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okay well.... theres this one kid i like and we can say his name is... george well george*my age* knows i like him and he just wants to be friends but i also kinda like this other kid... and we can call him bob*a year older* well i dont know bob too well ... well not much at all but he seems really awesome but i dont get how i like him so much when i hardly even know him... we have alot in common maybe but the problem is.. my other friend we can call her suzy*2 years older than me and 1 older than bob* likes bob too.. well bob liked suzy but now isnt really sure some people say he says he doesnt but others are telling suzy he isnt sure yet but im pretty sure he doesnt like her.. but me and suzy were talking today and she has no idea that i like bob she just thinks i like george so she suggested that me, her, bob, george and another couple that were friends with go to the movies and mall or whatever next weekend... and i obviously was like sure that sounds like alot of fun... but then shes like yeah ill have bob talked to george about you and everything and i dindt wanna say no to her bc she was all like thinking it was a great idea so i like was alright.. so no i dont know what to do bc 1. i hardly know bob, 2. i kinda like george still but like bob more..somehow, 3. dont know if i should tell suzy bc i dont want her to get mad or upset bc shes already taking the fact that bob might not like her hardly and 4. if bob were to want to get to know me and then we ended up wanting to be more than friend i wouldnt know what to do bc i wouldnt want suzy to be sad.... let me know what you all think thanks SOOOOO much
xoxo*
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Hi hunny,
I think you should for sure tell your friend. You don't want to go with all of them, if you know that you like her date. It'll just make you feel horrible if they really do end up liking each other and you have to sit there and watch them flirt. If she does like him though, I would find someone else to like. If you two both like the same person, that could cause a fight between you two, and a guy is not worth fighting over. I hoped I helped in some kind of way. x3
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Guys always get in the way of friendships. I think you should tell Suzy that if George doesnt like you, then Bob shouldent talk to George to change his mind. Say stuff like "He doesnt like me, and Bob wont change his mind. So lets just leave it alone". I think you should all go out together, but try to talk to Bob more. Get to know him, stuff like that. Suzy shouldent be mad at you for just talking to him. If you end up liking him because he seemed cool and all. Talk to Bob and ask him if he wants to hang out or anything. Suzy might get mad, there is a good chance she will get mad but...you cant control your feelings. If you and Bob go out, then obviously Suzy and Bob were not meant to be. But if it ends up being Suzy and Bob being together, then you were not meant to be with him. It will all work out the way its supposed to. I say go for it, the worst thing that can happen is not having him as a boyfriend. You need to try thats all I'm saying. Good luck, oh and I totally understand how you feel about the "liking him so much when I hardly even know him" thing. Update me if you can =)
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My advice is your best bet would be to go to "bob" and talk to him. Be real and get to know him. See if you really like him bc you may just like him bc someone else likes him. figure it out before you go out next weekend. Bob maybe a total bummer and george just maybe the one for you. Youll never no until you talk to him and see if you are compatible.
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