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im jealous


Question Posted Saturday November 3 2007, 7:19 pm

i really miss my friends yet i dont go to the same school as them. i'll probably be able to transfer there soon tho and they really want me to. it'll be great.
one of my best friends whos a year older used to be so close to me in middle school, like i love that girl so much. but now one of my other friends whos my age goes to school with her and since i dont go there they became really close. i was happy that they became friends because a year back they had problems. but now it seems like she wont like me as much or something. maybe im just really insecure and since i feel so alone sometimes i think i really am alone. but i never get jealous. not until now. i just really want to be there with them all again. i miss them so much.

my mom gets it but i dont know if my dad will let me transfer.


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WhenIComeAround answered Sunday November 4 2007, 8:31 pm:
I've had this exact same problem before.

Just so you know, in the end they both shunned me out and basically ran off together.

Now, from my mistakes I've learned to not try to desperatly hold on. But I've also learned not to sit there and cry, or pretend everything is fine.

What you need to do is maybe talk to them about, say how you're feeling and you don't want to be shunned out, and you want to hang out with them both.

And yeah, as the person below said start hanging out with them weekly and you may get one of those "BFFL" groups.

Hope I helped.

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DoesHeCare answered Sunday November 4 2007, 6:28 pm:
i don't know exactly what your question is, but i'll try and answer anyways.
all you have to do is schedule a weekly routine with the both of them so you can hang out.
for example, my friend and i grew apart during middle school. there's an ice rink in my area that has a teen night on fridays, so we went there a couple of times together. and now we ALWAYS go.
we've become much closer too.

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