Am a 32 year old guy. i have been in a number of relationships, but almost all of them i am always the one usually doing all the phone calling, even when the girls prove that they realy like me and i tell them how important it is for them to be calling in return but they keep claiming they have not enough airtime to call. I have even broken up a few relationships for this reason. I am almsot convinced that the problem is with me, but i still cant figure out what i do wrongly.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sydneyalexism answered Sunday July 23 2006, 8:48 pm: ok i am a women who likes to talk on the phone to my boyfriend all the time and he calls me mostly everytime we talk. but i broke up with my last boyfriend because he didnt call me much. that showed me that he wasnt thinking about me much. if u stop call your girlfriend then you might lose her. wemon like to be called all the time so i think that you should keep calling them to show that u care. now if like you said when you say that you tell them how important it is to call you and they dont then that relationship isnt right cause that means that they dont really respect you as a person [ sydneyalexism's advice column | Ask sydneyalexism A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday July 23 2006, 8:45 pm: Hold out. Don't chase them down. If they don't like you, then they just don't? You'll find a girl that does call..and more :)
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No_such_thing_as_self answered Sunday July 23 2006, 8:14 pm: Well, If they prove they like you then it should be cool, But look at the world we live in. Girls like to know that you were thinking of them. Or try this. If you call them like once every 3 days, call them every 6 days, and if they ask make something up? Say it must`ve sliped your mind. They`ll get`em thinking. And maybe a phone call. Show a tad of less of interest. And when they do what you want them to do, the show more. Reward them. Play the game my friend. [ No_such_thing_as_self's advice column | Ask No_such_thing_as_self A Question ]
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