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shy
I've always been super shy. I don't really talk to anyone ever. Usually when I'm around my boyfriend I really open up and talk to him. But lately I guess I've started getting kinda shy around him and I really don't know why. Is there anything I can do to help me get over this stupid shyness?
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just think about it if your boyfriend was shy around you wouldn't you want him to open up and not be shy around you i hope i helped
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i would say just get comfortable with him. like maybe if you kiss him, it will be more comfortable. i get shy a lot too, but its only when im around people i dont like or know really well. just have long conversations with him so next time you see him you will be used to it
-kristin
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You should really have a one-to-one conversation with your boyfriend about it. I'm sure he'll be able to boost your confidance and make you feel much better. Alternatively, have you got Hotmail? If you don't, go to www.msn.co.uk and download it for free. By using instant-messaging, you can build up relationships with people where you are not face to face and have time to think about your answers before you reply. This should soon build up your confidence so that it will be easier for you to talk to them when you are actually face to face. Hope that helped.
Claire xx
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join a sports team like field hockey ...it will make u a more communicative and aggressive person
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it might be hard at first, but pretty much just stop caring what other people think of you. worrying about what other people think of you is a big reason as to why people get shy and don't say things that they want to. be more outgoing and say stuff when you usually wouldn't, and people will find you more outgoing so it'll be easier to open up more.
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Yes there is.Maybe it's time that you and your bofriend had a one on one convo cos it seems to me that your just thinking of him like evryone else. Then you will start opening up to him.
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The best way to get over your shyness is to get to know people, starting with your boyfriend. Although its pretty obvious that you know him already, try just spending time with him - chatting, 'hanging out'...you know just being yourselves with each other. Once you get the practice with him, then start learning to open up with other people as well. Don't be afraid of who you are. Hope I helped!
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