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ahh... the big old friend dilemma... sorry if its too confusing...
right so... ok theres this guy.. who is like my bestest friend in the whole world... and we are really close and stuff like that. like he can even say luv yuh with out being all weird yuh know??? ok well any ways... sorta of recently... like lest school year he started going out with this girl who is like my friend... and well we all talk and stuff...but like i always feel as though i am in he middle (example.. they had a fight and in a way i was the middlemen, then the outsider.. UGH confusing i know)... plus very recently this guy has been treating me weird and he doesnt seem to want to talk to me or anything.. as though he doesnt want to be my friend... and thats the way i feel.. and i dont know what to do. all i know is that i dont like it how he makes me feel all nice and floaty one moment and hated and depressed the next. plus i would understand if he was treating him bad or something, but i havent.. i havent done anything (that i know of) to make him feel this way towards me... but i dont know what to do... but i know i dont want to lose my best friend....
signed ....
confused
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Dear Confused,
hmm i know how you feel.. and it's not good. The question was a little confusing, but i'll try to work through it, i definately understand why you're confused. it seems to me that you are really afraid of losing him as your best friend. My suggestion would probably be to talk to him. Ask him to be totally honset with you and just tell you the truth. Say you want to talk about your friendship. tell him that it doesnt matter what he says.. just to say it. and be willing to truthfully answer any questions he asks you. Be sure to ask him why he seems to be mad at you one minute and be fine the next. And also bring up that you dont like being the outsider or the middleman. most of all just have a good heart-to-heart with him. i dont know how much this helps.. but i hope it does. If you need anything else please ask or feel free to AIM me!
~Kayla
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