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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap
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my boyfriend wants me to give him a handjob i just dont know how ive never done it before
so how do i do it?
you should be comfortable doing it with him. don't let him push you into doing it if you don't want him to.
My best guy friend, (I'm 16/f, he's 16/m) smokes almost everything besides cigarettes with his 2 other friends. I know his two other friends, and care for them, but not as much as him. I've known him longer, and look up to him in a way, and when he smokes I don't understand why. I think he should know better, and I just have always thought he was smart enough to not do it. Well recently he asked me why I only care if he smokes and no one else? I explained to him what I said above, and he just didn't seem to get it.
Am I wrong for caring so much about it? (I don't get mad at him when he does it, I just tell him that it's not something I like and why he does it and all the stuff I said above)
no your absolutly not wrong for caring so much. i my ex does some drugs and i tell him how much i care and i don't want him to be hurting himself and i don't think he understands very much either...
i would take it as a compliment but then again if someone told me that i was wrong for having sex with my boyfriend or something and that i shouldn't do it i would kind of be like hey i knwo you care but i know what i'm doing... you know?
i think it's because he's cocky and thinks he's invinsible but one time he's going to get hurt and he'll know what you mean... but hopefully he will get the point before anyting bad happens
Ok so on a scale of 1-10 how much does piercing your belly button hurt?? I pierced my cartilege by myself and I didn't think it hurt. I guess i have a high tolerance of pain.
abouttt a 5 not too too bad. you'll be fine if you have a high tonerance of pain =]
heyy its mariah agian, about the whole kory thing & thanks for the advice.! yeah he still hasn`t imd me since he really hasn't been online and just stares at me and stufff. i think he thinks i don`t care anymore and i really do, um do you have any advice for like how to start up a converstion with him cause im really shy in front of him for some reason? i think its cause we used to fight SO much on the computer.. and when it comes to face to face its so hard...but i really like him, and i know whatcha mean by the whole physco vibe lol..but hes really not like that he jsut gets stressed easily. so like whats the way to start up a conversation and not be so shy and stuff? [ ps. i REALLY still wanna makeout with him & be with him of course tooo] so any advice on how too..kinda, like remind him that i still wanna makeoutt and kinda get him "horny" for it haha. ps. hes like always horny anyways but yeahh.. haha hellppp (= thanks
yeah haha i'm so bad at being mean to someone to there face because i'm afraid they'll walk away from me and i don't like to cause a scene. but i have no probably being mean online haha you have to let him know that you do care.. haha to make him horny all you have to do is talk about sex it's really funny boys get horny sooooo easily. but i would just start talking about making out and then start talking about other stuff and he will melt ;]
your going to be shy in person no matter how much you try not to.. but just be really calm and say hey what's up with a smile on your face and he'll know you still want to be with him
i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior
do what YOU need to do. if you two are meant to be together it will be. but you need to do whats right for YOU. and follow your dreams don't let your relationship with him interfere with your dreams. if you both really love eachother and want to be together you'll find a way to be together
'thanx 4 d info.but do you lie next 2 dem or wats d story there..'...lol it was about when giving him a handjob!i asked you for info about doing it which i did give,thanx!but i jus dont really know how 2 actually get 2 that point like while you're kissing nd stuff..like isnt it kinda awkward if you're lying ther..cause how do you like..well you know..reach there!is there an easier way of doing it so theyr not like looking right at you wen you're doing it..??nd like how do you actually go about doing it without like practically rippin their pants off!:P
lol your cute. yeah it's awkward everything should work into place. just don't be rough andyou won't rip his pants off silly ;]
heyy danika..! well i need some help, see me and this guy Kory have had this "thing" i guess you can call it since like November/December. and he would you know always flirt with me and sing to me and stuff, then one night i was on the computer and he imd me and was like um.. i have a question. and i was like yeah? and he goes would you ever makeout with me? and i was like well i dont know..[even though i totally knew i would] and.. he was SO obsessed with it. then he got all shy around me .. and stufff, and then on the computer he would tell me how much he liked me and stuff. and always call me baby,honey,sweetie,sexy,beautiful & ectt. but then people told me he still liked his ex girlfriend.. kristin and i was like wtf? .. cause he was telling me how much he would love to go out with me and stuff. and then.. one day he imd me and was like i always think about you im thinking about you now..and i was like kor, you know what just knock it off cause i was so mad..and he got real mad and was like whatever, you ruined the chances with the girl i love so thanks a lot? i was like i did what? wtf.. cause, HE started this whole thing with me and him..then he made me cry at the dance cause he said i ruined his life..then one day he finally apologized and told me he wanted me to relax around him and get to know eachother and he really did like me..and how he could agian and stufff. but he still liked kristin? and i dont get it honestly. and he goes like bipolar on me sometimes..and the other day i accidently brung up my ex boyfriend to him .. and for the past 6 days he hasn't even spoken to me..and we were just making progress!! and once before i had my ex in an awya message and kor flipped out and was like oh so whos jason? trying to get me jealous..you wanna play that game i was like what game? cause at that time he was going out with Kristin. and ughh.. i just dont know whats going on in this kids mind..he ALWAYS stares at me but he cant say like anything to my face he makes everything so awkward and i really do like him.. and i want him back, do you think he still thinks about me.. and do you think he ever liked me..and like what is going on with him? ahh i need help PLEASEE! [= sorry if i posted this twice my computers gay it does this sometimes lol?
haha you did post it twice but it's all good girlfriend and this is what i think:
YES. he DOES like you because if he didn't he wouldn't get jealous if you hung out with other guys orrr talked about your ex boyfriend it's called self consious because he's afraid of loosing you to another boy. but if i were you. i don't want to tell you what to do or antyhing but i'm kinda feeling the psycho stalker vibe from him. like it sounds like if you two went out it wouldn't be a very healthy relationship because he kind of seems controll but do what you want =] hope i helped need anythign else just ask !
okay well there's two girls... and i like to call them thing 1 and thing 2 [because they're so ugly they can't possibly be human] and they're so fucking gross that i just simply CANNOTTT stand to look at them for like one more day! and sometimes [but ONLY sometimes] i feel kinda bad... cause i tend to 'use' one of the things... and i actually don't like her at all... so how do you think i should overcome this? i really can't stand them... they're both so ugly and bossy and hypocritical and they're the biggest oxyMORON's i've ever met. i dislike them so much... and i also hate when they do push ups... WHAT EVER SHALL I DOO!??!!?.
lmfao. yeah i have that problem too; ya know. i think there just jealous of us girlfriend. just remember we only have 4 more days to "use" the one ugly chick. and they other one. hey summers coming around and won't have to even look at the hoe =] i love you
ohhkay hiii
iv been going out with my boyfriend for uhmm about 3 weeks, and we already had sex. It was really good the second time, but then then next day i went to his house and we did it again and it hurt REALLY bad, like not when i pee afterwards i get a really bad pain. Then last night he was acting weird and all like, i dont see how you can love me, weve only been talking for 2 months and it started over a myspace messgae. im like well everytime im with you and talk to you i fall more, but now it seems like he doesnt want me to love him... or want to love me.. he normally tells me he loves me during the day in school and hes not now, he just kisses me and walks away. i dont know what to do. im really in love with him and dont wanna lose him. He just acts sometimes like he doesnt wanna be with him. today i wanted him to come to my locker with me and then walk to class with me becuase his class was right next to mine, but he didnt want to. i basically pushed him down the hallway and when he got to my locker he stayed there with me, but i had to force him to be with me ? i dont know what to do... ugh boys are dumb. help, pleaseee =)
yes haha they are dumb. if you felt it was right then that's good. if you two did it and now he's more distant it's probably because he fell hard for you but he most likely didn't want to fall hard because maybe he's afraid of getting hurt now. he's pushing you away. i would talk to him about it.. if you love him and don't want to leave him i would start to back off. maybe show him that your not crazy about him because when you back off boys seems to fall harder and try to talk to you more. i just got done reading this awesome book called why men love bitches and it told me that. they hate it. so i would just back down and if that doesn't work talk to him about it =]
I really want to get the New Beetle Convertable (by volkswagon). I'm 16 so i have to convince my parents first...
Does anyone know where i can find a website (or if you know it) that will tell me the gas mileage of the beetle convertable vs. the average cars gas mileage of a car...and the safty reports of the beetle convertable (and if its safer than most cars). And different things like that...just so that i can prove that its the perfect car for me.
THanks sooo much!!!!!
good idea =] i wrote a paper and stuck those things in for my mom to get my eclipse and it worked =]
safety= http://www.motortrend.com/cars/2006/volkswagen/beetle/safety/
gas= http://www.fueleconomy.gov/feg/noframes/21704.shtml
ohhkayyy. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months and i really love him and he loves me too. and he wants to have sex and hes not forcing me to he just wants to make sure im ready before we do. and i mean i want to but im not sure. any input?
if your not sure don't do it. it's something your never going to get back.. and you need to be COMPLETELY sure that you want to. waiting a little longer to make sure you ABSOLUTLY want to do it won't hurt either =]
ok im 17 and i dont rally know what to do when my boyfriend fingers me..he did it once before and we just kissed and it was fine but am i ment to do something else?
And also how do you go around giving a handjob?lke how do you start it off?do you sit next to them or lye next to them and what do you do next?do you kiss them when youre doing it?
Please help!I just dont know how to start it off!
you should feel comfortable around you b/f if you want to do anything with him. i would kiss lol idk i never really did all that before love
I would never ever buy a computer over a laptop.
What is your personal opinion?
I think it is better to wait a couple of months more so you can gather a little bit extra money to buy a laptop especially since they are as well upgradeable.
Wich are the most reliable portable computers?
it all depends. laptops don't have as much memory but they are handy.
i would also get a laptop. i saved up some money and just recently bought one.. plus you can get internet service by using other peoples wireless connect which makes it extra speedy fast...
most reliable portable computers i would have to say dell.. that's what my laptop is.. my regular computer is HP and they aren't as good... SONIC is also good
you have to be more careful with laptops though but that's my vote
ok wll i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds do u think thats underweight overweight or average ?? (truthfully because i need to know)
if u could tell me that would help A LOT !!
underweight because the normal weight for someone who is 5"0 is 100-110 lbs.
I need help on getting a proxy that isn't blocked to get on myspace at school, or anywhere that it is blocked. the only thing is, is that im always searching proxy lists but those sites are blocked too. it seems like everything is blocked at school, and i shouldn't complain but it seems unreasonable, ridiculous, and unneccesary. (sorry for spelling errors.) How do i create my own Proxy Site or whatever that my school won't know and wont block?
you can try these two they work at my school
openbrowsing.com
or
longzt.com
but otherwise than that i have no idea how to create your own sit although that would be really cool =]
If I wanted to get tested for STDs (just to be safe) where would I go?
look up in your yellowbook a "planned parenthood" schedule and appointment and if you are your younger than 18 that it is free heres the website if you want to look one up on the internet http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Okay, so how do you determine what your life color is? Like in colorology? xD lol, thanks.
http://www.rainbowsunlimited.com/Colorology.htm there you go love =]need anything else ask
what's the difference between "Loving" and "likeing" someone????
this is really hard to explain but i'll give it a shot
when you like someone you have a crush on them, you could like them as a friend.
like:to regard with favor; have a kindly or friendly feeling for (a person, group, etc.); find attractive
love is totally unexplainable. it's like no other. you have an extreme bond with someone and would do just about anything for them. there are different types of love: friendship, relationships, love for movies/things/objects, etc.
love:to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
Hey Danika,
I'm a 17 year old guy. I have been dating this girl for a long fun while now, and we have an awesome relationship. We talk and joke around like best friends and get jiggy with it as lovers do. The only thing is that a road block just recently popped up. Throughout the relationship she had been telling me that she was a virgin and never saw a penis before and all that stuff. Then we were wasted one night and she decided to give me this big confession that infact she wasn't a virgin. She had touched, licked, and sure enough had sex with an ex that before this point she always spoke lowly of him. A lot of the time she would even bring him up in common conversation. So, now she tells me this and first I feel betrayed because I have been lied to for so long. Second, I feel confused because you think she wouldn't talk so bad about this guy if he took her virginity. Third and lastly, I feel scared because thinking that she was a virgin, we fooled around a little without a condom. That brings up worries of STD's and so forth. What should I think or say or do? Am I mad at her? When she says she regets it do I believe her? Does she still of feelings for this guy (who, if I might say myself is 100% full of nasty)? Should I trust that she isn't keeping anymore lies from me? Help a brotha out.
P.S.- I'm really white.
well. i talk madddd smack on myex boyfriend. because i love him, and i like to try and deny it and talk tough like he means nothing to me when in reality i hate him so much because he tore my heart apart but i still love him.you always have this bond with, that you don't have with any one else..
it's all up to you on if you believe her or not. if you trust her then believe her. and if you seem to not trust her anymore.. then you should probably break up no matter how much you love her. because if you don't have trust.. you have NOTHING... i know you WANT to believe her. but take the facts and don't be naive. just look at all the possibilites. i cna't tell you if you should believe her or not because i don't know her personally.. at least i don't think? haha so you just have to figure it out on your own =]
and as for the STD situation. go get tested. it's the easiest way to find out.
need anything else just ask =]
I don't think this is the right category--maybe under health? Anywhos, I had a question about being a vegetarian. I'm 14/f and I am trying to be a vegetarian. It's not for weight loss or anything, I just want to be a vegetarian because I think it's much healthier than eating meat everyday.
Anywhos, I know that since being a vegetarian means no meat, I know that missing out on meat means missing out on proteins and such. So I was wondering what kinds of food I would be needing to eat in order to make up for the missing meat. And also if anyone knew a site that had good vegetarian receipes that a 14 year old can cook easily other than allrecipes.com.
Thanks!!! =]
i'm a vegetarian.
usually you eat peanut butter, eggs, pasta, cheese, soy products, (there is a vegetarian isle at my local grocery store.) and you can also get protein pills
here are some recipes on: http://vegweb.com/
http://www.toptastes.com/recipes/entreesvege.htm
www.webvalue.net/recipes/
hope i helped & good luck. if you need to know anything else.. i'm your girl.