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iv been going out with my boyfriend for uhmm about 3 weeks, and we already had sex. It was really good the second time, but then then next day i went to his house and we did it again and it hurt REALLY bad, like not when i pee afterwards i get a really bad pain. Then last night he was acting weird and all like, i dont see how you can love me, weve only been talking for 2 months and it started over a myspace messgae. im like well everytime im with you and talk to you i fall more, but now it seems like he doesnt want me to love him... or want to love me.. he normally tells me he loves me during the day in school and hes not now, he just kisses me and walks away. i dont know what to do. im really in love with him and dont wanna lose him. He just acts sometimes like he doesnt wanna be with him. today i wanted him to come to my locker with me and then walk to class with me becuase his class was right next to mine, but he didnt want to. i basically pushed him down the hallway and when he got to my locker he stayed there with me, but i had to force him to be with me ? i dont know what to do... ugh boys are dumb. help, pleaseee =)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? charmed3fanatic answered Monday May 7 2007, 12:19 pm: yes haha they are dumb. if you felt it was right then that's good. if you two did it and now he's more distant it's probably because he fell hard for you but he most likely didn't want to fall hard because maybe he's afraid of getting hurt now. he's pushing you away. i would talk to him about it.. if you love him and don't want to leave him i would start to back off. maybe show him that your not crazy about him because when you back off boys seems to fall harder and try to talk to you more. i just got done reading this awesome book called why men love bitches and it told me that. they hate it. so i would just back down and if that doesn't work talk to him about it =] [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
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