it was totally a common mistake. like once i was in art class, and there was this "guy" that was staring at me, and i was thinking, "ok strange, but he's not all that bad..".. then i found out he was a she and i didnt know if i was a lesbian or if she was...

being a lesbian means that you like girls that you KNOW are girls. you thought it was a guy, a good looking guy. it's not your fault some girls tend to look a lot like men, lol

yea, it's different for everyone. sooner or later your breasts will grow, i doubt you'll be flat chested for the rest of your life, lol. it's only been like 2 months, and sometimes it takes people like years to develope their chest. my breasts starting to develope like a year after i first got my period.

hope that helped :)

oo i think it's called Rapper's Delight from the Sugarhill Gang. there was this movie a few years back called, Kangaroo Jack, and the beginning of Rapper's Delight was in that movie, but they changed the words.. still funny though, lol

well..

-The Ring(not the second one because it sucked)
-The Exorcist
-Wrong Turn
-Cabin Fever
-The Blair Witch Project
-The Shining

there's also this like super scary chinese movie, it's called A Wicked Ghost. i've never really seen it, but some of my friends have, and it's been atleast 4 years since the last time they've seen it, and they're still not over it.. lol.

you cant, i wish it was possible because i wanna delete some of my ratings too. you just have to wait for like about 30 days, and when the 30 days are up, the rating will be too old and they wont count it in your average rating.

it stands for premenstrual syndrome

girls usually have it while they're on their period, and when someone says that a girl is PMSing, it just means that she's acting real bitchy and moody, lol. i dont kno why it's like that, but i guess girl just tend to be bitchyer during their period, i guess, lol

no, your brother's fine, and it sounds like he's got a pretty hot body too, lol.
the scale is not very accurate when it comes to muscles. muscles weigh more than fat, and when you check on the scale, it wont know what's muscles and what's fat, so they count everything as fat. so like even if you've got a buffed out body and ripped abs, the BMI calculator will show that you have the same percentage of fat as a fatass couch potato, and that's completely wrong.
so like yea.. your brother's not overweight, he's perfect the way he is

i dont think there's anything wrong with you. just because you've gotten your period, it doesnt mean you're supposed to start liking guys. it's different for everyone, and this just means that you're not like boy-crazy like me, lol. i have some friends that are 14 and they've never kissed anyone or dated before.
soo yea.. you're perfectly fine, and you're only 13, so you still have plenty of time to mature

:)

umm yeah, all questions on advicenators are anonymous. most people wont know who you are, only level 2 and 3 moderators will kno, but there are very, very few of these people, and it's not like they're going to tell everyone who you are anyway.

and umm.. no, i dont kno who you are, lol

if you mean the pubes "down there", yeah, it's totally normal to shave it. in fact, a lot of women prefer guys with shaved/trimmed balls. well, i dont think you should shave it now, because if you shave it, the hair will grow back longer and thicker. and you should shave it like when you have a good reason, like if you were going to have sex or something, lol. soo yea, it's fine

well, you can never totally be sure if a guy likes you unless he tells you, but there are a lot of things that a guy does that kind of hints that he likes you. like..
-if you catch him staring at you many times
-if he kind of looks nervous around you
-when he talks to you, he doesnt really look at you straight in the eye
-when he's with his friends, he wont be paying attention to them. instead he'll be looking your way and checkin you out most of the time.
-he'll try to impress you when you're around him, even if it does make him look like an idiot.
-if he gives you special treatment and sets you aside from all of your other friends

yeaa.. there's probably more.. but these are just the main things to look out for.. soo.. hoped i helped :)

hmm.. wow.. well it seems like she's a self-injurer. there are many people like her, meaning like people who hurt themselves to make themselves feel better. some people cut themselves, burn themselves, and pull out their hair..
you should probably talk to your friend about her situation. if no one tries to help her, then she'll probably continue to hurt herself.
self injury isnt the way to solve anyone's problems..even if it does make them feel good, and you should let her know that.

hope i helped :)

umm, i dont remember the code, but this site is much easier to use:

http://help.xanga.com/replacelinks.htm

just type in the words you want to replace it with, and they'll give you the whole code to put in the website stats box in the look and feel page.

hope that helped :)

umm try proactiv, it helps me. but if you dont want to buy something that expensive, you can try using oxy pads with maximum strength. they work REALLY well. there's this astringent from Biore, and i'm gonna buy it soon because a lot of people get great results from it. so you can buy that to treat your acne. there's also this spot treatment from Stridex, and it's called Fruit Therapy. I've never actually tried it, but i've heard that they're amazing, probably the best spot treatment out there. they're like VERY hard to find, i'm not even sure if they still sell it anymore..
oh yeah, and i know someone told you that you should stay away from chocolate.. but that's totally not true. dermatologists and doctors have proven that what you eat doesnt affect your acne. hell, i eat chocolate like everyday and i'm fine.

hope i helped :)

necking is like kissing/sucking/caressing a person's neck. and petting is kind of like a sexual activity, but you're only touching eachother

for more definitions to slang words, you can visit urbandictionary.com :)

i've gotten my belly button pierced, and trust me, it doesnt hurt that bad. even if it did hurt really badly, the pain would be all worth it. i dont know anything that would make the pain hurt less, but my advice is that you should calm down and stop freaking out about it so much. you'll think it will hurt a lot, but it's all in your head. just clear your mind during the piercing prodecure, and you'll be fine. oh, and another advice is to eat before you pierce your belly button. my piercer told me why, but i forgot, lol..

hope i helped :)

first, calm down, lol.. it's totally normal. just because you normally dont get a lot of blood during your period, it doesnt mean it's always going to be like that. sometimes my periods are VERY bloody, and sometimes they're not bloody at all. it's just like that

hope that helped :)

i dont really like my nose either, but i'm not planning on getting a nose job because i think people should just accept who they are. but if you really dislike it THAT much, i think you should wait maybe until you're 17 or 18. if you do plastic surgery on your nose while you're still in middle school or highschool, it might be pretty embarassing and annoying because everyone will be talking about your nose job. so just wait until you get out of school, and you can do whatever you want with your features.

hmm well, i dont know what you mean by supplements, are they like those pills? anyways..lol.. you could use like body lotion(i suggest from Aveeno because soy is proven to help give you healthy skin) to make your skin more healthy. and for your face, you could wash your face daily with an exfoliating cleanser. i use one from Dove, and i think it's great! other great sources are like fruits and veggies. i drink a couple of glasses of apple juice everyday, i'm probably one of those very few people that think apple juice tastes good.. lol. yaa.. i think that's all i know.. and if i suggested supplements, sorry.. but i hope my advice helped :)

well, i have a belly button piercing, and it didnt really hurt.. like maybe only for 2-5 seconds, and the pain wasn't even that painful. i think everyone that gets their piercing done professionally(like done by a piercer) gets their piercing done the same way. and i highly doubt that your piercing will be crooked because they use a clamp with holes to indicate where to pierce.
you shouldn't be freaking out about it so much. it's not as big a deal as you're making it seem. but i think it's really cool that you're getting your belly button pierced, and.. i should tell you that before you get it pierced, make sure you've eaten something. i forgot why, but the guy that pierced my belly button said that it would be better and stuff.. lol

hope that helped :)

hii, I'm Christina, 14, and I'm from Queens, NYC. I live near a huge mall, which is great becuz i lovee shopping. If anyone ever decides to visit nyc, let me know cuz i can tell you where the hottest places to go shopping are.
Music is a HUGE part in my life, I especially like rap and r&b. and TI's pretty hot too..
I lovee this site, and i go on it whenever i can. i cant say that i always give great advice, but atleast i try :)

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