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heyy guys im jessica (jessie) and i love giving advice.♥ i may be younger than you but i will give you the best advice i can give =) .. ask me a question and if you want to keep it more personal or detailed you can IM me at unxreachhable , kisses♥

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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and i really care about him. i want to get him something amazing that he'll love for christmas. i know he's getting me something pretty expensive and really nice and he already has it all picked out and he's getting it today but i have NO CLUE what to get him.

17 f (link)
Get him an engraved braclet where on the front side it says his name, and on the back that's against his skin put a heart and your name! Or Love, and your name. And the day you guys started going out! :) He'll wear your heart on his sleeeve


This guy told me he likes me, but he doesn't act like it. He flirts with this other girl ALL the damn time, so it seems like he likes her a lot. I don't know if he's trying to make me jealous or they're just best friends or something. What do you think? (link)
Ask him about her!! Be like "So do you have a thing with ***** (whatever her name is) He'll take it in either two ways. He'll be jealous or happy!


I have a lot of friends that are girls, but none of them like me more than that. is there a way that i can get them to treat me more like a dating option then just a friend (link)
Be sweet to them! But, only have one in mind; remember you don't want to be going around to everyone. Pick one girl, and layer her with love. Maybe you should tell one of them that you think you like them. I'm sure she'd be suprised, but if you've played a role as a good friend hopefully she'll trust you enough and like you enought to date you!

:)


ok so my girlfriend im pretty sure she wants to kiss me....but she kissed other guys before and ive never kissed a girl before....and idk i need sum advice on a first kiss...i wanna seem like ive kissed a girl before (link)
Go with the flow when you two kiss! If you go 90 percent of the way then maybe she'll get the hint that you want to kiss her! :) Just open your mouth a little not like eating her face, and she'll probably take control from there so just go with her flow!

Good luckkkk :)


14/f Ok so there is this guy that i really like, and we are pretty close friends. The winter snowball dance is coming up, and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to ask him to go to it with me, even if we just went as friends. Or should i wait for him to ask me? (link)
I think you should ask him! Don't wait too long though (: Write him a cute little note and have it ask the question there! Hopefully he says yes!



i REALLY like this guy. he knows i like him but he likes one of my good friends (who has a bf and doesnt like him (the guy i like) back) what should i do?

13/f (link)
Tell him that you like him! Let him know your other friend has a girlfriend by stating "OMG, (Your friends name) and (Her boyfriends name) are so cute!" Maybe he'll realize that she has a boyfriend and wouldn't want to be with him. Try to hangout with him as much as possible!

(: Good luck!


i have really chapped lips. anyone know of any good home remidies that i could try or inexpensive chap sticks that work? thanks! (link)
Blistex is REALLY good, and isn't too expensive.
If not, try using lotion or vasaline :)


My school is have a dance soon and its when you have to dress up nicely in a dress and guys in nice button down shirts and stuff. What kind of dresses de-emphasize the hips and emphasize your waist area? thanks a bunch! (link)
The type of dress I suggest is the type below
The bow is on the waist area and the hips are hidden.
It's the best dress I've ever worn.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/br0ken_x_smiLe/1-3.jpg

(:


13/f
I have used Secret, Dove, Suave, Mitchum, and some men's deoderent but nothing works!! I sweat all over my clothes, but only on the underarm part, and it is embarrasing. I don't use deodarent at nite because I don't know what to use. Any advice would be SO greatly appreciated. (link)
My friend had that problem and she went to a doctor ( I don't know which type ) and they gave her a type of deorderant that's perscriptioned. If it's making you uncomfterable then you should really try this thing out! It really is amazing, and she never had any problems afterwords!

Let me know if you try it! (:


My friends(former friends) are writing notes to another one of my friends about me and i dont know if that one friend is writing bad stuff back! if i ask her if she is she'll say no because she's known to write bad things about people! so i dont know what to do! please help fast! i need it!Thanks! (link)
Tryyy to steal the note from her if you can. If you go to her house look in her bag or something! But don't try to be a stalkerr typee. If she can't show you them than maybe she is writing back bad about you.

Findd friends that won't leavee you out like they sound like they'ree doing, you deserveee betterr peopleee :)


I don't really know how...and kinda feel embarassed asking. I asked before but really people just sent me links to sites that kinda but didnt really help. Can anyone tell me how to actually make out. (link)
It's kind of a go with the flow thing, for my first time i was so nervous! But it's basically the tounges move inside eachothers mouths. Once you start, you'll understand it; and it depends how the other person kisses! Just go with the flow.

:)


my cell phone wont let me download rongtones from the apps, so i was thinking getting one on the computer but what is a website you can buy single ringtones not like a 9.99 subscription (link)
Try using bluetooth if you haveee it, but since I'm guessing you don't, somewhere under applications it should say ringtones and it should let you try to buy ringtones there!

:)


15/F
I don't have really bad acne or anything but its at the point wear my normal cleaser isn't doing anything and my acne is just getting worse. I use right now the neutrogena Clear pore cleanser/mask and then the on-the-spot acne stuff but it hasn't been helping at all i have been using for a long time too. I want to try pro-active, do u think it will help? Is there something else thats better?? o and i also have this really anyoing problem, like i will wash my face in the moring and by lunch time its all oily and gross and help with that? thanks a bunch!!

(link)
Use neutrogena oil free acne wash. It's the best, :D best results everrrrr w/ it.


hey i had this bf that was doing drugs and i found out after dateing him for 2 weeks cuz i tasted it when i kissed him! i told my best friend and she told me i should dump him. i thought bout what she said and i gave him another chance he promise to stop but in the hallways at school i kissed him unexpectly and i tasted it again so later that day while we where alone i dumped him later that day i went to a school dance. just today i found out hes moved on and has a different gf now and i felt really sad. i have moved on too im with a really nice guy that doesnt do drugs but i was sad when i found out this. what do i do? is there something wrong with me? i know my ex really likes me still but i love my bf now. so confused.
my msn is mariedodds555@hotmail.com if it would be easier for you to IM or email me.
**sexy_gal_93** (link)
you definitley didn't do anything wrong. you did the rightttt thing :D stay away from the boys that do the drugss. and if you're happy with the boyfriend that you have now, stick with him.. the other guy sounds like a scumbag anyways and he doesn't sound too great if he can't stop doing that. he's probably addicted.

well, goodluck. ♥-jessie


hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachotehr? (link)
i think you should talk to her about it first and find out what she'd say if you ever did happen to ask her out& then talk to her brother after you two decide you'd like to go togehter; unless she thinks that it'd be weird.

if you need anything else my screen name is on my page, good luck. sorry it took so long to answer this;

-jessie ♥


last time i had sex with my girlfriend, i came really fast, how can i prevent from cumming so fast? (link)
well maybee you were really hornnyy! or maybee it was pre-cum. but it'sss not natural to cum in like 5 minutes.

and 1888men1111. i just heard it on the radio; call it and hear what it's about. sounds like the problem you're having.



I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do? (link)
well it depends if you were going to move down there shortly, but if not - && she doesn't like long distance relationships; you have to respect her opion and just stay really close with her! you neverrr know what the future will bring :]

♥- Jessie


Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why? (link)
it's normal to be scared about sex. that just means wait longer :] and make sure that you find the one you love!

♥♥♥♥♥♥


i am 13/f, and i think my boyfriend has a crush on my bestfriend. he is always hanging out with her. he actually spends more time with her than me. when i talk to her she says that she'll try to stop but she never does. the worst thing is that she has a boyfriend already. ive talked to him and he isnt comfortable with it either! what should i do? (link)
Hang out with her boyfriend and see how she feels having her bestfriend and boyfriend hang out. I'm sure she won't be too happy and will get jealous.

Try it, it might work. -Jessie.


hey girl. this is hco_babe. i added you as a favorite i hope thats alright. i love your site, and your so pretty! (link)
aw hehe thankssss. (: i'll add you back.





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