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Name: Josh
Birthday: December 16th
Sign: Sagitarius
Grade: 12th (Senior)
Nationalty: Lebanese
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Varies (depending on what I wear)
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Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Drink: Starbucks Hazenut Latte
Favorite Food: Lebanese Food!!! And mom's homecooked meals
I am junior in highschool at a small private school in NY. I am involved with many extra-ciricular activites at my school such as Mock Trial, Model UN, The Enviro-thon, Ecology Club, NCCJ, and I do alot of volunteering around my area. I have been told by friends many times before that I am a good listener / adivce giver and I have decided with the persuasion of a friend to try my talents out. Looking to answer your questions, and maybe to meet some new people.
Can't reach me here? Or do you have a private question? Feel free to IM me on AIM at AskTrevorWolf.
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: Entrepenuer
Age: 15
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Member Since: October 4, 2004
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This weekend im suppose to be going out with one of my friends to a different town around people i dont know and people she does know. How can I hang out with them and be cool w/o making a fool of myself. How do I meet knew people..i thhink im scared a little, but how do i overcome that? Does anyone have any ideas of how I can not be afraid? Maybe Im just scared people will hate me or something? Any Advice ? thanks!! (link)
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I think that you are just nervous that you are going out of town with your friend and staying or meeting some people you don't know at all and she knows so well. I can understand that you're a little tense, just as anyone would, of meeting new people when your staying with them! My best advice is to just act like you would around any of your friends, or when meeting a new person at school. Play it cool. Obviously you are wanted because you were invited and people don't care if you come visit with your friend. In a situation like this it is hard not to be scared and overcome your fear. Just play it cool, and I am sure that once you get talking to the people, you will feel better and more relaxed. If you need to prepare, do it with yourself by practicing how to act around them when you first meet them. If all else fails, just stay quiet if you are so afraid. Also, if you are persistantly afriad to meet new people and go into like a social group you may had Social Anxiety Disorder which is very common among people today. There are some drugs to treat it, but I would not at all reccommend going on any of them. Just play it cool, and loosen up. You may also want to ask your friend a little about the people and maybe how you think they'll like you, etc. I hope I helped. :)
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ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).
originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..
i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do? (link)
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Thats tough. The best thing that I could think for you to do is to explain to him that you didn't mean for it to happen one way or another but things just kind of hit of with peter and you. Just re-assure him of your feelings for him and mayb explain to him that you all could be friends if you all wanted to be. Re-assuring him of things I think is the best way to get his attention and make him realize that he is really loved and cared for by you, and that now is now, and then was then. What is done is what's done.
P.S. - I would also try asking him what is bothering him. A sit down with him maybe an answer. My belief is that friendship and the ability to communicate is the best quality in a relationship. If you need me to break it down, feel free to message me. Check my column for info. Hope I helped. :)
*JT
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how do u change tha font of your Ad.Column? i looked through the help page but i didnt c it.. thanx (link)
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The only way to change your font on your advice page is to use HTML. Tyler gave you a good site to go to. Also there is a site, http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/html_cheatsheet/ with all kinds of cheats on it. Good luck.
- JT
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hey i kno there is a maximum buddy amount on aim, 200, but do u kno of any ways to get around that damn annoying nuddy maximum?? (link)
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No, although people have tried and tried, AIM had kind of locked people in and don't let them have any way to get around it. There was a program called DEAD AIM that was supposidly allowed you to get around it, but it didnt work, because I had it for over 2 years. It is an awesome program in general though, but costs $4.99. One little FYI though, it does not seem to be working with the newest version of AIM, 5.9. Hope I was of some help. :)
*Trevor-Wolf
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I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.
Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.
I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :( (link)
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She is a control freak and some one who isn't very responsive to people having fun. This may be because of a number of things...she may not have the fun you have, she may have something bothering her inside, among many other things. The best solution I can think of is to sit down with her and have a chat. Tell her that you think she is a really cool person but is there something bothering her? Just tell her how you feel and be honest with her. The truth may hurt but it definitely helps in alot of my cases. Explain to her that you still want to be friends but that she is causing you to be depressed or not let you have any sunshine. Everyone deserves a little sunshine now or then right? Right. If all else fails then, really there is nothing you can do to change someone like that. Trust me, there are some people in the world that are just made the way they are without any remorse and not willing to change. I hope that I was just of a little help. :)
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hey guys. i work out basically every single day. i curl with a 2 hand curl bar and i carl 1 hands and i bench and do push ups and stuff like that. I also take protein in shakes because my friend recomended them, but i have no clue how much to take. i read online that u should take more than 1 gram of protein per pound of bodyweight. is this true?? if i take thew much protein per day, i will be spending hundreds of dollars in the nutrition store. please help me, and i'll rate you. (link)
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Yeah, what you found online is pretty accurate. But the real suggested amount is about 10 grams for every 20 pounds of body weight, and some suggest that if you are an adult, like 16 or so and over, you should eat 55 grams per day. I don't know if you are not aware or confused but taking protien through shakes and through pills is not the most effective way to gain protein. The best source of protein is through food such as meat, fish, or soy. DO NOT spend all your money in the nutrition store buying protein pills which you will not even get half the value out of. Something that comes close to pills that you will get the full benefit of is a whole food supplement called Juice Plus®. This is a pill that gives you all the nutrition you need in a day and is more effective than vitamins! If you want more info please contact me on my page. This is much more cost effective and not very expensive. I hope I was able to answer your question. And please contact or IM me for more info on anything. :)
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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him? (link)
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No, there is really a very slim chance that you could actually be in love with someone you only met online. Love is something that needs to come from actually meeting and getting to know the person better....in person! The feeling you are having is most like infatuation or a crush, but probably not love. I don't mean to rain on your parade but from past stories being told to me like this, in the end...it never turns out to be love. Sorry, and I hope I was of some help. :)
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last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type. (link)
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Ok dude, this is what I would suggest you do. Really find out what is going through his mind and get the real story on if he likes you or not, etc. My motto is "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear." By the sounds of it you are just going by what you are hearing from friends. Although this info can be true, you never know. If he is not your type and don't want to talk to him anymore then do not waste you time with him. But if you would like to be friends, even if he's not your type then I would find out what is really going on. Find out if he really does have feelings for you, find out if what happened was a true feeling between both of you or not, etc. Maybe once you get talking, you might find out you like him more than you know. Really I would not make the decision to go and not talk to him or not just yet. Let me know if you need more help / advice. Hope things work out the best for you. :)
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hey wuts up people my friend like this grl in my high school. He saiz shes nice and stuff like that but i never see him hanging out with her and i happen to be friends with her and she barely knows who he is. I think he just likes her because she is like the leader of the cheerleading squad or wutever its called. Someone give me a way to tell this kid hes retarded and he only like sher cuz shes a cheerlead in a *nice* way (link)
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You shouldn't get all freaked out and call the kid a retard just because he doesn't know what he is doing. Lol. Really the only real way to get this kid to notice what he is doing and what is going on is to tell him the truth. It may hurt, but as the saying goes "the truth hurts." You need to explain to him that she does not like him, nor even know him. He needs to understand that it is not what the outside is like its what is in the inside. So just lay it out in full. Also it might help to talk to your friend about him, and see what she thinks you should do or have her talk to him to see if she likes him. Maybe this whole thing is a mis-understadning, but most likely not. Hope I helped. :)
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when do girls normmaly start puburty? wat grade (link)
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Today girls start puberty as young as 9-10, and to as old as 12-13. In today's world it is hard to tell when your time is going to start. If you don't get it at the same time everyone else does, don't worry because everyone is different. Also just a little FYI, puberty for girls usally extends until they are about 16. Hope this helped. :)
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okay well i usually get my period around every 21 days.
i was supposed to get it like 5 days ago but it never came
i know its normal for periods to be irregular at this age but i've had my period for 4 YEARS now.
so why did it skip? what are some possible reasons? help im scared!
and im not pregnant because i never had sex before. (link)
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Don't freak out to much and make yourself all rowdy'd up. Irregular periods for girls at your age is very common. They may be caused by a variety of things such as a fluctuation in hormones which is very common at your age, also a change in your diet, and exercise. Also a very important factor is also STRESS!! So thats why I am suggesting to you to calm down and don't be to scared. You have never had sex in your life so there is no chance of pregnancy, etc. Since I don't know all your conditions/symptoms and I am not a MD it is impossible to diagnose you online. Some things that might help include birth control. Birth control acts as sort of a stimulant for your period and for many girls/women helps with their irregular period. To be safe though, I would make an appointment with your gyno. or visit your local health clinic (ex. Planned Parenthood, etc.) to be checked out for any further problems. Just take it easy and don't stress yourself out to much, it will just make things even worse. Hope I was of some help. :)
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