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i really miss my friends yet i dont go to the same school as them. i'll probably be able to transfer there soon tho and they really want me to. it'll be great.
one of my best friends whos a year older used to be so close to me in middle school, like i love that girl so much. but now one of my other friends whos my age goes to school with her and since i dont go there they became really close. i was happy that they became friends because a year back they had problems. but now it seems like she wont like me as much or something. maybe im just really insecure and since i feel so alone sometimes i think i really am alone. but i never get jealous. not until now. i just really want to be there with them all again. i miss them so much.
my mom gets it but i dont know if my dad will let me transfer. (link)
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I've had this exact same problem before.
Just so you know, in the end they both shunned me out and basically ran off together.
Now, from my mistakes I've learned to not try to desperatly hold on. But I've also learned not to sit there and cry, or pretend everything is fine.
What you need to do is maybe talk to them about, say how you're feeling and you don't want to be shunned out, and you want to hang out with them both.
And yeah, as the person below said start hanging out with them weekly and you may get one of those "BFFL" groups.
Hope I helped.
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i go to a middle school many kids tease me about my weight. there are gangbangers. the hit curese and yell. please tell me how i can stop this besides going to an adult? (link)
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Obviously confidence will scare them off. Don't cry and be all timid and scared (I know what it's like. I used to and still sort of am in the same position as you. Easier said than done) but be confident. Think of some smart remarks and say it to them. When they go to hit you don't cower, but stand up tall. Obviously don't verbally threaten them, but show them with body language you can hit them back if you want to. You won't get in trouble, since you didn't actually say you would hit them, but body language will say it all.
However, I must press you to really tell a teacher or a school counsellor. No matter how scared you are after it happens they will hurt you more, or you will get called more names they still get punished. Now I can't say if after that they will stop, however if it continues after they get punished see an adult again and they will get even more severly punished, at my school if it happens more than once they get expelled. Wouldn't that give you the BEST satisfaction in the world? It would be the best revenge, without doing something sick or twisted.
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My mom gives me mixed messages on things I buy. She will tell me she doesn’t care how much or what I buy but sometimes when we go to a store and I am going to buy she says you don’t need it or it is ugly so I wont buy it: (But the jewelry I do buy which is a lot my mom admires and tells me it is beautiful.) Here are examples:
(1) This past summer We were at a crafts fair and I was looking at rings and I had a few in my hand and she said "how many are u going to buy" later on she said she did not care what or how much I brought. She told me that the only reason she did not want me to buy the rings was because they were ugly. (They were ugly and that was why I put them back and did not buy the rings) ((THIS INCIDENT HAPPENED OVER THE SUMMER))
(2) When I went to a 99 cent store with her I wanted to see about purses (some stores sell beautiful purses for $1.69 - parachute material similar to LeSportac). I have a lot of purses at that price to. As I was taking the colors I wanted she grabbed them out of my hand. Later on she said that the reason why she grabbed them out of my hand and said I don't need more was because she wanted to leave the store. (THIS HAPPENED A YEAR AGO)
(3)TODAY: My mom and I went to National Wholesale Liquidators to buy a few jars of coffee. On the way out I saw something that looked like a bracelet so as I went to look at it and my mom said it was ugly. This got me mad so we had a huge fight. I said to her I thought you do not care what or how much I buy and she said I don’t but you don’t have to be compulsive. That is when I said to her but I get compulsive when I go to the 99 cent store and she replied that is different - that is a place that supplies jewelry. I said to her “but would you grab the jewelry out of my hand at the 99 cent store” and she said “you just brought a necklace today at the 99 cent store when I was at the bank and I didn’t say anything but at the same time I don’t go to the other 99 cent stores with you.”. At home at dinnertime she said to me she wants me to save money to pay rent in my own apartment and last week when she and I went to a department store I didn’t have to buy 3 pairs of pants in three different colors one would have been enough.
My question is what do you think of the messages she gives me and should I write her a letter explaining how I feel which is if she did go to the 99 cent stores with me and she saw me buying 30 dollars of jewelry she would grab the jewelry out of my hands even though she swears up and down she does not care how much or what I buy she just wants me to pay rent.
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Yeah, I agree with the person below. Confront her again, and maybe if she still refuses to listen, then write a letter explaining everything.
This isn't part of the question, but I think MAYBE I know why your mum is acting like this. She obviously wants you to save money for when you're older. For rent as she stated. I think maybe, she doesn't want you wasting money on things she thinks are junk and you won't wear or use, because they're ugly. However saying she doesn't care then behaves like this is a bit weird, the only thing I can think of is that she's trying to not intrude, and doesn't mean to but accidentally does it. Or, she tries to make you think she's not trying to do it.
Hope everything goes well soon :)
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im getting my tonsils out and i need to know what all to do! (link)
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Hi :) I got my tonsils out when I was 9.
It seems scarier than you'd think, and that comes from expierience. You don't need to know or do or think any plans, so don't worry about that.
After (Or maybe even before) the operation your doctor will tell you everything you need to know, so you don't need to make assumptions and last of all - you don't need to worry!!
The weirdest thing will be when you get put to sleep, it'll happen so suddenly and then you wake up, and the operation has been done. It will feel like you just shut your eyes and opened them. So don't feel scared about that part.
After the operation, drink a lot of water or drinks. It will hurt, yes but it helps a lot. I nearly had to stay an extra day from being dehydrated from refusing to drink.
Make sure you do eat. Your throat needs to get used to eating again so the pain will hurt a loss less. I don't know how old you are, but I was a pretty wussy 9 year old so it killed. It probably won't hurt at all. But because I didn't eat the pain took a long while to heal, and I didn't eat anything for 2 weeks.
But seriously, don't worry everything will be fine and the doctor will tell you everything you need to know. But if you have any questions, just ask him/her!
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I can't stop wasting time. For example, I can talk for 6,7, hours non-stop with the people that I love. I'm not social or anything , except with the people that I'm very close to.
This non-stop talking has made me fall very behind in my schoolwork.
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If I were you I'd give your cell phone to your parents and make sure they don't give it back until after you've finished studying or your homework or whatever, no matter how much you beg.
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heyy i would like a colours in my hair. i want it black definitely, but more colours. im not sure what kind though. if u say blonde be specific on how bright or whatever. i want it looking really cool. so yeah black all over and some extra colours like up to 3 colours besides black. so where to put them and what colours would they be? and what kinda of cur would look good on me besides the cut i have now? (the same style category though) thenks. i cant have my hair too short nor too long. but i like fringes and edges and all that, really nice :) so here is my myspace http://www.myspace.com/caribbean_christie_tx
the photos that show off my hair really well are the photos on the first row. thenks!!! :) :) (link)
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Well judging from your style, I think having some red in your hair would really suit you. Not natural red though, that bright unnatural red. I've had it in my hair and it looks fine. You should either have it all through your hair, or just your fringe or something.
Hairdressers have fake red, it's just other unnatural hair colours you may need to look out for if you decide for something else.
And you probably know this, but if you get your hair bleached blonde first, then put the unnatural colour in it will turn out brighter. I'm not sure for other colours, but the red still shows up if the hairdressers don't bleach it, but if you do it may show up brighter.
So yeah, just my opinions on what you should get and some info for you :)
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Okay i really like this guy, but i think hes emo. He talks to me and crap, but i cant imagine him dating ANYONE. I need help as to like get through that barrior. You know? Ive gotten to know him and hes really funny, people judge him, and hes misunderstood. But i cant help feel that he likes the attention of being "emo". Which he denies that he is, people just assume. So, i need help talking to him! (link)
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I don't mean to sound like one of those idiots who go "I HATE LABELS!!!!!!!!!!!!" but he might not be like the label.
I mean labels are important in our day to day lives no matter what anyone says, but now you want to get to know this guy, you can drop the label you've given him. Labels are only there for people we will never get to talk to or meet.
I mean yes, you might be right he may have a few emo qualities, but first you should get to know the guy. He might be the complete opposite. There's so many people out there who possess a few emo qualities but are NOTHING like an emo, some even hate them.
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Well I've played some free porn games on MY laptop...but I'm scared that something will show on the bill or my parents can check it? Since I used wireless internet once!
Please help!''btw, I don't keep an internet history!
Please asnwer asap. I am so freaked out!!
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Unlike some telephone companies, websites don't show up on your bill. It's just too hard to keep track of every website you'd go on. You have NOTHING to worry about if you have no internet history.
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Heyy guys.. Im soo shy around my b/f.. we started going out yesterday and we haven't sed a word to eachother!! plz help!! thx
xodanaox (link)
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Well...this won't be the answer you'd like to hear I just need to warn you that.
You should really look at your relationship with him right now. It seems you don't know him well and vice versa. You need to tell him maybe you should both take a step back and date before you become boyfriend and girlfriend. Go on a few dates and get to know each other before you become boyfriend and girlfriend.
And yes, there is a difference between dating and a relationship. I'd strongly suggest you both date each other before going further.
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how can i view private myspace profiles of people who im not friends with? pleeasseee no answers with "you can't" thanks (link)
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Well, there's one way.
People under 16's profiles are automatically private to people over 18 and there's not a thing they can do about it sadly. So if your age is over 18, either as a joke number "69, 100 etc" or just so your profile isn't private like that, lower your age to your real age.
However, if the profile(s) are still private, or your age is under 18 there really isn't a thing you can do.
That's the whole purpose of a private profile, having it private so people you're not friends with can't view it. If there was a way around it, it would defeat the purpose.
Sorry there's nothing you can do, it's a bummer I know.
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ok a guy said this about me to some guys he said fellows thats the kinds girl that will fuck the balls off of ya....what does that mean? (link)
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If I'm correct...it means you're really good at sex. You must go...hard and fast or something? =\
I know this isn't part of the question but a guy shouldn't disrespect a girl like that, by telling his friends those sort of things. But hey, it's your life I wouldn't want to intrude when it's not part of the question.
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i need to reinstall my vivitar5100 . i lost the disk (link)
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Um...I'm going to assume the question is how to get another disk.
Well, what you should do is ring up the makers of your camera. If you still have the packaging it came in it should have a number in there.
I'll assume you don't since you lost the disk. What you have to do is find it on the internet, I'd reccomend google. I'd help you with that search more except I have no idea who makes it and stuff. Search: (Company's name here) contact phone number (Your state/country here)
something like that.
Then when you do get on the phone to them explain your situation and they'll point you in the right direction of getting a new one.
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ugh i have a major problem right now.i am currently going out with this guy bobby. he is really nice to me but i don't like him that way and i don't know wat to do because i will feel like a bitch if i break up with him because we have only been going out for like 2 weeks and im afraid his parents wont like me and i haven't even met them.and on top of that I haven't gotten over my ex. i miss him so much i wish i could get him bak but he just used me and doesn't want anything to do with me anymore he just wants to be with his slutty girlfriend that i used to be friends with. i don't know wat my heart wants anymore!!! HELP!!
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Definitely call things off. The longer you go out, the harder it will become to break things off with him. You don't need to tell him about your ex, if you want to do things nicely just say you feel sorry, but you didn't feel a strong bond and you wish you did, but you don't.
He might be upset, but he'll be thankful you didn't drag him along in the long run.
And about your ex, it hurts now, but you really need to get over him. He sounds like a real prick, and you derserve someone nice. Show your the bigger and mature person in this and pretend the whole situation doesn't affect you, because one day you'll wake up and notice you're not pretending it doesn't hurt anymore, because it won't.
I know this isn't what you'd like to hear, but one day you'll be so glad he went out with your unfaithful friend, because it got him out of your life.
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Yeah I was out in the water when it was pretty cold. I got asthma shortly after and I think it was because of the cold. Any remedies for this. (link)
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As the person below said, Asthma isn't like a cold. It's a sort of...well condition. If you feel you have asthma though but you've never been diagnosed go see a doctor.
However, if you suffer from this condition and it was the cold which bought it on here's some advice from a fellow asthmatic.
Definitly use your Asthma medication puffer. Maybe about 1-2 puffs every few hours. If it starts to get really bad, increase the dosage and whatever you do STAY CALM, it usually worsens when you get really stressed. However if after a few days it doesn't seem to go away go to your doctor for proper medical advice and maybe to give you something stronger.
If you don't have an asthma puffer, definitely go to a doctor or chemist to get one, every asthma sufferer needs one.
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16/F. So, this guy I've had a crush on for a few months asked me to Homecoming. We went and I had a lot of fun. We stayed very close all night, as in his arm never left my shoulders and my arm never left his waist. Except when I walked it out, but I digress. We cuddled and snuggled into each other a lot, but we never kissed(I could tell he wanted to, but I thought it was too soon). He's very shy, sweet, and an all-around good guy. I'm really thankful I picked through all of the arrogant losers at my school and found this boy. :-) But anyways, we haven't talked since Homecoming(which was this past saturday, so about three days ago). Even at Homecoming, we didn't talk much. We just joked around a bit, held each other and danced(we didn't grind, I'm a classy lady ;-]) and looked into each others' eyes; I felt a very strong connection. Now I like him more than ever. We're both really shy and kind of awkward, so I'm unsure of how to take this to the next level. Before we can have a relationship, we need to learn how to talk to each other. And from the way he interacts with people he knows well, I know that if we just break the ice then we can really communicate. However, I don't know how to go about doing that. At the same time, his good friend has just started dating one of my best friends, so maybe we could doubledate? On the flipside, I'm very hesitant and cautious. I've been very unlucky in love and this is the first time something has gone right. I don't want to ruin it. I almost don't want to pursue him because i'm so scared, but now I have an emotional attachment to him. Probably from all of the cuddling at Homecoming. Any advice? (link)
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I think the best way for people to start talking and if they're both shy is over the internet and/or text messages on your cellphone.
You've heard the stories about how people fight on the internet because it's easier because it's not face to face yeah? Well I think that would apply to this situation. You'd get to know things about him, so next time you do talk face to face you know what sort of things he likes and dislikes so you'll have conversation flowing and get to know some more things about him that you didn't share on the internet, and same with him.
So pick up enough courage to have a short conversation with him, then ask for his AIM/MSN/MySpace/FaceBook whatever he has.
And yeah, definitely get onto your friend and have a double date, some people may not like double dates but it would get rid of some awkwardness and shyness and it doesn't hurt to try once.
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HI this may sound dumb but I am 17 and most of my freinds have boyfreinds but I cant get one cause most of the guys at my school say that mixed raced girls are ugly!Which upsets me alot And most of the guys like blonds like my freinds and it is very hurtful what do you think I should do? (link)
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Hey.
I'm sorry if this may not be the answer you are looking for...
These guys aren't worth your time. They don't sound like civil boys worth dating. They sound like disgusting boys who aren't even worth your breath on comebacks let alone dating.
Don't worry about them. It's nice boys that are worth dating and not them.
Don't worry about your friends having boyfriends and you being single. Being single is cool! You save money, time, effort and don't have to put up with heaps of drama. Plus you get to spend more time getting to do what you want to do. Plus your friends won't care if you have one or not!
Also, don't worry about these boys. Not every boy in the world is like these boys, no matter how many types of these boys you have met. When you're younger, boys are looking for a piece of ass not a soulmate. You'll find the right boy eventually!
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So ever since I was like 17 I've wanted to move out straight after high school and still go to college. I found a boyfriend and me and him were together my entire senior year of high school... and things were great between us! We had talked about moving out for a year and when the day came to sign the papers, he didn't want to because his mom said that she wouldn't approve. He listens to everything that she has to say and he is a year older than me. He doesn't speak his mind to his mom and we are stuck doing what she wants us to do... like get married at 23 and have kids at like 27.. I've had all these plans about getting married when I was 21 and having kids at 23.. and majoring in elementary education. I have a feeling that I'm pregnant and it seems like my boyfriend isn;t being mature about it. I have no idea what he would do if I was. It just seems like we have to plan our lives the way he wants to.. He wants to party and stuff right now and stay in school... and that's still an option because I have 15,000 in the bank just for college and I can't use it on anything else. What should I do? I love the kid to death and I really think that we are going to get married one day.. but I can't live with the fact that he wants to wait to grow up!!! (link)
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Well it seems like it's a pretty tough situation you've got going there. I'm going to speak through a tiny bit of expierience except there's a major difference, it was my best friend so that of course rules out the "we need to plan our lives out" thing.
Well, it's very frustrating I know. You want to deal with mature situations but they won't sit down and listen. The best thing you need to do is get his attention and have a big talk with him. I know you're saying that's hard but maybe get his mom to help you really get his attention. Maybe one day when you're both sitting down bring the topic up in normal conversation, therefore he won't feel as pressured and won't be able to change the topic easily.
However, if after that talk he still acts the way he does and annoys and frustrates you and doesn't want what you want in life, maybe it's time to let go. I know this isn't an answer you want to hear but it's give and take in relationships and if he has different views on settling down you really can't force your views onto him.
Please don't feel pressured about your life turning out the way it's planned though. Life never does, and just go with the flow and you'll find it less stressing and you'll end up looking back and having less regrets.
Hope everything goes well!
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Okay, so I have a bit of an odd situation... that's slightly complicated, at best.
I'm 20, female, and in a long distance relationship with a guy on the other side of the planet who is 17. Big distance there, as you well know.
Anyhow, I talked to his step mum's brother for the first time today, and he kind of halfway hit on me. He's about fifteen years older than I am. It was a little awkward because he's so much older, and I'm a relationship with his step nephew. The thing is, most of my bf's family doesn't know that he and I are in a relationship, his step uncle included. Do I tell him about being hit on by the guy, or do I keep it quiet and only give vague details? I'm completely at a loss at what to do with this one. I'm usually the one to come up with the relationship advice, but with this situation... I honestly don't know. He didn't come out and say a whole lot or anything, so it wasn't a huge deal, but still. To tell all or to keep it vague.
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I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it.
He knows the uncle more than you and he'll tell you how to deal with this.
He won't get mad, if he does it'll only be at his uncle.
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Why in the world do guys like porn so much? Even if they have girlfriends, why do they feel the need to watch porn? Someone PLEASE explain. (link)
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It relieves sexual tension I guess.
It also helps them masturbate, which is actually healthy and needed a lot for teenage boys to get sperm out they aren't using (Whether they are sexually active or not)
Girls aren't exactly innocent either. Obviously some girls watch porn/look at porn pictures. But some girls do it a bit differently. I know a lot of girls who read sexual fan fiction, or read 'slash' and although it's written and not in the form of media, it's still porn.
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Hi Im 15 and I have 1 or 2 friends that smoke weed and my brother does I am sooo tempted to try it but I know its illegal and wrong I dont care if its wrong but I have soo much stress I cant get rid of my stress any else!! please dont say dont smoke just tell me exactly why I shouldnt do it!!
or why I could!!?? plzzz help (link)
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Please don't smoke weed.
People say it's nothing that bad but later in life it really screws you up.
Also, the side effects are really bad. You basically change without knowing it. You'll lose heaps of friends and family and say stuff you'll regret. It's not like being drunk, and everyone has different side effects but you'll become a different person.
If you want to relieve stress just exercise. Even just a 20-40 minute walk a day will help, and it's good for you!
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