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i love this guy.


Question Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 12:33 am

I love this guy that i have known for over a year. A few months ago i told him that i liked him but not love. We dont really talk that much besides online. Sometimes during the day i zone out and hes all i think about. I get depressed when i think about him because his type of girl is this blonde haired skinny blue eyed girl. Im the opposite. Im not ugly or fat but im just not a blonde haired skinny blue eyed girl. When i see him in person he will have small talk with me but its nothing big.

I reaally want him to know how i feel but i really dont know how to tell him. I dont want to be like i love you.

17/f


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No_such_thing_as_self answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:53 am:
Well, This happen to me in a way. You cant do much to change his mind. You see in the long run, if he doesnt like you. The both of you wont be together for long. Say you really like him when yall are alone but dont invole other people. If he doesnt like you, Play it off like its cool and say you just wanted to know. Then dont talk to him for awaile, Sometimes he`ll come out and say i like you, If not spending time away from him will help you get over him. I got over the love of my life. Im sure you can get over him. And if you need help I know of a Philosophy I know pretty well call Buddism. Ill help you get over him, and any thing really. Im stuck in a state of bliss cuz of Buddism.

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betterthanyou_X3 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:34 am:
Don't just out of no where tell him you like him if you don't talk on a regular basis. Ask him if he wants to do something with you. Like go see a movie sometime. Or, ask him for his number/AIM so you can talk to him more beforehand and let him get to know you.


And so what if you're not a blue eyed blonde? Did he tell you that's all he's interested in? most guys don't just stick with one certain look. Even if they prefer a look over another, they won't pass on every girl that doesn't look that certain way, believe me. So don't let that stop you at all!

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