HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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i've liked guys but there's one thing i can't stand, getting over it. i get over them easily but my friends who know who i like all the time say like you know you still like him. That was 2007. the present is 2008!!! hello. i can't get them to stop. even though i don't like anyone at the moment. (link)
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how annoying,what theyre sayin is really not helping you at all.Tell them to shut the hek up and "i think i no myself alot more then yall know me" i dont like him anymore get over it.If they dont stop just let them say whatever they want fuk that.They dono you as much as you know yourself and you no its not true so juss let them talk all they want.Talk is cheap.
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There's this guy who acts like he likes me, a lot, he's always texting me and calling me. And I think he's really sweet and funny and cute- but sometimes I think he is desperate. He has been trying to start a relationship with a few girls for a time, but they haven't worked out... and now that I'm single he's hitting on me. Should I give it a go? Or am I just gonna get taken advantage of because he's desperate to have a gf no matter who it is? (link)
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it cud be a good idea cuz if hes desperate and he gets with you hell be loyal.BUT..im not too sure he likes you though cuz he tired several gurlz....i think you should just let it pass and take him as a freind
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I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 turning 16 soon, We've been together a several months now, we plan to be tgether for a LONG time. So everytime we are making out or anything and i go to move further, (fingering her or gttting her hand down my pants)i dont know whether to be direct and ask her if she want me to finger her or for her to rub me. Would girls rather i ask them before i do, or wait till i do it for a "dont do that"? I've rubbed around her vaginal area before but never gone inside, I asked if she wanted me to just rub above and she said yes..then after i went to go back down and she told me not to, she hurt her leg recently and so i asked if it was because it was hurting or whether she didnt want me to...she said both. *****Should i ask her "Do you want me to keep asking you if you want me to or do you want to tell me when your ready for me to do that?" just to see what she says?***** (link)
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you should definetly ask her cuz if you just go for it and she dont say anything it could mean that shes too shy to tell you to stop or doesnt wana make you feel bad.It could also means shess cool with it but i still think you should ask just to make sure her feelings don get hurt later on.
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My 10 year old sister has a 13 year old friend and that friend is a complete girly girl and she constantly talks about her crushes (she can have 16 crushes at one time) her make up her clothes her nail polish blah blah blah now my sister is a tomboy and im not girly but im not tomboy and my sister kinda thinks its weird that her friend likes all that kind of stuff but her friend is always saying when your 13 you will feel this way and blah blah blah blah blah blah and my sister really will not feel that way ever thats not the way she is she start throwing a fit whenever mom wants her to go to the mall with us and she plays football and goes to school in those basketball shorts and long t-shirts and baseball caps she isnt going to change much in 3 years and she really wants her friend to stop saying all that stuff because its not true and you know that teenager feel like they know best and stuff but she is acting really stupid my sister just wants her to stop what should my sister do thanks to whoever answers this (link)
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i suggest you let your sister confront her freind about this and tell her that shes not girly and she likes being a tomboy and to stop telling her shes gonna change.She can be whatever she wants.I know that you,bein her older sister can go tell her this instead but you just gotta let her do it herself so she can be stronger.If she needs help youll be there for backup but she should do mosta it herself.
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14/f.
I think guys are waywaywaywayway hot.
Like, I totally like guys.
But sometimes, I think girls are hot.
Like, I think Mandy Musgrave (the actress who plays Ashley Davies on south of nowhere) is wayyyy hot.
And I think her kissing gabriel ("spencer") is way hot.
But, I wouldn't want to actually do anything with her.
Same thing goes for these two chicks at my school,
and one of the ppl in T.A.T.U. (the russian band)
idk, like, i think they're hot,
i think them kissing other girls are hot,
but i wouldnt want to kiss them or anything, like i would a guy.
soo what does this make me ? (link)
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really confused and curious about things lol dont worry its just a phase you gonna go thru and get over it^_^
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Recently I had asked a boy from my church if he would like to my bf, and he said he would think about it and and I am still waiting for him answer, but(there's always that but), my ex-bf has just told me his feelings for me despite his current gf who has cheated on him like 3 times. I don't know who to choose. The boy from my church is really the sweet, quiet type. But my ex-bf is the type of guy who will tell me his feelings about a situation and is always telling and showing how he feels (the sensitive type). I have known my ex-bf longer- about 1 year- and I just met the church boy. They both are incredibly sweet guys. It feels like a really hard decision that I hate to make considering that I am a big person who comes to liking guys and they both are sweet. Can someone please help me? This will break my heart if I end up turning down the wrong guy. (link)
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theres deffinetly a reason why your ex is your ex,why you guyz broke up...if its because some things that are bad he used to do to you then i suggest you give the church dude a try instead.If the church kid don reply and tell you his answer bout you bein his gurl then go for ya ex.
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since 8 month my boyfriend and i trying have a baby nothing work? is that cuz of too many partner or undevelope or what? what wrong with it? also cuz of thinking about baby too much? I'm 19 year old, i know I'm young...help me... (link)
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i took in biology class that there arre only 48 hours which are two dayz where the sperm actually fertalizes the ovum makin you pregnant but i dono when.Mabey you just not doin it on the right dayz lol or mabey somethings wrong with his sperm..you guyz should get tested...
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16/f. I have a boyfriend (same age). We've been going out for a month. He's my first bf..But yeah. My (ex) best friend (girl) ...well, she's been getting on my nerves about me and him. See, the thing is...she used to like him...and flirt with him all the time. But in the end, he chose me over her..I don't know why...But he did. And now she won't leave me alone. She bitches at me, calls him names, tells me not to kiss him in front of me and when I did, she's like...HOW WAS IT?, spies on us and tells her friends what we did, starts arguments over it. I'm asking her to be honest..like...do you LIKE him or WHAT? And she's all...ew ew noo noo ew he's gross, how can you even kiss him.
Yet...she looks for every possible way to flirt with him. And he doesn't pay attention to her. She even like ...puts his name in her myspace about me...how she looks forward to seeing him every morning and how he makes her day...Things like that.
Honestly, I'm getting a bit suspicious. Not about my boyfriend and her...but just her behavior.
Would you think she still REALLY likes him? =| (link)
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ofcourse she likes him!And shes mad jealous of you too!Everything she does proves it man.Tell her to shut the hell up and stop bitchin,shes suppoesd to be your freind.Confront her about it again and if she don stop then you gotta go yell at her for it man.Tell her that what you and your boyfreind do is none of her frikin buisness,what the hell does she like have no life other to know what you guyz do?Id go smak her if it got to far man.
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ok..this is kind of a weird question..but i was supposed to start my period LAST wednesday..and its a week later. ive been under alot of mental and emotional stress lately, but i still had bad cramps, yelled at people, cried for no reason, ate icecream..etc. and i know im not pregnant bc i havnt had sex in a year. i eat fairly healthy, but am on alot of prescrips for a cold..whats wrong with me?? (link)
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You juss answered your own question lol its because your under stress.Dont worry itll come though but just as soon your no longer stressed.Its normal for your period to mess up and come in wrong and weird ass times.
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Okay so, my friend does hooka. I know it's a drug, but it's legal if you are 19 or something...right? Well, she is 15 and her and some of her other friends went to the hooka bar. [never been there in my life cuz i'm not that kinda girl] She told me she wasn't gonna do it again, just a one time thing because she was curious...well, turns out she's doing it again next Saturday. And she was trying to entice me to do it, saying stuff like, "It was sooo relaxing, and it made you kinda dizzy. But then you went to the dancefloor and partied and everything, it was great!" and "you should try it, it would be cool of you." and I was just like..."nahh, I'm good." The I asked her if she was hooked on it, and she was like no...you can't get hooked on hooka. Is that true? [not that I am going to try it..ever.]
But now...you ahve to understand this, she has never been a druggie in her life! And she is now doing hooka, and she just told me that tomorrow she is trying weed. Like wtf, she is turning into a druggie, and I'm friends with some, so it's not like I'm against all of them, but why ruin your life? and why is she trying to get me to do all these drugs when I tell her NO?! I don't know why I'm mad at her, I feel betrayed, she said she wouldn't do that stuff, but next thing you know shes going to hooka bars and smoking weed. I need advice, I need SOMETHING, ANYTHING! comments or whatever would be great. thanks in super advance. (link)
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YOur mad and you feel betrayed because you didnt expect this to come from her.What i think you should do is advize her and tell her to stop and that if she dont your not gonna talk to her nomore and tell her to get over it cuz your not gonna take drugs or hooka.Jus do your job as a freind and advize her and if she dont listen then jus stop chillin with her and shell probably stop and apologize^_^
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14/m/9th grade There is this girl in my grade that always makes me look the other way, because I'm to shy to look at her. I like her and everything she is great but I'm afraid if i ask her out it won't go any where since were both shy. What should i do? (link)
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aww lol YOU gotta go ask her!she wont bite lol trust me when gurlz are shy its hard for them to overcome it but you can do it!Just go ask her before she gets taken by some other guy!Dont let this chance pass and go for it^_^
im sure shell say yes^_^
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ok
so im 14/f
and i have a mix p.e class like with 7th graders and 8th and im in 8th grade but i keep getting hit in the face lol but this guy hes a total cutie.. and i think hes trying to flirt with me(hes kinda bad at it!lol.) ok so in pe we talk when we have to run and hes like pushing me like a nudge and its kinda cute.and i hit him back and stuff but hes in 7th grade i have never gone out with a younger guy i mean i have dated a 11 grader but not a 7th grader or anything. i raelly like him but i dont know what my friends will say. about him they dont know him adn me and my friends are all goign to see the eye on friday and stuff i want to ask the 7th grader to come with me but im not sure what he will say.
ok if you need more info then tell me ok? (link)
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It dont matter what you friends think its your desicion and your life BUT....i really do not think you should get with a younger guy...especially a 12 year old man theyre all about pokemon and shit like that!I think its cool to get with a older guy cuz hell be experienced and know how to treat you but a younger one??i dont think its a good idea at all.
loool ok first of all its not like i made fun of you or him here you wana date a 12 year old go head ^_^
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hi, i am 14/f....
and one of my friend's is cutting herself badly, and idk what to do, cause i promise her that i wouldnt tell anyone
but i am really worried about her, cause she is doing it really bad, and me and my other friend really want to help like talk to her about it
cause i have done it before it doesnt help and i know that now, and when i was doing it my other friend help me though it so she knows how to help to. and if we tried to talk to her she changes the subject
what should i do?!?!?! (link)
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talk to her wether she likes it or not make her listen to you.If she changes the subject you stay on the toppic!!!Try convincing her to stop and tell her shes not only bruising her arms but bruising her life cuz when shes older and she sees them scarz shes gonna remember all the pain she been thru and get depressed...AGAIN!Try talkin her outta it and if that don work you have to tell her parents or a trusted adult you just got to man.If you dont one day she might be dead and youll end up regrettin it.An adult has much more knowledge and experience then we do so they might get her some therapy or help her out...shell hate you after it butll thank you when she realizes you saved her life!!!
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Ok well my mom is an immigrant but i'm not. and she's been telling me about this lady at her work who is constantly like..i can't explain it, mocking her? Rudely teasing her? About some things but the most one i'm having issues with is her voice. She says that she makes rude jeers like "i'm sorry, WHAT?!" like in a rude way.
My mom's been living in canada for about 25 years now. She knows perfect english but ti's just that her voice and thick accent doesn't make her appear so. I don't know if there's anything they can do. She isn't exactly smart because she didn't go to school, she was a refugee so she isn't very smart form the education and the work isn't that great. There was a vice-president or high worker that was similar to the girl but he was fired for unknown reasons. I want to come to her work and just slap the bitch out of there but I obviously can't do that.
What can i do? (link)
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Id say go kik the ladys ass but if you do you might cost your mom her job so you gotta act smart.I think you should go to the person in charge of your moms job and complain about this and say that your moms english is kinda bad so she dont no what to do.If you jus go make fun of the lady shell just annoy your mom more,trust me.If you cant get to the person in charge and complain then you can try telling your mom to try to do something about it.If she cant then go kik the ladyz ass lol
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i guess i kinda like this girl. im 13 in 7th grade shes 14 in 8th. were in catholic school. im very mature im just the kind of guy she would like but why doesnt she? same music same style. shes so hott she thinks shes ugly. she dresses all gothic and emo. shes the funnest girl youd ever meet but then she ends up so depressed and mad. ive been to great skate and kinda stayed with her once she thinks im hott but she dont like me she likes a dork. shes just soooo cute. she doesnt try and follow everyone like everyother girl at my school. she trys to stand out she tells the robots as she calls them to just fuck off. she does what she wants and it works. she says she only likes this one guy who at the moments i hate to much but i dont even know him they are always with eachother their like their best friends. she loves the same music i like and more. she plays electric guitar. loves photography and is so good as im told. she sings so good. her favorite bands are marilyn manson and evanescence. she loves partying. i doubt she even knows i know all this about her. i doubt she knows my name. she says im a player tho. i have a girlfriend but i still like her and she said she never wasted her time. shes just the girl of my dreams but this years almost over and she might move shes goin to highschool maybe down to mexico. i just dont know what to do!!! just please help me!
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omg you better tell her before she leaves lol
What i think you should to first is try to chill with her ask if she wants to go out and when you guyz start goin out and its all good you can tell her.But beware,she might think your a player cuz you already got a gurl so i suggest that if you really like this gurl make sure she likes you bak so you can get with her so you dont end up loosing both your girlfreind and her!
Thats for you to decide man,who do YOU feel for more?But like i said if your gonna ditch out your girlfreind be sure that the gurl you like is willin to get wit u
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my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there in a couple months or w/e but i dont know if that would make it go away. that was his first kiss, first gf, and first time going to 2nd! it makes me so angry. he has dated other girls i totally dont care about but she was the one he went to 2nd with and it bothers me sooo much!!!
can anyone please help me? i want to know why i feel this way before i try to get over it. i dont feel inferior and my bf tells me he loves me and what he has done with me means way more than what he did with her. but he liked it-he has that memory with her and always will. i can just picture them making out and him going to 2nd with her and it upsets me so much!!! i am the first one he said i love you to and i know he cares but even when he tells me she didnt mean anything it doesnt matter to me because i am still upset.
he thinks its because i feel like she has something on me and when he and i get there i wont care anymore but i dont know if that will make me feel better or not. for some reason this means a lot to me with our relationship yet he doesnt understand why. he knows im jealous and he knows it was a mistake but i still am upset.
can anyone please help me? just tell me what you think could be it because i am trying to find out myself and i cant figure out why i am so upset and dont want to let go and feel like i cant get past this. thanks soo much!!! :]
oh and he doesnt like her and doesnt talk to her-hes seen her a couple times and told her he just doesnt want to talk to her or anything and hes the one who dumped her (link)
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You feel like this cuz hes your boyfreind and you love him!duh!Its inevitable that you get angry at something like this and you should NOT let it go!You need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to have some repsect for you cuz your his girlfreind not that other gurl,he wouldnt like it if YOU did that with some other guy!I don blame you for being angry its his fault.Even if theyre no longer together and she means nothing to him does NOT mean he can go around doin shit with other gurlz.You tell him!lol good luck
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where do they sell apple bottom jeans? and are they expensive? thanks :) (link)
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DR jays
go chek it out on www.drjays.com
theyre mad cool but yeah kinda expensive for like 50 dollarz and higher
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I met this girl named Martha a few months ago, and we instantly got along and became fast friends. Now she considers me to be her best friend. However, the more that I get to know her, the more I begin to not like her personality. At first she was very nice to me, but now she constantly gets an attitude with me. I don't want to be friends with such a mean person because I'm not used to that. Is there a way for us to grow apart, or do I have to stay friends with her and just put up with it? (link)
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you definetly do not have to put up with it,but im not saying you should let it go either.I think you should confront her about her attitude but in a nice way so it don lead to a fight.If she changes her attitude with you then mabey itll be cool.If not then you can jus stop bein her freind..shes not your type like you say.To do that stop talking to her bit by bit..dont stop all of a sudden or itll be really mean and obvious.Just start by not goin out as much as you used to,stop calling,chill wit other people and shell jus move on to another freind
GoOoOd LuccK^_^
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OK...I will try to make this as short as I can. Basically, for reasons we don't understand, I have fallen out of love with my husband. We have been married for almost 9 years now & have 2 kids together. He doesn't beat me or anything like that. He's a pretty good guy, but, for some reason I always like someone else better. No, I am not acting on anything or going after anyone. I just end up falling for other people. I really want to fall back in love with him! I miss that feeling & I honestly couldn't imagine finding anyone like him. What can we do? Thanks. (link)
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You need to ask yourself WHY youve fallen outta love with him...did he treat you better before?Or did you just get bored of him?If its boredom then you better find some ways to bring your relationship bak to life for your good and your kidz.Try to think of new things to do with him and new places to go and new hobbies to share,all of that makes it a lil more interesting
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for almost 16 years i pushed down my emotions because i just didnt learn how to deel with em like everyone else cuz while everyone else was away at skool dealin with all the drama and other stuff that you have to deal with at skool i was at home in my room 24/7 away from all human contact besides seein my parents for a few minutes when i went to eat. then they finally agreed to let me go away to skool at the age of 14 i was totally unprepared there was just too much drama goin on at one time that i just flooded with emotions about things that happened years ago and that were happenin there. i tried to learn to control my emeotions but it didnt work i was just not able to cope with em so i went back to the only way i knew how to deal with em and that was to push them deep down to were i was emotionally numb. ive been doin this for a year now and i just broke down again today i was crying and i was shakin and i was pissed and there was just so much emeotions going on threw my head i thought i was goin to die. i pushed them back down again but i know thers something wrong with me and i dont want to have to go through this anymore, is there any way i cna learn to cope with these emotions? (link)
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What happens when you fill a bottle with too much water...it overflows and the water spills out outta control!Thats whats happening to you,you kept it in for so long that you can no longer do that.What you did was very wrong you should never keep your feelings in that way its mad wrong,youll break down!Dont worry this is just a state youll go through...its happend to me before a long time ago and dont worry i got through it^_^You just need to get your good share of crying and have someone to talk to!GET closer to your parents cuz noone cares for you as much as they do you just didnt give them a chance cuz your always in your room.Try to let this all out to a freind too YOU HAVE TO im serious if you dont itll end up really bad.
Some people keep things in and get stuff like panic attacks,sleeping disorders and other stuff like that.I suggest you talk to someone cuz im sure theylll help you get thru it and you have everyone on advicenators u can ask whoever u want^_^
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