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I need advice and I live in India


Question Posted Thursday December 12 2013, 12:06 pm

hi,I from India.I am a college going student.I am in a relationship for three years.
I had anal sex with my girlfriend without using protection.Now she's not having her periods,it is 2days late from her normal date.So,my question is when will i know that she is actually pregnant??what are the very early symptoms?what actions will i take to stop that pregnancy without abortion?


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Xui answered Friday December 13 2013, 10:20 am:
The only way to become pregnant is if sperm actually came within contact of the vaginal area. Meaning, Anal alone cannot get someone pregnant.

There are many factors that can delay a period such as depression, stress, medications, changes in dieting and exercise or maybe it could be that she is not regular.

Anyway, To throw it in there

The early symptoms of pregnancy are generally frequent urination, sore or tender breast, nausea. You can also use Google to look up more about pregnancy symptoms. However, The best way to handle an unwanted pregnancy would be to put the baby up for an adoption.

Simple answer to your question: It is very likely she is NOT pregnant.

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lightoftruth answered Friday December 13 2013, 12:32 am:
If you only had anal sex, she can't be pregnant. If you had actual sex where you went into her vagina, then there is a possibility of her being pregnant.
If there was any way that you had actual sex, then you'll know if she's pregnant once she takes a pregnancy test and goes to see a doctor.
Stopping a pregnancy is literally abortion. There's no other way to get rid of a child forming inside of her.

So, if you only had anal sex, she is not pregnant. But next time, no matter what kind of sex you are having, wear a condom and make sure she is on birth control. Even if you have anal sex again, you both can contract STI's so it's smart to always use protection.

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MsAdvicenator answered Friday December 13 2013, 12:19 am:
If you just had anal sex then she CANNOT be pregnant. You have to cum inside her vagina for her to be pregnant...
Unless you are saying you came inside her vagina too. Her period being a couple days late is not a big deal. Sometimes it's not exactly every thirty days. I would not worry until it's a week and a half or more late. Spotting, discharge (spotting), breast changes, fatigue, nausea, mood swings, and frequent urination are some of the early signs of pregnancy. If you don't want her to have the baby it's probably too late to take the day after pill. You can take that up to 72 hrs after sex but I'm sure it's been longer than that so the only other way is abortion.
However if it's like you said and you guys just had anal sex then there's no way she can be pregnant.

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