hey guy,s do u like a girl with a little belly, not like fat, but has some fat on her stomache. or like no stomache at all, like being completly skinny.
&& My next question is would you be more attracted to a girl with an all around skinny figure, or a girl with an athletic figure??
thanks a ton
XD I'm a girl as well, but my guy friend said something about this a while back ago, so...yeah.
Guys don't like girls who are...skinny skinny, unless they(the girls)can't help but being that skinny(you know, the girls who can eat anything but don't gain a pound.) BUt they do like girls with muscles, and have some meat.
But others do like girls who look skinny, but have muscle...XD
^^ hoped I helped
~Vera
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sorry if this gets long, but i appreciate anyone who anwsers.
in the last two days i've lost over like seriously 5 friends. one of which imed me and told me about 5 people who think im a slut! one of which i like. but just met that day. because i typed that i cut myself.
im crying nonstop all the time, i hate who i am. ive been having suicide thoughts nonstop. im emotionally dead basically, and im hurting myself physically. i cant ask anyone for help, ill just scare them away /=
i used to be like this on and off, usually on, since 5th grade, i dont want pain anymore. i told everyone not to talk to me, im going to delete my myspace account.
one girl imed me telling me i have to give up a friendship for a while because of this kids girlfriend needing help, when i need it just as much. i feel like im a sob story. but im dead serious. i need help from anyone!
Oh babe...I'm so so sorry you have those thoughts and all that is happening to you...from what I can tell from what happened with me, you have a very serious depression issue. You need to tell your mom that you need to start seeing a Shrink...you need help.
And those girls, screw them for losing your friendship. If you can...go to the friend you trust the most, and ask her about what your old friends are saying...cause I'm thinking that your "friend" who told you that on IM, is just trying to make you feel bad...it does happen sadly. I'm so sorry you are going through this, and I wish you the best of luck. And I hope you feel better soon...if you want to talk about what all you're going through...feel free to ask me...I'll be happy to listen and help you...I've been through this...
Good luck!
~Vera
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What are you supposed to eat when you're hungry?? I usually eat 3 meals, but they most likely are light. Lately they haven't been because there has been parties, but I'm going back to my diet tomorrow. If my dinner is at 4 or 5, by 9 pm I'm hungry. Do I hold myself off until breakfast or eat something small?? I thought it might be a bad idea to wait for breakfast because it would've been 12+ hours without eating. I usually eat grahm crackers when I feel hungry. Is that okay or should I be eating something else?? I rather not eat fruit at night because I have that during the day sometimes. Thanks!!
superstarblue is right...eating 5 small meals a day, with atleast 2 small snacks in the day is much healther. And not eating that much, makes you gain weight because your body goes to the stores fat in your body and eats in.
And don't eat past 7 or 8, it makes your body hard to digest(sp) those food cause you're about to go to sleep.
I read the book called The Cure, and it said to eat small light things in the morning, like eggs, bacon, fruit, things like that because it is easier on the body. And during lunch eat protein, like chicken. And at dinner, eat carbs.
And when you eat, atleast have 3 things from the food priamid(sp). Like carbs, fruit, veggies. Or something like that.
But if at night you get really really hungry, eat something small, like bite size snacks. Nothing that will fill you up
Hoped I helped, and I wish you luck!
~Vera
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Alright. I'm concerned about my weight. I don't eat. It's not like I make a concious effort not to eat, I just don't. I'm 5'1 and I weigh 83.8 lbs. At the beginning of summer, I weighed 90. My BMI is 15.9. Anything under 18.5 is considered underweight. Now I've always been skinny, and I never really have had great eating habits, but I don't know what to do! I'm not exactly in the greatest mental state right now(relationship troubles. don't get me started). I get full really easily and I usually only end up eating dinner and maybe a snack or two every day. It's horrible. I'm always tired, I get dizzy when I stand up, the works. Could it be possible that I have an eating disorder? Or is it just stress? I don't know what to do .. and I'm scared. :(
Hun, it isn't an eating disorder unless you are making yourself throw up, or you're not eating because you feel like you're fat.
You kinda remind me on what happened to me. I started having gallbladder problems...and I had to get it out because I couldn't eat at all! I had to force myself to eat apple sauce so that I could feel better! Go to your doctor, ask them for a Hida scan, or just talk to him on what it could be. It could also be stress, or a depression issue as well.
I wish you luck and I hope you feel better soon! If you have any questions on what a Hida scan is, or if you just want help on what foods you can eat so that your body could get better, or if you want to know about anything else. Ask me a private question.
Good luck!
~Vera
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i have a 2nd degree burn on my hand from touching a hot grill. there is a line of white blisters across my hand. ive had cold water on it for a few hours but the pain still will not stop unless i keep icy water on it.
does any know how i can realive the pain?
^^ Go to a doctor, see if they have something to help.
But in the mean time, get a bag of ice, and a dish cloth, wrap the dish cloth around the ice and put it on your hand. That should atleast help the pain die down!
Hoped I helped and I hope your hand feels better!
~Vera~
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I'm 15, turning 16 soon. I weigh 115 and im 5'5". When ever my dad sees me he always makes a suggestion like, you shouldn't eat that, you're just getting fatter and fatter. And if i ask for money for new jeans, he says, we'll stop gaining weight so you can fit back into them. I wear a size 0, and i'm growing, what does he expect? How am i suppose to cope with this? It's been bothering me so much lately. My sister, whose 20, is like anorexic skinny. She's my height but doesn't even reach 100 pounds. And my dad always compares me to her. What am i suppose to do?!
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ok so its summer break and i am a future sophmore. last night i forgot to throw away the garbage and my mom got mad. she told me that i am not going out with my friends anymore because i dont listen to her. its boring here in my house. she said that i am grounded for the whole summer! i hate her. she just wants to ruin my life. i cant go out anymore becasue i forgot to throw away the garbage?! im so mad right now. what am i going to do i cant stay here for the whole summer its so boring. i told her i was sorry and that i forgot and now she wont even talk to me. she tells me that i am so lazy because i only want to be with my friends. but i help around the house i do! and when she sees me on the computer she gets mad and says thats the only thing i do. theres nothing else to do here. and when i tell her im bored and to please let me out she gets mad and says "no youre not going out. clean if your bored!" as if thats fun for a 15 year old girl. she wont even let me out. its so boring here. i dont know what to do anymore. help me please anything is helpful.
There might be something going on with your mom's life right now...maybe something at work. One day when she seem slike she is calm and everything, ask her if you two could sit down and talk. Tell her that you really did forget to take out the trash, that there is nothing to do at home and you don't want to clean all the time.
And very calm and gentle say 'Is everything ok? You've been getting really mad the past few days..' and if that doesn't help, then get do some stuff around the house to show that you do want to help out, and if she asks you to do something, do it. And then maybe you could show her that you do listen...(And when you talk to her...don't get mad, just stay calm, and try to act as mature as possible)
I wish you the best of luck, and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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um im getting teen vogue for the first time.. is it a good magazine for 13 year old girls? it looks pretty sophisticated but i got this deal in the mail and it looks pretty cool.. i put the stuff im supposed to put in the envelope, but on the envelope, im confused.. how do they know where the mail came from? how do they know where to send it back to? it doesnt say my house number or anything.. i dont want to just mail it and not get anything back! so like.. is it supposed to be that way and theres some secret method how they know which thingy goes for your house or do i just write in a random spot my address? thanks.
and what types of styles are in teen vogue normally? and dont tell me to go on the site.. i did but... idk i just like peoples opinions better. is it true that they show really expensive clothes? cause im not that rich so i cant afford like 100 dollar pants all the time. and do they have things in there for black people too? like i dont want it to be those magazines that like.. no offense, but like when they show hairstyles they make it only for white people and i cant make my hair like that since im black, and my hair isnt permed.
IMPORTANT:
MY MAIN QUESTION IS THAT DO I HAVE TO WRITE MY ADDRESS ON THE ENVELOPE THEY GAVE ME? OR DOES IT HAVE SOME SPECIAL CODE ON THE LETTER SO THAT IT KNOWS IT CAME FROM MY HOUSE?
its the type of mail that says "business reply mail, first class.." and then like it says the location of teen vogue, and some thingy that says "no postage necessary if mailed in the united states". im also wondering if i need to put a stamp on it...................
Before I answer the mailing questions, I want to answer the other questions...*laughs* I'm just weird like that.
Anyway, yes. Teen Vouge shows expensive things...but sadly I love looking at them and wishing I could have them...they had a pair of sunglass and they were $150 or up!! The the cheapest thing they had in one mag was a pair of $9 dollar sunglasses and they were so ugly. And there should be hair styles for black people...I don't normally buy the mag unless I have no other mags to look at.
Most of the time they ask for an address...hang on, I'm going to get one of the mailing things to look at it. Ok, on the thing that they haave in the mag, it does ask for you name, address, cit/state/zip, and all that. It has it on the back. And you don't need to put a stamp if you live in the USA
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Im in love with my best friend Danny. But the thing is...hes gay and he obviously doesnt like me, but hes so sweet and I really love him with all my heart. And i asked my friend Dylana to talk about it with him. he said he is uncomfortable with the fact that hes gay, and im his best BEST friend and we have known each other for years.But i cant help it. he knows i like him and hes avoiding me latly. Hes home schooled but i will call him and he says hes too busy to talk, but when dylana talks to him, he is never busy. please help me. I want danny to talk to me again!
*sigh* You're going to have to burry(sp) your feelings for him, and tell him you don't love him anymore...or maybe just say you were in love, like love as a brother...or something. Or just tell him everything...and just spill your guts, and then say you're better because you needed to say all that, and say 'I hope this doesn't affect our friendship...I love you too much, as a brother, for us to start acting weird.' Or call him and if he says he is busy, ask 'Why is it you're busy when I call, but when Dylana calls you, you're not busy?' Good luck chica...
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Okay im 16/f.
I am around 5'7'' and i think i am around 145lbs. My scale is not exactly an accurate one but I range around there.
So I thought I really want to get down to 135 lbs before the school starts again so I started jogging and whatnot. I got up to jogging for an hour however something happened to my ankle because i kind of stepped into a ditch and i guess i sprained it or whatever.
Its swalloen and whatnot.
So I am hoping it would get better soon so all I can do for right now is to do sit ups. I usually do 50-100 and I do around 300-700 per day. I dont do them all at once.
Also when my ankle gets better I am planning to jog for an hour at least 4 times a week.
So would that be enough workout for me to drop 10 pounds before the summer's over?
Crunches won't help...or so I heard. Here, go to this website, it has lots of stuff you could do to help you!
www.Exercisetv.tv
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
I'm 14...and my friend who is my age lost hers when she was 13, and I talked to her about it...I know that she does regret it.
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14/f
going into 9th grade
hey well i'm 14 now and i still don't have my period. i know it's normal, but my sister got hers about my age and my mom got it when she was like 12. so you know how people say you're supposed to get discharge about like a year before your period? well it's been way over a year, maybe even 2 and nothing's happening still. and also you're supposed to get it a little bit after your boobs start to grow? yeah well that's been about 2 years now. it's so annoying. it's not like i'm looking foward to it or anything, but practically like every girl my age has it already. even my bff who is like 85 pounds and tiny. i would have expected her to get it after me. but no. is there anything wrong with me? i don't want to talk about it with my mom or anything, because well, you don't know my mom. and also a doctor because i'm not open about this kinda stuff. any advice?
Don't worry chica, your time will come...for now, feel thankful you don't have to deal with it for right now...the cramps...the blood and worrying if it will show through your clothes...*sighs* But anywho, really the only time you should worry is when you're 16 or 17 and you still haven't had your period (see your doctor when your 16...I know some girls can start their period at 16...but still, better to be safe than sorry. If you want, talk to one of your best friends about it. I started mine when I was 11...and then mine went away for a year, because that can happen. Everyone starts at very different ages, keep that in mind.
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Hey
anyone good at Shakespeare?
I have a esasy do tommrow. I am NOT asking you to do it for me! Please dont think of it this way, but rather just help.
My topic is the Light/Dark symmatry.
and i need a shakespearIAN language to support it like how he uses repition, oxy moron, and personification and siilie/metohpr.
i thought of one for repittion:
“More light and light, more dark and dark our woes” (III.v.36).
any ideas how i could support it??
and if u hav any quoes to support any of the other type of language i owe my life to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a book that talks about that...but I dunno how well it will help you...but still. This is from a sparknote book I have...so...XD yeah
"One of the play' most consistent visual is the contrast between light and dark, often in terms of night/day imagery. This contrast is not given a particular metaphoric meaning-light is not always good, and dark is not always evil. On the contrary, light and dark are genrally used to provide a sensory contrast and to hint at opposed alternatives. One of the more important instances of this motif is Romeo's lenghty meditation on the sun and the moon during the balcony scene, in which Juliet, metaphorically described as the sun, is seen as banishing the "envious moon" and transforming the night into day(II.i.46) A similar blurring of night and day occurs in the early moring hours after the lovers' only night together. Romeo, forced to leave for exile in the morning, and Juliet, not wanting him to leave her room, both try to pretend that it is still night, and that the light is actually darkness: '"More light and light, more dark and dark our woes" '(III.v.36)"
That's really all I can help you with because I wrote an essay over if it is Fate or was it Freewill...^^;
I wish you this best of luck and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Physically, is using an un opened 2 year old make up going to cause harm in my body or skin or eyes?
I know the colours probably ownt' be the same as when i opened it but I dont' have any money and it's the only make up I have to reply on.
I'm ogign to jsut wear make up once but I'll need a lot of practice and I'm scared I might damage my skin, what should i do?
Maybe if I find the exact colours maybe my parents will buy specific make up for me?
When i opened my mascara..it was pretty thick, is it supposed to look liek that?
Well...I know that with mascara, if it has been open for atleast 3 months(i think) you need to throw it away.
But if you have never opened it, it is ok to use. But if it is super thick, I think you may need to throw it away. But other than that, I think it is ok to use it. And since you're really worried, go to google and google it alright?
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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okay well my friends are having pool parties soon and im really fat. i need to loose like 20 lbs by june or something. i need help!!!
what foods should i eat???
what exercises shud i do??? for how long???
please be really specific with foods and exercises!!! thnks i advance.
Woah! Hold now now...you can't lose 20 pounds if it is really soon, and honestly, you can say you're fat when you're not. Anyway, you should eat healthy food, veggies, fruits, Oh! Pick up 17 mag! The June issue! It has something in there about eating healthy! That can help you out.
Exercises, everyone should do something to get their body moving everyday. Really, go running, sit-ups and push ups, lunges, and you can get a dance DVD that would help do. Really I would keep doing those for a while...maybe run a mile and then go longer, like after a while go run 2 miles instead of one after a week or so...
Drink tons of water too! Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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i REALLY want to be a model. I'm not pretty or anything and i dont fit the height and weight requirememnts, but im obsessed with americas next top model (the show) and i love posing and stuff. I took a few pictures of myself with high fashion makeup i tried by myself. can you give me your honest opinion: If i got some training could i be a good model? (and lost some weight)?
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc4.jpg
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc3.jpg
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc1.png
(the thir dones kinda bad)
Alright, my honest opinion is...yes you could be a model, and I didn't see your whole body so I can't answer with the losing weight though...to me you should lose weight because tons of models do that...and some people aren't the best role models if they lose too much weight you know? And hey, I don't fit the requirements either(XD I'm 5'2...) and I want to be one as well...but if you have that special talent(Even if you're not the right requirments)someone will hire you. ^^ I wish you luck my friend! (Hey, with the losing weight...if you do try, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! Do it the healthy way...and not the diet pill way? If you want a head start with the health way, just stop eating tons of sugar and all that, drink only one coke(and before 6) drinks tons of water, run, swim, and hey, get a dance DVD that will help you tone your muscle and lose weight) or do yoga! And eat pleanty of fruits and veggies, and maybe don't eat as much as you do you know? Portion(sp) control, cause there is a certain amount of food you eat!)
~Vera
Hey, read this http://www.modellifestyle.com/how_to_become_a_model.htm ^^ It might help you!
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Okay....
I've had my period for a while now... and for about 6 moths before I got it I've had this wierd clearish goo coming out of it. Sometimes it's grrenish and sometimes it's yellowish.. TMI i know. And once I got my period... it still didn't stop and I get it every day between my periods. I'm worried that it might be something wrong.... does anybody have the same problem or have ANY information about it??!!
THX in advance... please help!!
Ok, if it's clear and all that, it is discharge, where the egg is being releashed from our bodies. Now, since you said it was greenish and yellowish, GO TO YOUR DOCTOR ASAP!!! And say something to your mom, you could have an infection! I wish the best of luck!
~Vera
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alright i hav a distant relationship with this girl. she is 10 years old and im 15/m. ok first thing i kno what your thinking, the age difference. well i really dont care, age doesnt matter to me its the the person you found true love with. well anyways we are just distant bf and gf but someday we hope to meet eachother. when we were talking on the phone she said that she's gonna might be in some sort of trouble for making out with a guy who is like 15 years old. her friends knew and are going to tell her dad because they think it counts as child molesting. first of all does that even count as child molesting? the guy is only like 5 years older than her and i dont think there was no forcing they just kissed. oh and the girl may be 10 but she is more developed, she has the body and mind of a teen and i know her friends were just protecting her. so does it even count as child molesting? she said she might get some sort of counseling and i dont wanna lose her if they do anything to keep her away from older guys. i'm not like the bad kind of guy. it's just something about her makes me feel all warm inside..
Unless the guy forced her to make out with him and all that, no it isn't child molesting. And to me, the guy should let the 10 year old go, like some other people will say, she's just a kid! Doesn't matter how she thinks or looks, it matters on the age. And plus distant relationships sometimes never work out (sadly, I've learned this and so have my friends b/c we started dating guys who didn't go to our school). I wish you the best of luck, and I hoped I helped
~Vera
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I'm donating it so I need 10 inches off, which would be like a few inches from my shoulders. Have very thinck hair and a lot of it. Naturally, I have a frizzy curl. I have long side swept bangs. I have a round face. I have red hair. I'm going to need it thinned and cut to just below my shoulders, but any hair style ideas?
When you go to get your hair cut, look in a mag that has some hair suggestions, and maybe talk to your hair stylist to see what she thinks will look good on you. Sometimes if you get a suggestion from someone who doesn't know what you look like, it may not look good on ya!
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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I have been best friends with lisa ever since third grade. We were inseperable until this year (freshamn H.S). She got her first boyfriend in the beginning on the year and its been downhill from there. ahhg. She's now very arrogant and acting as if she's SO "experienced" and can get any guy that walks in her path which is untrue. She will not sit next to me in after school activities or social places like in the lunch room, but she'll sit with her friend natalie who is friends with the crowd her boyfriend is in. It's really hurtful that she is now a totally different person wanting to dress differently, acts like a cocky witch, shoves her new "friendships" in my face, acts like i don't exist if i'm around her in social situations, and expects me to be there for her through and through. She makes me feel like CRAP plain and simple. I have other friends, but is it worth it to keep with one?
thanks =/
Your friend isn't being a very good friend. If you are a friend to her, and she isn't one back, then really she shouldn't be worth your time. Sadly, friendships like this happen. Everyone changes time and again, when girls get their first boy-friend, they act different because they feel different...(XD Or atleast I did, but I was still kind to my friends and was still friends with them) To me, I would still be "friendly" to her, but I wouldn't be friends. I wish you the best of luck and I hope I helped!
~Vera
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