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Girl's lies good or bad?
Hey Danika,
I'm a 17 year old guy. I have been dating this girl for a long fun while now, and we have an awesome relationship. We talk and joke around like best friends and get jiggy with it as lovers do. The only thing is that a road block just recently popped up. Throughout the relationship she had been telling me that she was a virgin and never saw a penis before and all that stuff. Then we were wasted one night and she decided to give me this big confession that infact she wasn't a virgin. She had touched, licked, and sure enough had sex with an ex that before this point she always spoke lowly of him. A lot of the time she would even bring him up in common conversation. So, now she tells me this and first I feel betrayed because I have been lied to for so long. Second, I feel confused because you think she wouldn't talk so bad about this guy if he took her virginity. Third and lastly, I feel scared because thinking that she was a virgin, we fooled around a little without a condom. That brings up worries of STD's and so forth. What should I think or say or do? Am I mad at her? When she says she regets it do I believe her? Does she still of feelings for this guy (who, if I might say myself is 100% full of nasty)? Should I trust that she isn't keeping anymore lies from me? Help a brotha out.
P.S.- I'm really white.
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well. i talk madddd smack on myex boyfriend. because i love him, and i like to try and deny it and talk tough like he means nothing to me when in reality i hate him so much because he tore my heart apart but i still love him.you always have this bond with, that you don't have with any one else..
it's all up to you on if you believe her or not. if you trust her then believe her. and if you seem to not trust her anymore.. then you should probably break up no matter how much you love her. because if you don't have trust.. you have NOTHING... i know you WANT to believe her. but take the facts and don't be naive. just look at all the possibilites. i cna't tell you if you should believe her or not because i don't know her personally.. at least i don't think? haha so you just have to figure it out on your own =]
and as for the STD situation. go get tested. it's the easiest way to find out.
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