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ok so..
I really like this guy and i have for a really long time. A couple nights ago was a dance and we were around each other pretty much the whole time. and if i walked away he'd walk with me. He's kinda seeing someone right now but they arent going out. Well, to make things specific, I've liked him for about a year. We've gone out a few times. He calls me once everyday or every other day but he doesn't call the girl he's seeing on the phone. And the night of the dance he's like "this dance blows" and im like "why cuz (the girls name) isnt here?" and he's like "yea"..i dont know I'm just really confused can anyone help me? thank you sooo much!
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there's two possible scenarios:
1) he does like you, and he doesn't really like this other girl. he prolly is only dating her b.c. he found out she liked him, and he was like why not? when he was like ya, he was just saying that, but he's really having a good time cuz hes with you
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2) he just wants to be your friend, and he really does like that other girl. lots of ppl talk to their friends more than their bf/gf b.c. its just more fun =P and so thats why he doesnt call her
i'm leaning more towards choice #1, but the only way you can find out is asking him! hope i helped ♥
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Hey hun,
It sounds to me like he doesn't really have feelings anymore for the girl he's seeing. Since he was around you pretty much the whole time at the dance, there's a chance he might like you! I think you should talk to him sometime and find out how he feels about you. You can always write him a note and give it to him in school, or just talk to him in person. See if he would like to hang out sometime maybe over your house, or at the mall, or you guys could go see a movie. Just let him know that you've liked him for a really long time, and you want to know how he feels about you. Tell him that even if he doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about him, you still hope to stay really good friends with him. I'm sure he'll understand. I hope everything works out for you hun! Good luck! Let me know how it goes. Luv ya! Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.
<3 KiMmY
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uhh talk to him about it. it does seem like he likes both of you, but maybe he doesn't know you like him, so he's trying to go for that other girl. hmm juss talk to him about it & confront him. if you don't feel comfortable doing that then maybe you can get a friend to help you out & have them tell him for you. if it doesn't work, then maybe you should keep your options open & look for someone else. you don't want to get involved with someone who's semi dating someone else.
-hope that helped!♥
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I'm not 100% sure about this or anything, but I'll try to help.
First, he obviously DOES care about you. There's a good chance he cares about you more than he cares about his girlfriend, too.
If there is any trouble in the relationship he has with his girlfriend, maybe he just wants to reassure himself that you're still there.
But, at the dance I think that he might have been feeling guilty or something that he was there without his girlfriend.
It doesn't mean he doesn't like you or anything. He might just have felt he was doing something wrong.
Sorry if it wasn't very helpful... if you have anything else to ask, please do.
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