My mom tried to dye her gray hair and now she has a bald spot in the middle of her head. The dye made her hair more gray too and didn't even color it. It looks like maybe her hair is burned off, idk. What can she do?
http://m.wikihow.com/Regrow-Hair-After-Hair-Loss-(Women)
Hope this helps...its a list of steps to try to regrow hair. Just copy and paste the whole link, including the women in parenthesis.
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19/F So my best friend and I both realized we're attracted to each other about 4 months ago. After some complications, we started 'seeing' each other, and then became official a month ago. We've both said "I love you", and the relationship is going REALLY great. It may or may not be fast for some, but I feel like since we were best friends before, we have more of a head start than other couples. Anyway, I love him so much, and it's obvious to me and other people through his actions that he loves me too.
Thing is, we work together, go to the same college, and most of the time I'm his ride to those places since his car is busted. Not to mention I sleep at his house all the time. So we see each other A LOT. But when we do have a day or two apart, I miss him. A lot. It's not like I feel empty or anything, I just really, really miss him. I don't like being apart from him, and he's said that to me too. We laughed about it.
Is that normal? For me to miss him that much even though we see each other all the time? It's like, I'll go home after hanging out at his place or something, and an hour later I miss him. I haven't been in many relationships, and I want to make sure I'm not making the relationship unhealthy or anything. It seems to be going great and I want to make sure the relationship's not doomed. Input would be appreciated. Thanks!! :))
It's not unhealthy at all. That's the best kind of relationship when you were friends first. You guys are excited to be together ..enjoy it. It's the honeymoon phase. It will probably last awhile but eventually you might want a little space but you guys will figure that out later. Enjoy the time together now and cherish it :) and I hope all goes well.
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Hi,
I am a 19 year old male who just moved out of my house to start college. I live alone and lately I've just been feeling kinda lonely and sad. For some reason I just feel the need for a companion, a girl, just somebody. Whenever I see people at school who are really happy I just feel like I need that and want a girl to love me. I don't know. Like when I'm at home, I just feel so bored and apathetic, like nothing to look forward to.
To have somebody, you have to be somebody to them. A lot of people actually feel the exact same way as you, but the only way you are going to find someone is by putting yourself out there. And by that I mean ,for example, start a conversation with a girl in class. Maybe ask a question about the class or ask for help on some homework or project (cause that would be a slick way to get her #) Ask questions ...girls love that..if you seem interested. It might be awkward at first but the more you put yourself out there, the easier it will be and the closer youll be to finding someone. Go out with friends. But yaa just share yourself with others so one day soon someone will want to share themselves with only you :)
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There is at gay guy at my college who is amazing. He is nice, cool, sassy, athletic and awesome. I am a girl and I live with him at the dorms. Unfortunately, I have fallen in love with him. I don't why I fell in love with him, but I did. But things got worst. I gave him a present for Christmas and in exchange he gave me my first kiss. I was happy, but sad at the same time. I am not sure how to approach him anymore. I am so confused. I want to get over him, but I'm sure how. I don't even know if he likes me that way.
It always suck when the person you fall for does not return mutual feelings. And unfortunately there is no way you can make him like you. You have to accept that. It happens to everyone (liking someone that doesnt like us) and trying to hang on or hope for more will only drain you. I dont know how often you guys hangout or talk but the best thing for you to do is limit contact with him to none or as little as possible. You are only putting yourself thru heartache by wishing for him to like you back. Picture him getting screwed in the butt by another guy or him giving a guy head. You dont want that. Distract yourself...go out with other friends, meet new ppl, etc . You will get over him if you come to terms with whats real and what is never gonna happen. It sucks but if you allow yourself, you can find someone else. It may not seem like it but I promise you can.
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I am married for around 8 yrs, but just after my marriage my wife has started creating issue with my family. We were a joint family and just because of her high Temper, she never looks where she is standing in the house or outside, when she is angry she will just burst out with very high volume. Also i recently came to know that she has been physical with 2 to 3 guys before we got married. It came to my notice that some one msg her and I read it. She told lies that she dont kneow, but she use to get the msgs mostly daily so when I focused her she confused that she dont know who is the guy msg but yes she has been physical with some guys and that to 1 night stand. My whole life is gone for toss. I cannot tell anyone about this nor can do anything becuase she is not raedy to leave me. I know she is not telling me the whole truth. She is still hiding many things. I dont have anyone with me so that I can share my feelings. I have started drinking and even I am spending more time in office. Please advice.
If you are providing for her in any way, like financially, that's probably the reason why she is not ready to leave you. Otherwise, I would be curious to know why do you think she is not ready to leave you? Are you sure it is not that maybe you aren't ready to leave her? By staying with someone like that, who's walking all over you and taking you for granted, you're putting yourself in a depressing, unhealthy place to be. She thinks she can get away with it and right now you are letting her. You cannot believe anything someone like that (a cheater) says. Trust me I have been where you're at. My ex cheated on me for two years. There were so many signs, and when I would ask him about my suspicions he would be very convincing and I would believe him. Cheaters are very good liars. You need to get away from her! I had to walk away from my ex and it was the best thing I ever did. I was in a miserable place with him, as I'm sure you are with her if you are drinking a lot. It's not worth it to stay in a relationship like that because you are just going to keep hoping she changes and she's just going to keep disappointing you. Walking away is scary, but I'm telling you from personal experience it will be the best decision you ever made because you will find someone else that will treat you way better. Yea you might have to be alone for a little bit but its better than where youre at now. Don't stay with her...she does not deserve you!!
If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me. I just went thru something similar and it helps to have someone to talk to.
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hi,I from India.I am a college going student.I am in a relationship for three years.
I had anal sex with my girlfriend without using protection.Now she's not having her periods,it is 2days late from her normal date.So,my question is when will i know that she is actually pregnant??what are the very early symptoms?what actions will i take to stop that pregnancy without abortion?
If you just had anal sex then she CANNOT be pregnant. You have to cum inside her vagina for her to be pregnant...
Unless you are saying you came inside her vagina too. Her period being a couple days late is not a big deal. Sometimes it's not exactly every thirty days. I would not worry until it's a week and a half or more late. Spotting, discharge (spotting), breast changes, fatigue, nausea, mood swings, and frequent urination are some of the early signs of pregnancy. If you don't want her to have the baby it's probably too late to take the day after pill. You can take that up to 72 hrs after sex but I'm sure it's been longer than that so the only other way is abortion.
However if it's like you said and you guys just had anal sex then there's no way she can be pregnant.
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i remember reading his saga called a Series of Onfortunate Events from 2003 to 2007 when they were very popular now they are not as popular as they used to be and the saga only got one movie in 2004 starring Jim Carrey as Count Olaf but now they are not popular nomore why is that just curious .
I would say basically because there is so much out there nowadays that there's always gonna be newer, popular things/trends that come out ex.harry potter then twilight then hunger games. These movies and books come out, become famous for awhile, then fade just because there's always going to be something newer. People are curious and jump on the bandwagon (not everyone but the people that wanna know what the majority of people are talking about). Everything is constantly changing including people and their interests.
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Well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday it's not our first time it's our third we are protected every time but for the first time I had a little bit of blood come out today and I don't know from what? I'm just confused did my cherry pop? Can that happen after the 3rd time of having sex? Or what else could it be?
Vaginal bleeding is usually from your cervix. Even if you have a healthy cervix, enough friction during sex can cause the bleeding so its not abmormal. I wouldnt worry but probably get some kube or have him go easier in u :p
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Today i came home happy but then when i went to remove my makeup i felt the stress and i started to cry for no reason at all.
Technically speaking all us women can be somewhat bipolar to an extent :p . Stress can make anyone very emotional ...feeling a lot of different things at once and feeling all over the place. It's totally normal. Just because other people can hide their emotions better than others does not mean they don't feel overwhelmed and all over the place too. If you need someone to vent to im available or if you're close to someone you should talk to them and just tell them what's on your mind. It helps to have someone that can empathize with you :)
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I'm looking for bohemian and retro clothes
Modcloth.com
Boohoo.com - some modern but some vintage & boho styles
Freepeople.com
..Also I would suggest looking for thrift stores or consignment stores( not goodwill or salvation army but private ones)in your area because some of them will have vintage sections or sometimes the whole store is vintage. Just saying because you can get some really great deals at those kind of places.
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I am friends with this guy for whom we have some recent history.
We were never official, but at one point, we became the center of each other's universe. We've begun to drift apart because he's "starting" to see someone else. Well, I guess he started to really date someone.
I was always the best friend that he had, and at most we were always there for each other.
I guess, what I wanted to say is, I really miss him. I also miss the way we were before. But I don't want to interfere with his relationship, and I don't want to lose him as my friend.
Right now, I am keeping myself at a safe distance with him. As much as I can, I am trying, to fight the struggle within me, to reach out to him, and demand.. no, BEG for his attention.
I know I really sound pathetic, but it's really hard for me. All the changes. And even the realization that he's seeing someone else.
I like him, and I guess I lost the chance already. I wanted to be as supportive and as a good friend as I can be. So I can't do it now and I don't know if I can do it. I can't see him just as a friend anymore. And at times that I'm seeing them, or just him, it always breaks my heart.
Cliche friend zoned. I know.
I just don't know what to do.
Please.. I don't know what to do..
I can definitely feel your pain. You don't sound pathetic at all. Most people have been there including myself. It sucks when people don't feel the way we want them to and unfortunately there's no magic way to make them. But I can tell you the best way is to keep distancing yourself away from him. By trying to hang around at all you'll just torture yourself (it's not pathetic, everyone's done it) because you do have feelings. It's not to say you guys don't have a future or cant be friends later but for your own sanity right now you need to focus on anything but him. Of course you'll still think about him and if he says hi or somethin you don't have to ignore him but I would not initiate anything and keep busy with anything else (school,work,other friends,etc) . Because if you can stay away thoughts of him will become less frequent and eventually you will actually move on even if it doesn't seem like it now. If he didn't see the potential relationship you guys could've had before then he's probably not the guy for you anyway...you need to be a priority and have your feelings returned instead of just hoping for them to be returned ..you know? You should try to meet other people and distract yourself bc the less he's around or in the picture, the less you will think about him until you don't anymore. You gotta focus on yourself and protect your heart for now so you can find something better for you. I hope this helps. This was the best advice I got when I went thru something very similar. It is possible I promise.
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I asked my cousin if it was okay and she was said it was me and my cousin are like sisters.
O ok then I'm sure it'll be great then :).. I was just saying it might start to make her uncomfortable but if you're that close then it shouldnt. sry about ur dad . Hope everything works out ..:)
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I am a 24 year old female and my dad died when I was 12 and I didn't really get to see him that much when he was alive because my parents got divorced when I was 3 and then when I turned the age 15 I felt like I always needed to have a man in my life constantly as soon as one relationship ended then not even a month later I was in another one and needless to say being in over 20 relationships since I was 15 got me into a bunch of trouble even though my stepdad has been in my life since I was 5 he never really played the part of a dad and now when I am 24 years I still feel that need that I always have to have a man in my life to feel complete and now my cousin is married to a man that is 38I am extremely close to not like intimate but I feel like he is more of a dad than my own stepdad and the other day I was really depressed about not having my dad around and he noticed I upset I was so he sat down beside me looked me in the eye and gave me a hug and said that he is not going to try to replace my real dad because he knows that he could never to that but if I wanted to I could consider him a dad a father figure and I could even call him dad if I wanted my cousin was in the room when all of this happened and she thanked her husband for doing that and for giving me a hug but the problem is that I don't know if it is okay for me to consider this man my dad or for him to be my father figure that I feel that I need to have in my life and to even call him my dad any opinions on this would be greatly appreciated . Thanks for any advice in advice .
Well It just depends on how much time ur spending talking to him and all. I would suggest getting a male psychologist that is a dads age maybe...that way you would have a male you could confide in and he is trained to help you deal with your fathers death in a healthier way and could probably help you in your relationships, etc. But if you don't feel comfortable with that I understand. I don't know your cousin or how close you guys are but I'm sure she knows you aren't tryig to get with her husband ..but she could start to get jealous if you lean on him too much for support. Probably not tho if you already asked her.
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Me and my boyfriend were messing around and he did have a condom on. He tried putting in the tip but It didn't work out well so he quit and I gave him a hand job until he came in the condom. He threw away the condom and washed his hands. Then we started fooling around again a bit later and he put a condom on again, we did have sex but only for a little bit because it began to hurt me. He didn't even pre-cum either. After this, I gave him a hand job again to finish up once more while he had the condom on. & after he threw away the condom, washed his hands and than awhile later began to play with my vagina, until I made him stop. What are the chances of me being pregnant?
Zero if I understand correctly and youre saying that he had a condom on inside you and pulled out bc it hurt you and you gave him a hand job to finish off (make him cum). then no chance ..
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Hello advicenators, I am a 15 year old male and have struggled with self harm for 4 years and various eating disorders and I think I may be gay. Yes that is quite a handful of things, but I am bulimia binge free for 3 months and haven't cut for 6 days ( after a 3 week clean). I'm frustrated about my sexuality in general and feel different in the backwards little town I live in. I honestly just want to cut and fall asleep for a while and wake up and know for sure if I will be accepted and if I am more than bisexual. I grow weary of all this uncertainty, but I understand how there is no 100% way to know at my age. My mother knows, and she has been making offensive jokes about it and sneers at the very fact of it all... I want this to stop more than anything.(I am on Zoloft by the way for
depression)I used to go to counseling. I want to be on for five fucking minutes for once. That is my plea for help, and I'm not sure if anyone will even read this let alone have any solutions for my questions.should I be in counseling again, and is there anyone out there I can trust enough to let them help me?
Counseling can be very helpful. I dealt with an eating disorder myself for a long time. My mom criticized me for a long time also and it made me depressed too. But you can't change the way people think or react. It may take your mom a while to adjust accepting your sexuality but try not to take it personally. Believe it or not there are millions of people out there like you and having someone to talk to and that is willing to listen is a big help. Keeping those feelings inside is what destroys people and causes us to self destruct sometimes. There are people out there that are trustworthy but there is also a lot of people that will let you down...you have to remember no one is perfect. Counselors are professional people that make their living on people putting their trust in them so I think that is a good option. You might not always like what they have to say but they are there to help ya know.
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So, I'm dating this guy that I have been in absolute love with for nearly five year now . We just got back together finally and I'm very haph to be with him. I've only seen him a couple times this year, because of certain situations we can't get past right now in our lives. I really and truly love him.. I wish to marry him honestly. But there's this guy at work, and yesterday I was walking from the back, back to the front where the counter is, and he stepped in front of me, and said "Do I have a chance with you?" I just started stuttering and said "uhm, I don't know." And chuckled and went around him and walked off. Later during the day when I got off work, I went not the office to get my jacket and he walked in there and I said "I mean, I just never really thought about it." And he said "well think about it now. Off the top of your head." And I said "yes, you have a chance with me." And I walked away. I haven't stopped thinking about him hardly! What should I do about this?
Well you just got to be honest with yourself. Are you entertaining the idea of getting with the guy at work because you dont get to see your Bf that often and are feeling lonely and like the attention from someone you see all the time (which is understandable if you and your Bf have only seen eachother a couple times this year) ? Or do you really like the guy at work and are not sure if you and your current Bf are really gonna work out because of whatever situations you can't get past? After you ask yourself those questions then you will know how you truly feel. If you really do want to be with your Bf then you'll have to be honest with the guy at work and tell him you have someone else that you just really miss. Or if you don't think you'll ever get past the certain situations in you and your bfs lives then you shouldn't hold yourself back from experiencing something new that could be great.
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People pick on me and call me a "hipster" because I like to wear vintage clothes, headbands, fedora hats and listen to old music & I'm not into the music being played today. My friends are like this too & they don't consider themselves "hipster". I'm really down to earth and make friends easily. I'm very carefree/laid back. I don't like brand names, I love funky jewelry, always have, and I have an obsession with skulls and vintage items. I'm not sure what a hipster is, but I don't think I am one, but I get called a stupid hipster. Do I sound like a hipster?
Hipster is just another label people can put on you. It's just a way of stereotyping you. You are your own person and it sounds like you just have a style you like. You like what you like ..if someone wants to judge you because of that then they're probably not the kind of people you want to hang around anyway. Screw em. there's 6 billion ppl in the world ....a few ppls opinions are not gonna change anything unless you let em.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I am not self conscious about my weight.... I weigh 50 kg for a 13 year old, is don't know of that's good or bad and frankly I don't care. But my mom tells me off for being so fat, and she has for years... Lately its been getting to me and eat a considerably less amount than normal but we keeps saying it. My friend noticed and asked why, and that's when I realized that the only reason I reacted is because I am adopted and I felt that my mom choose me to be perfect, and I'm not showing her Enough gratitude and changing myself when I'm So obviously letting her down. My friend says its wrong, but I don't know how I approach either if them about it. Is what I'm feeling right? Can my mom even love me even though I'm not her real daughter? If she does why does she say what she does and hit me for it? I would be so grateful for any help....
I understand your frustration. My mom started to do the same thing to me at about your age. I know now that she was reflecting her own insecurities and problems onto me. So just realize that your mom is probably not dealing with her own problems and is taking them out on you. Of course this is wrong but everyone deals with things differently. Your mom does love you and does care but some people just don't know how to show it except through tough love. have you tried talking to her and telling her that her comments are really starting to hurt you and you feel like she doesn't love you when she says those things? Maybe if she heard you tell her that she might start to think about how what she's doing is affecting you. If you already have and she's still doing it then I would just confide in your friend because its nice to have someone that understands or is empathetic. It's hard because you can't change people but you can change the way you react...stay strong and try not to take it personally. I know its hard bc its ur mom but she shouldn't be making u feel bad about ur weight so young..you're still growing and going thru changes so dont worry yourself about that.
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