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MY NAME iS TiFFANY . . iM`A 16/F/FL AND Y0U CAN SAY i`M THE TYPE 0F FEMALE WH0 HAS BEEN THR0UGH MY 0WN UPS N D0WNS iN LiFE..ESPECiALLY WHEN iT CAME T0 RELATiONSHiPS. GETTiNG PREGNATE , FEELiNG AL0NE, GETTiNG DUMPED, AND STUPiD EN0UGH T0 GET UP N G0 THR0UGH iT AGAiN. i WANT T0 HELP 0THER PE0PLE AV0iD MAKiNG THE SAME MiSTAKES i HAVE. i HATE ASKiN PE0PLE F0R ADViCE THAT D0N`T KN0W WHAT THE HELL THEY TALKiN` ABOUT WHERE ALL THEY CAN SAY iS -"iT`LL BE O.K. KEEP YOU`RE HEAD UP.." THAT`S N0T ADViCE. Y0U CAN C0UNT 0N ME T0 TELL YA ASS STRAiGHT UP WHAT T0 D0 THAT WiLL B BEST! HiT ME UP!
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Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"
Thanks in advance...
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weLL iF yOu beLieve yOur friend is Over him, TheN allOw yOurself tO mayBe qet with him. If yOu aren`t sure then yOu shOuld cheCk with yOur friend. Tell her yOur feelinqsz fOr him,buT alsO watch hEr reacTion. dOn`t only tell HER yOu like him...make a mOve on him. TeLL the bOy that yOu have feelinqsz fOr him..sEe hOw thinqsz qO frOm there! qOod luck! -Tiffany!
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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it. (link)
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YeSz..yOu`re a virqin if a guysz stuff hasn`t been in yOur qOodz lOl..well if yOu have oraL sex.yOur mOuth izn`t a virqin but yeah...dOn`t be embarassed =) iT`z natural!
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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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jUsT teLL her yOu feel as if thatsz nOt exactly sOmethinq yOu want tO spend yOur HalloweeN niqHt dOinq. tRy tO aqqree oN dOinq sOmethinq eLse that niqht, still respectinq her priDe. shOw her yOu dO care abOut her opiniOn bUt yOu feel iT`sz silly.which it sOrt of is...hOpe i heLp!
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What do I do if I think I may be obsessed with sex? (link)
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oOh..i wOnder the same thinq..sOmetimesz i feeL like i can`t qO on withOut it =( bUt there`sz nOt mucH tO dO...dOn`t qO off aNd dO it with just aNyOne thaTsz fOr sure TRY tO hOld off tiL yOu find the riqht persOn..iF yOu feel yOu must have it..find sOme one that at least careS abOut yOu! qOod Luck-Tiffany
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i know your all going to call me a liar but i'm not. well, my freind is 12 and has had sex 13 times with the same person. here's the story...when she was 10 she was dating a 14 year old guy, their parents met and got married, then they were dating other people since they had become step siblings, then they wanted to be together so they had sex, just rcently she got pregnant and had an abortion all from her step brother. then a few days a go she gave head to and 18 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think it's rediculous! but she loves him and when she turns 16 her parents are signing something so they can move into an apartment together! she calls him her "husband!" i think it's real slutty. what should i say when she brings it up around me? (link)
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sHesz nOt a sLut...uHmm i kinda kNo hOw she feelsz..i wuz 13...slePt with my bOyfriend 22 timEsz..and his cOusin is the one i`m in lOve with and i sLepT witH him quiTe a biT tOo. dOn`t make her feel bad. iT reaLLy sucksz wen yOur friendsz sTarT turninq their baCksz tOo..fRiendsz aRe prObabLy what this qirl needsz the mOst riqht nOw..yOu shOuld prObabLy just cOmfOrT her despite yOur harsH feeLinqsz...
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whats a vibrator? (link)
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LoL..sOmeOne nEeDsz tO qeT oUt mOre..a viBraTor is a..PleasUre device ThAt suPpOsivEly qivesz yOu the pleasUre of a real boysz dickk *i wOuldn`t knO i dOn`t need OnE* BuT yeah...waTch nOt anOther teen mOvie..the beqinning..perFect examPle of a no sex-Life qeek
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my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow and i want to give him head, but i want to seduce him and make him want it more and like right away, maybe like give him a boner or something, so does anyone have anything to do that will help? (link)
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Oh i lOve teaSiNq! qirL wHat yOu dO iS laY him dOwn n b4 dOinq ANYTHING rUb LotiOn aLL oVa uRseLf b4 tOuchiNq him *n riqhT iN fRoNt oF him* stiLL havE uR cLotHeSz oN and sit faCinq hiM in his laP..sTarT kissinq him and leT hiM wraP his arMsz arOund yOu and sTarT tOuchiNq yOu then jUst do w/e oTha trick yOu qOt pLanned OuT..hAvE fuN!
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what does "hit it from the back" mean, i always though it meant get it up your @$$ but it doesnt... (link)
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weLL at firsT i thOuqht it wuz ThaT tOo untiL we wuz taLkin bOut it in cLass and tiL tHe time came when a quY actUally asked me tO dO it witH hiM.. hE sed "LemmE qeT iT frOm tha back" and i wuz SO STUPID! i qo-"what? u ainT pUttiN thaT iN mY BoOtY!" he sTarTed lauqhin..n i fOund OuT..lOl he sEd "nO! iT meAnsz i stiLL qet the 'caT' bUt frOm the baCk" i feLt stuPid..nO wOrries =)
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how do i get my bf sexually aroused so he'll get a B0ner when i cant be with him.. like when im talking to him online, or on the phone?!.. does any one have ne tips or advice on it? - thanks - (link)
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uhmm iT dePendsz hOw desPeraTe fOr sex yOur quy is =)
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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question (link)
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lOl oH hEll na...aRe yOu likE 10 yeaRsz oLd?? weLL yOu sLoOowly qive a gentle kiss tO yOur partner..(nO rush) makE it passionaTe..then qentLy parT tHeiR lipsz wiTh the tip Of yOur tOunge n BAM yer tOunqe is in! fRom there yOu can eiTher gO rOuqh anD tOuqh oR sLow..*aHh* leT mE StOp thiNkin bOut this b4 i caLL sOmeoNe tO cOme Over tOniqht
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15.f.california
ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything
thanks a bunch Lisa (link)
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oKay..sOundSz like yer Livinq a haRd Life..yeah i`m LaTe! iF yOu think mOvinq tO fLorida will qet rid Of mOst/or aLL of TheSe probLemsz then i say qO fOr it! mOmsz' NevEr undersTand teenaqErsz thEsE dayz..i knO hOw yOu feeL..i tOld mY mOm siNce i`m sucH a prObleM tO heR tHeN let me kill myseLf..i`m sUre yOur mOm reaLLy caResz abOut yOu-sHe jusT has majOr prObLemz shOwinq it. jUst kNo-runnInq away frOm probsz nEvEr sOlvesz eVeRyThiNq..dOn`t dO nOthinq sTuPid aiqhT!? -Tiffany
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well i want to talk to her bt its not like that.. he broke up with her bt she claims dat she was meaning to get rid of him anyway dat she wasnt really into him... bt ih ave this feeling that if i tell her tha ti like him t will change EVERYTHING and id ont want that to happen no guy is worth a break up of a friendship and i like him bt its not like OMG I LIKE HIM I HAVE TO GO OUT WITH HIM i have my moments like i liked him for 1 class period today then all of a sudden wen i got home i was like... wtf why and then my feelings come back to me its very weird! idk wut to do cuz she means everything to me and i dont wanna risk another friendship! gosh its such a mess (link)
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weLL tHis is a cOmplicaTed situatiOn..But think-sHe says she`sz cOmpletely over him. if yOu want tO be cOmpletely sUre she dOesn`t LikE hiM..tHen qive it a whiLe..see hOw she aCtsz arOund him. yOu seem like yOu knOw her really well sO yOu shOuld know if she still has that cOnnecTiOn. iF yOu still dOn`t believe the risk is wOrth the friendshiP..dOn`t try it. MaKe sure everythinq is OkaY..i`vE beeN iN thiS siTuaTiOn..Kinda..excePt i wuz the qirL wiTh tHe ex...i tOld my friend "oH iT`sz oKay yOu can have him!" iT`sz oKay fOr the tiMe..buT jusT seeiNq them tOgether and thinkinq Of MY old memories with hiM iS whaT hUrtsz..i ThinK yOu aRe a smaRt qirl and yOu can teLL whaT tO dO! yOu aLwaySz have b4!! aNd i LoVe ya fOr that! qOod Luck =)
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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dOn`t diss yOur best friend fOr a parTy!~ever!! eSpecially if yOu dOn`t barely knOw the qirl. Yeah, the ParTy qirl is popular and will help yOur status? bUt wOuld yOu like tO be knOwn as the qirl wHo diTches her bff fOr a party? There aRe qOnna b plentY of parTies trusT me..bUt oNly oNe truE besT friend iF yOu reaLLy wanna qO tO this paRty..maYbe yOu cOuld cOnvice yOur best friend tO qO wiTh yOu then mayb dO sOmethinq afterwardsz!
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Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!! (link)
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yOur mOm is like mine..the arqument qOes On and On and On! she never shuTsz up!! i Think yOu shOul tell yOur mOm yOu`re qOinq tO try yOu just need her suppOrt and fOr her tO qive yOu positive encouraqement not neqative. I dOnt blame yOu fOr qetting annoyed!!
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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
**Anoynomous** (link)
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weLL yOu shOuld advise yOur friend On the bad thinqsz that can happen experimentinq with thEse druqsz...she may think they dOn`t hurt her but that`sz nOt even clOse...teLL her abOut the future she can have disreqardinq the druqsz...gOod Luck-Tiffany
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okay i like this guy bt my friend broke up with him like 3 weeks ago and wen i ask her bout ti she tells me she does not like him nd dat she wouldnt care if i liked him bt ders this feeling dat she still likes him .. bt im not sure.. id rather have her as a friend bt i dont wanna think everyday wut could have happned.. i really need ur help im so caught up in this.. she tells me she wouldnt b mad at me if i liked him... bt idk its just so uncomfortable... please help tiff ur the best-nina (link)
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oOh qOd..friEndz vs. bOyfriendsz! i haTe that! weLL iT`sz weird taLking tO frienDsz abOut qOinq with her ex bUt think Of it this way.she said she wuz over him. But therE`sz still that lil churn in yOur stOmach thatsz tellinq yOu it`sz nOt riqht huh? yOu shOuld ask yOurself and yOur friend iF iT will chanqe anythinq...but at least HE didn`t breaK uP with HER riqht? maYbe iF yOu builD uP enOuqh gUtsz tO finally ask Her bOut it (which is hard) TheN maYbe yOu can qeT hOw she feelsz.. ShE sed she didn`t care but teLL her yOu dOn`t think thaz hOw it reaLLy is! i`m suRe nO matter whaT happeNsz things`ll wOrk OuT! LyLas-Tiffany
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Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do?? (link)
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WeLL i been in this situatiOn nOt such a lOnq time aqO..8 yearsz dOwn the drain...= / weLL i think yOu shOuld apologize fOr anythinq offending yOu may have said if yOu really want this friendship back. mOst Likely, yOu`ll never be as clOse as yOu were befOre but it`sz better then to have tO wOnder what WOULD have happened if yOu had just said sOrry! it`sz nOrmal fOr the best Of friendsz tO fiqht..sO dOn`t think every friendship is Oh sO perfect!! wHen yOu`re mad Of cOurse sOme thinqsz tend tO slip Out..if yOu have the qutsz to forqive her.she shOuld b a friend n dO the same!! just talk to her!-Tiffany
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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!! (link)
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OMG! we aRe in ThE samE exaCt bOaT!! ThE saMe thIng`sz happenInq tO me. ThE bOy is cUte,funnY,fLirty and Of course despite all the other qirls he chiLLsz wit and that like him.he manaqesz to make me feel like i`m tHe one he reaLLy caresz abOut. I have never asked a quy out and i dOn`t know hOw to eiTher..i think yOu shOuld deff. teLL him hOw yOu feeL..hOpefully it will qo beTTer than hOw i did. i tOld him and he still wOuldn`t qO with mE..i`m waitinq fOr him tO bE ready. weLL if he truLy likesz yOu,he will tell yOu hOw he feelsz. Make him b hOnest. My quy tOld me he`sz never qOnna tell me aNythinq hatsz a lie just tO make me feel qOod. TaKe that adVice! gOoD LucK!-Tiffany
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There's this guy who I recently developed hard feelings for. And just this past weekend, we we flirting extremely hard with one another and I just don't know if he likes me or not. Certain comments he would say to me and certain actions he'd do made me think that there was a possibility he was crushing back. The only problem is, I have a friend who likes him a lot and they are going to a dance together. The confusing part is all the flirting he and I did happend after he said yes to the girl for the dance. What should I do? He's been on my mind heavily. (link)
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There`sz nOt reaLLy mUcH tO dO...aBout the dance parT that is. If yOu like him,yOu shOuld tell him and nOt dwell On the quesTiOn, "dOesz he like me or not?" mOst quysz are naturaL fLirtsz sO he miqht jusT be a fLirt..but we dOn`t know fOr sure. Of course he`sz on yOur minD!! yOu need tO tell him yOur feelinqsz and hOpe he feeLsz the same way! =) -Tiffany
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
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nO! fLirtinq wiTh a quy doesn`T aT aLL maKe yOu a sLut! It wuz jusT a fLirty mOmenT aNd obviOusLy the truth had tO cOme oUt sOoner oR latEr!! yOu didn`T knO and that waszn`t yOur fauLt!
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