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I'm Jessica. I'm dedicated,truthful,honest,crazy,messy,hyper & real."I'm so happy because today I've found my friends there in my head"-Nirvana








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Do you know any home recipies that can reduce redness of a sunburn, bc im really red. And tommorow is picture day, Any advice would be Appreciated! thankyou.
16F

Use Aloe Vera, its like magic for me.

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Hi.
I've heard that when you have sex for the first time that it hurts extremly bad. I know it varies from person to person. But is it possible for it not to hurt on the first time?
I have a low tollerence for pain, and my boyfriend has a rather large penis. Its 5 inches WIDE. So, will it hurt really bad? Is there a way to make myself not be so tight?
I don't use tampons and don't want to, I can't even get one finger up there.
What do I do, I really want to make love with him but I'm just scared of the pain and bleeding.
Do you bleed right after you stop, during or later? Cause when your hymen breaks you bleed right?
18/f

Don't worry after the first time(s) it won't hurt. It usally does (Did for me) hurt.

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I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade, and i am getting a new backpack. I was wondering if an llbean one would be out of style or babyish? If so what other kind do you reccomend, and if not, what color should I get. I was thinking pink but is that kind of childish?

8th grade? Not many people nowadays care for what your backpack looks like. I kept the same Jansport backpack from when I was in the 5thgrade to highschool. Most schools have to keep there backpacks in there locker anyways, So you see at the bus stop, on the bus, & until you get to your locker.
people spend way to much for a backpack nowadays.

Anyways Pink itsn't childish? If you a got a dora backpack than that be childish.
I do reccomend Jansport because they last a long time, thats why there so popular. As i said my lasted me awhile.

By the way, have fun in the 8th grade!

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I've got scars on my face. Acne scars. How do I get rid of them? Do I use lemon juice? How long will it take?

There are many products & ways to get rid of scars. I can't tell you which will work for you, so you may want to go to a store & read up on some according to your skin type & whatnot.
Lemon Juice is more a toner (After you cleanse your face to wipe off any extra dirt) I don't have anything in my records that it gets rid of scars.

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What can I do about a runny nose?

Under my nose, is a bit raw from all the sneezing and wiping my nose. And every time my head is down, my nose gets all runny and ...makes a gross mess.

What can I do for tomorrow in school? We have essays to write and I can't keep my head up.

Is there anything I can do? I'm taking a tissue box of course but anything else?

Take something for a runny noise.

& Sleep with your head back.

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In highschool I learned that don't just getgirlfriend because you want it and that's what God wants in my youth club. I agree with my leaders. How do I find one? How do I get the courage to ask? To date? To entertain her?

Were I live we have alot of people who go to the YMCA & meet people, Or the gym.
But if thats not your style, You can always find girls at thr jobs. Like my friend asked a girl out who worked at Dunkin donuts. Or at the mall.
I'm sure theres girls at your church too?

When you find one, you find out about her & then ask her out on a date according to her personality.

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When i start school in a couple of days, I want to start eating breakfast (because i usually dont) so that my metabolism is faster and maybe i can lose weight. What are the best kinds of food you can eat to make that happen?

Special K cereal, or Special K cereal bars.
There pretty good at that, OR anything simular to special K.
Healthy foods.

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I am 13 and weigh 111lbs. and I have b36 size boobs... isn't it a little wierd that i haven't gotten my period? Is there something wrong... should I see a doctor?



No its not weird. Some girls get it late, some don't. Ask your mom when she got hers. You'll probably get it around the age she got hers.
ut if you dont get your period by age 16, see a docter.

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hello...
I'm entering the 8th grade and my school is only 7th and 8th grade. I was there last year so I already know the school. but... the thing is that in summer I traveled places so I pretty much forgot about what the school looked like. Tomorrow is the first day of school and I'm sooo nervous! Can somebody give me advice on how to relax and tonight make me sleep?? Always on the night before the first day of school, I get nightmares and only get about 4 hours of sleep. So can somebody help me get relaxed... the 7th graders will be more scared than me but i'm sooo nervous. agh
please and thank you!

Take a relazing bath before bedtime.
Then read your self to sleep.
or take a sleeping pill. Drink warm milk.

By the way good luck starting the 8thgrade! I loved the 8thgrade, Its super fun :]

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16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...

Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..

Please help!
-Jason

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you know when people say that when you first have sex, you usually pop your cherry? well if i were to have sex and the guy did pop my cherry, does that mean i bleed more when i get my period? becuase they say your hymen or cherry is like a tissure that blocks the vagina, so when i do have sex for the first time and it pops, doesnt that mean ill bleed more on my period? if anyone knows what i mean? and thanks

I never really thought about it. But I don't think so.

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My boyfriend and I just broke up, and now I'm very depressed, I don't know what I should do to make me feel any better. Tomorrow's the first day of school and I don't wanna look too depresse and everything. What would I have to do to try to forget about this?

You need to cry about it for awhile.
Then go chill with your friends.

If you cry about it, your letting it all so you wont burst into tears when its the wrong moment.
Then being around friends usally brightens anybodys day.

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i usually put on concealer/liquid foundation before i put on pressed powder(to even out my skin color).. i put the foundation on my forehead because thats where most of my acne is and pressed powder doesnt exactly cover the redness.. so after i put on the liquid foundation, i put on pressed powder with a brush and that makes my forehead a different color than the rest of my face, like i put the pressed powder on my forehead too but its wierd because my forehead and face is two different colors, what should i do?!??!

I'm no good at makeup, buts heres a suggestion.
Go to a makeup store (Like MAC or maceys, or maybe even JCpenny) & get your makeup done (Its usally free.) & they find out good makeup and give you tips for what you need.
Its a suggestion.

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I have three spots on my face that have huge pimples, but they're scabs. Like scabby zits. It's impossible to cover them up, otherwise..I wouldn't even be asking this question. Does anyone know any ways to get the scabs down/in better condition, at least so I can cover them a little bit?

As the girl way below me mention with Lemon juice. I'd say witch hazel, instead of lemon juice if you have oily skin.
Thought you might need to know that. :]

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ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?

Your still a Minor, so yes its Illegal.

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On tuesday i am going to go get my eyebrows waxed for the first time. i need to know a few things: how bad does it hurt? Will that area be really red wednesday morning for school? if so how do i make it less red? Do they ask you how you want your eyebrows waxed or do they already have a certain way they doe everyones eyebrows?

thank you
-also i cant change they day im going to a different day i have to go on tuesday.

You tell them its your first time & They'll pick out a good shape for your face.
It doesnt hurt bad [usally]
No the redness goes away.
If you don't like redness when you go home put an icecube wrapped up in a towl and just rub over your eyes.

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ok i have this friend and her and i are both going to a new school. shes in my class but i dont like her that much and shes very clingy and gross like seriously she foams at the mouth. she doesnt know anyone so i know shes going to cling to me, how do i like get away from her???

Tell her, she needs being so clingly to you.
Its probably the best way, Don't say it too rude, But just tell her.

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I'm into new country, like the Rascal Flatts. I just don't know any other artists. Anyone know any good artists like them? Anything would help, thanks!

I hate alot of country! I like the rascal flatts, though. So we may like a few of the same country musicans.
-Shaina Twain
-Toby Keith
-Sara evans
-Kenny Chesney
-sugarland

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me + my friends love hanging out on like weekend nights and we usually go 2 the movies or some1s house or the mall or the football games or something. but those places get boring after a while. does anyone have any ideas about other places we could go?? like.. places that we could go wen there is girls + boys.

thanks xox

rollerskating or Iceskating is usally tons of fun. You can go to different malls.

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oh. and i really kinda want a boyfriend. but i can never get one. and i haven't had one in....3 years pretty much. how do i get a boy?

You don't need to rush love, or find it. let love find you.

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