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I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive) (link)
well i know a lot of guys who like the cucumber melon smell, and its cheap too, theres also tommy girl which you can find @ fashion bug


ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do?? (link)
well first of all, if hes acting like this, then do you really want to lose your virginity to an asshole?? i would wait and see if he comes around and if he does and you are guys are together for a while, then reconsider. but just be careful so you dont get hurt.


Hi, I'm 14 years old and 128 pounds. Everyday, I try to take a run for at least 15 minutes, or sometimes a mile and a half. It's been working really well so far -- it's only been a month and I've already lost around 10 pounds almost. This Thanksgiving weekend, I haven't found the time to run, and it's been probably 4 days since I last ran. Being always a little extra chubby, and having friends that are model gorgeous, I always have had a fear of being TOO fat or not looking great, etc. Now, since it's Thanksgiving weekend, I've eaten A LOT and haven't found the time to run. Will 4 days effect me that much? (Tomorrow I will most likely go run) (link)
Well, it most likely wont effect you that much. As long as you dont slack off too much, you should be just fine. Remember to go on your run tomorrow and you will get back in the habit and will lose all your weight, good luck.


i need to dress up like a celebrity (old or new) and i have really dark hair and eyes. who should i be? if you can help w/ what i should wear, etc. that'd be awesome! also if you can think of something for my friend to be also, maybe that would go together like paris hilton and nicole richie (but not b/c i cant look like either!) (link)
jessica and ashlee simpson? angelina jolie? 2 of the charmed sisters? 2 of the friends crew? demi moore? ashley judd? cameron diaz and lucy lu? catherine zeta-jones?



please dont judge me for this iam looking 4 help not to be yelled at. i am 15 and a smoke. i want to knoe how can i quit? (link)
well, i started when i was 13 so yelling wont be nessesary lol. since you havent been smoking for 10, 20 years, it will be very easy to quit. just cut back day by day or quit cold turkey. dont get the gum or patch cuz its a waste of money. those cigs with the less amount of nicotine )i forgot what they are called) quest i think, get those if you cant seem to cut back or quit. they are around the same price as any other cigarette and they should help you.


ok sorry if this gets long. ok so theres this boy(chris) and we went out awile ago but we continued to mess around. i love him. and i told him this and he said we are to young to know what love is im 15 and hes 17. i know i love him. we dont mess around to much aymore b/c its hard to see each other b/c he moved about a hour and a half away. but we talk online once in awhile. well he was drunk one night and i wasnt online but he was talkin to one of my friends and told her he loves me and wants to be with me bt its hard b/c of the distance. and he also told her not to tell me b/c he doesnt want to get my hopes up b/c we cant be together b/c of the distance. but my friend ofcourse told me this. i want to talk to him about this but i dont know how to do it. if he wanted me to know he would tell me wouldnt he?and how do i talk to him about it b/c im not supposed to know?
ill rate 5's please help (link)
just being it up on your own, ask him "do you love me and do you want to be with me" obvioiusly not that blunt btu something along those lines. you know him better than i do so you'll know how to word it better. and i know you think you love him but there will so many loves in your life. so dont base your entire life on just this one guy. good luck!


Ok, this may should a little confusing and such, but please bear with me. I have a little birthday dilemma.

My sweet sixteen birthday is in about... two weeks and since most of my friends are seniors, i want to do something special... since technically this is the last party of the year i can have with them. I wanted to do something on Saturday [my birthday], but it ended up that my parents decided to go to one of their business partner's dinner instead... so I was planning to play laser tag then have everyone go to my house... but now that my parents won't be home... that won't be possible. I can't have my birthday on friday or sunday because everyone, including me has classes those days. And i cant do it the week after because of christmas break, plus i was hoping to do it the week of my birthday.

That's the first question. What should i do for my birthday?

Second issue. I'm new to my school by a year [this is my second year here] and i have two groups of friends. One i hang out occasionally and one i hang out every lunch, break, after school, etc. People in both groups are my friends and I'm still best friends with my friends from my old school. One group is my senior friends while the other one is my junior friends, then there are my old school friends. I wanted to have a huge party with all three groups, but now that i think about it.. 29 people is A LOT. So i decided to divide it into 1) senior friends and 2) junior friends [old school and new]. So basically two different parties [dunno how my parents would think about that... oh well] I want to take one group laser tag-ing and another group to just hang out at my home or something. I dont think combining the junior group and senior would be a good idea since they dont know each other that well...[some of my junior friends met my old friends]. I want to take both groups out laser tag-ing... but that seems impossible, it would be a bit complicated. I'm at my wits end of what to do for my birthday. ANy suggestions of what i should do?

Please dont tell me 'just invite one group' because i cant do that, they're all really close to me. (link)
Well, try to convince your parents to let you have it when they arnt home or do it this week.................................and i think that you should just risk it and invite them all together because there will be a lot of peoplel either way and they might just all get along. plus if theres that many peoplel it will be difficult for them not to get along. or you could just have half a group for you bday and then have the second group for kinda a new years/bday party. or just have one big new years party with about 100 people since you seem to be popular lol. but i know how you feel with having different groups of friends. i had that problem 2 year of high school. whatever way you decide to do it, just remember, its your birthday and you shouldnt be stressing on your bday. its YOUR day.


I'm male, 17, and in high school.

Two of my friends, let's call them Enrique and Polly, went out for about nine months. Enrique is probably my best friend, and during this time, I became good friends with Polly as well. Recently (a few months ago or so), they broke up, and they've both gone through ups and downs, getting back together, breaking up again, dating other people, etc. Finally, it seems that they've really broken it off. I hang out with both of them a lot, but separately, because they feel awkward together. And I'm starting to get the impression that Polly likes me.

Now, the complicated part. I've had a purely physical (f-buddy) relationship with a girl I know, let's call her Edna, for the past month or so. We've made out many times and had sex once, and the tricky part is that we're both emotionally shy, and I'm not sure how she feels about me. She may want something more out of the relationship, and I'm confused as to whether she just wants an open thing going like we already have or if she would care if I dated someone else.

Unfortunately, long story short, Polly and I ended up making out. We got caught up in the moment and a lot of feelings came out, but now I'm in an unusual place. Polly feels that we need to tell Enrique. Enrique is going to be very upset when he hears this. As an added element, I'm worried about what Edna will think, since I'm not sure what she wants out of our relationship. I'm really confused as to what I should do here. (link)
hmmm well this could get tricky, trying to be friends with everyone and not hurt anybody is difficult, i've been there. i think first of all, deal with edna, tell her the truth, be like i kinda did some stuff with another girl and i want to know what you want from me andhow you feel about me and blah blah blah. after that if polly really really has the need to tell enrique then tell him. honesty is the best policy and if he really is your best friend he will understand.


I have alot of graphics and other documents saved on the hard drive on my computer. How do I back all the documents up onto a CD?
~BTW: I have Windows XP if that matters
I rate. (link)
well i have a mac but what i do is duplicate all my files by right clicking or going to file and then insert a dics and just drag them on the disc.


When ever I'm on MSN messenger, and try to send an instant message, my "enter" key won't send the message. I've never had a problem with this before. Can someone please help me out? Thanks. (link)
press the retun key and then check your preferences and change the "send IM" preference to send when you press enter and not return


I want to cut my hair but my dad won't let me. It's all the way down to my elbows and I really want it down to 2 inches below my shoulders but my dad won't let me. My mom says it's ok. Is there any way I can reason with him? (link)
tell him its your hair and mom says its ok and ask why he doesnt think its a good idea. or comprimise and ask him if you could just get a few inches off. then eventually he will come around and you'll be able to get the hair cut you want.


I've always loved dance and my world basically revolves around it. I dance at my studio that I've been at for about 7 years and I'm on my high school drill team. I'm now a senior in high school and my drill coach has made my love of dance a pain in the ass. She is constantly ridiculing us and telling us how bad we are! And, because of her I've not only dread going to drill practice but dancing at my studio as well. :/


My mom thinks that I'm using my coach being a bitch for an excuse on why I want to quit. Do you think that one person can ruin the thing you love for you? Or is it just me not wanting to dance anymore?
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well i dont know the entire situation but i think that maybe you just loved to dance for a past time or a hobby and your drill coach is teaching you this and being this hard on you because she thinks you want this for a profession, and maybe you do. but i think you need to decide if you want to dance for the rest of your life and if you do then stick through it and work your ass off. but if you just want it as a hooby, then explain your mom this. tell her "mom, i do love to dance but i dont want all this pressure that the coach is giving us becuase its not what i want to do for the rest of my life. hopefully she will see that you are not just saying your coach is being a bitch for an excuse to quit. parents can be difficult sometimes. i hope my long answer helped lol. good luck.


ok i always feel like i'm comparing myself to this girl at my school, shes soo pretty and she has an amazing bf. She has the cutest clothes and she is just really really pretty and i always try to be as skinny as her or as athletic and i always compare myself to her and i don't know what to do to stop myself b/c this is not me at all and i need helpp quick i'll rate 5s for any thoughts! (link)
well there is ALWAYS the one girl at school that everyone wants to become. you will get over it sooner or later. and i know it sounds stupid but just try to be happy with yourself. because she prolly feels presure to always be that pretty and make sure she looks good. but you dont have to be presured. you can just be yourself. i hoped i helped.


hey ok well i have a sort of huge friendship problem. see i have these two most awesome friends in the world (well more than two but these two are part of the problem here) we will call them x(guy) and z(girl). well x and z and me were really good friends before and me and z have been friends since like we were 5. we met x this summer and he's really great, like i can tell him anything. he doesnt live here, so we don't get to see him all the time but he lives close. well then z and x went out for like a month. i was happy for them but z kept thinking i liked x. and i don't. and i told her that so now its ok. but then they broke up. so now i have to see him w/o her there, cuz it would be weird for them. well to make a long story short i wanna get together with x to like see a movie or something just to see him again. but 1. i dont want z to think of it as a date or to be mad at me 2. i dont want x for some reason to think of it as something different. see we used to get together but there was more of us then, but this time it would just be 2 of us. what should i do to not make it look like a date or crush or anything to anyone???
thanx for reading this it was long! i'll rate for anything that helps! (link)
well i think that you should explain to z that me and x are gonna go hang out just as friends as i really dont want you to think its anything more. just explain it and if she gets upset, she'll get over it soon. because you cant just forget about your friendship with z. i know its hard to be stuck in the middle, its happen to me a lot. so i hoped i helped some. good luck!!


ok. theres this guy that i like. his names ricky. and hes a major hottie. and i think he likes me but im not sure. ok. and he wants to hang this weekend. i dont know what were gonna do yet. but he was saying he wants to hook up with me. and i dont know if thats kissing or sex. but im not worried about that right now. ok. and like he seems like he likes me. but then sometimes he doesnt. like.....i dont know how to explain it. but anyways...like hes nice to me. and seems fun to hang with. and i like him alot!! and i really wanna hang out with him. and do a lil more. =] ha. but anyways....do u think he likes me or just wants to get some....? cause im a virgin. and he aint gonna get that. he might get kissing and maybe a lil more. but not that.

i'll rate high!!
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i think you are absolutly right by saying "he aint gonna get that" because if hes telling you he wants to hook up with you then that means he doesnt look at you like a girlfriend or someone he has respect for ya know? so i say have fun with him while you can, but dont like him so much that you get hurt at the end. because most guys only have one thing on their mind and they dont care who they hurt, i've had plenty of those in my life so far. good luck hun.


ok so later when i go out should i were my hair straight or curly i have a pic on my column if ya need ta see it please help I CANT DECIDE luv ya , pa O la (link)
straight


i just got braces about a month ago and i keep breaking them! does anyone know how much it costs to get braces repaired? i have regular metal ones and he glue came off. i rate high (link)
well, i've never had braces but some of my friends have and all i have to say is get dental insurance!!


I'll rate 5's... Alright well Monday i was sick with a stuffy nose and a sore throat. I was still sick Tuesday but I went to school. I felt fine Wednesday and Thursday. But Friday night my throat hurt everytime I swallowed. I woke up Saturday morning at 5AM and I felt so sick; I still do ; I have a wicked headache, My throat hurts, my nose is stuffy, and my stomach hurts. Do you know what this is ?? How can I get better ?? (link)
Well its that time of year for flu seasons. i think you didnt give yourself enough time to get better, so either sleep for the next 4 or 5 days, or just go to the doctor and get some serious medicine. but you cant go to school and do good when you feel that bad.


i need some cute christmas quotes for my aim profiler. any ideas or sites that have them?!

thanks a lot (link)
http://www.awaymessages.com/cat/more.htm


ok, i have a boyfriend and im head over heels in love with him but i have a problem...he is using me...i know he is, he knows he is, everyone knows he is. im not sure what to do...i cant let go of him, ive tried...but i just run right back to him. we are on a break right now and there is this really great guy that likes me and i tried "talking" to him but i cant...i just cant seem to let go of my boyfriend. i know this sounds mushy and gushy but i love him so much i just cant let him go...ok the guy that likes me we will just give him a name "josh" well i went over to josh's house sat. night and watched a movie but anything i did just made me want my boyfriend even more...i know its crazy right...my boyfriend has cheated on me the whole 9 yards, but i still cant let go...what should i do? (link)
ok hun, YOU HAVE TO LET HIM GO, this "josh" guy seems like a great guy and trust me, i know exactly how hard it is to let go, but you have to. do you really want him to be using you for the rest of your life??? do you know how many other loves you will find?? a ton!! i think the best thing to do is cut yourself off from contact with your "boyfriend" and give this josh guy a chance but make it clear that you just got out of a very serious relationship and take it slow. i hope i helped and good luck. just remember to be strong.




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