated for a long time and lost their virginity's to each other. he seems to only ask to hang out with me when its convenient for him .. i can't take it anymore. i always give in. what am i suppose to do? we can still be friends because he treated me like a best friend when he was with his girlfriend, but now that they're supposively done, he's texting me asking if i want to have sex? what am i suppose to say next time he says something like that? i don't want to seem like a creep and be like .. "i always see your "ex's" car at your house, i thought you two were done.." and even if i said something like that i bet he will say "we are" it's just such a confusing situation. i feel like he's not telling me the truth about her and the thing i don't get is that he KNOWS that i'll see his ex's car over there .. when i'm at my friends. i'm not blind or dumb. i don't know whats up with him. i've tried asking him but he says the same thing .. it doesn't make sense. any suggestions? (link)
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He sounds like an ass really.I'm sorry if you don't like hearing that. And I agree with you that he might think you are a stalker knowing when she is over lol...what i think you should do is one of these days....have your friend that lives by him tell you when she is at his house. Wear some sexy ass langere? is that how you spell langeray?haha ...but anyway...wear something hott under your clothes, and leave your shirt open making sure that you reveal the stuff you are wearing....not too much so it gets his mind going....ofcourse you are not going to have sex with him...but go over there when you know the girl is there....send him a text saying you want to....a way flirty text....and then ring the doorbell!haha...then you can find out whats going on really between him and her. that will put him in an awkward situation, that way you can see his true colors, weather good or bad!..i know this probably sounds a way crazy...but i would do it...
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we went out with this for about a year. eighth and ninth and some tenth. I love him so much. we were each others' first love, and i know i'm going to have to get over him. I've been with guys, but none compare to him. Other than that, i keep pushing guys away too, its hard to love again. The reason why we broke up was because one weekend we were supposed to hang out. I had bad grades so my mom wouldn't let me chill with him. Before I had told him that one of my friends thought he was cute, and this was before I had said yes to us getting back together. He got mad that I couldn't hang out with him, so he called her :(...asked her to come hang out. when she asked him if we were together, he told her no. And he was being all flirty with her and shit. It hurt me, so i cut him off. Some say that he was trying to make me jealous. Some say he was just desperate. I don't know what to think about it. Anyway. We didn't talk for a whole year. During that time, he was talking bad about me to my friend that he had called that day.Telling her how much he hated me :(. He would prank call me :(. A year later now He has been texting me lately. My friends and I went to this dance party, and he was there. We had a moment where we were just looking at each other and he had a little smile on his face. He was stalking me. And he had his friends come up to me to tell me that he was there. He texted me to say Happy Birthday. He knows how much i love to sing, so he asked me to go record a song with him. I asked him what the song was about, at first he didn't tell me, but i ended up finding out that it was about me. That i had broken his heart. I don't know what to do :,(. He makes me cry. Just the thought of everything. I love him so much i can't even explain it. He told me that he still likes me. I don't know if i want to believe him. a part of me wants to think that maybe he was with a lot of girls but he still couldn't get over us?....or is he just desperate?...i don't know what to think...it hurts so bad...and he has such a strong hold on me i can't even deny it anymore...what do you guys think? (link)
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oh yeah one more thing, at that dance party, i was with my friend that he had called that day. but he was just starring at me.
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Alright. Here we go. Here's the info. I am a freshman in high school and 14 years old. It all started back in seventh grade. I basically fell into obsession with this one guy (We'll call him Mike). Well I liked him all of seventh grade but he barely knew I existed. Then eighth grade came around and he and I started getting to know each other. We talked ALL the time. Over IM, at school, hung out... and we were open with our liking each other. Thing was, he didn't want a girlfriend. And I totally understood that. We were in eighth grade and I felt that was pretty young and that we weren't quite mature enough for that yet. So I thought "Okay, just wait until high school, see if you still like him then..." Well… I wasn’t really expecting to hear the news I did halfway through eighth grade. He was going to move the summer before we went to high school and coming back AFTER freshman year. It sucked. There went any chance of us working at all and I told myself I would stop liking him. I told myself that I COULDN’T like him anymore. But I did. You can’t control your feelings and I continued to like him. And it was hard. All through the rest of eighth grade I knew he would be leaving but I still liked him and he still liked me. And we still refused to make a relationship… well he did. I still kind of wanted one but he continued to insist not to. Said he didn’t want to get involved and then have to leave but he still acted like a boyfriend to me. We were honestly a couple without the title. And then he left… He left right at the beginning of summer and he stopped talking to me… And that hurt because I thought maybe we could keep this going through just one year and then try again sophomore year. Yeah well he wouldn’t get on IM, he wouldn’t return calls or texts, he literally left me. And I can understand why… kind of. He didn’t want it to hurt anymore than it had, but he was coming back! We could have made it work. Anyway. I was stupid and vulnerable and I threw myself at a guy from a different school, and a grade above me. We’ll call him Jack. He was a total man-whore and a complete player, a very good player. He had me on a leash pretty much all summer. I fell for everything he said. And after about two months, when he told me he loved me, I believed him. To this day I still blame Mike for this. (I know, I know, I was being stupid and it’s not technically Mike’s fault but I still blame him) Jack was everything Mike wasn’t. He was smooth and hot and wild and he called me things like “sexy” and “gorgeous” and I loved it. I genuinely like Jack. Head over heels. But he hurt me. It was towards the end of the summer and Jack asked me to sneak out with him that night. (We snuck out a lot, which is something I would have NEVER done before I met Jack.) We were making out, and he asked me to have sex with him… I told him I wasn’t ready, that I am only fourteen (he was sixteen) and that I couldn’t. Bye-bye Jack. He broke up with me. Just because I wouldn’t have sex with him. And he told me the only reason he had bothered with me that long was because he liked making out with me and thought it would be easy to get in my pants. And unless this has happened to you, you can’t understand how it makes you feel. It makes you feel like shit. Like you just aren’t good enough to be worth sticking around for if you won’t put out. Like you’re personality must suck so much that sex is the only thing that could possibly make you mean something to someone. And it hurt so bad. I moved on though. I stopped talking to him even though for awhile he would call and ask me to sneak out with him. But I was smarter then, I knew what he wanted from me. Luckily I have awesome friends that helped me through it and didn’t let me go back to him. And for a few months I was just boy free, taking a break. Freshman year started, and I started to occasionally hear from Mike. But briefly, and just in text. Then I met Sam. Sam is a sophomore (grade above) and currently my boyfriend. He’s perfect. He’s not Mike where he seems to only want my personality and not like Jack who definitely only wanted my body… hahaha. He’s a gentleman and kind and funny and I honestly have never been happier. So of course this is perfect timing for Mike to decide he wants to make things work again. Yup he’s been trying to call me and visit… and I haven’t exactly told him about Sam yet… I don’t know how to tell him. And worst of all, I’m scared. I’m scared that I’ll start liking him again. But I’m also angry. I’m angry that he just left me and ignored me for three months. He left me here and just let Jack have me. He hurt me and then let another guy do the same thing. He ignores me and now he wants to try again??? What the hell? And right now? After I’m so happy with Sam? I don’t know what to do. I CAN’T start liking him again. But I think I might… Help! I really just don’t want to get hurt again… (link)
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haha.I can relate to you with jack! That is one of the most painful feelings you can go through when a guy only wants you for sex. The hardest part is having to hear it from them. It's like having someone stab you with a knife. Sam did you wrong by ignoring you for three months! That is a long ass time, and he better have a good explanation for it. I think that you should talk to him first about it. Ask him why he did it. Find out what happened. If he has a good enough reason, then you should consider giving him a chance.You like him!Plus, you guys never really had a chance because he moved and everything else that came with it. At least try it out and see how it goes. anyway...goodluck! I hope this helped :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for right at 2 years..as a matter of fact our anniversary is in a week.He's 17,I'm 18.
During the whole two years I have been the one to keep everything together. I have fought and fought to keep the relationship going, through all kinds of crap he's put me through..like seriously, you wouldn't even believe what I've put up with.Usually we spend every waking hour together, but for the past month he has been out of town a lot visiting family and he's come back for like two days at a time every week or so. I've spent a lot of time alone and just with family the past month since he's been gone and had a lot of time to just think..and I guess all the sudden the past two years kinda just caught up with me and suddenly I just feel suffocated. I just don't feel anything anymore. The bad part is that he has been so sweet the past month or so and hasn't really done anything crazy like usual, so it's really a bad time for me to feel this way cause I don't really have a reason to end it right now, ya know? So anyway..sorry this is so long but I just wanted to give an outlook on what our whole relationship has been like. I don't know what to do..but he's home for a week or so now, and soon he won't be going out of town anymore, and I just find myself dreading it..I look forward to him leaving.
somebody tell me what I'm supposed to do please! (link)
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Well, i think that maybe you guys were spending too much time together. In relationships, its always good to not be around each other too much, that way you don't get this feeling, that way you don't get sick of each other. You want to have some time away from each other, not too long though or not too short, that way you miss each other, and that way when you do see each other its that much more meaningful. You guys might need a break. That way you guys can cool off, get back together and then just see if you still feel the same about it or if you end up missing him. Two years is a long time, and if you were to leave him, after a while you would feel like, awe :(...i miss him :(....but i think that you guys need to take a break..if you still feel the same after the break, then you know that you should break it off.
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So one of my best friends is a guy and we've known each other for about 5 years (give or take) and he's really sweet and funny. The other day one of our mutual friends told me she thinks he likes me and he wants to be more then friends! I didnt believe her though. Then yesterday another friend told me the same thing because the way he talks to me and i told her it was an inside joke thats why she didnt get it. At first, i didnt think it could be possible! He's always liked really pretty girls and im not pretty, just average. Its not like im ugly (i dont think anyone at my school is ugly) but i just dont have a pretty face. Every girl he's ever liked has be gorgeous so i didnt think it would be possible that he like ME. But after i started thinking about it, i realized that I LIKE HIM! Now, it feels pretty awkward around us (for me atleast) but i try not to show it. What if he does like me? Should i risk our friend ship and ask him or should i just get over my crush? If i dont ask him im worried he might never know how i feel but if i do ask him im worried he might not feel the same way. What should i do? Im really worried about risking our friend ship because i love him so much. (link)
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you know, what you can do is tell him what you heard say something like "do people ever tell you that they think we like each other? (laugh)haha..cuz people told me that it looks like we like each other lol..isn't that weird?"...and then see how he reacts or what he says...with this, it might make him realize how much he likes you too! like, get him thinking about it....but.....I would tell you to tell him how you feel, but usually from what i know, when this stuff happens, people lose each other...that happend to two of my friends including me....losing our best guy friends.....but everyone is different, so your situation might turn out different for you! I hope this helped, and goodluck!:D
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I am 14/f and i love to sing. i cannot describe how much i love it. i play guitar and piano, and also have singing lessons. I think i am good, but i dont want to be the girl with a dream who it never really happened for. i believe i could make it famous, but i want to know what to do next. i have talked with my parents, my mum thinks i could make it. but my dad gave me the whole 'its a tough business' talk. it really put me down because its all i can think about. i dont really talk about it with my friends because most people think its a silly idea and would take the mick. I know that i could do this. if i had the chance.
I am from England by the way, so just wondering if anyone knew about any auditions etc. or places where you can meet other auditions in the south east region. I'll take any chance i can to make it, i love singing. So so much thanks x (link)
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Oh my gosh, lol...been through this!...i can relate to you....that "touch business talk" is so annoying!!!!it makes you feel like you aren't good enough, or there is no way you can make it. ew haha..its annoying....but anything you set your mind to, you can do it. It's hard, but believing in yourself is where you really need to start...even though the things people around you think may bring you down, you have to realize that this is not about them. its about you and what you really want in life. And only you can make it happen. As long as you really put your musical talent out there, you will get noticed, no matter how good you are....because some people are amazing, but they don't really show their talent, and the other people end up getting it because they went out there and showed everyone what they could do. Keep at it, and you will make it :)....I wish I could help you find singing competions down there in england but i'm not from there....but i hope this helped....and don't ever let anyone tell you can't do it...some people can be jealous too and tell you that you can't just to make you not succeed. Anyway...goodluck :)
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I'm 13 and I would like to be a professinal dancer. I've only had 2 years of dance experiance. I love dance so much. I'm very flexible. Do you think I could even consider going pro? I know most girls start when there very young. Do you think I could do it? (link)
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I'm not a dancer, but i think you can do it!....you are still young too. If you really set your mind to it and work hard at it, you sure can!!! the thing is that a lot of the times, there are people that want to dance, but only the ones that put themselves out there are the ones that make it...this is in anything. A person could be the greatest dancer in the world, but if they don't share their dance with the people/the world, they aren't going to get anywhere!!! and if another person is a good dancer but not as good as the great one, and they share their dancing, they have a better chance of being pro!!!!!:D...so i think you can do it....i hope this helped,and wasn't too confusing and goodluck :D
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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I don't think that this is anything to worry about. I'm a girl, and a lot of the times when a friend in the group has a boyfriend, they spend sooo much time with the boyfriend that it seems like they don't care about us...like they can't make time for us and their boyfriend.....i think that maybe your girl's friends talked to her about how she was hanging out with you "EVERYDAY, ALL THE TIME", and the way that it was making them feel "Pushed aside" like you are feeling now. I bet you anything that she is just trying not to lose her friends. she is just trying to make time for You, and them. So don't worry!:)....You can confront her about it,by telling her, " have you been hanging out with your friends so much lately because you hadn't been before?....as much as i would love to hang out with you all the time like we used to...i think its great that you are making time for me and them :)." you can say something like that, just to make sure that that's the reason....there can also be a downfall to hanging out everyday all the time. The fact that she is with her friends some of the time is good because you miss her more!!!!! you don't have that thing like, oh, i'm going to see you today....and then you end up not being so excited to see her...it makes your realtionship stronger :) i hope this helped and good luck! there is nothing to worry about :)
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I have seen these jeans with rhinestones on the pockets...they are hot...ive been trying to find them online and i can't find them anywhere...do you guys know where i can find them? are they true religion or something else? (link)
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Thanks for the advice!:D...i found them and they are at rue 21
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I am dating this girl Lexi and I really don't want to lose her. I have done some things recently that aren't good choices when I wasn't with her. She knows what I did though. And I think that they scare her a little and she is worried that I would do something like cheat on her or break her heart. And I love her from the bottom of my heart and my whole being. I couldn't stand to lose her. She's already almost left me once because our best friend Tuesday made her believe that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to convince her other wise, and I was scared the whole time. Do you have any advice on what I should do to help her trust me and help her believe I won't break her heart? (link)
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that is so cute how you want to stay faithful to her :)....You didn't do those things while you guys were together, so there is no reason for her to worry....you guys are together, and whatever things you do no i'm sure will only be with her....the past is the past....but i think that all you have to do to show her you won't break her heart is simple. Tell her what you just said up here, "I love you from the bottom of my heart. I want you to know that I won't do anything to hurt you"....try not to make it too possesive though cuz she might look at you as obsessive and weird. But tell her how you feel....and other things you can do is to let her know you are thinking about her once in while...send her a random text saying I love you. Flirt with her. Show her that she is the shit. But at the same time without being too clingy you know...but i hope this helped...goodluck!:D
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Ok, so I'm a sophmore and there's this guy that i really like, and i think he likes me too. You see he is in three of my class periods but he NEVER sits next to me (thats why i think he might not like me) but he is always looking at me whenever i look up at him. So i think he DOES like me is because of yesterday. During Biology the teacher asked me a question i didnt know and he lipped the answer to me, but i missed read it and got the answer wrong, and he was smirking at me. Then in spanish 2 he was walking towards me like he was going to sit in the empty seat next to me but one of his friends called him over and he frowned and walked away, towards his friends. Then, later on that day, in study hall i was doing my some work on my essay due and looked up, just to think of a word, and saw him staring at me -- smiling. I blushed, errg, and he laughed and i looked down with emberresment. He laughed and looked down, too. I looked back up and he was staring at me smiling, again! So i shot him a confused look. He dropped his smile then turned his head to the side because the door opened, but i didnt look. He turned back to me looking really surprised so i turned and saw a guy with tissue paper hanging out of the backside of his pants and turned back to him. We were looking at each other for ten seconds, stunned, and broke out laughing -- quietly. Then his laugh broke out this surprised me because whenever he talked to me it was always soft and quiet, but this was loud, really loud. Everyone looked at him and he just said "Oh, sorry" (which was also loud) and just looked down. I started laughing harder then snorted -- yikes -- so now everyones eyes were on me, including his, and he started laughing and shaking his head and looked down.
So from this can you tell if he likes me or if he just thinks im a weirdo? (link)
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He likes you!!! its so obvious...all the things he is doing to get your attention...he is flirting omuch with you with all the smiles and laughing and starring ;).....he wants you :D.....simple as that....he doesn't think you are a weirdo at all....HE LIKES YOU!!!!!......
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Okay I am a freshman and I hate being "fat" I am the girl who is nice to people, easy to get along with or talk to, but you wouldn't sit by me at a lunch table if i was alone. The one your kind of ashamed to stick up for, yet kinda feel sorry for because you know they're a good person at heart.
Well I hate being that girl. I want to go on a diet, but nothing life altering. I want excerise that is easy to stick with and not ubber time consuming.
I want a breakfest that full fills me from 5 till 11.
So please if you have anthing that will help me reply. But don't give me any excerises like { run a mile on the tredmill a day becuase I have tried that, time consuming and hard to keep up with every day }
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eat healthy.just eat less. 500 calories a day. If you drink tea, it makes you feel full, so if you drink tea after every meal it will make you feel like you are full. Salads and fruits are good too! Goodluck...and i'm sorry you have to live like this, one of my friends is going through some weight problems and she is doing the 500 calorie died a day thing.
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19/female
urrrgh i'm in a bad bad situation :(
i've been at my current work for about a year now. me and this girl carissa who i work with got really close. she just turned 23. well she's always been trying to hook me up with her brother whose 20. he's not cute at all. not my type. we're into different things. she wont stop talking about him though and one day he came into our work and then later carissa told me that he asked who i was because he thought i was hot and wanted to talk to me and so on. well she wont quit on us 3 hanging out. i'm not that outgoing when i first meet people- especially a guy who i know thinks i'm hot. that just makes it more awkward. well i worked with her today and she was like lets all go shopping or to dinner. next tuesday is taco tuesday- lets plan on going then? and i was like uhm okay, i dont think i have anything going on. i feel really bad. she was like unless you and my brother just want to hangout but that might be awkward the first time. i'm thining HELLLO not interested in your brother like that. i can't tell her that though, i feel so rude. i'm a nice person so i'm trying to just go with the flow but i absolutely do NOT want to go to dinner with her and her brother next week. its going to be so dang awkward. and i cant just keep making up lies either on why i wouldnt be able to go. what do i do? she was like and even if you two don't hit it off you can still be friends. and yes that would be cool or whatever, but i don't even want to try to be in a relationship with him. he's just not my type, i know that. i'm stuck .. (link)
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Find a guy that likes you, you like him, or make one up. Talk about him to her. Everyday. Talk about how much you like him. On and on and on and on. And maybe tell her that you have known him for a long long time. You have liked him for forever...maybe this way she can tell that her brother has no chance...Tell her little stories of how you and this guy have been talking and the times you have hung out. This should make her calm down a little. If she doesn't seem to be calm, don't lose hope. When you three go to dinner, text one of your guy friends and tell them to call you, talk to him and act like its the guy. tell him you will call him back you gotta go Then act all excited and constantly talk about him after. You could be straight forward too about it and tell her you are not looking to be in a relationship with her brother. But that's a really hard thing to do without hurting anyone's feeling, so I would talk about some guy. :D..goodluck, and i hope this works.
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I've been trying to call my Granny at my aunt's house becouse she is living with my aunt and my Granny is 92 years old today and I want to wish her a happy birthday but every time I call she either hangs up on me or somebody else answers the phone and tells me that granny is not there when I know it's a lie why would they do this to me I mean I know they are pissed off at me but why won't they let me talk to my own granny I mean my granny isn't going to live much longer and I know that becouse she's 92 years old and I just want to wish her a happy birthay and they won't even let me do that how can I tell my granny happy birthday instead of calling my Aunts house? (link)
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wow, that is so ridiculous.....your aunt needs to acts a little bit more mature. But i think that you should try going over there. Ask someone to drive you to your aunt's house or if you can't find someone, ride the bus over there. Your Grandma's day is an important one.
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So I'm still a virgin and it's kind of a big deal.
So, out of curiosity I was wondering when did you lose your virginity (what age you were) and how did it happen?
Give details please, not on the actual sex but on how it happened. For example, don't just say 'with my first boyfriend' or 'at a house party', say exactly how it happened.
And if you're still a virgin, would you please say so too and say your age and how you feel about losing your virginity? For example, do you think you're ready to? Do you want to? Why do you want to or why do you want to wait? Do you feel pressured?
Thanks, x (link)
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Hi there :)...i'm seventeen still a virgin! haha...guys find it unbelievable when they find out....everytime i'm close to doing it, i get turned off. Its weird, but i think its just my body tellin me that maybe its the wrong guy, or that simply i'm just not ready. But the pressure with friends is really hard though sometimes. Most of them have done it, and i'm one out of two only virgins in the group. When they talk about it, its really awkward because it makes me feel like, oh wow, i don't know anything, it makes me feel left out. But i just deal with it because I really want to enjoy my time with boyfriends in highschool. I'm not trying to "grow up" too fast. If i were to lose it it would be when i'm twenty or at least out of highschool...that way if i get pregnant or something, i don't have to worry about walking into school with a huge belley...or people whispering and looking at me all weird...but yeah, not that anything would go wrong, but you know, just to be safe....i am just doin it after highschool....when my friends have done that, they are so different, like i don't even recognize who they are you know. They look older. Having sex at a young age i think is not too good though...your body is still developing till you are eighteen i think....its like giving a little baby a piece of meat, instead of apple sauce you know....until it's all grown you can give it the meat but i look at sex in the same way...i'm not ready for the meat haha
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and the flame is slowly dying out. I really need a song to remind him how much I still love and care about him. I've found tons of songs, but none of them just really hit home about the way I truly feel. I need something that says how hard I'm trying and how much I truly love and care about him.
Any help is greatly appreciated please and thanks!
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There is Leona Lewis "I will Be"
Sample lyrics: There's nothin I could say to you
Nothin i could ever do to make you see
What you mean to me
All the pain and tears I cried
Still you never said goodbye
And now i know, how far you'd go............
Beyonce Dangerously Inlove:
Baby I love you
You are my life
The happiest moments weren't complete if you weren't by my side
You're my relation
In connection to the sun
With you next to me there's no darkness i can't overcome.............
thats all i can think of but i hope this helped! :D
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