My name is David
People say im old but my body isnt
I read (WoW)
I study medicens, law, news, the human mind, Buddhism, the art of Zen, amoung many religions for a better understandment of people.
I dont belive ive gaven bad advise
But do belive that the given sometimes cannot, will not, should not understand
I belive the truth will save us in the end so why not say it
Im kind hearted, even if you cant see it
I love all the children of mother earth
But doesnt mean ill treat them with illogical actions
I know theres a such thing as what people want to hear, and need to hear, i sometmes say both to make the one in need feel slow and confused =]
I do it only to get them thinking on what is best for them only, and if they choice the bad one, eh
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Age: 19
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Ohk well before I asked a questio nabout telling the guy I like that I like him, but I rarley see this guy in person.
Well hes coming over sometime this week, and idk what to do. Theres no wayyyyyy I can say it straight to his face like that, seeing as home itll just be us two and if it was akward, well yea.
And well, even though he does have this girlfriend he like, tries to hold my hand and stuff and im just not comfortable when like hes seeing someone else, that i dont even know.. because half his town already thinks Im a whore just because i was hanging out with his friend before and now im hanging out with him.. hanging out.. as in sitting on a bench, talking, and getting coffee.. its not even bad?
But anyway, what should I do? Should I tell him even though it might make things akward, I mean, its usually kind of akward anyway, but I told him I enjoy akwardness, lol. JUST HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO! PLEASSSSSSSE! :] (link)
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Well, just coming out and saying I like you is a bit, Well how can i put this, something to do when your like 13, and dont know how to flirt. Just Firlt with him. Show him you like being around him. But if he tires to hold your hand or something personal like that just play it off. Make it clear that nothing is gonna happen with you two while he`s dating someone. But take it slow. You dont want to live up to your reputation. Just make it as clear with out acting lose.
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Hi I am 17 years old girl. I have not seen my boyfriend for a while and will not be seeing him for another two weeks. And I feel scared. I don't get to see him or really get to talk to him but that's not either of our faults. It kind of feels like we aren't together. Can my feelings weaken because I feel like we aren't together then get strong again when I see him when he gets home?please help me
*Heather (link)
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Are you sure your not a booty call? You need to spend more time with him! And Yes they can. But you need to find ways to see him. Dont be scared of the bus. Get a friend with a car. If you dont already have one.
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Nutritional drinks.
I'm going to the store tomorrow to get some.
Its my choice, but I'm getting some to help me gain weight.
I'm really skinny in my arms and legs and have a high metabolism.
Will they work? Are they healthy?
And like do you know any that are really good?
ANYTHING is appreciated. (link)
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Well, If you want to gain weight. eat like 2 times a day. slows your metabolism.
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Ok my parents are divorced. Im 15 yrs old and I have been able to choose where I want to live since I was like 12. Well I have always lived with my mom and seen my dad on the weekends. Well since I have gotten older things changed I go to my dads when I wanna and I have moved to my grandma's. well with it being summer I go and stay at my dad's house to see him and my step family. Well the last yr or more they have been bugging me to move in. I dont have a good reason not to other then my mom saying I cant.She tells me I cant move out she hasent even came to terms I live with my grandma. she has told me over and over I can never move in with my dad. My question is how do I move in there with out things changing between me and my mom? (link)
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Well, I sorta had the same thing happen to me. You might want to talk to your Mother, and in a nice way say you want to live with your Dad. You have every rught to. If she says no. Ask her why. And you do have every right to move with your Dad as his son and you as a human being. If she still says no. Make it clear in a polite way you dont want to talk to her because she`s not respecting your right as his son+humanbeing`s free will, and say " Well, If your 'need' for me not to live the are above my happieness, then I have nothing futher to say. And then dont talk to her for as long as it takes. I`ll get to her, trust me. And if she calls, make it short and sweet. Letting her know you dont want to talk and you wert shiting around. And dont let her know how you are doing. Be indirect and change the subject aboot everything she askes.(letting her know you dont care)And like once a week ask her if she has come to her senses and will let you go b4 your 18 and then cant go. And my favorite count down to your birthday, like wight on a calender how many days till your 18, like one per page. So you can say "hey you know if i was living with dad i would have 862 days to be there. Only 862 days. times flys. Then be quite. And end the conversation asap! but not like funk you (click) Just make up stuff."Oh my ride is here sry goto"
And if thats taking to long, Say your a anti-sexual Buddhist and your fasting untill you get to go to your fathers. You might want to brush up on alittle bit on buddhism so if she calls the cops, They`ll think your trying to kill yourself and its a mandatory 72hours. I got out in 17. But be sure your at your moms house if shes within reach. Or call her and tell her how many hours its been since your last meal.
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Is it possible to have feelings for somebody you talk to over the internet?
Thanks (link)
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Well, You can, But you can only have so much feelings for someone you`ve never meet. And becarful. There are alot of sicko`s out there. But I know someone who started a realionship that worked out pretty well for a while. They visted each other and all that good stuff. You might want to think aboot getting a web cam.
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my boyfriend told me hes in love with me and i told him i was in love with him too, but as soon as i said it i felt like i didnt meant it cause i dont think im actually in love with him. 2 days ago he made me really mad and so i broke up with him. 5 minutes later, after realizing how much i hurt him and after he begged, i got back together with him. i feel like i mightve only done this because i felt so guilty for hurting him. i mean if i was in love with him it wouldnt have been so easy to tell him i wanna break up right? well anyways, im still with him and i do care about him alot and everything but i promised him hes not gonna lose me and hes so in love with me that if i break up with him im gonna feel evil and hes gonna feel lied to!! but things are changing and i dont know what to do! any help is appreciated! (link)
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Well, Ask your self if you want to be with him. If no, leave him. Its not like its gonna change. And if he beings tell him stop begging like a dog. Are you the dispert? Leave! RAPE!!! But you might want to tell him you dont love him. The truth hurts, but its better then a lie.
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Can feeding ur cat grass help it? i heard it can.. what can it do to it? (link)
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Well, Grass has stuff in it thats very good for even humens. But your not sopposed to eat it. chewing is the best way. Get your Cat some catnip your something. Ill make your cat happy and maybe stop eating grass.
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Am a 32 year old guy. i have been in a number of relationships, but almost all of them i am always the one usually doing all the phone calling, even when the girls prove that they realy like me and i tell them how important it is for them to be calling in return but they keep claiming they have not enough airtime to call. I have even broken up a few relationships for this reason. I am almsot convinced that the problem is with me, but i still cant figure out what i do wrongly. (link)
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Well, If they prove they like you then it should be cool, But look at the world we live in. Girls like to know that you were thinking of them. Or try this. If you call them like once every 3 days, call them every 6 days, and if they ask make something up? Say it must`ve sliped your mind. They`ll get`em thinking. And maybe a phone call. Show a tad of less of interest. And when they do what you want them to do, the show more. Reward them. Play the game my friend.
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does crying burn calories, if so how many (link)
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Well, You brun calories just lying down. But you`ll burn alot more just walking.
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can u plant flowers and plants beside each other in a garden?? or do the roots get all up on the flower? have u ever done this?? (link)
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Well, They can and some times steal water and food from the other plant. It would be best to get some Fertilizer, if its a food garden dont use Fertilizer. Some times it depends on the plant. But give it a little space. it should be fine.
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When you post a bulletin in Myspace, some people have certain words bolded, underlined, and in italics. How do they make it like that? Is there a certain code or something? Thanks. (link)
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look up html. I think myspace has a area for html. You might need to learn some stuff like code like thes that wont work but you get the picture.
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whats the QUICKEST way to loose weight beore augest 18!!? please help me i no i'm getting fat and idk what to do!! i'm thinking about aneroxicaa b/c it seems like the quickest way but idk you tell me (link)
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Eat six small meals a day, Work out. And Drink green tea. And here you can find many herbs that will boost your energy and help you brun weight.
http://www.azarius.net/index.php
they are very cheap and i order from them all the time.
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so apparently i have a major peoblem opening up to people... and i admit it that i do... i really want to break this because i had A LOT of problems with people last year and stuff... and if that happens again because people cant get over things... i really want to know what the hell to do =] so ... how do i open up to people and ask advice...in person... i dont know whats wrong with me but... im going out to lunch with my aunt soon and i want to talk tot her so someone please help! (link)
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Well, I had that problem. You have to look at the stuff that needs to be talked aboot. Or ask qustion. Push yourself to not care! Its hard I know. But if you think something needs to be talked aboot then it needs to be. If your just looking for Opinions... theres nothing wourg with asking some ones opinion. And its your family. They`ll talk. Maybe, idk its your aunt? some aunts are cool some arent. But Push!!!!! You can do it, Its not the end to your life! And you might need to let go of somethings.
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Iam the 17 year old who asked the question about cyber sex what is buddism? (link)
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Well Buddhism is a philosophy that treaches the all suffering is caused by disire. Like when you dont get what you want you get sad/mad/ect. Like Cyber sex will never bring you true happieness. Like a drug you`ll only want more, and more, and more. You will never stop that way. To stop this endless cycle of craving, you must realise that it`s only hurting you in the long run. So will you do something that hurts you? If you read the words of the first buddhism im very sure that you will stop anything that hurts you in the long run.
If you have any other Qustion aboot Buddhism feel free to aim me at ahighslomo.
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I love this guy that i have known for over a year. A few months ago i told him that i liked him but not love. We dont really talk that much besides online. Sometimes during the day i zone out and hes all i think about. I get depressed when i think about him because his type of girl is this blonde haired skinny blue eyed girl. Im the opposite. Im not ugly or fat but im just not a blonde haired skinny blue eyed girl. When i see him in person he will have small talk with me but its nothing big.
I reaally want him to know how i feel but i really dont know how to tell him. I dont want to be like i love you.
17/f (link)
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Well, This happen to me in a way. You cant do much to change his mind. You see in the long run, if he doesnt like you. The both of you wont be together for long. Say you really like him when yall are alone but dont invole other people. If he doesnt like you, Play it off like its cool and say you just wanted to know. Then dont talk to him for awaile, Sometimes he`ll come out and say i like you, If not spending time away from him will help you get over him. I got over the love of my life. Im sure you can get over him. And if you need help I know of a Philosophy I know pretty well call Buddism. Ill help you get over him, and any thing really. Im stuck in a state of bliss cuz of Buddism.
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I have two associate's degrees: one in business and one in general education. I'm also fluent in Spanish and English. What jobs can I get? What jobs can I get in Latin America? (link)
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Monster.com? Or some job listing web site. Im sure you tired those. But there are some where you just type in what you have and theyll pop up. I did one at a collage a went to.
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OKay, i have been doing the peanut butter thing before bed, but i have been wondering how long before i go to bed should i eat it? like 10 minutes before i sleep?? (link)
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Lol, Yes. It stays in your tummy for some time. So before you brush it would be best to do so.
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so for some reason like right in my armpit area, theres some extra fat that ive noticed other people dont have. my mom has it too, so it might just be genetic. but it bothers me because when i wear a tank top, sometimes you can see it fold over. i have a small figure, so i dont know why its there. does anyone know how to make it go away??
13/f (link)
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Well it might be genetic. And if you have a average body weight, Then you just might want to start saving up money to remove it. Or wear stuff to hide it.
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I have gotten so many comments on how big my eyes look. I don't really know if this is a good or bad thing....but i would kinda like ur guy's opinion. Also, Is it because i wear eyeliner??? will that make it look bigger? some people say it makes their eyes look smaller...but i dunno. I use a dark brown eyeliner and i only do the bottom...not the top. (i have fair skin too) (link)
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IDK! I have no idea what you look like to tell you the truth. But Buety is in the eye of the beholder. I like big eyes.
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Well, This guy, whos a year older than I, is really confusing me. You see, weve known eachother for a few months, and at first, my friend claimed to really like him, but she.. Well, shes a skank. And, after awhile she started hating him, and I kept hanging out with him because we became close friends. He began to like me, and at that time I didnt like him back, and he told another friend of mine that he planned to ask me out, And my friend convinced him to wait awhile, and I showed signs of just wanting to be friends, because I didnt want to hurt him, and so he never asked me out. but, In the middle of all this, i realized that I really do like him a lot, but i didnt want to controdict myself.So eventually, we started losing touch, and he got a girlfriend. But then, one late night on aim, we stayed up the entire night talking, and now were closer than ever. He always tells me how special I am to him and how much he loves me, but he still has a girlfriend? I dont know.. I really think I love him. But, should I.. I dont know, what should I do? Before you answer this you should know, hes not your typical player, hes not very attractive and is like, reallllllly smart and not "nerdy" but .. leaning more toward that side. He has a charm to him, and I dont get it. I realllllllllllly need help. Should I tell him how I feel about this? (link)
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Well, I think he`s free game from your sluty friend. Well you should call it love. Its lust, then lust truns into love. Its been proven. Well you should keep in contect with him. maybe go hang out and show that you like him in a settle way for a awile till he breaks up with his girlfriend.
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