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My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc." (link)
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Hey hun!
Awwww that is horrible! I'm sorry! That's really mean that your friend makes fun of the way you look. Any true friend would not make fun of the way their friend looks. You need to let her know that when she says things about the way you look, it makes you feel horrible. After letting her know she should stop, but if not you should really stop talking to her. That is not a real friend at all. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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Volleyball is the one sport I love with a passion. I connect with it so well and I've played it for 5 years. This year, alot of conflicts came up that make me miss many practices, games, and tournaments. So, I talked to my coach about becoming team manager and helping out in practices and keeping score for the team during some games. Things like that. But, last year I sat out at every game because I was a freshman, and this year would be my time to play in games. It's hard for me, but I'm deciding to go with the team manager or actually try out and have the concequence of my coach really getting mad at me for missing so many pracitces... which one sounds better? (link)
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Hey hun,
If I were you I would just go with the team manager, because that wouldn't be so good if you kept playing volleyball and kept missing so many practices. That would make the coach think that your not responsible enough to attend your own practices, and I'm sure they wouldn't be very happy about it at all. Plus, you've been playing volleyball for 5 years! Try being a team manager for now, and if you don't like it, then I would try out to play volleyball again. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Good luck with that! Let me know how it goes. Luv ya! Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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problem alert! i really like this guy, but he likes someone else. he's liked her since like 4th grade, and he's never liked anyone else.
heres' the twist: even though i asked him out a month ago, and he wasn't exactly talky after that (he said no) lately he's been pretty nice to me, and even a little flirty. so, does this mean he likes me now? i still like him... what do i do??
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Hey hun,
It sounds to me like he might like you! You need to ask him how he feels about you. He might not like the other girl anymore. Just let him know that you like him a lot, and your wondering if he feels the same way, and if not you hope to stay really good friends. Make sure you let him know that you don't want any weirdness between the 2 of you if he says no. Good luck hun! I hope I helped you out! If not, I'm sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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14/f....i just started high school and have made a lot of new friends...some are popular and some are not. i hang out with the non-popular group every single day at lunch but i always have the other Popular group in the back of my mind. in my heart i know i want to hang out with the popular group not just for the guys or w/e but b/c of the people. easy right? i should hang out with the popular kids if my heart is set on it. WRONG...i kinda, sorta dont want to stop hanging out with the nonpopular kids b/c of their whole group, the guys, friends, etc...but i dont know which group..please help..thanx
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Hey hun,
Just think about who you enjoy hanging out with more! It shouldn't be that hard to decide. If I were you, I would hang out with the nonpopular kids, because I would feel as if I don't fit in with the popular kids. Popular people tend to think their so much better than everyone else, and their way too snobby. I can't stand that. You don't want people to think your too good for everyone else. Decide which group you would rather hang out with, but I would choose the nonpopular if I were you. I know you'll make the right decision. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. Let me know which group you pick please! :) If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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I am a 13 year old girl...
ok there is this guy...i like him but i dont know if he likes me...i dont know what to do cause i do not want to ruin our friendship...most of my friends say he likes me too cause i normally have something of his (hoodie, chain necklace, ect.) What should i do?
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Hey hun,
That's really cute! I think you should tell him how you feel about him. If you always have things of his, maybe he likes you a lot also. If I were you, I would write him a note and ask him how he feels about you, or just go up to him and ask him in school. You could always ask him to hang out sometime, maybe at the mall or over your house or his, or you guys could see a movie together. Just tell him you really like him a lot, and your just wondering if he feels the same way about you. Let him know that if he doesn't feel the same way, you hope to stay really good friends with him. You never know he might not like you now, but he might like you later on sometime in the future. Don't worry hun, the worst he'll say is no if he doesn't like you. It shouldn't ruin your friendship at all. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. Let me know how everything goes! Good luck! Luv ya! Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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hey i have a question for all guys: are guys turned off by big feet? i wear a size 8 1/2, and so i was just wondering. thx for all answers, i'll give all NICE answers 5s! ♥ (link)
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Hey hun,
Guys shouldn't be turned off by big feet at all. If a guy is that shallow enough to care about the size of someone's feet, then their not worth your time. Everyone has their flaws. I hope I helped you out hun! I'm sorry if I didn't. Luv ya! Leave one in my inbox if you have any other questions.
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Hello. I was just at my friends yesterday and from about 6 to 10 she was on the computer talking to her "internet boy friend" so i hung out with her sister. Then this morning same thing over again. Her dad even told her that it was rude and she didnt care and she knew i was upset. Shes the one that invited me so it makes very little sense too me. Shes my best friend and i dont want to stop being her friend or going to her house but shes a little to attached to her computer. What should i do? (link)
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Hey hun,
That's mean as hell that your friend did that to you. She shouldn't just invite you over and stay on the internet while your there. She should be hanging out with you while your over, and staying off the internet. I'm sorry to hear that. You need to tell her that it makes you upset that she sits on the internet when your over her house. If she's a real friend, she'll start hanging out with you and not sitting on the internet while your over. Try going over her house again and see if she stays on the internet talking to people after you just talked to her about not doing that. If she does the same thing, then I think you need to tell her your not going to go to her house again until she stops going on the internet while your over. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! Let me know how everything goes. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. \
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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them. (link)
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Hey hun,
I don't really think you can make anyone stop smoking, because it's their choice whether or not they want to smoke, and it's very hard to stop once you start. If people could make other people stop smoking, I'd make so many people stop because I hate it when people smoke. If your afraid of being pressured by them to smoke, then I don't think their real friends at all. Any real friends would not pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. They would support your decision not to smoke. Your smart, so don't be pressured into smoking! It's horrible! If their the type of people that will pressure you, then yes I do think you definitely need to stop talking to them, because they might actually get to you and you might start smoking. That wouldn't be so good! Stop talking to them now if their going to pressure you. If their not going to pressure you, then I would stay friends with them. Just ask them if they can avoid smoking around you. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. Luv ya!
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lately my best friend and i haven't been having the most fun. she's much more outgoing than me, and i often get left out in the dust. also, even though several people don't like her because of her loud, bossy style, she's convinced she's better than me. i really want to make the friendship work, because from grades 3-6 we've been the best of friends, but i've been working hard to keep it together for almost 2 years now, and she hardly ever talks to me anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. should i try to work more at the friendship, because sometimes we do have a lot of fun, or should i give up, or should i just spend less time with her but still keep her as a friend? i'm sorry this question is so long, but please answer anyways. thanks=D (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm sorry! That's not right at all. I was in the same situation as you with my old best friend. She stopped talking to me, and she never wanted to hang out with me anymore when we used to hang out every single day! I got sick of it, so we don't even talk anymore. If I were you, I would just forget about this girl, because she doesn't seem like a real friend at all. A real friend would keep in touch with you after being friends for all those years, and hang out with you a lot.That's a long time! If she thinks shes better than everyone else, than why would you wanna hang out with her anyway? That's horrible. Noone is better than anyone else. You really need to get rid of this girl. My best friend and I were friends for 4 years, but we're not anymore. I know you can find better friends than her. You deserve better hun! I really hope I helped you out. If I didn't I'm so sorry. Luv ya! Please let me know how everything goes okay? Luv ya!
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I really like this guy and i have for a really long time. A couple nights ago was a dance and we were around each other pretty much the whole time. and if i walked away he'd walk with me. He's kinda seeing someone right now but they arent going out. Well, to make things specific, I've liked him for about a year. We've gone out a few times. He calls me once everyday or every other day but he doesn't call the girl he's seeing on the phone. And the night of the dance he's like "this dance blows" and im like "why cuz (the girls name) isnt here?" and he's like "yea"..i dont know I'm just really confused can anyone help me? thank you sooo much! (link)
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Hey hun,
It sounds to me like he doesn't really have feelings anymore for the girl he's seeing. Since he was around you pretty much the whole time at the dance, there's a chance he might like you! I think you should talk to him sometime and find out how he feels about you. You can always write him a note and give it to him in school, or just talk to him in person. See if he would like to hang out sometime maybe over your house, or at the mall, or you guys could go see a movie. Just let him know that you've liked him for a really long time, and you want to know how he feels about you. Tell him that even if he doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about him, you still hope to stay really good friends with him. I'm sure he'll understand. I hope everything works out for you hun! Good luck! Let me know how it goes. Luv ya! Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
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about 3 months ago me and my " best friend " qot into a HUGE fiqht .. she did me soo wrong .. after a while we decided to squish the beef and just be friends .. the thing is i dont just want to be friends .. i want to be best friends again but we barely talk and when we do its like hi .. wuhts up ? .. and bye .. ii really miss her but i dont know what she thinks. i want to be strong about it and forget about her cause of what she did but i cant .. its hard when everytime i see her online or talk to her i have flashbacks of when we were best friends and all the jokes and insiders we had together .. now she got other friends and its like i dont exist until she wants something or needs advice for something. i just dont know what to do .. forget about her and worry about my real friends or what ?!?!?!? i need heLp ASAP (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm really sorry. That sounds exactly like me and my old best friend. I always think about when we were friends, and how we went everywhere together. Now we don't even talk anymore. If I were you I would just forget about her, and worry about your real friends. If she was a real friend, she would talk to you a whole lot more and actually wanna hang out with you. I'm so sorry that you guys hardly even talk anymore. I feel the same way as you do. I hope everything works out for you! Forget about her! You deserve better friends than that! I hope I helped hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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I have a boyfriend that I am very much inlove with. But in every relationship that I am ever in it goes great until they want to do something sexual! I duno why i just get really shy and scared. its not that im afraid of the thing its just im afraid of doing it with the person! its kind of confusing. I really love my boyfriend though and I want to be able to do stuff with him when the time comes cause I love him to death! How can I loosen up? Any advice?
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Hey hun,
I don't think you should loosen up at all! If you get really shy and scared, then your definitely not ready to do anything. If I were you, I would wait until your 100 percent ready, because you won't be shy and you won't be scared. You'll feel very comfortable with doing things with your boyfriend! I'm the same way, but I don't want to rush into doing anything, because I know deep down I'm not ready. I'm trying to find the right guy right now, and when I do I wanna take things slow. I want it to be very special. Wait until you know your ready, and you'll be so glad you waited. It'll be that much more special for the both of you! I'm sure your boyfriend will understand if you explain to him that your just not ready to do anything yet. If not, he's not a great boyfriend. I hope I helped you out hun! If you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox! Luv ya!
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13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why? (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm sure your very pretty! Girls always tend to think that their not attractive enough for guys, but you really are. You just have to think positive thoughts about yourself, and have self confidence. Guys like it when girls are confident. If guys don't think you are attractive and won't go out with you because of that, that's mean as hell. Looks don't count. The personality is what counts! I don't think guys find me attractive at all either, but I'm trying to be more confident about myself, because I know that most guys don't want a girl who has no self confidence! Tell yourself that your beautiful everyday. The guys that care about just looks and nothing else are not even worth going out with. Don't waste your time on them. You'll find a very sweet guy someday who cares about your personality, and how you are on the inside. I hope I helped you out hun! I'm sure your a very pretty girl. If you have any other questions, leave them in my inbox.
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Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks! (link)
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Hey hun!
It sounds to me like he likes you! You should write him a note asking him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime, like at the mall, a movie, or you guys can go over each others houses. You can also ask him in person if you'd like. See how he acts!!!!!! If he acts the same way he has been, you should ask him out if you really like him. I hope I helped you out hun! Good luck! That is so sweet! Let me know how everything goes, and leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. Luv ya!
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My very very good friends birthday is coming up. We just started being friends a month ago, when I met him & he's super cool. I've been thinking of getting him some presents, will you tell me if you think it's okay: Headphones [for his ipod because his are broken & they sound crappy] & the exorcist [original movie, he really wants to see it.] then i'm going to buy him a card & balloons, and also I wanted to make him a small cake. I'm really tight on money, so i was also wondering do you think he'd be okay w/ just me making him a cake and decorating it all pretty? instead of buying a cake? thanks so much. (link)
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Hey hun!
Awww! That is so sweet! That's nice of you to do something special like that for his birthday. I think he will love everything your doing for him, especially the cake your going to make for him. He'd probably love that you made him a cake, because you made it yourself, and didn't buy it from a store! He'll know that you think he's a great friend! Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. That is so sweet! Let me know how his b-day goes!
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I love Seth Green and his acting, and just about every movie I saw with him in it I liked (such as Without a Paddle, Rat Race, all the Austin Powers movies, etc.), so I was wondering if anyone saw the movie "Can't Hardly Wait". I want to see it, and I'm wondering what all your opinions are about it. I also want to know if it's an appropiate movie, like does it show "anything"? I know it's rated PG-13, but I'm just wondering if it has anything really bad in it, and I dont want to waste my money on a stupid movie.
Thanks so much! I rate fives and give feedback! (link)
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Hey hun!
I saw that movie not that long ago with my older sis and older brother. We laughed our asses off! I think you would love that movie. It's not an appropriate movie at all. You won't be wasting your money. Hope I helped hun! Luv ya!
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16/m. You've probably heard this topic before, and might even be sick of it, but I am curious to know what any and all of you think a 'nice guy' is. Is he a pushover? or is he the one who will lend a should to cry on? I want to know what you personally think a nice guy is, what qualities and personality traits would follow him, if you would want to have a nice guy as a boyfriend, and should there be more of them. Sorry it's a long question, but because too many people have so many different views on what exactly a nice guy is; I think this will offer everyone a chance to see things from a different perspective - nobody is right or wrong in this one. I'm not complaining saying its a bad thing or praising them either, just curious. Thanks (link)
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Hey sweetie,
To me a nice guy is someone who will do nice things for his girlfriend out of the blue, someone who tries to cheer his girlfriend up when shes not feeling good at all, someone who doesn't lie or cheat, someone who won't pressure a girl into doing something she doesn't want to do, someone who won't ignore his girlfriend in front of his friends just to make himself look good,someone who wants a long relationship and doesn't jump around from 1 girl to the next,and I would love if it a guy would watch chick flicks with his girlfriend if she ever wanted to. Too many guys that I talk to act like they can't watch any chick flicks, or they'll go crazy. I,myself, would want a nice guy as a boyfriend, because it would make me the happiest girl in the world. It's so hard to find a nice guy these days, and so many girls get their hearts broken. It takes them a while to get over this. I would feel very lucky to have a nice boyfriend, and I hope someday I can find a guy like that. Since you asked this question, it seems as if you are a very nice guy. Don't ever change yourself, and some girl will be so lucky to have you one day. I hope I helped you out hun! I'm so sorry my answer is so long. If you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox. Luv ya!
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okay well.... theres this one kid i like and we can say his name is... george well george*my age* knows i like him and he just wants to be friends but i also kinda like this other kid... and we can call him bob*a year older* well i dont know bob too well ... well not much at all but he seems really awesome but i dont get how i like him so much when i hardly even know him... we have alot in common maybe but the problem is.. my other friend we can call her suzy*2 years older than me and 1 older than bob* likes bob too.. well bob liked suzy but now isnt really sure some people say he says he doesnt but others are telling suzy he isnt sure yet but im pretty sure he doesnt like her.. but me and suzy were talking today and she has no idea that i like bob she just thinks i like george so she suggested that me, her, bob, george and another couple that were friends with go to the movies and mall or whatever next weekend... and i obviously was like sure that sounds like alot of fun... but then shes like yeah ill have bob talked to george about you and everything and i dindt wanna say no to her bc she was all like thinking it was a great idea so i like was alright.. so no i dont know what to do bc 1. i hardly know bob, 2. i kinda like george still but like bob more..somehow, 3. dont know if i should tell suzy bc i dont want her to get mad or upset bc shes already taking the fact that bob might not like her hardly and 4. if bob were to want to get to know me and then we ended up wanting to be more than friend i wouldnt know what to do bc i wouldnt want suzy to be sad.... let me know what you all think thanks SOOOOO much
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Hi hunny,
I think you should for sure tell your friend. You don't want to go with all of them, if you know that you like her date. It'll just make you feel horrible if they really do end up liking each other and you have to sit there and watch them flirt. If she does like him though, I would find someone else to like. If you two both like the same person, that could cause a fight between you two, and a guy is not worth fighting over. I hoped I helped in some kind of way. x3
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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high (link)
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Hi hunny,
If he's pressuring you into doing it, I don't think you should be with him. You do that when your 100percent ready to. I really don't think he respects you either if he's pressuring you into doing something you're not wanting to do. You are too young also. I hope I helped! x3
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I’m 13, in the 8th grade, and have a guilty pleasure. I’ve been raised in an intellectual household, with both parents having a Ph.D. Generally, I don’t watch T.V. So I was at my friend’s sleepover birthday party with 7 other girls, and she rented the First Season of the O.C. We watched 4 episodes---and I liked it! I feel kind of guilty, because I know that technically, the show is for advertising and eye-candy with a plot. But I can’t help it. That blonde what’s-his-face that stole a car and set a house on fire is really good looking. And it keeps me at the edge of my seat. Now I’m addicted! What should I do? Am I shallow for liking this?
Thanks
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Hi hunny,
No don't feel guilty. You should be watching t.v. There is nothing wrong with it. Just because your parents may not watch it or like it, don't mean that you have to feel the same way. I love that show too!!! You are not shallow at all. I hope I helped. x3
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