my boyfriend told me hes in love with me and i told him i was in love with him too, but as soon as i said it i felt like i didnt meant it cause i dont think im actually in love with him. 2 days ago he made me really mad and so i broke up with him. 5 minutes later, after realizing how much i hurt him and after he begged, i got back together with him. i feel like i mightve only done this because i felt so guilty for hurting him. i mean if i was in love with him it wouldnt have been so easy to tell him i wanna break up right? well anyways, im still with him and i do care about him alot and everything but i promised him hes not gonna lose me and hes so in love with me that if i break up with him im gonna feel evil and hes gonna feel lied to!! but things are changing and i dont know what to do! any help is appreciated!
Endivisual answered Sunday July 23 2006, 12:17 am: In relationships, talking always is the best way to figure things out. If you think that you don't really love him now, well, I think you must really love him at least a little bit. See how much you care about him. If he makes you happy then you should stay with him. It sounds like he can't live without you so you're a lucky girl! But I suggest that you talk to him. Really tell him how you feel. If HE gets mad... then I guess you guys are pretty even.
If you still think that you feel like a liar, then, I think that you still talk to him and maybe take a break. Not break up, but take a break. Maybe he'll need some time for thinking too. Best wishes. [ Endivisual's advice column | Ask Endivisual A Question ]
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