OK well how do you know if a guy likes you? I know that it sometimes depends on the guy and all, but what are some, i dunno, like key clues that he likes you? Not flirty tho, like as a gf sort of like?
it always depends on the guy and his personality.. but a few pointers would be if he acts differently around you than he does around other girls, if he calls you pretty or sexy alot... even if you think he's joking. If he is rougher with you than other girls.... and also id he goes out of his way to talk or do things for you! hope this helps even in the least bit!! (and sorry for waiting soo long to answer!)
~Kayla
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Hmm well.. I'm in highschool and so is this guy. He looks good & okay we don't talk really but every time i see him we do the eye things, just like the other day i was walking he was lookin straight at my eyes n i was lookin back in his.. it was from accross the hall wen i was about to leave & so we followed eachothers eyes, me looking back and him lookin back at me.. We do it everytime we see eachother pretty much but we haven't talked & I reallly wana get to kno him but im not jus gona walk up to him n be like yeah whats up haha.. so any suggestions? i really wana get to know himmm.
well i definately can relate... Sparking that first convo can be very difficult! here are my ideas:
1. Do you have any friends that know him? Have them introduce you... or just have a conversation with him and your friend at the same time.
2.find out if he has AIM or Email.. and if so get his SN or E-addy. Just talk to him and say sumthing like "Hey i got your SN so i decided i'd say hi! what's up" This doesnt involve any face to face contact, but you're still making a move to be able to talk to him
3.It doesnt sound like you have any classes with him, but if you do... talk to him about assignments, teachers, etc.
4. This idea is... intresting, but it could spark a conversation. "accidently" trip and fall into him... or just bump into him... he should catch you!
hope i helped! (and sorry it took me sooo long to answer!)
~Kayla
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i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef.
Ask your friends and loved ones to write good things about you on strips of paper.... put all of these in a jar... then when you are feeling bad pull one out, instant compliment! and also when you wake up every morning say to yourself "I am a beautiful and confident person" if you tell yourself this long enough... you'll know it's true! If you feel really bad about your weight... just exercise a little more.. like go on bike rides or something. this should help you feel better about being "fat", becasue you know you are exercising! i hope these sugguestions helped! IF you need anymore ideas PLZ ask me!
~Kayla
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ahh... the big old friend dilemma... sorry if its too confusing...
right so... ok theres this guy.. who is like my bestest friend in the whole world... and we are really close and stuff like that. like he can even say luv yuh with out being all weird yuh know??? ok well any ways... sorta of recently... like lest school year he started going out with this girl who is like my friend... and well we all talk and stuff...but like i always feel as though i am in he middle (example.. they had a fight and in a way i was the middlemen, then the outsider.. UGH confusing i know)... plus very recently this guy has been treating me weird and he doesnt seem to want to talk to me or anything.. as though he doesnt want to be my friend... and thats the way i feel.. and i dont know what to do. all i know is that i dont like it how he makes me feel all nice and floaty one moment and hated and depressed the next. plus i would understand if he was treating him bad or something, but i havent.. i havent done anything (that i know of) to make him feel this way towards me... but i dont know what to do... but i know i dont want to lose my best friend....
signed ....
confused
Dear Confused,
hmm i know how you feel.. and it's not good. The question was a little confusing, but i'll try to work through it, i definately understand why you're confused. it seems to me that you are really afraid of losing him as your best friend. My suggestion would probably be to talk to him. Ask him to be totally honset with you and just tell you the truth. Say you want to talk about your friendship. tell him that it doesnt matter what he says.. just to say it. and be willing to truthfully answer any questions he asks you. Be sure to ask him why he seems to be mad at you one minute and be fine the next. And also bring up that you dont like being the outsider or the middleman. most of all just have a good heart-to-heart with him. i dont know how much this helps.. but i hope it does. If you need anything else please ask or feel free to AIM me!
~Kayla
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Um...okay, I have to wear a helmet to ride on rollerblades, a skateboard, and a bicycle. It sucks. I was wondering if anybody knew of a way I could convince my mom to let me ride without a helmet, because mine is really big and it has this visor, and I don't really need one. If this is a lost cause, which I think it is to tell you the truth, is there any sort of helmet that actually looks okay? thanks in advance
Well you could ask your Mom to go outside and watch how good you are at skateboarding, biking, etc. but that may not convince her to let you not wear a helmet. It IS the law you know. My suggestion would be to get a cooler helmet.. like one of the round shaped ones, not the oval ones. They have them in Silver, and if you got one of those then put skate and bike brand stickers on it or something that might be cool. Hope i helped!
~Kayla
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So young chap? How are you? You do give great advice young fellow, well I just thought i'd give you a thumbs up, and say good job! Cheerio, now!
Thank you so much! An advice-giver always enjoys hearing that her advice is good! Have a great day!
~Kayla
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil
I'd just say to umm relax and wait. that someone special will come along. You could also always try to find her... but remember it's not a crime to not like someone!
~Kayla
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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO!
Well, i'm mormon too... (or techinically LDS: Latter-day saint) so i think I'll try to help! Well first of all... unless you and him are both 16 it's DEFINATELY a no go. We believe in not dating until 16, so that's important to know. Also, i'd talk to him, see if it's just rumors that his parents won't let him date non-LDS people. If it really is true, then i would suggest asking him if you could go to church on day with him... i have to warn you it is 3 hours, so it's kind of long, but you go to three different meetings too (sacrament [which is the main part of church], then Class [with the guys and girls of the same age], then young men or young women's [depending on what gender you are, lol]) going to church wil definately help his parents grow on you, and if you become LDS and get baptizied than it's even better! of course you should remember that you choice to become LDS shouldn't be based on just wanting to be able to date your friend. It should be based on if you accpet the gospel or not. If you want to convert, you need to understand all that mormans stand for, and all their priniples. make the decisions based on what you feel in your heart, and what your consience tells you! and also talk to your friend! he would be more than happy to teach you more about his religion, and can arrange for others (with more LDS knowledge) to talk to you about becoming LDS. i think you should go for this guy, and if you feel for him (and the LDS church) strongly enough than don't be afriad to convert! If you need more info check out LDS.org, or AIM me, and also feel free to ask me anymore questions! I really hope i helped you!
~Kayla
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Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!
Try Lyrics.com or Lyricsondemand.com
~Kayla
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A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?
If you have SUPER bad allergies than probably not, but if your allergies are mild than I think you should. Also, if you have REALLY good allergy medication than it'll be ok. You may want to try living with her for a few nights and see if it bugs you... if so than moving in isn't a good idea! hope this'll help!
~Kayla
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in)
It may seem impossible to find a girl who wants to wait to have sex until she's married, but there are PLENTY of girls like that out there. I'm 13, and i'm gonna wait.. i also have friends that are going to wait too. Sadly, when you get into high school alot of girls are embarssed to be virgins! But others aren't. I wouldnt say you're supposed to be embarssed if you're a virign. Many girls (like myself) will be proud to hold onto their virginity until they are married. I think it's great that you're intrested, and not obsessed with sex (like some guys...) lol If you have any other questions feel free to ask!
~Kayla
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ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
I would anomously leave talk to your school counselor! they can help.. and if you want your identity to remain confidential then just ask them! She might be doing it just for attention, and might not actually kill herself, but still you need to tell someone! as a good friend you should protect your friend! Hope this helps!
~Kayla
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I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it??
The most simple answer is to get more sleep! You need at least 8-10 hours of sleep a night. If you aren't getting enough sleep than you need to! Also circles under your eyes can be from lots of stress, if you can, then reduce ur stress! to cover them with makeup it'd use yellow under eye circle remover, than after put cover up on. If this doesnt work go to like Macy's or somewhere and get a personal makeup consultation. the people may be able to help with your circles! good luck! If you need anything else, i'd love to help!
~Kayla
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my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.
i rate very high.
signed confused friend.
Well you definately don't want to offend her, cuz B.O is often a sensitive subject. But my sugestion would maybe to have her come over, or even better sleepover, and happen to have a new extra tube of Deoderant. while ur putting on ur deoderant (u have to put some on while she's over... lol) ask her wut kind she uses. If she doesnt tell her she should have the extra one, cuz "at our age we should all use deoderant" or if she uses a certain kind ask her if it works good. If yes than say "that's good.. try this kind and tell me if u like it better or not" if she says no than "Hey! you should use this kind.. it's great!" Give her the new extra tube.... and hopefully she will use it! hope this works! If you have any other questions feel free to ask!
~Kayla
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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!
scrapbooking is lots of fun... it's great that u're making a scrapbook. Well you could go to Michaels, but they don't have a TON of stuff JUST about Scrapbooking. You're best bet is probably to look up scrapbooking in your local phone book to see where the specialty scrapbooking stores are in your area. (if you lived around me i could help more, but i dunno where you live) Specialty Scrapbooking stores are often owned by Scrapbookers, so it's nice because you get help and advice from people who love Scrapbooking! These stores often offer classes, and can help you take your scrapbooks to a whole new level!
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ok..well me and my best friend seem to not be getting a long very well this week. i don't know whats up..but something is going on between us. at school she seems to be getting really annoyed with me lately and it seems as if she doesn't want to have anything to do with me. i don't know if she is just tired of being around me or what, but things have just been starting to feel different between us and im HATiNG iT! i've been so mad and sad and confused this week and ugh..i don't know what to do!?! can you help me? thanks so much!
-CoNfUsEd fRiEnD =/
this is the Classic delimia.. my it is kinda happening to my friends right now. my advice would be to talk to her.. just tell her how u are feeling, and ask her what she is feeling... have an "open session" where you too tell each other ANYTHING,and the other person will try to understand. if u want her to understand how u feel.. u need to try to understand how she feels... she may not realize what she is doing, or she may feel like you too need a break. When you talk to her dont accuse her, and try to remain optimistic. good luck! if u have anymore questions, or need clarification.. or want more info on how to talk to her.. plz post, or AIM me!
~Kayla
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hello...i've asked for some advice before here and it helped, so im gonna try it again!lol. ok..my school is REALLY boring, nothing exciting happens and its just the same over and over, every single daY! how can i make something exciting happen!?!? thanks...
SiGnEd --iN nEeD oF sOmE eXciTeMeNt & ChAnGe
this is a problem with students all across america! lol.. we all get bored in skool, but i'll try to to give you the best advice i can. First of all...you may want to physc yourself up for skool "YEah!SCHOOL'S GONNA BE GREAT TODAY!" get yourself in a mood for school to be fun and exciting. Pay attention in class, and ask questions... if boredom is really a problem in certain classes talk to your teachers. Tell them that you are having SERIOUS trouble concentrating in class, and tell them that class is so boring, that ur are having problems paying attention and learning, ask them if maybe they could make class a little more intresting, so your attention would be kept more easily.... also you can make more friends in your classes.... and maybe join some clubs! if this just won't work.. then feel free to ask again, or AIM me! Good luck!
~Kayla
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ok theres this teacher at my school lets call him mr maning well neways one day at school he asked me to stay after to do some make up work which i didnt no i had ne make up work!!
so anyways we went into his classroom and sat at a table and he sat next to me. he started scooting his chair closer to me and then started rubbing my leg and dumb old me i wore a mini skirt with a thong on that day
so THEN he easily took off my bottoms and started fingering me!! he goes do u like it? and i said ya bc i didnt no what to do! plus it felt kinda good then we got on the table and i started givin him head and HE had an orgasm!!
then he took out a condom THANKFULLY and slipped it on and started effin me!!!! and i was on my period that day!!!! earlier he took out my tampon newayz then the condom snappen in half and he kept on goin!!!
he took my virginity and maybe even gotten me pregnant and it was at school with a 26 year old teacher who i have to face everyday!!!!! what shud i do?
PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I RATE REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALY HIGH!!!!! thx a bunch!!!!!!!!!!
signed,
future mom??
First of all... you should understand that your teacher raped you. Secondly.. i would tell someone Immediately! your mom, a trusted teacher, an aunt, or any other trusted adult. You should file a complaint with the school... and go to the police... what he did was not right, and he needs to be punished. Once you file a complaint with the school he will either be fired, or you will be moved from his class. If you dont file a complaint.. AT LEAST asked to be moved from his class.... it would be too much to see him everyday, and if he did it once he could do it again! POINT BLANK: TELL A TRUSTED ADULT ABOUT THE SITUATION IMMEDIATELY! Good luck!
~Kayla
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Hey, I heard that if you were born after 1990, you can't get your temporary lisence until you are 16. Is this true?
It depends on what state you are in, for some states it is true, for others it isn't. i would suggest checking with your local DMV either in person or online. good luck!
~Kayla
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my plant, gromie, just winked at me. it kidna scares me. i am really upset with his behaviors! what should i say to my naughty naughty venus fly trap? should i tell him to be a good boy, or just ignore the cute little guy?
tell gromie that he better behave or you'll make him eat his least favorite food for a week! you dont want gromie to cause any trouble!
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