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heartbroken
15/F
Basically this guy (19/M) broke up with his girlfriend for me and at the time it didn't bother me. We dated for about 8 or 9 months and it was great and he told me he loved me and I loved him and then he decided to go to Africa on a missions trip for 9 months. So we broke up at the end of July and he left to go to Africa in the middle of September. Breaking up was mutual and we continued to be just friends with just a little drama. We've just been emailing and talking online once a week...usually 2 AM Saturday my time so it's 10 AM Saturday his time and it works out okay. Anyway, it's a long story but basically I found out that he told his brother that he picked me over the other girl just because I was easy so what the hell why not. He said I was too easy and a baby and that our relationship was crap in so many ways and that he wishes our relationships only lasted like a few weeks, not 8 or 9 months like it did. He said he would trade all of the times that we had together for another chance with the girl he didn't choose. I am obviously totally and completely crushed and heartbroken. I feel like I'm nothing. I feel empty and used and chewed up and spit out. What am I supposed to do now?? I feel so far gone...like there's nothing left of me...
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Hey. Im am very very sorry that this happened to you! It must be horrible! But at least you know that you don't want anything to do with scum like that. Although you are going to feel sad and used. You have to realize that no matter what YOU ARE BETTER OFF!! You will find someone better because you deserve someone who loves you. Try going out with friends and doing fun stuff to get him off your mind. And you should confront him and tell him that you know what he said and that you don't want to hear his excuses and that its over forever. -helen
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I'm sorry that has happened, but he wasn't the guy for you i mean c'mon/ obviously if he's saying things like that then at least it's over am i right? With the experiance you've gained now, you now know what you want in a guy. You shouldn't feel useless cause all relationships have this sorta drama after breakups.
I should know, my friends been through it enough and there's always more fish in the sea. You're a better person who deserves more than this sorta self kicking. Hope this helps and take care. lemmie know if i helped ^^
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