i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Just get up the courage and tell him...someone once told me that if you love someone you better tell them in case you lose them so just tell him how you feel and you will feel much better! I hope this helps-Nikki
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In my house, all I have is a small stand-up shower (no tub!). It sucks. So that makes it more difficult to shave my legs. I tried shaving out of the shower using the sink with a towel on the floor to catch loose water...but it takes forever! Does anybody have any ideas to make it quicker? Or anything I can do? Thanks
Whenever i use a stand up shower i always sit on the bottom of it to shave my legs...with the water running, try that. see if it works...hope i helped.-Nikki
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I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!!
To be totally honest with you i dont think this girl is a friend to you at all if you have to bribe her to spend the night with you, she doesnt deserve to have you as a friend if she said you have to pay her or give her something that means alot to you...thats wrong...shes not a friend of yours shes just useing you...because if she were a friend then she would want to go to your house...and if i were you i wouldnt worry about it...even if you did get her over at your house she would prob steal from you, dont trust this girl...if i were you i would tell her off...tell her shes not a friend at all to have to have you pay her to stay the night with you and bring a friend with her...thats not right...i hope you do something about this like find new friends who aint like her, shes not worth your time...i hope this helps..-Nikki p.s. Please send Feedback.
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Me and my boyfriend were talking tonight i asked him what was wrong.. and he said nothing.. well im trying to figure out.. its been 8 months.. and idk if he wants to break up.. how do i ask him.. without it seeming like I want to break up?!
Talk to him about it more, tell him you and him need to meet in person because theres something you need to talk to him about and when yall get in person tell him that there has to be something wrong because hes not really telling you whats going on tell him that yall have to talk in order to have a relationship...and that he needs to be stright up and honest with you and he needs to tell you whats going on, whats bothering him and everything tell him you feel like hes not telling you whats going on and its makeing you feel like you've done something wrong, ask him if hes still happy with you and just sit down with him and talk to him and see how it goes, i hope this helps...feel free to ask my anything else you need help with!..-Nikki
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What does you are on of the ladies that doesnt shave and lives with the tree's mean. I was talking about breatfeeding and someone said that.. after i said yeah i just wip out my boob.. what does that mean?
i'm thinking maybe it means ....something haveing to do with shaveing down there if you know what i maan and it being like a bush you know hary and everything and trees haveing bushy ends or whatever thats prob why they said a tree....maybe thats what someone ment...if its not that then i have no clue, i hope i helped.
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about 3 weeks ago i asked a question on advicenators and i only got the chance to check it now.unfortunately it said it was emty and it has q's i asked this week,this month and this year.but 3 weeks ago was LAST YEAR! what do i do to se my answers?i'll rate!
thanx,
mari(aka tg)
it should be either in your inbox if you have one or on the link the site gives you to view your questions and answers....If your not a member on advicenators then you have to save your links to view your questions, hope this helps.
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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there.
for one...the right guy will come to you when the time is right just lay back and have fun and dont worry about finding the right guy...he will find you,...dont hook up with guys untill you get to know them and untill you find yourself really likeing them and they find their selfs likeing you belive me theres someone out there for everyone but sometimes people try to hard...good things come to those who wate so wate it out and i'm sure Mr. Right will find you. i hope i helped! -Nikki
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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????
I see it like this your only 14 years old and that is not even right..That kind of age does not belong with a 25 year old man I think your mom did do the right thing by calling the police on him.. If you was my kid I would beat your ass and his..along with it.. Because all older guys want from younger girls is to get in their pants...You might have not had sex with him but I know it will happen sooner or later.. you don't need to be talking to this 25 year old much less dateing him...hes is way to old for you and you shouldnt even be friends with this guy because there is a such thing as rape...and thats what its called even if he hugs you, kisses you or even holds your hand! He's only acting like hes mad at you to make you be more interested in him and if i were you i would find someone my own age. i hope this may have gotten through to you because other wise you would end up hurt, or killed by this dude, or raped, or pregnant, i dont care if yall havent had sex yet..theres a such thing as pressering someone into doing anything with them,.Signed-Nikki & Heather
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ok so im goin to start off with the story..me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year and 9 months...and this new gurl popped up in the picture and shes "just a friend"...and me im not liking this..well one night he left my house and acted like he was goin home and goes over to her house to show her his new car soo he says..well i fliped out and yelled at him..soo now its been about 2 months and this is still goin on and i have told him i didnt like it and to stop..but its like he doesnt care what i say they hug in the hall talk on the phone text eachother when im with him..and i cant take it anymore..i have tried to talk to her about it and told her she need to lay off but she just dont get it..i need to know what to do about this cause im all out of clues..please help me soon..thanks..--BabyGurl--
The only thing I can tell you if he won't stop and all just break up with him and find u someone that will treat you a hell of a lot better then what he is doing to you now..So just get rid of him and move on with ur life..Hope I helped...
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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
no matter how nice he may seem he still wants the same thing every guy wants and i dont wanna offend you in away or anything and you have prob heard this befor but hes only wanting one thing, hes to old for you, hes trying to earn your trust so you will think he wont do anything, believe me i know i've dateing a guy who was 22 and he only wanted one thing although he didnt get it but the point in the matter is you dont need to give this guy a chance hes way to old for you, and he could go to jail for yall even talking to eachother. Find someone who is around your age that way no one will go to jail!...Your parents prob dont like the fact that your talking to a 22 year old because they know he only wants one thing and if the wron person found out about it then this guy would go to jail, hideing something from your parents isnt good because you would be sneaking around to try to be with this guy, chances are it wont work. i'm sorry if what i'm saying is rude or anything but i'm just telling you stright up. i hope you take this advice into consideration...just be friends with the guy, then no one will get hurt. Tell him if he wants to be with you to wate untill you a little bit older.-Nikki
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okay the guy i liked just asked me 2 do somthing with him(go 2 the like the movies) and i am SO nervous!!!
HELP!!
theres a simple answer for that,...say yes..."no worries" be happy :) ~Nikki
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me and my ex went out for almost 9 months...he asked me out at the end of the school year and all summer long we never even saw each other..all we did was talk on the phone and he was always out with his friends partying and stuff and then school came and yeah things were great but it always seemed like i loved him more or i wanted to talk on the phone with him more than he wanted to talk to me...and like sometimes at school he would say we are definately hanging out this weekend..well the weekend would come and most of the time he would never call to say he was coming over so he practically ditched me...well i mean he wasnt that shitty but when we were together everything was so perfect and all our problems went away..and then when the 6th month came that we were going out is when we first actually started to do things with each other and have sex..and we argued over the stupidest stuff all the time and we would get over it..like it was an every day thing.. we would argue but we would talk about it and everything would be okay..and then all semester i was at home because i was grounded and i couldnt go anywhere but my parents let him come stay the night with me and stuff..yeah he did come over and hang out but it seemed like he liked his friends more than me..well he broke up with me 2 days after my birthday because he didnt want a girlfriend where we had sex everything would be okay and then we would fight again...he told me i could still share his locker with him and he still talks to me and flirts with me and i really like him and want to be with him again..and ill ask him if i get another chance but he always avoids that subject..but i know he still likes me because we talked on the phone one night and he was crying cause he missed me..and he wouldnt still be talking to me if he didnt like me, right? well what i wanna know is if you think he was just using me..cause i have to admit that he didnt give me the attention that i needed so i did throw myself at him and made myself to available..like no matter how shitty he treated me i would always come back to him...do you think he wants to get back together or what? im so confused cause for one i think he broke up with me for another reason and hes just not telling me..or sometimes i think he was just using me...he broke up with me for the stupidest reason..but he still acts like he likes me? i dont understand
one of my ex best friends went thought this except the difference is her boyfriend beat her and would call her saying sorry and she would try to get back together with him and he wouldnt and blah blah blah anyways, the advice i gave her is the same advice i'm going to give you...he isnt worth it, they would have sex and everything and not be together and i would consider him useing her for sex and thats what i think this guy is doing to you, hes useing you and if you dont get out now and stop letting him use you then you will be used by him over and over and over again and then you will be the one hurt in the end, if i were you i wouldnt give him anymore if you know what i mean and go and find you someone who wont use you and who will care for you, dont take crap from a guy, if a guy can use a girl for any reason at all then hes not worth your time, I hope this helps, *feedback is greatly appreciated*...~Nikki
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be??
you should wate untill your married, dont do what your friends do because thats them they are going to be the ones who end up growing up and regreting the things they did, dont have sex untill you know the guy and untill your with the guy so i would say wate untill after your married, believe me you wont regret it! I know thats a long time away but you will be happy that you didnt do what your friends did, because there are the chances of getting pregnant or getting an STD and if i were you i would wate untill after i was married,..Hope i helped! *feedback is greatly appreciated* ~Nikki
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My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We've had our problems and worked through them - we started dating when we were still in high school. (I'm about to turn 18, he's about to turn twenty.) We've always been friends and supported each other, knowing that high school relationships don't tend to last very long. Things have been good lately in the sense that we get along, we spend time with one another and care about eachother very much - but lately I've been bothered about where our relationship is going.
We do not and never have said the words "I Love You", and we both used to agree that too many people misuse those words, causing more problems. He has a bad past when it comes to "love" and relationships, but we've been together for two years. I don't expect him to love me necessarily, or to tell me he does when he isn't ready - but I sometimes doubt his feelings for me relationship -wise. We haven't been talking the same way we had been lately, and I tried talking to him about this and he just stayed silent, (his way of blocking out my questions.) The silence is getting to me. I've even tried asking him flat-out, "how do you feel about me?". He seems to think I shouldn't ask him, and won't tell me why he feels like he shouldn't answer. It's starting to make me feel like we've just hit the end, but we're so connected when it comes to being around eachother, we've been friends and more than friends for so long. In short, his actions are there most of the time, but the words are not. I sometimes feel as if after all this time, I've been with a stranger. We don't have 'fun' as much anymore, and he often seems completely enthralled with his thoughts and less enthusiastic about life in general when around me.
I really would like to be in a relationship where we can say "I love you" after being together for so long - or at least be able to be verbally affectionate. - But I don't want to force him or make him feel like he's being forced. I want him to be happy, too, but I sometimes feel I'm not getting the attention I deserve. Am I being over-insecure? Thanks for anyone willing to read this long thing, and help.
ok, you and this guy have been together for 2 years and normally when people are together for months thats when they say i love you, i would figure that by now yall would say it to eachother because it would be crazy not to, 2 years is a very long time and it seems to me like yall are commited to eachother so why not say i love you ... maybe he wants to tell you he loves you but hes scared you dont love him or something, try playing hard to get, like if he trys to kiss you or something move away from him and make him kiss you on your cheek and then when he trys it again let him kiss you on your lips, thats one way of playing hard to get but there are also other ways as well, let him come to you and tell you how he feels, i'm sure that he will soon because being with someone for 2 years should make you want to tell the person who your with how you feel, although i'm prob not hitting the nail on the head right now but just try playing hard to get it would drive him crazy, i hope this helped you in some way, *feedback is greatly appreciated*...~Nikki
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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything?
in most relationships there are times when the couple is talking on the phone to eachother and then everything gets quite and no one knows what to say, that doesnt mean yall are getting bored with eachother you just dont really know what to talk about anymore, so maybe this will help, try talking about eachothers day and whats going to happen for the comeing up weekend, and hows school, and hows the life at home, i mean theres millions of things you can talk about, like animals, whats your fav animal or something like that, try what i have came up with and maybe the next time yall are on the phone with eachother it wont be so quite! I hope i helped!! *feedback is greatly appreciated* ~Nikki
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I'm am in the seventh grade and I'm not interested in guys. I am not the girly type of person but for some reson, guys are attracted to me. I want to turn them off but then again, I don't want to. What should I do???
dont worry about em, let them want you, thats something most girls want is for all the guys to want them. stop upsessing over guys likeing you, believe me if you dont want them to like you now, you sure will want them to like you some day. I hope i helped!...*feedback is greatly appreciated*~Nikki
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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..
signed , lonely - again .
my thoughts about it are, maybe hes going out with your best friends to try to make you jealous and try to hurt you, some guys do that whenever they are broken up with someone, they try going for their ex's best friends to try to make them jealous, but what i'm wondering is, why are your best friends going out with him after yall broke up?...did they ask you first to see if it was ok?...well anyways back on the subject, try calling him and talking to him on the phone about whats been going on and tell him that you made a mistake in dumping him and that you wish you had him back and if you think he's useing "Shelly" then ask him about it, ask him if hes just trying to hurt you or trying to make you jealous, because its hurting you him dateing the people who are your best friends which isnt right...i hope this advice helps you, talk to him, see whats going on and if you want him back then go get em girl! Dont stop untill hes yours again!.*feedback is greatly appreciated*~Nikki
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Well i've been into this guy for a few months. When i met him, he unfortunately had a gf. and i had some of his friends jst come to me & tell me that he liked me.. and that didnt love his gf. that got me confused.
anyway now he doesnt have a gf because he broke up with her. and he told me playing around that he got pissed at her andt thats why he ended it. but then he told me that they took a "break" because they went off track(vacation) for 2 months.
well the thing is .. we have this obvious attraction between us. and 1 of his bestfriends always tells me that HES INTO ME alot. and wlel i try to ask him .. well i do. i ask him alot of questions having to do with his feelings towards me .. and hes always answering "i dont know". and the other day he said "you ask questions that are unexplainable". i dont know what to do!!
how can i get him to tell me straight out how he feels??? (by the way .. the most weve done is just HUG.. even if weve had opportunities to do more., so i know he wouldnt just act like he likes me, because hes "GETTING" anything. YOU KNOW?) PLEASE HELP!!!
..[14yr-female-tenth grade]
hes playing games with you, if he keeps saying he doesnt know about if he likes you or not then find you someone else who wont be playing games with you, theres really not a way to get him to tell you the truth because a guys gonna do whatever and say whatever they want, hes leading you on, start playing hard to get, that gets guys alot..like by playing hard to get i'm meaning stop asking him if he likes you, if he does like you then he will come around and tell you how he feels, just give him time and in the process find someone else and if he never tells you how he feels then one day he will regret it, i hope i helped!!*feedback is greatly appreciated*~Nikki
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I used to like this guy since kindergaten and he's been in my class ever since(except fourth). Now that I'm in Jr. High, I'm not interested in him or any other guy anymore. everyhting has changed since I started. Is this normal?
it depends, what are you interested in?....like are you interested in girls (not trying to be rude) or what, i mean it seems normal considering you didnt give much info...i mean your growing up and going through different things and your confused and prob dont know what you want...i kinda need more info to give you a better answer but if this helps then good luck! ~Nikki
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13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.
wow i think every girl who's going through a break up needs a guy like you around, to send a girl flowers and a card, thats soooooooooo sweet, i think you should do it!! Every girl needs a sweet guy like you, Good Luck and i hope everything works out ok!~Nikki
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