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Alright.. so there's this kid.. and i was going out with him, and i liked him a lot.. except he got mad at me a lot because i was doing stuff with my friends, and not him. so we fought a lot, but i still really liked him. (when we weren't fighting) so anyways..we broke up a few days ago, because this was on his away message "if your name is emily, call me" and my name IS NOT emily. :( and i asked him what he was doing (we were talking online) and he said he was "sitting here playing halo and talking to BRITTANY!"..And of course..my name isnt brittany either..and he wouldnt talk to me..so i just said k well whatever i think we should break up, and he replied with "agreed." i still like him A LOT. and hes soo fun to be with..but i know he doesnt like me anymore..what should i do? play hard to get? talk to him? what? i dont know what to do. i like him soo much.. thanks. (13\f) (link)
Wow he seems like a jerk..but the boy i like too is sorta like that too lol. I know what you mean and how you think he doesnt like you and you cant get him off your mind and you really like him. I'm in that similar position right now. What you should do is tell him that you still really have feelings for him and that you think you could work it out. Say you promise you'll try to spend as much time as possible with him because you wouldn't want to ruin the relationship again. All you have to do is tell him that you still really like him basically. Thats what I did to the guy I liked even though i didnt think he liekd me but it turns out he still did! so just take the chance and so what if he blabs it to everyone..it means that he's not just throwing you aside sayin "oh who cares if she likes me" Him tellin everyone shows that he has to care in some way, shape or form lol. Good luck hun and if you need anymore help dont be afraid to leave one in my inbox!


Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
I rate high! (link)
umm here are some turn ons for me..and for what I look for in a guy..
`the smell of them..like really nice cologne:)
`for me..i really like when their hairs grown out but not to like their shoulders cuz thats nasty lol
`their smile
`them bein taller than me
`being nice and respectful
`joking around with you while being serious too
`you can tell them anything without them blabbin it to anyone
`havin the guts to say "i love you" or saying they care for me without actin like a wuss
`their eyes
`not forcing to do stuff with him..i havent had a problem with that but it'd bother the crap outta me
`a nice personality
`them being truthful to you
`i hate it when your with a guy and their like "dude that girls so hot" thats a wicked turnoff and being a wicked jerk..
**we basically look for an all-around awesome guy whos sweet, funny, serious, and hott/cute

as for conversation..
I don't care what I talk about with the guy i like as long as im talking to him..It's just extremely annoying when a guy cant carry on a conversation

If you need anymore help then feel free to leave one in my inbox!


i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great. (link)
Hmm..well..if he's conceded and he's like "oh i'm too cool to talk to you" or something like that, don't take it. But if you wanna tell him that you like him just when you're talking to him, just simply tell him that you kinda like him. The worst that could happen is that he won't like you back and if he respects you he wont go around telling everyone. Just tell him you like him on the phone i've done it before and the boy liked me too. So just try that and if you need anymore help you can just drop me somethin in my inbox :)


Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.

what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.

What are some sweet things I can do?

BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!

-thanks a million!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsee-

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OK I'm not trying to be mean AT ALL or anything but I think you and your bf may be over reacting a little. It was just a hug right??? I hug all my guys friends when I have a bf because it's not a big deal it's just a friendly hug. Just tell him you love him to death and the hug meant nothing at all because you guys are just friends :) and you can tell your bf that you wouldnt even dream of going out with that guy ever so don't even worry about it. If this sounded mean I'm not trying to be and I'm sorry lol if you have any questions feel free to leave one in my inbox!
good luck hun!


Ok so when im going to have my period, im scared that people will know that im changing my pads.. is there anyway on how to silence things up? it gets really embarassing for me cause im a tomboy... (link)
ok if you mean people knowing you have it and your using it then DONT carry a purse, because i know it's sorta hard to carry a purse when your sorta tomboyish haha cuz i tried that before.Just leave the purse in your locker (if you have one) and get it for when you leave for the bathroom.

If you mean when your UNWRAPPING them in the bathroom, what i do is flush then try to unwrap it really fast haha. It works thought because you can't even hear it. Hope this helps!


ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?


i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
Well what I THINK you should do before you break up with him (since it seems like you really like him and he really likes you) is to tal kto him and say "Maybe we shouldnt talk as often you know as a good thing because if you call me all the time what will there to be to talk about next time?" and see what he says to that. But if you really TRUELY feel that you really wanna break up with him, then you should do it really really soon because the longer you wait, the more he'll get attached to you and thats not fair to hm because you dont feel the same way. But it seems to me that you like him a lot and too much to break up with him so just talk about not talking as much as a POSITIVE thing. I'm sorry if this didnt help :(



14/F

I love ballroom dance. It's a lot of fun to me and I thoroughly enjoy it. But this year, I'm going to have new teachers. The classes are split up by grade. My boyfriend and I were going to take it together, but he's older than I am, and we're not in the same class. My other friend is the same age as me, but started kindergarten before me, is also in a different class than I am. I don't want to do dance without a friend, because being alone scares me. It scares the living daylights out of me. My mom says I have to take the class, and I really like dance; but I'm afraid to do it alone. Being alone is my biggest fear. My parents said I could talk to the teachers, and perhaps they would accept me into the second class, but not to get my hopes up. Is there anything that you would reccomend me saying to the teachers? ... "Yeah, I'm terrified of doing stuff alone, so let me into the class." - No. I don't think that's gonna cut it. Any suggestions? Help me please. I really don't want to do this alone...

Thank you, in advance! (link)
Have a friend thats in your grade and your age that's never done it before and see how they like it. A lot of times the teachers don't like friends to be together during dance because they think that they'll just goof off or not pay attention. Or you can try to work up some guts and do it yourself and meet some new people there. I'm sure many other people in your class are there alone too! just think of it that way :)



okay, me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. i moved because none of our family ((or sum "friends")) wanted us going out. my mom hates him and his mom hates me. then was in november. well all of the sudden he's stopped talking to me. it's been 5 weeks and i've left him messages and e-mails. he hasnt responded to any of them. whut do i do next?
*heartbroken.. (link)
WOW!! for that long? well i think as hard as it may seems..to just tell him that you can;t see each other anymore for the best for the both of you because this may sound really really horrible but he may have found someone else he can actually spend time with..so i think it;s time to end it as heartbreaking as it may sound and look for someone your mom likes and someone you can see all the time and that will talk to you and care for you. I'm sorry for what happened and if i didnt help :/

drop one in my inbox if you need anything


ok well me and my ex-bf got back together this is the 3rd time we have gone out we always broke up for like 2-3 months and we got back together..and hes always with his friends he barly calls me just when hes at home..but hes NEVER home and when he is his friends are there..i want 2 talk 2 him just me and him..i think hes going to cheat on me i dont know what to do!! heLp me please !!! (link)
ok well..based on the boyfriends i've had..you seem very lucky because they'd call me 24/7 and it was annoying as HELL haha..but i mean it wouldnt hurt him to at least call once every other day. I htink that you should get him over your house and be like "i feel that we're not as close as we used to be and i really wish we can start talking to each other more" that way if you talked to him a little more you'd be able to tell if he was cheating or not. If he is cheating or will start, then dump him immediately and if he starts denying it and wants you back really bad, say "i dont wanna go out with you if i cant really trust you or if you dont talk to me that much..once you prove to me that your worth it then i'll love to be with you again"

sorry if this didnt help much but if you need anything else drop one in my inbox!



SO SORRY THIS IS LONG

Ok so i just turned 13 last month, im the youngest person in my whole grade ! and my friends are turin 14 soon .. and they are all have their periods and have regular size boobs .. but they got their in like 6th or 7th grade , and im going into 8th ! you know that checkup thing when your like 12 , well they said i wouldnt get my period till im about a freshmen .. like 2 years and this was about like going into 6th grade. I have pubic hair under my armpits and on my vagina .. and i sometimes ill have white stuff on my underwear and this has been like this for about 3 months .. and to let you know im really small and i have no boobs ATALL im flatchested. (link)
Well i dont think you'll REALLY wanna hear this but you are VERY lucky you don't have your period yet. It doesnt really prove anything anyways. I have about 2 really fast maturing friends and before i got mine they were always like "You are sooo lucky you dont have yours" and when i got mine it really sucked because it just gets in your way so BE THANKFUL!

As for the boob thing..don't worry about it. I mean seriously. they'll start uh growing and once theyre there, there there! can remove em or anything. Just like your period, boobs can get annoying too haha. You're definately maturing and everything just don't wish to rush into things. Everything will be fine in the end.

Anymore questions just drop one in my inbox!



My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo (link)
aww im sorry hes gotta be a jerk then..that shouldnt come between you and him if hes just goin to highschool..as for the cheating part, if he was cheating, he wasnt worth your time. Sometimes guys can be complete jack-beeps to girls. You'll find a guy this year. Just don't let it bring you down because he's not realizing what a dumb choice he's making. Who knows, maybe he'll come running back to you and you can be like "haha screw you..you don't deserve me :D" OK hope i helped and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox


there is a song and its like " I CANT MAKE IT ON MY OWN," repeat i cant make it on my own. and its like two guys playing guitars. so can you guys tell me what its called and who its by??

thanks in advance!! (link)
Ohio is for Lovers by Hawthorne Heights


okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
This is gonna sound weird but it really works. My orthidontist had me put a sock over my hand at night and just try as hard as i can to avoid it during the day. I didnt do it after 2 weeks!

Hope the helps~


what's the song called that goes "i try to go on like i never knew you" and who sings it?
thanks (link)
Incomplete by the Backstreet Boys..oh yesss haha


ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!! (link)
oh god lol alright i was in a situation somethin like this like 3-4 months ago. There was this kid i liked for a really long time and i went out with him but then a little while atfer i started likin this other kid so i broke up with the first one thinkin w/e i like the other guy more. So then me and the other kid broke up because i didnt realize how much of a dick he was..so i went back out with the first guy. After that me and the first guy just werent as close and it really really sucked. So from my expirence..i say stay with the first girl because you never know how the other (second) girl will act. just from my experience though.

good luck!


Does anybody know the lyrics to right here waiting by stained? Or like a link to where i can find it-thanks (link)
www.lyricattack.com

i go there all the time for lyrics



Usually I get my hair dyed and highlighted blonde professionally. But now I want to dye my hair a medium brown and I was wondering if the hair dye boxes at the store did a fairly good job at it? Is it even that possible to screw up on brown? If you have used anything in particular that you've tried and it works, could you please tell me the brand and price, etc? I've use hair dye kits PLENTY of times before, but i always used blonde (which looked horrible) and was just wondering if brown worked. Thanks. (link)
Yeah brown worked for me..it didnt work too bad at all either! well all i can say for a brand of coloring..most of them usually work..well the natural instincts didnt work too well on me..it said it'd come out within like 30 washes and it came out in 2 for me. So I wouldnt go with that lol..good luck!



I have long blonde hair and i usually just wear my hair down or in a messy bun. but over the summer, i wanna try something different. are there any hair style suggestions that you guys could give me?
thanks! ill rate good! (link)
When i go to myrtle beach for the summer, i usually go to a hair salon and get the half cornrows. those usually stay in for like a month but its very hard to take care of.

-hope this helps!-


Last year I dyed my hair black and i've kept it black since then. I am now trying to get my hair back to a more natural color: dark brown-light brown. I tried Herbal Essences Dye.. It was called Iced Bronze or something like that.
It just dyed my roots brown and make the black in my hair a really odd color.

If anyone knows a good brand and/or color of dye that will completely cover black, let me know!!
Thanks a BUNCH! (link)
it would probably help dye it or bleach it blonde first, that way the color you buy will come out pretty much the same color. A lot of dye works..but i usually go with the one that has the best picture and most updated picture on the front lol.

-hope this helped a little!-


What is the difference between being Punk and being Gothic? Is it a style or what? Please explain. (link)
punk is usually or usually involves:

-baggy clothes
-listenin to punky music
-chains
-peircings
-etc.

goth usually invloves:
-ALL black
-depression
-cutting
-looking and sounding depressed
*pretty much everything BLACK

-hope this helped a little!





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