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okay, there's this guy i've gone out with 3 times before and i still like him a lot..okay i'd say he's my first "true" love..and well after 7 months i still like him a lot and the other day he asked me to go to a football game in his town. (we live about 15 minutes away) and i told him i wasn't sure if i was gonna go and he's like "what why?!" and i'm like "do you want me to go?" and he said "YES!" and i ended up going and i had blast..but i really like him and he knows i still do but i don't know how he feels. i'm thinking he may have some feelings for me since he really wanted me to go to the game..but other girls in his town like him and stuff..and idk what to do..i've messed up so much with him but i love him a lot. what do i do? how do i find out if he likes me without actually asking him? i can't ask his friends because he doesn't tell them that stuff..i just have no idea what to do. i want him back..i miss him so much. he know's that i was happier with him. i really love him..how can i get him back? please help me! i'll rate you high!♥

gurl i have the same problem all you should do is ask him to go out to eat or something elsse fun and then tell him everything.

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I like this boy ALOT! and we were going out but now his going out with this girl i REALLY hate!! i mean shes a total WHORE!(so to speak) I just dont understand. is he trying to make me mad? or is he over me?

it depends did you break up with him or did he break up with you? if you broke up with him then he's probably just trying to make you jealous. but if he broke up with you then maybe he's trying to show that he's over you.

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this may take a while but please help
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandad (my mums dad), the i got sexually abused by my brothers friend then i lad i used to no tryed it on with me and he frightened me and i said not but he forced me to do things with him it did not used to bother me but now i cant stop thinking about it and it up sets me and when i was about 7 my mum nearly died of cancer i lost my auntie and my grandad ( my dads dad) through cancer my mum and dad have split up and now my other grandad (mums step dad) is having strokes everyweek and i think he is going to dye i am getting my life on track just got a new job and every thing but my past is getting in my way i cant even go out and have fun any more and i think i wil lose my job if i let this stuff get in my way what can i do to try stop thinking about this please help me.

hey just try to go to therapy. Your probably scared because of what happened so just talk to smebody about it or go to therapy.

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ok i think im a horrible kisser i dont actually know i never asked anyone if i was so im just curious what is hmm how to explain this what is a good way to kiss someone like how would you do it that they would definetly like it and not be a bad kisser??

Here's a way: Lips Only Kisses: Softly kiss your honey's top lip, then bottom lip, then softly and slowly kiss fully on both lips. It's beautiful and sensual.

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hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off?

ya, it is true because when you're sleeping it cuts your circulation off.

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

my advice to you is go for it,but don't do it just because you think he wants to do it. Wha ti am saying is dont do it just because he wants to.

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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

Just say "sure I would love to go out with you".

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ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me?

hey all you should do is say "Hey, i was wondering if I could be more than a friend to you". Go for it don't wait for him follow your heart.

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I was due for my period about 10 days ago and it sitll hasnt come...is this bad??and when will it come again?
(i have had it for about 3 or 4 years now)

rate 5's for anything

ohh and im not pregnant

your period just might be running late. it happens too me all the time and im a virgin. although when you do get your period it might be a litter thicker than it usually is to make up for the days it missed, if you dont get your period in the next 5 days go to a ganatologist(a girl doctor for down there).

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Hey ummm does anyone have any cute hair styles because i'm runing out of ideas! I have dark brown hair and wear mostly pink( if it helps). It also usually frizzes!!! Well thanx. Will rate high for cute hairstyles!!!

go to www.beautifulhairstyles.com

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how do you make out?

kiss for a long time while touching each other.

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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him?

slowly move his hand 2 the spot while rubbing his hand.

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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?

2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!

1.hoe

2.just being a guy.

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks

just say its the time of the month and i shouldnt be doing it when im on it.

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hey everyone im a gurl and i was just wondering ummm... ok is it spose to hurt when you are getting fingered because it hurt but it felt good at the same time this is a really embarassing question but please help me if u can
~annonymous~

ya if its your 1st time.

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I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot

do it with with the opposite sex.

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i had two dreams of me getting raped. i it wat does it mean and wat should i do help me plez.

you need to be careful around people and always be sure about your surroundiings.

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

ya your pregnant

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year. . i found out he had been "talking" with a few other girls.. he says he hasnt done anything with them but come on, we all know some guys just cant admit things ? Him and i have been sexual but once i found out about the other girls i just didnt have the drive to want to do anything with him, but once i did. . well, now i have a huge buldge in the back of my throat and its inflamed. It hurts to swallow and seems kinda; pussy if that could be ? What do you think it could be? Maybe, and HOPEFULLY just bronchitis or something of that sort. Also, even if it could be something else; my mom doesn't know that him and i have been having sex. Even though i am 17.. she would absolutely freak. Advice.. please.

u might have ganoriea

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I'm Karlie, and im 13 in 7th grade. I liked this guy since umm what 4th yes 4th grade. He knows i like him but he says he likes me as a friend. It's weird cuz he shows signs that he likes me (stares and acts hopeless and shy). Like he slow danced with me at the dance and he gave me a hug and he asks for a high five like everyday like thats all he can think of doing cuz he's stuck. Do you think he likes me? Or better yet how do i work on getting him to hang out with me more.

*~* Karlie*~* P.S. HELP

what school do you go to? im just wondering i might know you.

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