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Sup, my name's Aaron, i'm a band freak, health freak, grammar freak, perfectionist, and I just love to watch people do stupid things even if it includes me, because heck there's no point in being uptight about life when in the end it all ends... hahah gotta love my type right? There's not much about me that you probably haven't heard that you can't compare to other people, I mean i'm a friendly person who once you get to know me, tends to grow on you like mold on bread. I'm smart, courageous, a leader, fun, loving, honest, brutally honest, sadistic, idiotic at times, ignorant to certain topics, indifferent in some controversial issues, unconcerned about what you think about me, happy, sad, depressed, angry, and basically any other attribute you can give to a 16 year old teenager. I'm an ex-swimmer, meaning that I quit... just because of band, and no i'm not that big a band freak, I'd just rather be playing my instrument and feeling the soothing sensation that music has to bring as opposed to getting stressed about being beat by other people! But no, haha I love swimming and if my school allowed me to take both at the same time without sacrificing my grades I probably would. I'm not the kind of person that sits and watches something, for instance, I hate watching football but I love playing it just because of the adrenaline rush. Blah, haha not sure what else to say, I mean I suppose I can tell you that i'm chinese, and uhh that's about it I think... I like to philosophize haha if that makes any sense, I feel that although philosophy is basically the "DUH" of life, sometimes you just need to be told, DUH. There's nothing better than discovering the obvious... Anyways, life's so much easier for probably you and me if we chatted on AOL, my screen name is An3mu5c0r9u5 yup yup =D hehe

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In school, we are learning about noticing good paragraphs. And for our project, we have to identify certain writing styles. Lets say that the style is descriptive imagery. I have found a paragraph and I want to know WHY it's good. I don't know how to explain why it's good, it just is. Would anyone know any ideas on how to explain why it's good?? I'm not asking you to do my homework, I just need some ideas.

Thanks.

Well, you could explain how the diction used in the paragraphs help the reader, you, understand what the paragraph is talking about. Also you could explain how the use of literary elements helped support the paragraph.

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my parents ground me for the stupidest reasons. And im not a immature teenager who disagrees with everything because i KNOW when i mess up and I pay for it and I KNOW its fair. But I seriously cant take this. What can I say to them to make these groundings stop. I am a good kid with good grades and i never get into trouble, yet i get grounded more then anyone i know.

I wouldn't worry about it, parents tend to be overdramtic when it comes to some things... just take it and move on, if you show them that you're being annoying by it then they'll keep on doing it over, however once they realize that you don't care about what they do to you they'll probably stop and start respecting you

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I just dyed my hair medium brown and I really like it. How do I keep the color from fading? Are there any special shampoos or techniques I should follow?

yeah there are shampoos, try some pantene pro v or like loreal paris... that stuff might work

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Friday was my last day at school. And every thing was going ok till. A friend came up and just started to have a emotional brake down. and she has had this before but not at school. See last time she had one of these was last year when she was at home and she staped herself with a knife. And it was all about a guy cause this guy thaough she was mad at him but she isn't. So she came to me to talk.i am use to there kind of thing cause a lot of my friends get them. But a lot of times i am not around them. So then was like i am happy that this didn't happened at home cause she would of killed herself. and she lives in Rapid City and i live in Sturgis. And i can't always be there for here when she needs someone to be there. And i can't cause i don't live in the same town as her. And i am oging to the High School so really doesn't have much ppl to talk to I am afaid that when she is at home or at school and no one is around her she will kill herself. if anyone here knows what i can do. Write back. Michy

tell your parents, or your counselor so that she can get help... you musn't burden yourself on everything

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Alright i recently got my hair cut to shorter then i ever had it before...kinda past my shoulders...and it's soo thinned out too but the point is my hair use to be where my boob was...around there and its about
------------------------------------------- this much. how long do u think will it take for me to grow it out again? my said a month but then again it's her...so please help! i've been depressed about this since wednesday! i'm never getting it cut at that place again. please help!

well it shouldn't really matter, because maybe other people like your haircut.. if they like it then don't worry... and the hair thing really just depends on you and your hair growth... but i'd probably say for a normal girl like 1/4th of an inch each month? lol im sry if this didn't help

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i dont usually wear make up but when i do it's always messed up! how can i put it on better and what should i use?

you ask your mother because, no offense but she probably knows a little bit more about putting makup on than you do... or just ask your friends

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recently i had a cast on my leg because i broke a bone in my ankle. now i have a splint on my ankle and i look like a retard. I know people at school will make fun of me. What should i say back to them?

well more than likely people won't make fun, they'll be like oh that's cool and stuff like that, but if you're worried just be give them the whole spill on how you broke it and make it dramatic so the girls will be like aww that's so sad.. as for the guys just do what males do and grunt haha =)

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I'm having my 16th b-day party tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do for games. There'll be about 8 people there. Does anyone have any ideas for games for bored high-school students? Lol, thanks!

haha nice, well i'd say play spin the bottle, card games are always fun, uhh oh sardines are really fun, its when you pair off and go hide, once another group finds you they hide with you and the last one to find them loses and has to hide next

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Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..

Signed..14 year old bi guy

oh really, well i'm gay and i haven't done anything... hehe maybe we could hook up lol jk well talk to them because i talked to my parents and they were really understanding, even though the sent me to a shrink but that's another story =)

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i have this friend named elle. we always used to hang out together, but one fight and now she says " we shouldnt talk for a couple months" because we were such good friends that it hurt more..even if the fight was about somthing so small. shes found friends..only thats because sh turned them aginst me...i dont want to loose her as a friend...but what should i do???

talk to her and try to sort things out, friendship is a strong bond that shouldn't be broken because everyone needs friends to survive whether or not they believe it

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what should I do I had this friend named Matthew and latly he has not been acting like a friend he sits around and let people talk about me like I am nothing right in front of my face he try to play stuff off but I see right thru him and he talks about wanting me to be his girlfriend. he show off in front of people like that inpresses me he acts like a jerk
plz help me Christine15 I am 15 and a female

well i guess the question is... do you like him or not? if you don't then don't go out with hi,... if you think he is being a jerk and getting so annoying then maybe you two just weren't meant to be

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I have lots of pimples and well does anyone know any good good creams or anything like that. cuz i tried some and it didnt work I thougt maybe im eating to much chocolate and im not so please help I'm really pretty but with these pimples i feel so ugly inside. HELP i rate high

well, you could just be going through puberty... but a cream that i use is clearsil it's one of those special acting creams.. it worked for me... also if you're worried go to the doctor and they'll know the best thing for you

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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?

well, if she is your friend then she should understand.. plus she probably blocked you, well anways yeah talk to her and make her know that you like him and that not to be mean but it's kind of first come first serve.. and that you aren't liking him just because you want to be better than her or anything just try and make her understand your feelings about him

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my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!

What should i do :/

well if you can't trust him then you know the answer to that question.. you need to have a talk with him and make him know that you are dead serious... sometimes guys just need to get a reality check.. also maybe he thinks that you are "clingy" so play hard to get and maybe he'll change his mind on liking other girls

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is it supposed to hurt when u take out a tampon .. cause when i do it hurts really bad..

it shouldn't hurt... maybe you have too big a size tampon.. talk to your mom, i know it might be embarrasing but would you rather go through pain?

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ok my grades are so bad...i just always put everything off till the last minute...and i come on the computer before i do my homework and stuff..I CANT HELP IT!! if i dont get my grades up i wont be able to see my boyfriend, talk on the phone or go on the computer...i have this HUGE project due on wednesday and my partner is a total flake everytime i want to get together to work on it "shes going out" and i told my teacher and he doesnt care..so me and her are going in the comp lab tomrrow to work on our proj at lunch....but we havent even started...im freaking out and i already tryed working on it and i dont get it!! HELP....what can i do...my grades are so so bad theyre ALL D's and C's...=\ i just never feel like doing my homework and i cant push myself to do it...how do you guys get it all done?? btw 9th grade/15 female

well... im in 9th grade too.. im taking hard classes... well besides that, just think about it, you apparently are worried that you won't be able to talk to your boyfriend or use the phone or computer.. that should be your reason to do your homework, your motivation... and as for your friend you should slap her in the face and tell her to get to work! projects are really important grades...

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How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!

hmm well the most advice I can give you is to make your decision on which one you love the most, I mean it's bad enough you're having an affair but.. you should make your decision and try and not make a jerry springer scene out of it

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For those of you that have your tongue peirced did it hurt, can you compare to ne other peirceings? was it a quick pain? and what size gauge do they put it first?

well, i haven't gotten my tongue pierced but... of course it's going to hurt, its not like your tongue is a special exception to pain.. i mean think about it, if you stuck a nail straight through your tongue wouldn't it hurt? and depending on how good of the person is can determine whether or not is a quick pain... and i'm sure that the after pain is even worse.. because you are making a whole that shouldn't even be there in the first place...

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A while ago me and me best friend experimented( not below the belt). My friend and i are 13 and girls. After i loved that it happened and i want to do it again. I don't like her like that it's just i liked what happened between us as friends. I sended signal to do it again to her. I think she wants to do it again too. We even make jokes a lot about. I sounds like i like her. I let her know that i wanted to do it again, but i'm afraid she'll not want to be my BFF if actually ask her to experiment again. What should i do??

lol, well just talk to her ask her and make her know that you're not interested in her persay.. but that you're interested in what you did and you liked it and try and make her understand that you are not a lesbian.. because right now, that's how it seems you are acting just because your doing these things with a girl.. but since you're not just make sure that she understands that

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what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them?

lol... well i'm assuming this is a little kid asking this question... you should probably ask your dad this question since i'm sure he's had lots of erections in his lifetime... and to get to the point guy got an erection when they were born... thus saying that guys get them right when they come out of their mothers womb... and what makes a guy get an erection is stimulation by thoughts and physical feelings like rubbing

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