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Why am I ignored?
15/f. I'll just get to the point so as not to annoy anyone on here:
So basically, I feel as if no guy will ever like me. I'm smart. Probably one of the smartest kids in my class, and whenever I get the highest grade on something (which is usually..) the guys sitting around me mock and tease me. In a mean way, though. This makes me lose all confidence and think that all guys are like this - Immature. Is this the case? Is there NO guy out there that isn't mean or harsh?
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You sound just like me a few years back...
It's really tough being a smart girl. As I went through high school I noticed more and more that the dumber a girl acted, the more desirable she was.
The logic (or lack thereof) behind this is that teenage guys are insecure. They're incredibly awkward, and they're intimidated by women who know what they're doing.
Funny thing is, that's exactly what my mom told me, and I didn't believe her at the time!
You just wait until you go to university. I know it sounds like a long time to wait, but trust me, high school boys are just a waste of time. You get better selection in university, and the guys (at least in engineering... my faculty) love a smart girl.
If you're lucky, you might find one in high school, but it's definitely a maturity thing.
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Oh hun don't even worry of those muther fuckers anyway, most men arn't used to see a women best them at their own game at times, remember that most men are prideful simple creatures. By the way im a guy and i people watch ALL THE TIME ^^ Smart women happen to be the sexiest women of all, but since your 15 of course it'll be hard. You shouldn't lose confidence in yourself otherwise you'll forcefully submit into being those dumb bimbos who look the same. I think personally that it's great that you have good grades, good for you ^^ YAAAAAAAAY they mock cause they're afraid, and if they get on your case just tell them " you're just jealious cause a real woman's beating you in something your not good at" or somthing witty, then they'll back off. They'll probably call you a bitch or a skank but not to worry, that's normal ignotant male behavior, and remember that that's most guys your age anyway, women mnature faster then males.. sorta, it's been porven, although it has also been proven that women do have a smaller brain than the average male, i know strange huh? Anywho don't need to worry, i see a bright future in you so cheer up and never surrender, okay? ^^ hope this helps and take care
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since they are 15 that does mean nothing. and it might even be a phase. in 1 or 2 years they should all be acting very different. some of them might like you but just suck at expressing. guaranteed.
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Ok. . .i have your solution but in order for it to be right YOU have to believe that this is non-biased and you cant distrust me because of my gender. . .anyway being smart and having education is never the wrong way to go and is only frowned upon by people who didnt get educated and the guys teasing you are jerks and theyre jealous. . . . . .now i wont lie to you but most guys are pricks. . . .BUT there are nice guys all around you just have to look for them nice guys are usually quiet and dont make big scenes but they come in all diffrent shapes and sizes so just look and i promise there is a nice guy out there
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hey if u were smarter then me and werent mean to me id say congratulations for getting the good grade cause why would i want to piss u off ud probaly kick my ass
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They are probably being mean because they are jealous they don't get grades like you.
YES there are guys out there who aren't like that. I know it seems there are a lot of jerks out there who are mean and make you the butt of their childish jokes, but the world isn't totally full of them.
Don't give them the satisfaction of stripping you of your confidence. If they applied themselves as much as you do, they wouldn't be laughing.
It doesn't matter what they think about you. You have to remember that.
ygs-29/f
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