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boyfriend or career?


Question Posted Monday May 7 2007, 9:08 pm

i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior





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charmed3fanatic answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 10:19 pm:
do what YOU need to do. if you two are meant to be together it will be. but you need to do whats right for YOU. and follow your dreams don't let your relationship with him interfere with your dreams. if you both really love eachother and want to be together you'll find a way to be together

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Rosalina answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:27 pm:
Okay. So you really love this guy. In this case though, with him leaving, is it really worth it to stay behind and be left where you are alone?
I know you'll miss some time with him. But with your new salary, you'll be about to see him more over his college years. Explain to him, and really talk it out. hope things work out, and if you need me, e-mail. Lots of Love, Rose

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ANG answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:21 pm:
Well, this is tough. I would suggest telling him that this is basically a once in a lifetime opportunity. If he cares for you enough he will respect your wants over his. Plus, you can always visit each other. I think that since you guys have been together so long that you will be able to work out a long distant relationship. Hopw I helped. :]

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completelyhonest answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:13 pm:
This is an amazing chance for you. If your boyfriend doesn't realize this than he doesn't care enough. Maybe a compromise can be made? I don't know how far away you live so I can't decide that. Hopefully you'll work it out, and if it was really meant to be it will. (CH)

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