When it comes to relationships I've been through a lot. I used to be so desperate to be in one I'd get myself in the worst situations, but no matter how bad things were I got through them and now I'm in a loving, caring relationship and have been for almost two years.
I like to give honest, blunt advice and I won't write a book for an answer that can be summed up in two lines! I don't care about my rating, so I'll tell you the truth rather than what you want to hear. So if you don't like the harsh reality of what I'm going to tell you don't ask me private questions.
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I was just wondering what most people thought.
Would you rather regret something you said or regret not saying anything at all? And why? Your opinion means nothing if you don't explain. (link)
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It really depends what's being said. Care to tell us what you're thinking of saying?
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okay. i was at a party with my boyfriend. we make out like 24/7. at the party i wanted to hang out not make out. so he broke up with me. i really like him. i asked if he wanted to make out to get back together he said no i want to have sex. he said make it sexy. wen we got home i put on see through laundray with a thong and a bra under. he said lets just see what happens. if it doesn't thats okay. that was a big relief. i took off the landray so iwas in my bra and thong. we made out for like an hour on my bed just rolling around on each other. all of a sudden we got really deep. he took off his clothes. while we were kissing he took off my bra and thong. then we did it. with out a conodm. i started to suck on his dic* he was feeling me everywhere. before i new it we were sleeping together. he said that was the best sex ever. and now we have sex at partys and anywhere. sometimes we don't even make it to the bed. i love him we french kiss while we have it. some times he takes pics of me naked for memorys. am i having sex to much. now he wheres a condom. (link)
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You are being used! He's only giving you this attention because you're giving him sex. Stop, you're only going to end up hurt. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have broken up with you just because you wouldn't make out at a party. My boyfriend loves me whether I have sex with him or not. It sounds like you're only doing this for him too, not because you want to. Like when you said you were relieved when he said just to see what happens. If you're going to have sex you need to get yourself on some kind of hormonal birth control too. Destroy any pictures, they'll only come back to haunt you.
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Hello, I just turned 24 years old 2 weeks ago. You think I would be happy but I am not. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have never recieved and gifts from a man or even been out on a date. I have never even kissed a man. i remember when i was 16 my friends would laugh and me because i had not done ane anything yet. I thought i was a loser back then but now that I am 24 I don't think i am in the loser catergory any more. could it be that no one pays attention to me because I am over weight? (size 16) If that is true then why do I see girls who are way bigger than me with a boyfriends. Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just a loser? (link)
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Honestly I think your weight might have something to do with it. If you're thin and pretty men automatically notice you so you can be as boring and quiet as you like. If you're bigger though you need something that makes you stand out from the rest to get noticed. Like you need to be loud, bubbly, funny and have a good personality. That's why other bigger girls get boyfriends. There's nothing wrong with you and you're not a loser. You just need to get out more and get noticed!
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I've recently asked this wuestion before, and I just wanted some new answers.I hope you guys don't mind.
Alright so me and my best guy friend, we are close. Close as in he tells me mostly everything. He's such a cool guy and I love him to death. [I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, I'm sure I don't] Well, people at school always tell me that he likes me, but I usually don't believe it. But lately he has been acting strange around me. Yesterday night we had a party thing, and I asked him if he wanted to dance[It wasn't even a slow song, and I wasn't trying to make a move or anything.] And he goes, and I quote, "No. I mean do you know how akward that would be later? I mean we are in the same math class." Yes we are in the same math class, and that seems to be the number one problem. If I ever ask him something in a friendly way [Like do you wanna dance?] he always uses the excuse that we are in the same math class as a way not to do it. But he always dances with my other friends and has a good time. But refuses me. I don't understand what's going on with him. Does he have feeligns for me and is trying to hide them? Or does he just not like me at all?
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He are sone things he does to me [and some only to me,] if this helps. In the hallways he will come up behind me and hug me or put his arm around me and hug me for a second. If I ask for his sweatshirt he will give it to me. He always teases me, but never puts me down. He sits behind me in math, so he will always try and talk to me or he'll poke me or something. Today he was making fun of the tan lines on my back [I'm a swimmer] And he always looks for me. Say like before practice we go to Randalls, he will come in there looking for me for no apparent reason. But he will still discuss things with me about other girls and tell me what he thinks, whether they are "hot" or "ugly", or pretty or nice and whatever. And he always tells me things that I should do, like dye my hair or soemthing.[It's mostly about my hair. He doesn't do it to offend me though]. Hope this helps with my/your analysis.
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That's so strange. some things suggest that he does like you, and others that he doesn't. I think he might like you as a good friend but nothing more. That's why he might not want to dance because you might get the wrong impression/it might make things awkward. I think the best thing to do is to ask him why he wouldn't and what being in the same class has to do with anything.
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Where can I find pictures of Molly Steele? (link)
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http://www.google.com/images I'm not sure who she is but type in Molly Steele then it's best to type in whatever she does so you don't get lots of pictures of strangers.
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Okay so this is my first prom.. ima Sophomore and my boyfriend is a senior so hes taking me. I want this to be special for him since its his senior prom but he graduated early so he really doesnt hang out with anybody but me now from our highschool anyway this night is basically gonna be all about us and he always calls me his beautiful princess and personally i dont think im anything close to the looks that he deserves so I really just wanna look like the beautiful princess he deserves. I never really dress up that much for him nor make sure my hairs done perfect along with makeup. my dress is fusha/magenta pink and my accent color is gold. theres gold beading on the dress so i got gold wedges for shoes and a gold clutch/bag. I know for my hair i want it in a updo and romantic and elegant my hair is a dirty blonde and curly its pretty thick also and right at my colar bone. how do u think i should do it? ive looked at pretty much all the websites i could find searching google and i couldnt find one that i reallly like. and for my makeup i know i want a smokey eye but with purples. because my eyes are green purple makes them pop. but will that be too much class with my dress? let me know. i rate high for good helpful answers
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I don't think purple eyeshadow will clash with your dress. For the best hair and makeup why don't you get it done professionally? They will know what'll look best on you.
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Me and my friend need something to do.. I"m not sure how much money she has, and I'm low today, so I need something cheap. Any ideas? Please respond quick, I gotta call her soon.
5's for good advice! (link)
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When me and my boyfriend are skint we go to the beach or for a walk or to a pond to feed the swans.
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My boyfriend and I go to different schools. Before we started going out, we started talking about 2 months ago. Before either of us had feeling for each other, he told me he was going to prom with a girl from his school but they are 'just friends'. So last night, was his prom with that girl. I was wondering, was it wrong for him to take her when i'm his girlfriend? I know they are just friends but people have told me that he was being a jerk by taking her instead of me. So what do ya'll think? (link)
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If I was you it would bother me, but you have to see it from the other girls point of view. Imagine if you were the other girl and you had everything ready for your prom and were really excited when suddenly your date dropped you in it at the last minute. I think going with her makes him so not a jerk and actually a pretty sweet, considerate, caring guy, which is good to have in a boyfriend so be thankful. That's as long as they did go as just friends and nothing happened between them.
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ok well im preety good with working out and my weight has been the same for like 4 months but i eat just because i feel like it and i dont know what i can do to stop so i can loose weight if anyone has any ideas please help me. ill rate 5's (link)
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Make sure you have three proper set meals a day at decent times, especially breakfast so you don't end up binging during the day. Drink lots of water because often people mistake thirst for hunger. Try to keep yourself busy or out of the house so you're not thinking so much about eating and it's not so readily available to you. Keep more healthy snacks in the house for when you do really want a snack, like fruit. Don't ban any foods from your diet either otherwise you'll crave it, just eat less of the fatter foods. Exercise helps too.
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is there any way to delete completly an aol screen name and password?someone has my password and logs on as me.
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Yes. You go into the master screen name on your computer and then in Keyword type "names". Then you can do what you want with any account.
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this situation is going to sound ridiculous, but here goes. i had to make a collage for my school's yearbook of latest trends. most of the trendy stuff i put on there i didn't like myself, but yeah. i put a picture of daddy yankee on there since i thought his music appealed to most hispanics at my school. but now i learned that there was some kind of controversy about him hating mexicans or whatever. my school is around 60 percent mexican. do you think there will be some sort of uproar over it since it's now in the yearbook? i don't want to be the one screwed over. (link)
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A few people might over react about it, but I don't think it'll be as big a deal as you're worried about, so try not to worry. If someone says something just tell them you didn't realise at the time.
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ok...lets just say my boyfriends name is jim.well...jim still acts like a 9 year old kid.He always forgets things and hes always late to something cuz he oversleeps.He can barely support me cuz he doesnt make all that great money.I know i shouldnt be saying this but hes not exactly my "dream guy"and were engaged!!He just doesnt make me happy anymore and hes not my prince charming.I want a guy who will spoil me and can take care of me and support me.I've already told jim this and he says he will work on it but he will never do it.trust me.but anywayz,i want to leave jim but I know that I'am all hes got.When his ex g/f left him(who was my friend)he thought about suicide.I just dont want him to do it if I left him because it would haunt me forever.WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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I believe you when Jim says he'll work on it but you know he won't. That's what men are like, even if they do change it's only for a short while then they go back to the way they were. You shouldn't stay with someone and be unhappy just because of what they might do. Worry about your own feelings and break it off because the longer you leave it the harder it'll be. If he's got any friends ask them to watch out for him afterwards and call him once in a while to make sure he's ok.
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well i like this guy and i know he likes me back cause i can tell..and his friend told me! but he's really angry at me cause once i've been kinda mean whatever yeah and i really like to be friends again soooo when i tried to talk he didnt answer that much (he did but is was just weird all he said was uhu and yeah and stuff like that :-/) and in school he is just weird he looks at me but just weird cause everytime i'm in the same hall or classroom he walkes away cause he's mad! so what should i do now? i really wanna be friends and i love him soo much he'S the kinda guy i always wanted sooo what should i do to get him to not be so angry and just forgive me?? i already appologized but as i was saying he answered weird!
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Try apologising to her again and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him and tell him that you like him and would like to be more than friends. After that, you've done all you can and if he's too stubborn to forgive you it's his loss!
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Hi, I'm from Italy. I met my girlfriend about 7 months ago and I love her very much.She is a very friendly girl and got lots of friends. she is still in contact with some of her exs and that drives me mad.she says they are still friends and if the relationship didnt work well between them does not mean they are bad people and thats why she still is in contact with them, she is also telling me she needs to see them sometimes as the are friends and she miss them but I really don't like it.I don't know how to react and what to tell her or ..maybe I'm wrong.please give me some advice.thanks (link)
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Bollocks to you being wrong, I can totally understand where you're coming from. I don't know anyone in a serious, long-term relationship that would be happy about their partner being friends with their ex. And out of respect for my partner I wouldn't see my exes and he does the same for me.
There's nothing you can do about it though if you don't want to break up for her so maybe you could make it easier on yourself and go with her when she goes to see her exes? That way you will know what they're getting up to and see that they're just friends. I don't see why that would be a problem for her if she's got nothing to hide.
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my ribs stick out and i don't like how it looks, so how can i gain more weight there? or is there any exercises i can do to tone that area? because its like skinny up there but a little wider as you go down so it looks weird lol. and i just want my ribs to not show up as much. what can i do to fix that? (link)
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Eat more, and do the exercises to tone up your stomach, so that doesn't get bigger.
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Is there such a thing as a battery powered straightener? I ask because it is normally hot in my first class at school and when its hot..of course..i sweat..and my hair goes balistic on me..especially after the first time i straighten it. So i was wondering if there is such a thing or if there is like a mini straightener or something...if not then does anyone know of anything that will help me? thanks (link)
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Yes. Here's one, it even has it's own charger, so you don't need to keep changing the battteries. It's only £19.95, or $30.91USD, you'll need to buy an adaptor too though if you are in the US and the delivery is expensive.
http://www.edirectory.co.uk/pf/pages/moreinfoa.asp?pe=DAIFFBEQ_+complements+pro+ceramic+anywhere&cid=880
For something similar just try typing "Battery travel hair straightener" into google.com
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i really need to get tan in like a month and i cant go in a tanning bed is there any other way to get really tan in like a month? thanks! (link)
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Yeah, if you want a real one try sunbathing and going outside a lot. If artificial will do you can get a professional spay tan or if you don't have much money you can get tinted moisturisers and fake tans that like dye the skin. Be careful with those though, you don't want to end up orange!
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okay so i had a sony windows 98 computer and now i have a new one.. but my mom was planning on putting it outside so someone could take it or something, so if someone were to take it would they be able to see all my documents on my old computer? (the sony windows 98 one) (link)
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Yes. Even information you think you've deleted can be accessed by someone who's really good at computers and knows what they're doing. I think it'd be best to sell it or give it someone you know rather than let a random stranger take it. Even if it is broken you could still probably get a little money for it.
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If I get my belly button pierced soon, how long do I have to wait to be able to go in the ocean and a swimming pool for long periods of time? Summer is commming soon but I want my belly button peirced, BUT not if I can't go swimming! Also, how long does it take for your belly button to completley heal after you get it peirced? DO you suggest getting your belly button pierced or nah? Thanks for the advice! (link)
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I've got mine done, and I recommend it. It should be ok to go in after a couple of weeks as long as you clean it properly afterwards. Mine took about a year to heal completly, but I still went swimming and stuff soon after and it healed just fine.
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I bought my laptop around last july. I'm just wondering, can a computer have no microsolf to type on? the only thing i can actually type on is wordpad, which is dumb & has nothing i need. i NEED microsolf word and its on my computer but when i push it to go into it, a thing comes up asking for like the product key and stuff.
please help!
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Does your word happen to be an illegal copy?
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