about

Heyloooo. I'm really not that cool. lol. Ask me anything though! I'm 13 but I'm good at answering love life questions. I can answe ranything you throw at me.
Well anyway, about me.... HmMmMMmmm. My name is Rachel, Rach or Rachee for short. I like the band Yellowcard so0o0o0o much they rock ass. I also like Taking back sunday, The Used, Boys Like Girls andSimple Plan etc.... My favorite books are Hana Kimi ( it's manga. I haven't finished the series so don't tell me what happens!!!!!!!!) I also like Chobits. I am a hugeeeeeee fan of the video game kingdom hearts! I'm in love with Axel!! "Got it memorized?" Lmao! Yeah I'm pretty dorky. I like basket ball. I play a foward, sometimes a guard. I enjoy skateboarding too. I have to teach myself though! Lol I suck at it. (don't take my advice on that lol) I also am praticing to be a catcher for softball. Oh and if you haven't noticed I'm a girl! HAhahahahaaa. Yeah, my 'label' is probably punk or scene. I hate stupid preps who are like I'm emo, meanwhile they are in a f---in' pink miniskirt with their stupid blech blonde hair and obnoxious laugh. Lol. Just don't be something your not around me !! I hate that! Oh yeah and boys-- I'm single!!! jkjkjk lolololol. WEll I am single (=[).... BUT NOT FOR LONG!!!! I've got my eye on someone lolol. Anyway I've been through alot SO ask me anythanggg

I have exprienced:
Being bullied.
Death of a friend(s)/ Family member(s).
Losing friends.
Horrible teahcers.
Crazy Mom.
Crazy Siblings (I have six older ones. I should know.LMFAO)
Peer pressure.
And a bunch of other stuff I just can't think of right now HAHahhahahahahahahaha lol I love you!!
Rachee

advice

well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement

He might have just been joking---
If he wasn't then he is still probably upset that you cheated on him. See- He insults you to make himself feel better. Just try not to let it get to you. =]]]]]

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I haven't had my period for a little bit over 2 months now, and I am getting worried. I haven't been sexually active, and if I have I have absolutely no memory of it. But I am still very worried that something is wrong. I started my period like 1 year ago, and I usually have my periods around the same time as my mother, but again, I haven't have my period in a little over in 2 months. I mean, my mom has had 3 periods so far, that means I missed 3. So is there something I should be worried about?

Probably not, because it can take up to two years for your period to get regular! Don't worry about it! =]]]]]]]

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um well you might think im crazy but its true this isnt a joke one day everyone was saying my boobs were too big so it made me really mad and i didnt want them anymore so i tried to cut one of my boobs off and now i dont know what to do cuz it bleed like crazy and my mom took me to the docter but i told him it was an car accident
then i went to school and they made fun of me more and called me uno boob so i didnt want just one boob so i had to cut of the other one i think i might have a real problem cuz then they called me emo and flat so i save my money to get plastic sugery to get normal sized ones. then they said i got plastic sugery and then i wanted to cut them off again i just want to die i dont know what to do. please help me!

The best thing to do with bullies like that is ignore them. Don't let them hurt you. Most of all don't hurt yourself. They are probably just insecure about there ta-tas. =]]]]] good luck!

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ok so i got my hair dyed today, and i absolutly HATE IT!!! its like RED and my natural color is blonde. Is there any home remidies that could possibly get my old color back?!?! thx!

Bleach it again. It will be painful and your hair will be damaged but it's better than your red now.

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what do you do when you're with a guy that you liked for a long time and were so much fun together but when you started going out everything went down hill. nowadays after only 4ish months there's just as many bad times as good, if not more. when we're good, we're great. but when we're bad, it sucks arse. like ridiculous. what do you think, does the good cancel out for the bad?

It depends how good the goods are and how bad the bads are. Write down all the issues and rate them on a scale from 1-10 depending on how important they are . Add up the good ones and then add up the bad ones. If the good ones are higher then there's ur answer. =]]]]]]],]

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What's the title of the song?
main lyrics:
apple - bottom jeans
and
boots with the fur
the whole club was lookin' at her

The song is Low by Flo Rida ft. T-pain

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i just started getting cold like symptoms. could these symptoms be a sign of pregnancy? (if i am pregnant, i'd be about a week in.) the symptoms are headache, runny/stuffy nose, stomach ache. but i only really have a stomach ache when i think about it. i think it's kinda in my head.

Out of those the stomache ache is probably the only sign of pregnency out of those. You can take a test if you want to see if you are preggers or not. =]]]]]]

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i'm 15 years old and live in cypress, texas.
i know there isn't many places that hire at 15 here.
any suggestions of what i can do to make some money?
i have 3 months of summer & i really really need money!

Try grocery stores and babysitting.

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i need new clothes.
i like dresses
skirts
skinny jeans
anything bold or with bright colors

black is good too

idk how to describe other than lowering it to labels i like stuff that falls under the catagories:

scene
punk

either of these two are usually right

i also like cute accesories like bows

help?

know where i can find clothes like these?
but not hot topic or anything most everyone has

For cheap places you can shop at like Walmarts and targets, which are just as good as the $300 stuff. Or there is place called the Garage. It's from Canada. I like the clothes and accessories there.

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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more

Wait, I have a question. Are you cheating on him? If you are just pick one guy your really like and stick with him. Nobody deserves to be cheated on.

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i think i like my best guy friend. and some people say that he likes me because he can always find something wrong with the guy i want to go out with. does he like me or is he trying to protect me?

It could be either. Drop him some hints and see if he picks any of them up. If he likes u and u like him then something might happen...... =]]]]]]

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Im turning 19 this year, december 12th, and it falls on a FRIDAY. what should i do. Its cold out, so I can't go camping or nothing but I want to do something fun and small. Any ideas?

I know it's a bit like 7th grade, but you could have a sleepover. lol.
Movies is always a good choice. Whether at ur house or in the theaters.
You can go out to dinner too.

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okaay so i want to talk to a guy on my way home on the bus. the thing is that i dont know what to saay.
we've never talked before.
i was thinking about asking him for a quarter or something :P
any ideas?
and how should i keep the convo going, be sympathic and make him like me?

Drop a notebook on top of him "by accident". Then just pretend not to notice. And when he gives it back be like oh thanks sooo much it would have been so bad if i lost it! Hope everything works out =]]]]]

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okay well, i have liked this kid lets call him alex and im pretty sure he likes me too, he's always flirting with me, always iming me, always waiting after class for me we sort of have a thing. except none of us are really brave to admit it. i dont EXACTLY know if he likes me though which is kinda annoying, maybe he just thinks we are really good friends.
anyway in english i sit at a table with JUST him and his friend chad. well alex didnt come to english today and stuff and i knew he was in band and they made an announcement saying they were gonna be late so i was just like oh okay.. so i was just sitting there with chad (we are really good friends) and one of the student teachers was like "wheres alex?" and i was like, "oh i think he is at band" and out of no where chad goes "oooooohh you know his shecdule" and i was like "actually he told me he had band?" and then like i kept looking at the door cause he wasnt there and i was getting kind of nervouss haha so chad goes again "awww getting kind of nervouss?!" whicih is totally weird, he never ever made comments like this before. Then when alex finally came and sat down at our table stupid Chad goes "awww your baby is backk! you like him so much" luckily for me, i had sunburn and you couldnt see my face turning bright red so i was just like "you know what chad, i dont like him, your a retard and can you shutup for once in your life?" and he said sorry and stuff, i dont know if alex heard me or not though.. cause he seemed like he wasnt paying attention but the rest of the period he was REALLY upset and he didn't even talk AT ALL ,or flirt like usual. But like i didn't know what else to do! i couldnt just admit to everyone i really do like him so i just said i didnt. i just think this is kinda weird tho! cause chad never ever ever talks to me about liking him EVER and me and alex have been
"flirting" for a long time now! why would he chose now to do it? does maybe alex like me?

Maybe Alex told chad he likes you, and asked chad to find out if you like alex, so he said all that stuff to see if you would crack and admit it. Then maybe Alex iver heard you saying you don't like him and got upset. That's just a theory. Don't trust me. I hope it works out!! =]]

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17/f and he's 17/m. i broke up with my first bf cause i really felt nothing for the 4 months we've dated. it was mostly lust. i felt no love. it was more of a status thing. i did like him though. thus, i didnt feel bad when i broke it off.
well, first, he acted all cool like..whatever, man. i could get 10 chicks better than you in a day. so i'm like..ehh who cares..?
and so now...he's beginning to act like a begging dog. he stares at me with these puppy eyes..and gives me looks and weird gestures..and when he hugs me..he hugs me unusually tight and touches me like when we were in a relationship...its not a friendly hug. which is exactly what we are right now. friends. yet he doesnt understand this...
well, today..he told me that im perfect..and asked me to reconsider my decision..i didnt say anything. and then he told me to tell him whether or not i love him anymore.
honestly, i don't know what to do about him. i like him...but i wouldn't wanna go back. how do i let him down easily? cause i'm not too sure he's being serious either.
thank you!

Okay there are a couple of situations here.
1: He could really want you back just because he can't get another girl
OR
2:He may really love you. You can either give him another chance or to let him down you could just say no but i want to be good friends. If he still acts like your still in a relationship, then talk to him. Tell him you feel weird when he acts like that. =]]]]

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So one of my friends cuts. hes been cutting for a while, and hes been on and off with cousellors and stuff. Hes always talking to me about his cutting but never about how hes handling it or how he wants to stop. So tonight I kinda flipped out, im trying to help him by giving him suggestions on what he can do to try and figure out his problem. You see hes so stubborn that hes always trying to find something wrong. He started calling me little miss perfect, saying stuff how im always trying to fix peoples problems. So I got ticked. I told him if you dont want help dont ask for it, because everyone seems to ask for help and when I give them it they turn and treat me like crap.

So now apparently hes going to the hospital. Im assuming because he cut himself bad after our coversation. The convo didnt end well, infact it didnt really end at all, i just signed out. Should I feel bad? Does it seem like I made a poor choice in how I responded to him? I know that hes sensitive but why should I always "baby" him or cover up whats really going on when he needs to hear the truth. I've tried the nice way, the funny way, the boring ways, and tonight i've tried the mean way. Regardless, im always listening to him whine and complain about how he wants to stop but he never takes it uppon himself to really find ways to stop. Im just so frustrated with it.

Feel Guilty or not guilty?
I think not guilty but I just need to see it from someone elses side.

It's really not your fault he cuts. He IS just eally stubborn. He needs professional help seriously. You did the best that you can. Just continue to support him to get better and ignore his comments. Maybe he is going through a rough patch in his life. I hope he gets better soon.

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well i was wondering if anyone could make me into a cartoon or anime if i gave you a picture of me

i dont really care how but yeah
thanks in advance
:]

Im reasonable at drawing anime. i could try if you want. im really not that good though lol.. =]]]]]

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Okay, so I work out usually like everyday and I have a pretty nice body I guess. I have abs and what not. Oh, by the way, I'm a girl, I'm 15. But anyways, I still have this like fat on my lower back that I just can't get off and it's driving me crazy. Any workouts I can do or any suggestions?

There is this thing that is like a backward crunch for your back. Lay on your stomach and without using your hands, arms, elbows lift your chest and head up. =]]]]]

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i want to curl my hair for tomorrow but it never stays curled. should i put spray or mousse in it? or how do i get it to stay curled for the day?

(i have semi-thick hair)

You could curl less at a time, that helps it stay in a little. Also, when its on the curler, spray it with hairspary. Good Luck and merrry holidays!
R☺chee

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im 16 - 5'8 - 138 lbs. I used to weigh 150 but recently I've been working out alot and eating healthy. I still have 8 more lbs. to go before I'm at my goal weight but I can't seem to lose anymore weight! I exercise twice a day (mostly cardio) and I eat super healthy. I haven't even been able to lsoe one pound in a week and I've tried exercising more, eating less, I even take a motabolism booster now and NOTHING. what can i do to lsoe those last few pounds?

This is ture. The mroe you work out and get stronger and healthier the harder it is to lose weight. I think your weight sounds fine now.Just keep exercising i guess! :)
R☺chee

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