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Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on?
When you like sum1 you cant force yourself to move on your mind may let you but your heart never will. Just try and focus on other things besides him. Just give it time because if he likes you then he will ask you out. But never rush a guy because that can push them away. Good Luck! Rate me!
Sami Ann*
okay, me and my bf, well, i guess he's my ex now, broke up a couple of days ago. it was really hard for me because we both love eachother so much, and we still do. we were even planning to get married and stuff. well, since we broke up, i haven't been able to stop thinking about him and how wrong this feels. i know that we are soulmates, but i don't know what's happening right now. i just want him back, and he has said that he's willing to consider it, but he needs a bit of time to collect himself. without him i just feel so empty inside and like us being apart is WRONG. i've had boyfriends before and i've never felt like this when i broke up with them. i'm an emotional wreck, and i don't know what to do, please help me, i really want to get back together with him, and he says he does too, but he needs a bit of time. i have things i need to do, but i can't do them because i can't focus on anything but the loml(love of my life). anyone that can help me please answer this!! thanks.
signed:
hopelessly devoted 2 him
I am in the same sitation you are in. My ex bf an I broke up 3 months ago and we are madly in love with eachother but he had to move back in may of 2004 and we got back together in july and dated for a few months but I ended up breaking up with him and IDK why. You should just give it time, you you both really love eachother then you will be get back together. Remember the heart always finds it's way back to whomever it really belongs. Just have faith, thats what I tell myself. I kno how it is when you think about him every minute of everyday bc thats how it is with me. I dont talk to my ex bf bc it is too hard but I got to talk to him a few weeks and ago and he cried to me and he kept on telling me that he loves me. I promise you that it will work out if it is meant to be. I wish the best of luck for you both. Please rate me!
*SamI Ann
like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant?
no u could not be unless u had sex..and you didnt!rate me!
*sami ann
ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though
No that is not hoish if you have feelings for him more then a friend, but if you dont them that can be kind of sluty. But if you feel comfotable doing it, then go for it. Rate me! Hope I helped !
I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..
Boy I feel stupid :(
Tell him not to do it so hard or maybe he is using to many fingers. I think the first time that I got fingered I bled like for a sex. Just dont let him do it so hard, but soon the hurting will stop. Rate me!Hope I helped!
**Sami Ann**
if you have oral sex, or your boyfriend/girlfriend has done anything sexual to you besides sex, is it a sin?
No it is not a sin. But in my personal opinion I would never do anything with a guy unless we had a very good realtionship. If you really like the guy then go ahead and do it, if you think its right. Nothing is wrong with doing oral with a guy or gurl or having sex with someone. Hope I helped! Rate me!
*Sami Ann*
If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!
No the wires would not get stuck together. Did you see that in a movie or something. Nothing will ever happen if you kiss someone with braces and you have them, so dont worry about it. Just go for it and kiss him..LoL!Rate me! I hope I helped!
*Sami Ann*
ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!
You should never ever cut yourself over anything,even a guy. I have been in the same situation that you are in and it is not a good one. I suggest that you talk to a rather close friend and tel them what you have been doing. Cutting is a serious matter and even thought I dont know you I really hope that you will stop. Wat is it about this guy that makes you like him so much? Are you both friends, bc if you are sometimes that can be better then being bf and gf. Well please stop cutting yourself and talk to someone. No guy is ever worth hurting yourself and sometimes it can lead to more serious things then cutting. I started to cut, then I started to take hundreds of pills every day. I soon talked to ppl, such as my frinds and then I stopped. It helped me and I think that it wil help you. Good Luck! Rate me!
okay i had this friend and she gave me ur barbell to use and now that we are not friends she wants it back..but the thing is i told her i would give it back thursday before break and she never showed well now she is saying all this shit like o0o0 im getting pissed because your not goin to give me my barbell well...i kind of thru it away well ne wayz she said she was goin to kick my ass i really dont care but i just want her to go away and stop buggin me...she is a freshman she cant do ne thing i mean im a junior...what the hell...so what should i do??? PLZ HELP
chelcie I cant believe that you threw it out.LoL!!!Didnt she say that she wants to beat u up! Well she wont! so yeah lylas sami
ok so i have this so called friend that i hate so much and she hates me a lot to..........everytime we try to figure something out it seems to get bigger and bigger i mean i could be nice to her but it would be really hard for me to do that because i cant stand her in any way! you will probably just say dont hang out with her or anything....but my bestest friends are always hanging out with her so i have to hang out with her or i will lose all of my friends.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP!
If you cant stand her so much just dont talk to her or anything. WOO HOO!Everyone goes through these problems and all I am going to stay is just deal with it. I am going through the same shit that you are, but me and this person arent friends or anything we just hate eachother. I have to see him everyday and I just ignore him and he does the same. Just ignore her or try and get a long with her. Thats all I can tell ya
how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?
If she told you that she will never leave you, then she wont! But there is so for sure chance that she wont. I am going to be honest. I was in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I were madly in love with eachother. We ended up breaking up a few months ago and ever since it has been hell. Just never make any promises that you both wont leave eachother, bc if something happens it will hurt you more then anything. But back to you. Just talk to her about it. Do you love her or just like her?
I really like this girl that I met in september. she's really flirty with me - and not with ALL guys (maybe just a few...whatever). And she went through this phase where she was a total bitch to me but she would have this cute little grin on her face assuming i didnt notice. like almost 3 weeks ago she was like - i wanna be friends and not a bitch and then she would talk to me and come up to me a lot again and flirt. I want to ask her out eventually, but i wanna know what the deal is - even if were "just friends"
k thanks
Talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. Make sure that you get everything straight before you take the next step. If she flirts with you, she prolly likes you. Hope I helped! Rate me!
i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!!
It seems like nothing is wrong with you. Just if you like a gurl, tell her and treat a gurl good. Just take the chance and ask a gurl out. It couldnt hurt. Just be yourself and dont change for anyone. It doesnt matter if you are short or tall. Last year I was a freshman and I dated a guy shorter then me. Height doesnt mean anything as long as you both like eachother. Hope I heleped. Take the chance and ask a gurl you like out!Rate me!
hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
It your decision. I personally will not let any guy touch me unless he is my boyfriend. It doesnt matter how long you have known the person or not, atleast to me that it. . If you are comfortable with youself and the other person, and you feel that you are ready for that, then go for it. But if you dont think you are ready for something physical like that, then tell the guy that you arent ready. Hope I helped!Rate me!
Well i have thins friend lets call him Jen. Well Jen is so ANNOYING she follows me around EVERYWHERE. Everything i do she does. (ex: i color my hair, she does the same. i cut my bangs, she does the same. i make up crazy words, she says she did.) its getting really anoying and i cannot even joke with her about things and then she gets all mad. even my friends know her for a month and thinks she is annoying. She even tried to steal my BF and she didn't even like him she just wanted a bf. She also like a guy after one hour of knowing him. She always complains about not having a bf and i will never have one. and i cannot do much about. So what should i do be friends or not?
its really your choice if you want to be friends with tht person. Just tell he or she how you feel about what they have been doing latly. Just dont jump to conclusions before you talk to he or she. I have been in a similar situation with one of my best friends and I just talked to her about it and she stopped what she was doing. Just try and be nice about it at first, and if she doesnt get the point then make her get it.Rate me!
me and my ex dated for 4months...not a long time i kno but everything was perfect we were totally in love and i realli had faith in our relationship well we broke up in august and i still havent found sum1 that makes me truly happy like chris did. my friend mentioned that i should date her exbf but now she changed her mind and doesnt want me to date him. i respect that because he is her exbf and stuff but she did kind of have my hopes up on finding someone who would treat me right and stuff. i dont kno lately its been goin through my head to just give up on a relationship right now because im only 15 but another part of me wants to keep looking. should i give up for now or keep on looking? i just dont know...~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
NO YOU SHOULD NOT GIVE UP NICHOLE!!! The perfect guy will come for you dont worry babe.You are such a pretty and sweet gurl and any guy is lucky to have you. When a guy dates you he'll be lucky bc he'll be able to have a friend and a girlfriend. Just keep your chin high and stay strong. And just remember that I am always here for you!!!"Boggyman"..I'm scared..LoL
LYLS BF4L SAMI*
ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
It would be a good idea if you date adam nichole. You guys would make a good couple!
What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?
I am in the same situation you are in.My best friend Dee and I are really good friends.We both like eachother a lot and we kiss and mess around but we are not dating.If you are below going out but you are more then friends, its like your really close and not friends with benefits but you almost bf/gf.
what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?
Um if I were you I would go out with him if you like him.Age is just a number.I have been in similar situations like you are in.I am 15 right now but when I was 14 years old I dated an 18 yr old.Age shouldnt matter if you both like eachother.I hope I helped!
I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?
Okay! You should tell him that you just needed some time to think about things, but tell him that you do really like him and you miss him and still have feelings for him. Make sure that you make it clear to him that you never wanted to hurt him or break it completly off with him. I have been in simialar situations like this where you break up with the guy and then want him back. Most of the time it works out but sometimes it does not. It sounds like he really cares about you and he doesnt want to break up, so it will proably work out. I wish the best of luck for you and him and I hope things work out! Good Luck!