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I've always been super shy. I don't really talk to anyone ever. Usually when I'm around my boyfriend I really open up and talk to him. But lately I guess I've started getting kinda shy around him and I really don't know why. Is there anything I can do to help me get over this stupid shyness?
The best way to get over your shyness is to get to know people, starting with your boyfriend. Although its pretty obvious that you know him already, try just spending time with him - chatting, 'hanging out'...you know just being yourselves with each other. Once you get the practice with him, then start learning to open up with other people as well. Don't be afraid of who you are. Hope I helped!
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im still pondering about what to get my boyfriend for valentines day before I put it off until the last minute...any cute suggestions?
for less expensive go for:
a teddy bear with cards and candy
or if you're looking for something a little more expensive:
get him a watch with a shirt in a bag with a card =)
OK i had a boyfriend but he was a geek and i think i am pritty good looking but none of the guys i know think that i am . and i never get anything from the guys from school and i have blond hiar (long dirty blond) i have blie eyes and i am athletic and i love animals i have some and i just need some advise. how can i get guys to like me?
Be yourself (most important)
Strike up conversations
Don't be shy
Make eye contact when talking
Be confident
Flirting doesn't hurt... =)
Chat with some guys from your school online
if they have usernames
Ask a guy out! (Seriously guys aren't the
only ones to ask people out)
Go on a double date (that is when
you go on a date with a guy, taking a friend with her date)
Good luck!! xox
do u know any kind of site that i can use to post my poetry besides poetry.com?? -thx for all who help
yeah go to http://poeticpower.com
ok there's this guy that my best friend is hooking me up with...his 18 and i'm 15...his really nice and really sweet but sometimes i feel like his no going to want to be with me because my paretns hardly let me do anything...well it's kind of a confusing situation! but one min i think he likes me and the next his putting me down ((but he doesn't know he puts me down)) my best friend tells me that he doesn't mean to and blah blah! i just wan't to know if i should just stop talking to him or what?!
please help...ill rate!
Okay well if he truly loves you then he should respect your decisions if you don't want to 'do anything' with him. If he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you and he is probably just using you for ...u know what...So what I suggest is to just continute with this guy but it comes to that point in your relationship where he gets mad at you for not being able to do stuff with him than let go of him and move on because he was obviously using you. Good luck hunnie and if you need anything you know where my inbox is. xoxo
There are 16 people (all girls) who I'm getting valentines day gifts. What should I get them? Don't make it too expensive.
You could try little bags of candy. Thats what I did for my friends last year and they loved them!
Hey, my average rating was a 4.78. I was just rated a 5 and my rating went down to a 4.5! What happend??
Advicenators can sometimes make mistakes. Just relax and be patient and your rating will even out to its normal rating.
My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks!
You should probably just tell the teacher that, but before that you should try settling things out by yourself. This could be a chance to make friends with them, its better to make enemies friends rather than keeping them enemies forever. Who knows? You may find a friend within someone you thought was an enemy? This could be the chance. Try that first, and if all else fails, tell the teacher to change you to a different group. If you don't want to tell it to his/her face, leave a note on their desk or e-mail him/her if your school has an e-mail system (mine does).
ok well theres this boy at school that I like and some other people say that he likes me but I dropped a note in his locker and asked him if he liked me and he checked no helppppppppp me plez
okay just talk to him face to face, just be like i heard my friends saying you were interested in me...but if not I guess they were wrong, and you dropped a note saying you didn't like me soo...what the deal? Just be confident.
I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
Wow you are in a VERY tough situation. Its great of you to be sticking by this woman in her time of need, and shows how much you love her. If she truly never recovers, you may want to find another partner. Don't consider yourself having an affair, just think that you have lost your partner and you are going for a new one. With all respect to your wife, its your life too - and you should be happy. Try to find someone to take care of you wife. BUT, if you love your wife too much, find joy in raising your kids and being there for you wife. The choice is all up to you but either way it will turn out fine its all in the way you think it through. Good luck, and if you need any more help you know where my inbox is. =)
ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?
Wow it seems like you are in a pretty rough situation. You have to decide which side to go on, if you pick one and the other side hates you for it you have to deal with it. The choice of which side is up to you. *OR* you can try and talk it out with your friends telling them how you wish it were back to the way it used to be between you guys, but if that doesn't work, try making friends that don't exclude people from their group. I would personally do that but its up to you. I'd be like go to hell I'll find friends who won't ditch me just cuz I hang out with certain type of people...bye. Well so do what you feel is right and good luck, need anymore help you know where my inbox is. =)
i have an mp3 player and i know how to copy songs from a CD on there..but i dont know how to download them on there...is there any sites that i can use that will work?...i cant download from kazaa or nothing my parents wont let me..but any other places?? k thx
yeah there are some awesome places to download ones like kazaa
try http://winmx.com i think its the best,
but you could also try ones called bearshare, and limewire (look them up on google)
ok, i have a cold sore on the outside of my mouth, like right in the corner, and it seems to be getting bigger and it hurts even if i laugh and it bleeds, if you can help me i would greatly appreciate that, and i have already tried this abreva stuff and it doesent work for me.
try the doctor or look up for some help online =)
I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/.
try the mall
When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?
thanks aton!
I definitely prefer pencil! You can use many types of brands (you can get them cheap at wal mart, target, or get expensive ones at the mall in christian dior, chanel etc)
I put them above AND below my eye, it gives a good look, but remember not to put too much or it'll seem like you got a black eye. =)
I have a midterm tomarrow and i cant seem to concentrate...or understand it and i never seem to remember anything and all i want to do is play on the computer or go outside...can anyone give me advice on how to concentrate more and remember more things? i need help really fast!...ill rate high..please help
~Midterm problems~
I have this problem too lol so don't worry. I've tried asking people for advice before on how to concentrate more instead of getting distracted and wanting to have fun. Well you have to MAKE studying fun - like as fun as playing on the computer or going outside. There is a stereotype about studying which is that it is boring, but that is not true!!! No matter how many peoples advice you read about this, in the end, YOU have to do whats right. So it just comes from inner strength you have to push yourself to do your priorities and do them at the appropriate time. Remember, work first, then play - and you will always be happy. Don't procrastinate or you will regret it and be stressed out when you have to time left to study. Also, I suggest for you to study on a sofa or a desk (I prefer sofa because its more comfortable). Next time, try studying a few days before because it helps you retain information better, but since THIS test is tommorow just relax and try to remember as much as you can. Make flash cards, ask someone to test you on it, review it, take breaks...and good luck!!! If you have slope and y intercept on your test you can review your textbook or look up for some help online. You can send anything to my inbox if you need ANY more help WHATSOEVER again, good luck hunnie xoxox
I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!?
I guess some people take advantage of their "anonymity" on advicenators which is completely out of hand and they definitely should not be doing that. They are simply not mature enough and there will always be people like that no matter what you do or where you go, which is very sad, but you CAN prove them how stupid they are acting by acting mature yourself. Glad to know you're not another one of them =)
It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do?
Don't let anyone ever pressure you into doing what you don't want to do - which includes that! If you truly don't want to - then don't. Also, you don't need a guy who would break up with you if you didn't do that for him. Also if you want to actually *talk* in school - talk to him less online. Have at least a 5 minute conversation with him or go on a date, because, you know that's what couples do! So good luck, and remember don't let him pressure you into anything because it's not worth it - even if he breaks up with you over that.
What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!
You can do lots of things! Play games (monopoly, life), cards, or if there's a computer and you're allowed to use it - play online games with him! http://orisinal.com and http://addictinggames.com have good games that you can play on their site and you don't have to download them. Also be sure to specify a bedtime for them! Make some snacks also...be creative! Use this site to help for more tips: http://www.freewebs.com/lisssmisc/ Good luck! Have fun and keep safe!
Does piercing your belly button hurt?! and on a scale 1 to 10 ..10 being the most painful and 1 being the least please hurry!!!!
I personally have not gotten my belly button pierced, but I've heard it hurts about 7/10 and requires intense care, but the pain goes away after about a month and then most people say its worth it.