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this boy, i swear doesnt even know i exist. he sits right by the teacher, because he gets introuble. so i always go up there and pretend to ask a question. and he doesnt even watch me walk up. all the other boys do. and then, hes in my lunch period, and i walk right past his lunch table, and all of his friends stop and look at me. but not freaking him. And then, hes in my other class and he doesnt notice me in there either.
how can i get him to notice me? (link)
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just try talking to him, mabe some small talk, beloeve it or not not all men are the same, and im living proof. Not all men will notice unless something actually happens like someone talking to him. Just come up and say "hi" or notice something of his like a watch or a bracelete or if he's listening to music ask " what music are you listening to?" simple guy stuff that they'll understand, esspecially the ones in your age group. Hope this helps and good luck, lemmie know how this turns out.
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15/f. I'll just get to the point so as not to annoy anyone on here:
So basically, I feel as if no guy will ever like me. I'm smart. Probably one of the smartest kids in my class, and whenever I get the highest grade on something (which is usually..) the guys sitting around me mock and tease me. In a mean way, though. This makes me lose all confidence and think that all guys are like this - Immature. Is this the case? Is there NO guy out there that isn't mean or harsh? (link)
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Oh hun don't even worry of those muther fuckers anyway, most men arn't used to see a women best them at their own game at times, remember that most men are prideful simple creatures. By the way im a guy and i people watch ALL THE TIME ^^ Smart women happen to be the sexiest women of all, but since your 15 of course it'll be hard. You shouldn't lose confidence in yourself otherwise you'll forcefully submit into being those dumb bimbos who look the same. I think personally that it's great that you have good grades, good for you ^^ YAAAAAAAAY they mock cause they're afraid, and if they get on your case just tell them " you're just jealious cause a real woman's beating you in something your not good at" or somthing witty, then they'll back off. They'll probably call you a bitch or a skank but not to worry, that's normal ignotant male behavior, and remember that that's most guys your age anyway, women mnature faster then males.. sorta, it's been porven, although it has also been proven that women do have a smaller brain than the average male, i know strange huh? Anywho don't need to worry, i see a bright future in you so cheer up and never surrender, okay? ^^ hope this helps and take care
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Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[ (link)
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for the most part it's stress, if your skin's oily and you spazz out oever something really bad, yuou'll end up having abloackhead on your butt. Seriously that happened to me and that shit hurt. but luckly i got it out ^^ anywho yes, if you eat too much of the sweets you'll get all that suger and your skin pays for it, plus pimples thrive on dirt and oil so be sure to ocasionaly wash your face, doesn;t have to be with soap either if it's not there but wash yourface once a while. Also drining water helps out alot, people think i belong in high school when i go to a community college. Funny huh? anyway i hope i helped out, take care now
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In school, I was totally expecting to see everyone wearing wideleg jeans, Crocs (ugh!), and all the other trends for this season. But to my surprise, they were all wearing what I was wearing; skinny jeans, Uggs, and all last season's trends. Obviously new, but according to latest news, it was outdated. Why was my small, yet wealthy town not affected by the season's reports? I am totally confused. (link)
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yea i know how you feel fashions a bvitch aint it? well no need ot worry, feel glad that you might've started a trend yourself ^^ think about it, right after you stopped they then started, and after something else hell, they might wear a fuckin bucket on their head ^^ beileve it or not i started the goggle trend, i just wore my russian migs around school and BAM i was the toast of the town, i still wear mine in community college and appearantly im the "most different" one out there. It's the lil things that amke it soo big, for example; ripped jeans, faded clothes, not bathing, ebonics, and dressing like a doughe bag. No matter what, something even the tinyest will be a namebrand or some corp will take it, warp it and sell it for more blood money. May not make sense but it dose sorta. That the fashion bizz so don't really worry too much, the ones who care the most are either insecure about themselfs and status, or just people with no real hobby. Just strut yourstuff with confidence and you will be king of the scene like in a magazine ^^ but always be true to yourself, you'll be surprised how many people changed over what others think. What comes up falls, and sometimes it hurts. Hope i helped and i hope i didn't bore you ^^
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15/f I'm new to the whole bf/gf thing right now, but I reallllly like the guy I'm with, and I want to show him, but I don't know how. We hold hands and he puts his arm around me and stuff, but what else? We aren't very close right now... so I don't want to move too fast, but I want to start something up. (link)
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well that's good that you feel this way, normally when things turn up like this, they usualy mean sex. Well i would say please don't cause then even if you use protection you could get pregnet and then your boyfriend will end up leaving you, i've seen and heard this before. You don't have to necessarly have sex to start something, why not just talking to him about things you both have a passion of. something with trust ya know? my GF and i don't have sex and we have a connection. She gave me a ring and i wear it all the time, cept when im in the shower. You guys would exchange necklases or rings, not as a marragfe thing or a "promise ring" cause those are lame, more like a connection ring, a symbol that you and him are bonded. May sound out of the ordinary but in this life we live in what is ordinary anyway? like i said who knows? maybe it'll work? anyway i hope this helps and good luck ^^
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this may sound stupid. is there a possibility that you could not have a clitoris or it may not react to touch? i have trouble finding it, and my boyfriend always touches me around that area and i never feel anything and it makes me worried that there's something wrong with me and i'll never enjoy sexual relations (link)
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o there's nothing wrong, it's probably not the right way being touched is all. Every women has a complicated thing towards that area anyway. The clitoris is somewhat a complicated deal for men rather than women esspecially since you and you alone know how to use it. So no need to worry, it's either that or it's just not happening for now. No need to worry, try playing around a bit if your alone and in the mood maybe, you never know ^^ anyway take care and hope this helps
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Okay every birthday of mine or a freinds I have tried to perform a seance; well....guess what it never worked out so well. I've looked it up but never any look. So my question is: How do you perform a seance? (link)
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I that's a lil too advanced for you, normally epople would harness their energy before doing such things, it takes a while but really, it's best to go though the basic steps. If you just jump right into something like this, you could probably summon something... BAD. I would recomend borders and look up the new age books there, do some research first.
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16/f (sophomore)
NOTE:: if you dont feel like reading me vent for a paragraph skip down to the question
mk so this past month in school ive been trying to make new friends, but it hasnt worked AT ALL. i want to have friends that will laugh at my jokes at the right times, also friends that arent too clingy..or friends that will talk to me when things are serious. i know in my heart that im not shy, im actually majorly outgoing with EVERYBODY. for example, on my school sports team everytime i try to talk to someone i feel like im being snubbed..and i feel so worn down because of it and it makes me feel as if its my fault for being too sensitive. they are all nice people too. thought it would be EASIER to make friends when i got on a sports team but apparently not! :((
right now i feel stuck and i feel like crying/pulling my hair out in frustration because i really wanted to make fun friends this year but it's mid october and i have no idea why ive made not one good friend!!! =[[[ sighh i feel like crying. honestly. ive been in this school district for 8 years and even though i am crazy outgoing and i join lots of clubs and im smart and i have interests and im on sports teams i have not made more than 10 good friends. like what the fuckkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY ME???
sorry that was super long haha. its just my way of venting! anyway my real question is..if someone i want to be friends with makes me feel kinda intimidated should i stop trying or keep trying to talk to them even though im afraid of talking too much?
thanks. (link)
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I understand how you feel, you shouldn't get stressed about what you have now. you have 10 friends that good enough i beileve. You know the best friends are best in small groups, that way you'll always be close together, other wise those big crowds you see poeple with all the time will always end up in drama. Why else would people go to the movies in small groups than big ones, some people stray away and make eachother go after one another over a dissagrement. You shouldn't stress, It will really affect you in the long run. I would suggest taking a deep breath and say quietly " i let go" say it enough times till it turns louder and louder till you truely mean it. " I LET GO !!!!!" menaing that you let go of all worries and woe to have a better day tomorrow. It really works, also just talk to people like people. gain respect by giving respect ya know? anyway i hope you'll take my advice into consideration. You'll be fine cuase i have faith in your abilities ^^ take care and let me know how it goes
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I am a 15 year old female. I spend my summers down the shore where i have a beach house with my cousin who is 17. Wat are best friends and go out everynight and hang out on the beach and meet guys who are 17. I always lied adn said i was 16 and a jounior instead of 15 and a sophmore. We made some friends but next summer we are going down and i just want to have a great time and go crazy but im worried about lying about my age but at the same time im scared to say my real age adn grade, becayse i dotn want tehm to think i am i child. So what should i do? Also, what about the guys who we plan on meeting who are 19 and 20 Then they may think im too you (i will only be 16 then) they may think im too young to hang out with them. Please, i want as much advice as possible from both guys and girls. Guys- what do you think of younger girls? All i really care about is having the time of my life. (link)
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Not to sound insulting but don't you think lieing about your age is a tad childish? sure it's fun and games for now but once you're in too deep then you'll realize the potentail dangers of it. I mean a guy could take advantage of you and all you'll go by is that you did it to yourself trying to pull off 20 when you're 16. I can understand the lifestyyle of a 20 year old, im 20 myself and no it;s not glamerious, it's not great, you're just another year older and that's about it. I wuld say to just really be yourself and jknow people by your means, just becuase your 16, doesn't eman your not a person. Sure, you could be a tad immature but that's part of grwoing up, you still learning. My sister did that kind of thing too and my mom found out and there was a lot Of yelling and a lot of... well... shit. Just to recap, telling white lies is ok sometimes, but telling age lies will get you back.Just enjoy the things you have now, you're in no rush in becoming older. If you lie about your age long enough, you'll eventually lose it and never get it back again. Just live, ok? hope this helps and be careful. ^^
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ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused (link)
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Eek, that alone should be a red flag right there, but it could be legit. This could be your advantage though, if they're going to the game togethr you could met up with him while he's with her maybe, and ask him right in front of her so he can truly speak from his heart. When a man is cornered he will either speak from his mind or his heart, either one is a diffrent path with the same end, which is truth. If you see her hanging onto him or something "couple like" then im sorry to say it but then it';s a loss. Either way don't need to worry, if your going just dress casual, you're not trying to impress anyone im sure right? It's better to impress people with your skills or natural ability than clothes. I hope this helps and good luck, tell me all about it when it happens ok? I'll be here to answer any more of your questions. Promise promise ^^
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So , I was watching matchmaker , Yes I have alot of spare time :P
Anndd they were talking about sex . They then said something like I liek to go to rub and tugs .
What is a rub and tug ? (link)
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hahaha wow, how funny well, rub and tugs or which ever word usualy means when you masterbate guys or girls, a tug job, or a rub job. Usualy things like that, other definitions culd be applied too but mostly it's just sexual inuendos.
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well my parents are like totally over protective of me so i can hardly do anything im lucky that i even get to leave the house, but thats only for skool, and church other wise im stuck at home! im like 16 and ive NEVER EVER EVER had alcohol, i know its hard to believe but its true! so i was thinking i could drive down to the bar and get some but im sooo not 21 and i could pull that look off real easy but do those kind of places check you for ID, and if they do how much trouble would you get in if they caught you with a fake one? (link)
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Eek, well you're parents will become furious and probably send you to chovey cause having fake id's is a very serious crime. Also since this whole terrisom thing is in the air ignorant people will slap on a differnt type of "what if" "what if she used it and bought a gun, what if she got into someplace and did this" i know they sound like stupid questions but ignorance travels in numbers and most adults of today will think it. Also i wouldn't really suiggest you trying alcohol till when your in college or something, i never had my first drink till i was in high school but it wasn't a party or some kinda raging beer fest like most simular fantasy highschool or college stories. I honesly think that drinking, like any other hobby looses it's luster after a while, it's not that big of a thing and it's way over exagerated anyway. Just to recap, enjoy what you have for now, cause when you screw up about something like being in a crowd, you'll not only lose your paresnt respect, you'll lose your own. Hope this helps and take care
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I don't know if anyone will understand this question but everytime I go somewhere my eyes look red, and it looks like I've been crying, my mom says it's my allergies or something?
what can I do to stop making my eyes look weird and make them look CLEAR?
do I need to drink alot of water? more sleep? go to the doctor?
help please, and thanks in advance. (link)
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Ah i know how much that sucks, i would say to have a bottle of the clear eyes stuff with you incase, also some sleep should help out too. It could be allergies but some of that clearasil could help out too. don't worry im sure you'll be fine, if any pain please be sure to tell your mom and see a doctor. Hope this helps and take care
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help me with ths guy problem - Today, 02:55 AM
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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
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Hmm, sounds like these kids are a,lil bit immature for somthing like that. Usualy dramam like this'll only bring more conflict, i can understand how you feel. I would suggest just asking your crush in a personal one on one manner if he likes you or not No bullshit just stright answer, and if he strays away or acts like a child then i would say you guys should be friends for now at least. The last thing you would want is stress over who likes who and what, when, where, and why know what i mean. Love's a very fickle thing and i think you should really think hard about this whole "sleeping with me" deal, sometimes they're only asking the truth but masking with with a friendly juckle and saying they're kidding. That's very serious and i would suggest you'd wait on that for a LONG TIME,Like i said, just ask him directly, no notes, no nothing, only words from person to person and look into his eyes whennhe speaks, it's the only gateway into the human soul. Anyway, i hope this helps and good luck.
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In the future, I really want to be an artist for like band posters or cd's. Well basically band related merchandise. Like designing t-shirts and so on.
I used to be good at art..but now I've lost my skill, and inspiration. Is there anything that can give me inspiration.
Btw, I'm not into clear art styles, more sketchy and maybe cartoon. :)(if drawing) but on computer anything. (link)
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AWESOME, i truly beieleve that you still are good at art yet you have what we call an "artist block" happens when you're tapped out of your art ideas or subconiously, you're tired and your imagination's taking a break. You know what? i couldn't draw for 3 or 4 solid weeks, DROVE ME NUTS, till one day BAM i picked up my sketch book and started doodleing. What im saying is that you'll start up again soon, just keep a pad of papaer or a sketch book handy with you AT ALL TIMES!!!! i take mine everywhere with me, yes even in the bathroom. You just never know when you'll have an idea of anything and then it's god like a shooting star. Also i believe coffiee works, it amplifies the creative part of the brain and incresses thinking, don't go drinking 13 coffees in a row cuase that shit's reckless. Adverticeing's a big BIG thing to get into and may i say good for you, never lose that dream no matter what anyone says you know why?
People may laugh at us, mock us, look at us funny but remember this. Without us, there would be no video games, no online games like WoW,Counterstrike, or Ragnarokonline. Without us there's be no 300 movie poster that people would wait hours on, or art books people would pay over 100 dallors for. We are a dieing breed of human beings in whitch none other will or not understand so my friend stand tall, raise your pencil as if your sword and your sketch book as if it were your shield, and you're armor is your spirit to draw again for the battle is long and hard but in the end you will succeed.
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i am 14/m i am mature for my age and get along with people older than myself most of my close friends are seinors in high school and freshmen in collage this i a dilema because the girls that i like are all seniors so they wont go out with me i also have troble geting started with a girl they alwase become close friends. my friends have all got girl friends but i never reaily had a girl friend
please help (link)
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Ah i understand your situation, back when i was 14 i was in the same boat my friend, i talked with other older people and yes, i developed a crush or two on some ladies. Well I would say personitly that you shouldn't feel rushed into the whole "girlfriend, boyfriend" All that peer-pressure's on either your friends or people who think they know what bthey're doing. The people who do talked about " my girl this and that blah blah blah" end up either pregnet or having kids when they're 15. I go to a community college with mom that had thier first kid when they were 16 or younger. Yea i know eek right? I don't wanna scare you and say "ghirls are evil" im just saying that these emotions are normal, but "Good things do come in time" I never ahd a girlfriend till recent and we're pretty much the toast of the town... sorta but hey i hope you find my advice a lil helpful and maybe something to think about. Stay strong man and just flow in your own current of water.
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For a senior class trip we are going to Grad night at Disney World in Florida. Anyway, the trip will be roughly $600 a person. As you can see, it's a pretty expensive trip. It's actually really good for all it includes (meals, bus, hotel, etc.)
Anyway, the students who are going need to come up with some fundraising ideas to help us lessen the price. Unlike with clubs and such we don't have any starting money. We need ideas where we can do things with nothing. (The school has NO money to start us out with and we don't want to risk losing money if the idea fails).
So, any suggestions would be really helpful.
We've come up with a car wash, but I live in NC and where I live there is a drought thing going on and there are water restrictions so it wouldn't be legal.
The trip is in April so if the restrictions are lifted by then we are going to do a teacher car wash or something along those lines.
Any other ideas? Remember, it has to be something we can do with no prior funds. (link)
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ah what a situation, at least you guys go in a group, in my college we have to meet at the place that we need to go for our "feild trip" anywho if there's a 99 cent store near you there should be candy bars, like snikers, or kik kat bars. The big and small ones are about a buck each right? so buy a small some of candy and start chargeing people some of the regular prices when epople sell them. Big snikers is 2 or a 1.50 and the regular small ones are 1 . my Girfriend did it and made about 600 first 2 weeks. Like i said, just buy a small some, so if it works better than expected then go for it. Hope this helps and good luck
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15/F
Basically this guy (19/M) broke up with his girlfriend for me and at the time it didn't bother me. We dated for about 8 or 9 months and it was great and he told me he loved me and I loved him and then he decided to go to Africa on a missions trip for 9 months. So we broke up at the end of July and he left to go to Africa in the middle of September. Breaking up was mutual and we continued to be just friends with just a little drama. We've just been emailing and talking online once a week...usually 2 AM Saturday my time so it's 10 AM Saturday his time and it works out okay. Anyway, it's a long story but basically I found out that he told his brother that he picked me over the other girl just because I was easy so what the hell why not. He said I was too easy and a baby and that our relationship was crap in so many ways and that he wishes our relationships only lasted like a few weeks, not 8 or 9 months like it did. He said he would trade all of the times that we had together for another chance with the girl he didn't choose. I am obviously totally and completely crushed and heartbroken. I feel like I'm nothing. I feel empty and used and chewed up and spit out. What am I supposed to do now?? I feel so far gone...like there's nothing left of me... (link)
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I'm sorry that has happened, but he wasn't the guy for you i mean c'mon/ obviously if he's saying things like that then at least it's over am i right? With the experiance you've gained now, you now know what you want in a guy. You shouldn't feel useless cause all relationships have this sorta drama after breakups.
I should know, my friends been through it enough and there's always more fish in the sea. You're a better person who deserves more than this sorta self kicking. Hope this helps and take care. lemmie know if i helped ^^
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Well I really really want a cat badly. I've had about 3 cats in my life and they were all bad. They scratched up the furnature or stunk up the whole house. Well basicly I really want a cat. My mom says no she says shell never get me a cat ever again. But I really want one. I keep telling her ill be responsible but she keeps saying NO. What can I tell her or do she can let me get a kitty?.! Help please! (link)
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aah im a cat person myself, they're soo cute arn't they? anyway to be honest i'm not too sure how to convince your parents. They figured since you had three cats and didn't take care of them, then what's the point.
The main kink in their gears is RESPONSIBILITY, cause "back in there day" they were chock full of em. Responsibility, walking in the snow, fighting bears, and coal powered cars... in a sense. Anyway by showing your parents about responsibily and the tasks you can handle then they should give you an extra shot. Hope this helps take care
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noo no no i was planning on getting invited over there first. i wasnt going to like sneak over and im still pretty good friends with her i meant i still have to find a way to get her to invite me over her house again... (link)
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aah i see, well then just ask her if you two could hang out sometime. make it casual, or ask her if she could help you with an assignment from school or something.
Find an easy excuse so she can let you in
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