hey yall if anyone has any questions i would love for you to ask me them! i know i just started my site but i was the advice columnist for my school paper so having it on the internet shouldn't be much different..... please do ask questions, i would really appreciate it! also, feel free to visit my quote site- www.xanga.com/xo_from_the_heart_ox thanks loves
lovelove, anne givings
Website: love from anne givings
E-mail: givings@earthlink.net
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Age: 14
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How much should a 13 year old who is 5 foot 8 inches weigh? (link)
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it has nothing to do with your age. im fourteen and im only 5'2" so i will weigh less than you.
you should weigh between 128 and 150 lbs
still unsure? go to http://www.am-i-fat.com/
hope i helped!
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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omg wow thats not good
1. give him an exact copy of what you just asked me so he knows that when this girl or her friends start talking about you to him he will know not to believe anything
2. if she is still at your house, tell your mother or father so they can talk to her. if she goes to your school tell a counselor- it sounds like she needs help
3. i know it might be hard, but try to ignore it when she talks bad about him. if she says "he is such a gross eater! he doesnt even use a napkin! who would want to kiss HIM?" or something just plain rude, laugh it off, be like "oh i KNOW its such a bad habit." or something. it will be hard but it seems like she wants to steal him or something so dont let her get to you, cause she will know it when she does. if you are worried she might tell him, just be like "ya- you wanna piece of cake?" or whatever- cheange the subject and halfway ignore whatever rude thing she says
4. if she starts yelling at you DO NOT yell back it just brings you as low (if not lower for yelling at someone so low) as her. just nod and let her temper wear off and try not to argue cause it doesnt seem like its getting anywhere
5. just an idea- let your boyfriend know that you are going to go back-talk him a little but you dont mean it so you can get this girl off your case. then talk to her about how he flirts so much with other girls or always ignores you and is such a tv hog when a game is on. she might go tattling to him but if he knows whats up ahead of time it shouldnt hurt
6. also, maybe ask him to get another email address and use it ONLY to talk to you so that he will know its you and not this girl. delete the messages AS SOON AS you are done so she wont read them
7. lastly- if you have any mean IMs or emails or things she wrote about you show them to a parent, a counselor, but most importantly your guy so he knows that you really mean what you say about her
if all else fails, make sure you NEVER see this girl again and cut off any contact you may have with her cause she sounds really immature
just dont sink to her level or try to get even- it never works
i hope i helped!!!
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a boy at my school likes me and i dont like him and hes like stooking me hes at my looker and in my class i keep telling him to leave me alone and he still calls and i dont even now where he got my number and my boyfriend thinks im cheeting on him with him i keep telling him im not but he doesnt belive me by a boy stocking me its ruining my reltionship and i love him what should i do (link)
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get your boyfriend to talk to him! otherwise just tell an adult you trust and maybe if its a teacher the teacher will talk to him and he will leave you alone
i hope i helped!
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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help! (link)
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just be honest. if you tell her whats up BEFORE she finds out herself, she will trust you more. dont center your life around him or your mother wont think you are responsible enough. if you have a B average dont bring it down to a C because you're too busy talking to him on the phone. if she still says you cant have a boyfriend, i hate to say it but you can still go out with him just make sure that if youre going to the mall with him you bring a friend and HER boyfriend too, so you can say "hey mom can i go to the mall with Cathy?" or something like that and shell be like "sure, hun, ill drive you" or whatever shell say. just dont let her know hell be there to. i have a friend who had six boyfriends in the eighth grade even though she wasnt allowed and her mother never found out cause she kept her grades up and didnt talk on the phone with him too much.
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ok usually my perios is about 4 or 5 days long .. but last week i got it on wednesday (the 20th) and its still here! heavy as it was when i first got it.. i just want to know.. is this normal? also last month wasnt heavy.. like at all.. i rate high
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it depends... if you have only had your period for two or less years,youre probably fine. my friend **** has hers for ten days minimum, heavy all ten days. if you are really worried, you should ask your mother or just go to a doctor.
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dear anne
i have a friend who is really wierd
she has really curly frizzy hair
what should i do?? (link)
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you should make your hair curly and frizzy like her cause shes so cool!
haha dont ask anymore questions but thanks cora
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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do? (link)
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smile and just plain old be friendly. if you walk around smiling for no reason people will be friendly towards you (including the guys) and if a hott guy is sitting alone go and talk to him! he'll enjoy the company and may even notice you! they may not notice you alone.... they may need your help!
hope i helped
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Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been into it last night and pretty much all of today. The thing is, I think I really get jealous too easy when he talks to other girls. Heres the thing. It may be long, but I need help. Alright he kinda cheated (what I consider cheating) on me with some girl at his church and I asked him last night if he had talked to her since we had gotten into it about that. He said that last SUnday she asked him a question in front of the sunday school class, and he didnt want to seem like an asshole to everyone, so he just answered her and carried on a conversation. The thing is, I just wanna know if I have a reason to be mad about that. Part of me just wants to think he was just being nice, but then again, why wouldnt he just ignore her or say "why do you care?" I really need help... and I rate 5s! Thanx (link)
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i dont think you should expect him to be rude to her. he is allowed to have friends who are girls, since you probably have friends that are guys, right? no that is NOT okay for him to say "why do you care" that makes him look like a jackass and you dont want people thinking youre going out with a jackass would you ? i wouldnt
hope i helped
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Does anyone know any good sites with love quotes? besides firehotquotes.com...
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lots of xanga sites have love quotes....
try www.xanga.com/lovin_the)quotez
you can get to other quote sites with love quotes from there
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Does anyone know any good icon sites for xanga and myspace? (link)
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go to any quote site (www.xanga.com/lovin_the_quotez) and you can get to icons through blogs (usually) one of my favorite icon sites is crazed banana icons
hope i helped
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i need help. how can i make my face look nicer, clearer by saturday ? ... its wednesday today. oh HOME REMEDIES ONLY PLEASE!!! i dont have time to go to the store (link)
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1. get lots of sun- but wear sunscreen- ya dont wanna burn- if you never burn sun can get rid of zits
2. dont use lotion
3. wash face at LEAST twice a day- three if you put on sunscreen in the morning before you do anything in the afternoon
4. DO NOT (i repeat) DO NOT use make up (especially base, CONCELER (however you spell- that is the WORST for acne) although wearing a little mascara or eye liner wont hurt
5. dont change your diet--- that can make your acne come up by the hundreds! (at least for me)
6. if you have any way of getting to a store-- really do try getting acne wash-- it might burn a little for a couple minutes after you use it, but it works like magic
7. try not to stress over this, stress just makes more zits and thats never good!
i hope i helped!!
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okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!! (link)
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i think thats awesome that you both like eachother, and if hes just waiting for the "right time" to ask you out, give him LOTS of chances.
do lots of things with him like invite him to swim or play fooseball or what ever (if ya have a pool or table) ask if he wants to go to the movies next time you and a bunch of friends are going, same for skating, shopping, bowling, anything. the more chances he has to ask you the more likely it is that he WILL. if you dont wanna keep asking him to come along get one of your friends who is also going along (and who knows him well--his friend too) to ask him to come along. the more he gets to be around you the more he may come to like you and feel more confident that this relationship will come to work better than the last!
hope i helped!!!
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i did somehting i regret so much its not something i can take back
what do i do to get on with my life and forget that i did such a thing
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if youre religous, go to a confessional and talk to a priest about it. you can always sit where he cant see you. even if you arent religous, its still someone to talk to that might not know you really well!
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I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?
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just walk over or call or email or something asking if he wants to swim (if ya have a pool) or play pingpong or fooseball or whatever you have that he could do with you. if ya have a basketball hoop and he loves basketball that would be great even if you sucked at it. he wont think you like him alot, hell just think "hey a game of basketball? sweet!" cause guys can be slow sometimes ;)
hope i helped!
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I have a mol on my face and its really ugly.. how do i get rid of it or cover it up or at least make it less noticable??!!! ahhhh (link)
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go to a dermatologist (sp?) and have it removed
i had a mole on my back that i had removed and after they put ice and numbing stuff on it i couldnt feel it, so it didnt hurt to have it taken off. afterwards, use that cream stuff to get rid of any scarring and use coverup.
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yeah im 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.. but i dont look it..i ook like i weigh about 110..but i still dont like the fact of weighing that much13 years old...how can i drop 10 pounds bby the time school starts...if it helps..i want to lose most weight in my upper legs!! i rate 5 on best answer!
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if you are over 5'5" then you DO NOT need to loose any weight! i have bigger thighs but thats because i have muscle. if you do soccer or track or any sport that requires a whole lot of leg muscle, you dont need to worry about it! if you are still worried, though, you should check seventeen, they usually have great excercizes for thighs, butt, tummy, everything.
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My friend, Holly. She use to be awesome. Were cousons. Now all she thinks about is being a hor. well at least she acts like one. Shes a bitch. What should I do to remind her shes my friend?
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ill rate high.
ill make fav columnist.
ill do anything but i need help!
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spend a day JUST with her. maybe shop or swim or play cards or whatever she likes to do that doesnt make her need to act like someone she isnt.
maybe make cookies for someone who moved in nearby (or just for yourselves!) remind her that she can have fun the way she used to and she doesnt need to be a slut to HAVE fun.
i hope i helped!
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I think my gf is gonna break up with me, but i dont know. i rewally like her. but i dont think she likes me that much, thanks in advance.
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well talk to her.... and if ya have any more questions, make it sound more like a question.
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my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
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you should definately help her if she needs a place to stay. if shes having family problems make sure her mother or somebody isnt gonna call up to your school or something looking for her, because that can just make her end up right back at home! trust me, she wont want to get pulled out of class to end up where she ran away from in the first place. but you should definately help her out. just do your best to keep outta trouble!
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hey i just wanted to kno do u HAVE to floss with braces? i never flossed before and my teeth r fine the dentist said im a good brusher and there's like no plaque in my teeth (lol) plz help! i rate high! (link)
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you dont NEED to floss with braces, although when you get them off you should. if you feel its really important, you oughtta get those braces flossers from target or walmart, they have little plastic-type needle things (not sharp- idont know what they are) to thread the floss-- the floss i have comes in seperate strands with a needle per strand already on so i can get it through my braces AND back out without hassle. i also use a water pick, although those are more expensive!
hope i helped, anne givings
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