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Hey. My names Conor Im 16 years old and im 6'1. I live in houston/katy texas and goto Mayde Creek High School. I started this cause im usually up all nite and i figured what better way to spend my time then trying to help people. Just ask me a question and ill answer it the best i can! I like all types of music and movies i like dirtbike riding and hanging out with friends.


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How often a day should you brush your teeth? (link)
try 2 or 3 times a day, one in the morning one at night and a 3rd during the day, maybe after lunch


hEy cOnOr.. iM 15 aNd i gO tO KaTy hIgH.. well me and 3 friends went out of town not to long ago to get away from things. The last few days we were there we met these 2 guys, off the bat i knew me and this one guy has sumthin there!! We got each others phone numbers, and screen names and everything and we talk almost everyday. He told me he likes me and i like him too but he lives like 4 hours away and niether or us can drive yet!! He says he wants to come see me but im not to sure.. should i keep talkin to him and see what will happen, or should i not talk to him so i dont get myself excited and stuff for nuthing?!?! HELP ME PLEASE (link)
Well he does live 4 huors away and im sure theres other guys that live pretty close to you that you could hook up with. Cause 4 hours is pretty far and unless you really like him and in your heart you think it could work out then dont go for it, cause im sure the one thing youll want to do is see him and be with him ALL the time but with how far he lives aways you wouldnt always have that. So Personally i think you should stick a little closer to home so you can get all the benifits of having a boy friend. Hope i helped


Conor


My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.

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do what your heart tells you to do, if you truly want to be a part of your brothers life and have hime be apart of yours then go for it...i have a brother and theres tons of times we dont get along but if theres one person i can count on in this world its him.


ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
Talk to the parents tell them the kids really bad and needs to be disciplined. or do something like lock him in his room some how maybe you could be more authorative dont let him get away with small things...TAKE CHARGE!


one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee

PLEASE HELP! (link)
yeah thats just messed up and its sexual assault he could goto jail for what he did if you truly feel bad and its really getting to you just telly our parents


okay. i have a super-creepy stalker, and i talked about it at work and after that my friend called him and told him to leave me the hell alone because i told him to. the thing is.. i never said that. then my stalker got real mad and said " mind your own f-ing buisness a-hole!" and now im really afraid... for both myself and my friend. now i have to go back to school in a month and i have to see him everyday. im so worried that he is going to hurt me because he really doesnt respect authority at all. and i dont really want to talk to him at all because thats how this whole stalking thing began-- with me being nice to him. im so confused and everytime i see him i start shaking and my heart pumps really fast. do i need therapy or something? help me (link)
Just call the cops, what hes doing is harrasing you and thats illegal. and no you dont need therapy in fact theres nothing wrong with you but more like your stalker that has no life


i find myself never being able to sleep until like 2 or 3 in tha morning everynight..i cant ever sleep so i just go on AIM or something like that..any advice? i appreciate it. thanks
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man i got the exact same problem and theres nothing you can really do maybe some nyquil and if you cant get to sleep just IM me on nd4spd972 im almost always on that late.


omfg...im such a dumbass...i acidentily deleted all the names on my buddy list...is there any way i can get them back cuz i had like 200 and can only remember like 5...!!!!please say yes!!!!!! (link)
NO that really sucks but theres nothing you can do unless you saved your buddy list or you could just ask a friend to sed you his list then you can go through it and change it up a little


I know this sounds really nasty but I'm bulimic, but instead of throwing up, I take laxatives. I don't know how to make myself stop. My dad knows and he isn't really doing anything to stop it. Has anyone dealt with an eating disorder who can tell me? (link)
Just talk to someone about it..anyone. these problems are very severe and need to be dealt with immediatly, try and sit down with your dad and just tell him about it and hope he listens.


what do guys like in girls? (link)
well some guys i know like a girl thats easy going and liks to party but most guys are differnt, and look for differnt things some might be looking for a good sense of humor, or some, one they can talk to easily, others like a girl thats athletic and of course 90 percent of guys look for a girl with looks personally i like a girl i can talk to easily and has a good sense of humor. but it all depends on the guy. hope i helped!

Conor


I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!

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Acctually thats not a stupid question at all. I had the same problem i went to a christian school since pre-k and when it came time to diceide weather or not i wanted to keep going there it was a tough choice and i chose public school. And I wouldnt change that decision for the world. As for getting in trouble its just like private school except the consiquences are a tad bit more savere at public school, and for freiends the groups of people at public school is alot more diverse then private so even if theres some people you dont get along with theyll be even more you do. hope i helped out!


If someone dares you to stick your hand in one of those ice despenser thing on the refridgerator/freezers and you happen to get your hand stuck in the ice machine.. what do you do?? (link)
well BEFORE you do it take some hot water and soap and if it gets stuck use that


alright, i'm hoping to start tennis this fall (its my first of high school). the only problem is that i know i'm going to have a physical to play on the team. well this is super babyish, but i am scared to DEATH of shots. so i was wondering what do they do during a physical? i know they weigh you and measure your height but is that all? i'm almost positive i'm going to need a tetnis shot :( , but do they have to prick my finger or anything? and one more thing, is there any way to get around getting the shot?

thank you so much!
Lana (link)
Nope they dont give you a shot during a physical and they dont prick your finger, the only time theyll give you a shot is if you havnt had your immunization shots that are required to attend school so unless you havnt already had those dont be expecting one


what is bronzer used 4?? i got spray bronzer and the cream an the powder???i rate* (link)
its tan in a can you rub it on and it gives you a fake tan im a guy thats never used it but ive seen some people that have used it and instead of what looks likee a nice tan it makes your skin look orange, hope i helped

conor


im starting high school in aug. for the first time , and im sooooooooooo freaked out b/c i hav so many bad memorys from my middle school . im afraid its guna b worse . can anyone help me at alll (link)
just think of high school as a fresh start, i diddnt have the memorys from middle school either, just talk to new people and dont be shy. and if anyone gives you stuff about middle school just ignore them because there not worth it


im stressed out all cuz schools coming ^ soon wut can i do to make me less stressed out?!?! i still have tons uf stuff i wunna do before i go to school. lol. like clean my room buy some stuff i need for school and all this other stuff and i dk. im so stressed i cant even remember the rest!! help!!


{{stressed out!!}} (link)
just take it easy and dont think to hard about it. theres no point in beating your self up over it so take a deep breath and do everything one step at a time.


if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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well when they ask you out just dont be so blunt about it. tell him your sorry you still want to be friends but you dont like him like that


There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other. (link)
Well if your uncomfortable meeting him by yourself, just do it at a public place like the mall and go with a friend that shuold really lighten things up


how can you tel if your girlfriend is or did cheat on you (link)
In my opinion theres nothing you can do to tell except have trust in her and hope your relationship is as stron as you think it is. If you did something like ask her best friend the friend would go and tell your g/f and your g/f would just get offended wethere she has or hasnt.


I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it. (link)
Dude, one word..puberty... your still growing and 9 times out of ten over the next few years you going to slim up and grow to probably be taller then some of your friends just give it time and eat healthy.




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