Okay i really like this guy, but i think hes emo. He talks to me and crap, but i cant imagine him dating ANYONE. I need help as to like get through that barrior. You know? Ive gotten to know him and hes really funny, people judge him, and hes misunderstood. But i cant help feel that he likes the attention of being "emo". Which he denies that he is, people just assume. So, i need help talking to him!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? grrwtf answered Thursday November 1 2007, 8:50 pm: who cares if he's "emo" my ex bf was as "emo" as they got.. and he swore up and down that he would never have another gf after what some girl did to him.. but keep talking to him/flirting.. if he's as "emo" as you are saying, then tell him your feelings. he'll understand, and if yall really are as good of friends as you claim.. then he will like you and want to be with you.. trust me if i got the most "emo" guy in my school to go out with me.. i think youll be able to do it! good luck, and feel free to ask me a question if you have one. [ grrwtf's advice column | Ask grrwtf A Question ]
WhenIComeAround answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 9:13 pm: I don't mean to sound like one of those idiots who go "I HATE LABELS!!!!!!!!!!!!" but he might not be like the label.
I mean labels are important in our day to day lives no matter what anyone says, but now you want to get to know this guy, you can drop the label you've given him. Labels are only there for people we will never get to talk to or meet.
I mean yes, you might be right he may have a few emo qualities, but first you should get to know the guy. He might be the complete opposite. There's so many people out there who possess a few emo qualities but are NOTHING like an emo, some even hate them. [ WhenIComeAround's advice column | Ask WhenIComeAround A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 6:16 pm: ha. don't accuse him of that stuff. guys like that, get all worked up about it. and personally, i think they do it on purpose to get attention too. but whatever. just talk to him about regular stuff. like whatever you have in common, like tv shows, music. yanoo? [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
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