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Hey! I know, I ask a TUN of questions about tracK!

but, I have a meet on monday! (Im asking this on Saturday Morning) and I have HORRIBLE pains in my knees and ankels when i run, and after i run i have the pains in my ankels. it always feels like my i am going to sprain my ankel!

I have pratice in about an hour!

so, i need some help! what should i do to make myself go faster, despite the pains.

I know how to at the meet because i only have to do it one time, but at pratice wtih the continous working, what should I do??

and any ways to go faster, and im in the 4X1 relay! anyone have sugestions for that either?

Also- I know what the pains are coming from-its the track.

:/

sorry its so long, but i only have a little over one hour before i have to leave for pratice!

Thanks In Advance!

-*KelC*- (link)
get one of those icy hot patches or take some tylenol b 4 or after the meets and practices


My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
convince him bii giving him every reason u can 2 talk him outta leaving

or u never no if over the course of a year he may 4get


well i have a gyno appointment next week and i'm kind of scared because i've never been there before. my mom doesn't know that my boyfriend and I have sex, but she made a comment about going on birth control if i think me and drew are going to have sex. i think i should but yet i dont know what to do because she will automatically know that me and drew have sex or that we are thinking about it. my mom says to tell her if me and drew were ever to do it but im afraid. should i go on the pill ? what do you think ? (link)
yea its better 2 b safe then sorry



okay im starting on birth control soon..and im on itcuz of my acne..but im also happy im on it cuz when i do bcome sexually active (imma virgin) with my BF of a year and 3 months i want to me 100% safe meaning using a condom and being on birth control..and i wanted to know..how long till birth control is effective? like how long should i wait till i can trust that it will work before i feel safe enough to go off and lose my virginity.. (link)
it depends mostly on the product. but give it a while to kick in. wen u notice that ur acne problem has gone down then it should most likely b ready


This is SO werid and ive never heard anything like it before but ..please dont delete it because i reallly need help!! Well, my nipples hurt so bad! I mean theres like a burning feeling. At first i thought i might be cold but i put on a sweater and put a blanket over me but nothing worked! so it couldnt be that!! Is it normal for nipples to HURT this bad? And i cant tell my mom because i dont know..we dont have a good relationship and i dont tell her things. Please help me!! Whats wrong with me?? Could i have cancer?!? Im 13/f ..not sexually active or anything ..im a virgin -- so whats up!? (link)
tell ur mom to take u to c the doctor nd then ull find out from there


ok I am 15/f and there is something down there (ya know) thats a dot and its been bleeding, and I dont know what it is...it looks nasty, and I was wondering If anyone would happen to know what it is...its not all the way down there but its like where theres hair down there if anyone could help me out with this I will thank you and rate high, I hope this isnt anything bad, because I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time so if anyone could help me I will rate high to all! Thanks
p.s. why wont it stop bleeding?? (link)
lol
its your period
get some pads
it may last 2-7 days
everygirl gets it
it has nothing to do with the fact that you had sex. but if you are going to continue to have sex make it safe nd use a condom because wen you get your period that means that ur now a woman and now have the ability to get pregnant


k, i recently had sex with my ex bf.. and it was for 2 mins and nothing happened. i haven't gotten my period yet - it was suppsoed to come on tuesday, but i haven't gotten it yet. although, i have been very stressed lately (breakup with my boyfriend, dad lost a job, friend almost commited suicide, etc) and i am also very underweight for being my height. could those be reasons for missing my period or could i be pg? please write back! (link)
well itz apossibility. some of these simptoms may b from the stress.if you use a condom you shouldn't be pregnant and most of the signs your probably noticing is prolly from have sex thats all alot of young girls. mayb you should talk 2 your ex nd get a pregnancy test if your period does not come


i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
well people do it somr times for a popularity boost, peer pressure or just 4 fun. a lot of ppl lose their virginity at a young age


1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!! (link)
no not at all. you should b glad that you have a real opportunity to explore your options. if you must go 4 it go 4 it.


Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...

They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"

I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!! (link)
tell him its a natural part of life that he will learn about wen he gets older. tell him that he should just 4get about it


ok i am a freshman in high school i have had sex once about 2 years ago its a long story so please dont call me a slut and no its not because i cant get any more ... so dont be rude about it please.

on anyways and soon after that i started my period and i have clear discharge every now and again and i was wondering if any one knows if thats from the sex maybe the guy had an std or from the period/tampon / w/e thing please help

~lexy~
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that is normal
it is usually from your period


i have just moved to a new skool, and i have noticed that most of the girls at my skool like me. now i just got here and wont be here for long and hardly know any of them. and it's really obvious on who likes me cause i often find them staring at me then they stop when i see they are. i wanna know wat i should do about this.... i'll rate i guess if its good (link)
you should get to no some of the people that like you. i cant hurt to make new friends even if you wont be there for long. you could also have long distance friends, were you keep in touch with your friendz even after your gone.


My bf and i are going to 2 proms this year and we're not sure if he should buy or rent a tux for them. What do you think would be cheaper. All he wants is a basic Black Tux with nothing fancy and also besides Mr. Tux and Steping out Formal where can he rent them and where can he buy one. thanks and sry if that is confusing (link)
not confusing. well if you need a tux for more than 1 occasion then buy one. it could also come in handy in the future. im not so sure wear to buy one tho


Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do? (link)
use some kind of medicated cream to get rid of or reduce the stretch marks. Until then were a shet t shirt over your top at the beach


Just recently, my family purchased a computer mouse that was the laser optical type.


I've only used the rolling ball type, so this is all new to me.


But every 5-7 minutes or so, my arrow on the screen with jump toards the side bottoms. Is this normal for this type of mouse? If not, what can i do to stop the skipping around. I'm not even pressing remotely in the way it randomly jumps. (link)
there has got to be some thing wrong with your mouse cuz they are not supposed to do that. i have been using laser mouses since i started using computers and they shouldnt do that


hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great. (link)
It doesn't matter wether or not you are sexually active. if you feel more comfortable with yourself that way then go for it. It may itch if you dont shave it well enough or enough. it may grow back quick. im not so sure wether or not you should use shaving cream. But wen you get older you can avoid this problem by getting a Brazillian Bikini Wax, sure it hurts but if its what you want who has the right to stop you?


i just bought certain dri last night and i put it on and my armpits started tinglinng and itching and first but then they stopped... is this normal/ok?
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Yea thats normal, its just a reactant to a new product. But if it continues or gets worse you may want to consider a doctor (thats only if you are comfortable with it). Or you could simply switch products.


okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.

And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying. (link)
Tell her to take a walk in your shoes for a day.
tell her that if he really cares about you as much as it is assumed then she should support you and give him a chance.
After all it is your life not hers.


Well over the weekend I'm stuck with a huge project over the weekend and...its a group project and two of the guys in the group goof off all the time and are failing the class and the other guy is a cute,nice,funny guy I flirt and joke around with sometimes. He's into the project but he's not into getting everything together. I've got this amazingly funny and fun idea for the project, and the only way I'm gonna get it done is if I do it all by myself. So my question is, do people hate it if you do all the work? Does doing all the work piss people off? Will the guy not like me anymore if I do it by myself?
Thanks so much for helping! :-) (link)
well i would tell them to get up off their lazy butts and help you do the project and if they dont dig up some dirt
but of corse you could always tell them to pay you to do the waork or tell them that your not gonna do it with the 2 goof offs and threaten them with the risk of failure. But do it any way and dont let them no that you really did it and tell your teacher that you did all the work

well thats all i got. Its not exactly my best but its still advice.

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