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My friend likes this grl
hey wuts up people my friend like this grl in my high school. He saiz shes nice and stuff like that but i never see him hanging out with her and i happen to be friends with her and she barely knows who he is. I think he just likes her because she is like the leader of the cheerleading squad or wutever its called. Someone give me a way to tell this kid hes retarded and he only like sher cuz shes a cheerlead in a *nice* way
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the only way to tell him nice ly is to sya" u only like her cuz shes the leader fo the cheerleading squad, get over her!!!" thats the only"nice" way i can think of.
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how do you know thats the only reason? did he SAY that was the reason? hmm...how about you find that out before making assumptions and losing your friend over something like that.
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Tell him that he barely knows her... & its not good to like sum1 without knowing them... you dont even know what they are like... sum people cant stand they way others act... regardless if that person is attractive or not... and that can be a big turn off... let him know all that... cuz once he gets to know her he might not end up liking her...
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First, find out if he really only likes her because of that. Plain out ASK him. If he denies it, just tell him, 'You should try and get to know her more, you know. If you don't really know her, how can you like her?' If he does only like her for that reason, tell him to get a life and stop being shallow.
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Actually there is no nice way to tell him he's retarded. I think you should just let him be because obviously he thinks he has something to prove to you, and you don't need that, so he'll automatically leave you alone eventually. Just dont stoop down to his level, thats the worst thing you could possibly do.
melanie xoxo
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You shouldn't get all freaked out and call the kid a retard just because he doesn't know what he is doing. Lol. Really the only real way to get this kid to notice what he is doing and what is going on is to tell him the truth. It may hurt, but as the saying goes "the truth hurts." You need to explain to him that she does not like him, nor even know him. He needs to understand that it is not what the outside is like its what is in the inside. So just lay it out in full. Also it might help to talk to your friend about him, and see what she thinks you should do or have her talk to him to see if she likes him. Maybe this whole thing is a mis-understadning, but most likely not. Hope I helped. :)
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How do you know that's the only reason he likes her? Be a real friend and let him have a chance.
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