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♥BASiCS
Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


♥MUSiC
+ : r&b
+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


♥CONTACT
msn&email :: myxboo@hotmail.com
aim :: siimply x emily
yahoo :: emilys0tempted


advice

how do i get those little hearts on my profile? is it something like &hearts?

it's & hearts ;
without the spaces.

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This morning, I woke up and I noticed there was a tiny white dot/ball on my upper eyelid. It kind of hurts when I move my eye. Does anyone know what it is and how it got there? How do I get rid of it?

It sounds like a sty.
Go to your doctor and he'll/she'll give you a cream for it. Stys are caused by bacteria getting in contact with your eye such as touching your eye with dirty hands alot or something along those lines.
Don't worry about it.

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okay so whenever i tell myself to not eat some kind of food i end up eating it and whenever i promise my self to go run i cant.. so how can i keep these promises to myself and go out for a run and not eat certain kinds of foods ?

Get a friend to go and run with you, you'll be having fun at the same time. If you still can't get your self to do running you could do other cardio excersizing. You could maybe swim, dance or rope jump.

As for the diet, give your self rewards everytime you keep up with the diet. Say, for every week you're on your diet without disturbing it give your self a bit of one of the foods that are not in your diet. There is no real way of keeping yourself away from eating the things you want to eat except for your own will power, everytime you wanna eat something you're not supposed to tell your self if you eat it you'll never get any results!
Good luck
♥Em

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Does anyone know of any artists or songs that sound a bit like Missy Elliott?
I can't find anyone that's famous at the minute.
I don't mind if they're new or old school :D

They don't all sound like Missy but if you like Missy, chances are you'll like these.

Salt 'n' Peppa
Eve
Foxy Brown
Khia
Trina
Lil' Kim
Shawna

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Ohkay, I have a very weird problem. I can't put on eye liner! I always mess up! Any tips?

Keep practicing, putting on eyeliner is not something that always comes naturally to everyone. It didn't with me, I kept poking my self in the eye or it really made my eyes itch and water so just keep trying over and over and eventually you'll get it.

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why is it that sometimes when i'm near the computer my ears start ringing? like.. theres this high pitched beep and it won't stop until i get away from the computer. i'm not asking how to prevent it but i mean, it would be nice. but all i'm really curious about is why my ears are ringing when i'm near a computer. well thanks in advance, bye

It could be a sound coming from your computer.
Put your ear near the tower and see if it gets any louder if not then it could just be that your ears are sensitive, if you're sure it's not coming from your computer you might wanna get it checked out by a doctor to be on the safe side.

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i'm auditioning for drill team officer, possibly head sergent and i need to choreograph to two songs. i need a song for a jazz routine and a prop routine (where u have a chair, ladder, cane, or some other prop incorperated into your dance) and i need help thinking of songs. i want the jazz routine to be very poppy and bouncy. kinda like cierra 1 2 step, but i don't want to use that song. but for the prop routine i still don't know what i want. suggestions for it are open. i rate high. i just want ideas and song titles, thanks for the oppinions.

You could try a few of these.

Usher - Caught Up
Usher - Yeah
Missy Elliott - Pass That Dutch
Missy Elliot ft. Ciara - Lose Control
Amerie - 1 Thing
Blaque - I'm Good
Outkast - Ghetto Musick
Nelly ft. P.Diddy & Murphy Lee - Shake Ya' Tail Feathers

those are some of the one's I use for my dancing. I dance hip-hop though but check them out, you never know
♥Em.

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what are the babysitting costs? what should i charge? thank you..

The usual rate would be between $3 and $5 an hour.

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well ok.. my crotch area has been really itchy during these past few days and i'm too embaressed to ask anybody why so please don't make fun of me. anyway, that area has been itchy for a while and now it stings. i wash down there so i don't know why this is happening. if anybody could please tell me why i'm going through this and if its normal and how i can cure it. thank you

It could be a yeast infection.
You should get some cream specificly for the genital area and if you still feel itchy go see a doctor.
Good luck!
♥Em

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When should girls start to wear tampons?

When she feels ready!
There's no perfect time to start using them because they are for all ages. So whenever they are ready they should start! =]
♥Em

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okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/

She sounds like she's being really two-faced you should ditch her. Just stop going around with her, I know it's hard to just ditch your bestfriend but if she's being two faced she obviously doesn't consider you much of a bestfriend.
Best'a luck =]
♥Em

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

Leave them to it, seriously, they probably are doing it because they think it's the cool thing to do when it's not. It's just making it blaintly obvious that they're doing it to look cool.
Don't get trapped up in all the peer pressure stuff, just keep beliving in what you belive in and stay well away from drugs and no, not all people do drugs but like I said some people think it's the cool thing to do. Well it's not.
♥Em

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My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that..

Try twisting the little thing around the lense if it's twistable.
If it isn't look at the software you installed for it and check the settings on it, there should be somewhere where you can change the fuzziness if there isn't look at the instructions if there was any or the help topics on the programme you installed for it (there should be one)if all else fails - take it back to the shop and ask them about it.
♥Em

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Ok, problem here dudes.

At my school, Im a freshie, 14/m. I have good looks, but I never thought I was something to die over. Every day I have these indirect confessions from people I do or do not know that they like me, but I can't say the feeling is mutual. I'd like to know how to break this to them in a nice way, because some of them are a little over the edge if you know what I mean....

You've just gotta break it to them gently.
Tell them they're not your type or let them know that you've got your eye on someone else (even if you haven't) and say ''I'm sorry but...'' then give your explanation =P
Good luck, lmao.
♥Em

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i've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've always been open about everything but lately she's been acting differently i'll reach out to touch her and she'll jump like she thinks i'm going to hit her and the other night i noticed that she had bruises on her stomach and i hugged her and she acted like i hurt her i think that someone has hitting her and she's afraid to tell me i just don't understand it because she has always told me everything how do i find out if she is being hit and how do i help her if she is being abused?

Sit her down and talk to her about it.
You can't force her to tell her so you have to sit down with her and let her know that she can trust you and that you really want to try and help her.
If something is going on at home like she's being abused at home or something you should tell someone about it. She could get hurt badly. She probably has been hit by someone because after being hit you're normally jumpy and scared someone is going to hurt you.
Like I said all you can do is sit her down and let her know that you're there for her and that she can trust you and that you really want to help her.
Good Luck
♥Em

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i have had the urge to write songs lately but all of them are about love and my lovelife and i seem to copy from alot of other songs? to help come up with my own ideas and NOT about my love life what could i do??? any advice is helpful here i dont care!

Okay well first of all you should always write about stuff you can relate to and know about or else it won't make sense.

Be nosy! See what people are talking about, what people are doing, look around you and then write about what you see and what you think of it.

Always cary a bit of paper and a pen with you, you never know when lyrics are going to pop in to your head and it's going to be a nightmare not to be able to remember them when you get home so write them down in the moment so you don't forget them. You'll probably end up having a load of different verses that don't match but when you get home you can finish them all or put them together!

Try to write about something more original than love. Everyone seems to be writing about love. Write about random stuff, like I said before - things you see in the streets. Your opinion on stuff, things that have happend to you in the past or things that are going on in your mind you could even write about how you can't come up with any good ideas for a song! I'm not saying you should never write about love but open up and write about other stuff!

If you do your own beats too then get the beat before you do the lyrics and just liste to the beat over and over again untill some stuff pops in your head. If you don't do your own beats - forget I said that.

Good luck =]
♥Em

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ok my friend is in the hospital and she's on life supports because she was beat no one will do anything to help her they don't believe her because she's invovled with drugs and those kind of things but she needs help she can't go back to her house if she gets out of the hospital or she'll just end up back in there how do i get her help?

Was she beat by a member of her family?
If she was, you have to tell someone to help her. There's nothing you can do but tell someone. Let her know that you're there for and give her all the support you can no matter what the rumours are.
You also have to help her get out of drugs when she comes out of the hospital because if she keeps doing drugs things will get worse for her.
See if she's got family living near or anywhere she can stay and if not see if your parents will let her live with you's for a while?
If they say no don't complain - act mature about it and explain to them what's happend and that you're worried she's going to get beat again.
Like I said if it is a member of her family that beat her you HAVE to tell someone. If it was someone else you should try and tell someone about it too but more so if it's a member of her family.
If she does end up living with you you have to tell her that you're doing this for her because you love her and that if she's going to live with you she CAN'T do drugs but even if she isn't going to live with you you've still got to try and get her off drugs.
Good luck to the both of you's =]
♥Em

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okay ... you see lately my mom has been getting me all these babysitting jobs that i really dont want. i've asked her to stop and she has, but one mother wants my to babysit on a regular basis! she has three kids(2, 4 and 6) and i really cannot handle them. the middle child is pretty good, but the 2 year old cries a lot and the 6 year old is always being mean to the middle one and i cant take it! can someone please help me find a way to tell the mother i cant babysit for her regularly. thanks so much!

You should tell her you don't think you can handle three kids because if you don't tell her a reason she might ask you and then you'll have to make something up lol.
It'll be easier telling her that it's cause you can't handle it.
I'm sure she'll understand =]
Good luck
♥Em

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okay well i just wrote a question about going on a diet togain weight since im only 100 pounds... well i was jw... but do guys prefer girls that are skinny... or girls of average weight??

♥Most guys have diferent tastes. Alot of guys like girls that have something to hold on to or a little extra to love if you like but other guys would prefer thin girls it all depends on the guy =)
♥Em

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When I'm making out with my boyfriend, he always gets a boner. I'm like right on top of him so it really turns me on. Is this happening to him because I'm turning him on? I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know alot about this.

Thanks,
~*~Amy~*~

♥Yep! sounds like you're turning him on.
♥Em

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