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ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
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Well here is how I see it....are you going to the game tomorrow JUST to see him? Is it a planned thing between you and him? Or are you going on your own and just plan on seeing him?
If you and him planned to go together, bringing his ex is just disrespectful and you should not even bother going.
If you are going on your own and are going just knowing you will see him there, AND you know he is bringing his ex, then it probably means he is still interested in her. Especially if they were hanging out watching tv together, etc. It just seems like he still wants to be with her.
So you can choose to go still, if you wish. Thought it seems like he still wants to be with her, you can still go and try and show her up. You can draw attention to yourself by dressing cute, classy, nice. (Though guys claim they like girls who dress skanky, they only like them because they are easy. Those girls are NOT the type they SERIOUSLY date). So don't show up with your boobs hangin all over the place lol, that's just trashy. Showing his ex up by looking sexy and cute without being trashy will make it harder for her to talk crap about you.
You can also steal attention by just making general conversation with him. Act normal. Don't overdo yourself. Coming on too strong will scare him away. Also, don't be disrespectful to his ex (no matter how much you don't like her) because that will just come off to him like you are a bitch, (excuse my language lol). So be nice, funny, cool, and that will most likely work. Just be you, and good luck!
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Eek, that alone should be a red flag right there, but it could be legit. This could be your advantage though, if they're going to the game togethr you could met up with him while he's with her maybe, and ask him right in front of her so he can truly speak from his heart. When a man is cornered he will either speak from his mind or his heart, either one is a diffrent path with the same end, which is truth. If you see her hanging onto him or something "couple like" then im sorry to say it but then it';s a loss. Either way don't need to worry, if your going just dress casual, you're not trying to impress anyone im sure right? It's better to impress people with your skills or natural ability than clothes. I hope this helps and good luck, tell me all about it when it happens ok? I'll be here to answer any more of your questions. Promise promise ^^
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