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My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED.

Heyy,

you just need to be honest with him. Just tell him you'd think you two would be better off as friends. If you two are just friends, it might be easier to talk to him and comfort him. He definitely needs a friend right now.

His lips are really big? Well mine are kinda big too. Lol. But I'm a girl.

xoxo Gretchen

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Late last year I mustered up the courage to see a gynocologist because my period is unhealthily sporadic. One of the questions they asked before the check up was "Are you sexually active?" At 15, I don't think it's appropriate to have a partner. However, I would like to know if they ask you the question because the office needs to know if your hymen is broken... or if it has to do with something else. In my case, my hymen is already broken, but I haven't had sex with a partner yet. What should I answer in the future?

You should tell them the truth, because they will believe you. They get alot of youngsters coming in who have been sexually active, so they basically have to ask everyone. The doctors know that you don't have to not be a virgin to have your hymen broken, you could of had it broken exercising or in an activity. I get asked this when I go to the Gyn, too. I just tell them the truth about it. They usually only ask you once if you have the same doctor, so I only had to tell my doctor about my experiences once, but of course if you have a problem down there, they will usually ask you again.

xoxo Reggii

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I really like this guy but there is one problem, he has a girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. That's just not what I do. He is really easy to talk to and he is really cute. The other guys who I have had crushes on were really cute but shallow. But this guy is different. What should I do?

signed,
confused

If you really truly like him, then it will find a way to work out. You should get to know him better and just become friends first. If he gets to know you, and gets to see how awesome you are, then maybe he will decide that he wants to be with you!

I used to like this guy who had a really mean girlfriend, but then I got to know the guy and I found out that he had feelings for me too, and then we went out! Sometimes things just seem to work out like that.

xoxo Reggii

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would you consider "to hell with it" to be vulgar? as in cursing?

No!Definitely not! There's tons of worse things, but I don't like really consider swear words bad, because they're just words. It could hurt some people, but I don't think it's as bad as some things!

xoxo Gretch

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ive been w/ my bf for about 8 months now .. and i love him soo much. When i hang out w/ my ex bf and see him w/ his new gf i get kinda jelious, but i dont like him like that. we're best friends and hes like my brother but i dont no what to do. I feel like i might have feelings but i dont no.

That's okay, it's common for people to feel like that after they break up with someone. If you really love your boyfriend, stick with him. You probably just have some left over feelings from that relationship with your ex boyfriend. It just might seem a little weird to be hanging out as friends, but you'll probably get used to it over time! Just try to decide who you really like by spending time with both of the guys! That's what I did, but then I went back to my Ex after I made him really jealous.

Hope I helped!

xoxo Regina

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